MAFL

I debated where to put it but his description primarily says Massage so I put it here.  I'm asking some questions via RM direct message so maybe replies will tell.
He's already said his rate and it sounds more like a Deli rate. Then again, he puts in ALL CAPS that he's only interested in GENEROUS clients. It's a put-off but the pix are appealing. 

https://rentmen.eu/Tanusr
Checks a bunch of boxes  
Anyone met him?
Thanks!

https://www.gotporn.com/gay/big-dick-gay-foot-fetish-and-massage/video-9067322
The search on this site didn't indicate this was posted, so now it is.
The cinematography is sooo erotic!  
 
 

I never was an AOL member, but an escort turned fuck buddy was, and I got the impression he was setting up nightly group sessions through the chat rooms.

I used the AOL chat rooms frequently back when they were popular. Met many friends for fun that way😈

The AOL chat rooms, very hot memories. I spent way too much time there….

Anyone remember the old AOL M4M chat groups?  
It was a fun way to find a like-minded guy, chat online a bit, then hookup with phone call for a fantasy session that ideally ended in hot climax when it really clicked.
I wasted more hours searching online and vetting than I'd like to admit. But when the guy's voice and imagination were hot, it was a great safe-sex connection ... and certainly beat trying to go out searching in person in the middle of the night.
Is there anything similar to that these days?  I have unlimited minutes 🙃  

eh, I kinda like the anonymous part of phone sex, too.

Conference calls could be a possibility;)

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Important to note that the I bonds are a variable + fixed rate.  The variable rate adjusts every 6 months.  There may come a time in the coming years where it makes sense to cash in the bonds issued this year when the fixed rate exceeds the inflation rate.  There's no penalty after 5 years.  The 1 year to 5 year penalty is forfeiting the last 3 months interest. 

THANKS!  everyone.   I appreciate your perspectives and insight.  I'll remember them as the door opens and I confidently smile to see him.

If your experience is at all similar to mine, your ease of reaching orgasm will diminish as you get older so I say if cumming early isn't causing a problem with the masseur, then just enjoy it.
I saw a masseur a few times who got to the happy ending part early with me and then proceeded to clean me up and give me a good therapeutic massage afterwards.  Had that been in my twenties, I probably would have been ready for a happy ending after having had a happy beginning.  Given that I was considerably older, however, one happy time per hour was all I was good for. 

THANKS!  everyone.   I appreciate your perspectives and insight.  I'll remember them as the door opens and I confidently smile to see him.

All of those links now show  ERROR - Not Found   

My friend took me to the WhyNot Bar in Amsterdam pre 2000s. I as a newbie had never really hired before. The bar functioned as a brothel with guys available milling about the bar and if those did not tickle your fancy, there was an “album” of sorts and you could select a guy and the bartender would call them if they were available to entertain you in the rooms above the bar. My friend offered to treat me to a session and I picked the guy from the catalog, he came and we went upstairs. My friend paid the fee and I had an hour of hot sweaty sex with a cute Dutch guy. I think it was 70 guilders or something like that. 
Miss those days!

It's hard for me to imagine it but I've been a 'client' for almost 50 years. BFE with me was within the realm of my imagination way back then but not so much these days. 
So, how do providers, especially the younger ones, manage to pull it off with someone who's in their 70's or 80's or ...?   Are you somehow able to pretend it's a possible imaginary BF or is it purely a transaction that you shut off one part of your brain so the other part can perform?  Or something in between...
I don't feel assured by "Daddy" in the list of attractions.  The doubt causes me to disclose my age and physical shape in the opening "Are you available" query.  I'm clear that I'd rather someone decline than just "go through the motions" although perhaps that's really going on even with those who say they're perfectly fine with my stats.
I suspect this is affecting my enthusiasm and excitement about seeking providers.   
Curious what providers have to say about it.  My apologies if it's been covered before.
Thanks!

THANKS!  everyone.   I appreciate your perspectives and insight.  I'll remember them as the door opens and I confidently smile to see him.

Guessing this is a long shot but ….
anyone seen https://friendboy.pro/boys/Dempsey
thnx

Guessing this is a long shot but ….
anyone seen https://friendboy.pro/boys/Dempsey
thnx

I agree that thinking in terms of a BFE experience between an older client, say over the age of 75, and a much younger provider, is probably entering into the realm of suspended disbelief. As I creep towards that age as a client, and still like the illusion of a BFE experience, I find myself gravitating towards providers over 35 and even approaching 50.
I remember being 35 with a 24 yo lover, and even then I had trouble keeping up with his energy. Having a high pressure career at the time with a lot of international travel, I was sometimes wacked mentally by Friday night and the last thing I wanted was to go dancing, which of course he wanted to do.

It's hard for me to imagine it but I've been a 'client' for almost 50 years. BFE with me was within the realm of my imagination way back then but not so much these days. 
So, how do providers, especially the younger ones, manage to pull it off with someone who's in their 70's or 80's or ...?   Are you somehow able to pretend it's a possible imaginary BF or is it purely a transaction that you shut off one part of your brain so the other part can perform?  Or something in between...
I don't feel assured by "Daddy" in the list of attractions.  The doubt causes me to disclose my age and physical shape in the opening "Are you available" query.  I'm clear that I'd rather someone decline than just "go through the motions" although perhaps that's really going on even with those who say they're perfectly fine with my stats.
I suspect this is affecting my enthusiasm and excitement about seeking providers.   
Curious what providers have to say about it.  My apologies if it's been covered before.
Thanks!

Hey guys. I recently moved to the US from Europe, so still getting my head around how things work in the US. While living here, I discovered RentMasseur and MasseurFinder, and have been booking sessions with providers coming to my town (some really good, some quite disappointing...). The massage context is easy, as you arrive, you chat a little bit, you take your clothes off and lie down on the bed/massage table. If something happens, it arises naturally from the massage itself. But now I want to hire men just for the sex part, so unsure how does one proceed with that. 
How does it usually work with RentMen providers in the US? Do you agree beforehand what will happen? Do you discuss on arrival? Or you just see as things develop while on it? Since I am quite new with the the transactional nature of these kind of encounters (and also a bit shy), not sure what's the best way to make an encounter just for sex less awkward at the start. 
Also, I would appreciate some advice as to how to arrange a meeting. What do providers want to hear from clients, other than the requested date and time? Is it rude to ask for the rate in the first message (RentMen does not show that, unlike RentMasseur)? Should I mention my stats (age, height, weight, etc)? 
Any help greatly appreciated.
 
 

https://xhamster.com/videos/bio-massage-xhLlL71
seems to be AbioProMasseur from Spain
https://rentmasseur.com/AbioProMasseur

@xax, the original poster - may I just say that no matter what you decide to do, know that you have all of us out here that feel terrible that you're going through a bad time. We've all been through bad breakups (I will assume) and we all know that feeling you describe. We can give you advice on whether to see an escort or not, but I think more importantly we can tell you that we have your back, and that we wish you the best. 

First of all, you write beautifully. It’s rare to read such descriptive and engaging prose. I love it. Thank you. 

What you should say at the point the cameras start to whirr is “cut!” …and then negotiate your fee for performing and ask to sign your model release form. It will break the spell unfortunately but you might as well take a commercial view of your performance. 

I have had clients request to be filmed. If they genuinely want their encounter to be immortalised on screen that’s fine. I tell them about the porn filming I do and that it gets published on my justforfans site (MassageForHim). See massageforhim.com for info. 

Your story makes the situation sound erotic and sexy but the unfortunate truth about filming porn is that the set and the process isn’t sexy atall. The lights are harsh, the cameras need to be kept in mind (is my arm obscuring the entry of my cock to his hole for camera A?. Does my bum look sufficiently pert when I lean back in his embrace?) and the regular stops to change positions, piss, deal with cramp arising from a visually pleasing but athletically challenging position can make the whole thing quite cock softeningly tedious. It is fun though if, like me, you are exhibitionist. So yes my clients can appear in a massage porn shoot and watch themselves later if they want to. It’s quite popular such that I have a long list of volunteers for future filming sessions. 
However I do counsel clients who want to be in a film about the drawbacks and that their massage won’t be especially relaxing (and of course the mask hinders good kissing) and this is mainly why I don’t charge them my normal rate. I just make a small charge to contribute to the cost of the studio. My compensation comes from the fans site subscribers. My ‘client’ gets the thrill of being a porn star and watching back their performance.
Maybe they can show their grandchildren one day…such is the preponderance of porn and naked selfies in youth today I expect that in 50 years time everyone will have some action of themselves on the net and it will be normalised…. “Hi kids let’s watch the time your grandmother and I went to the beach at Southend, it’s on my Facebook feed…oh and yes there’s the video of that masseur fucking me in London. Was that really 40 years ago. I couldn’t get my leg in that position now” “I can grandad Tom..look!”. Hmmm maybe not. But I do think (hope) it will be much more accepted to have appeared in porn. It’s just sex. 
Occasionally in a proper massage session a client has booked (non porn filming) they will ask me if they can film a bit on their phone. This is fine and I’m happy to film a bit of POV for them using their phone. Usually they just want a minute or two of my cock in their hole(s) as a memento of the visit. I think many people are quite visual and do like to watch what’s happening in a mirror so filming a close up of bits they can’t see live is a nice thing to be able to look back at. 
See you all on set….