Has anyone been asked and obliged a request to be filmed for private/personal viewing?

[goodsport]

I'm very much a voyeur   👀 And photography and videography are big hobby interests of mine as well. 

I love the idea of watching an encounter and also filming or taking photos really excites me, too. Then I am very intrigued by the idea of filming or taking some photos of me participating in an encounter with a provider. 

I think the turn on with video/photo is not just the ability to relive or rewatch the encounter later, but also the voyeur/exhibitionist circumstance or dynamic, the participants knowing they are being filmed, and the excitement or tension that adds. 

Obviously more and more men are creating adult content for online platforms these days. I do love it and subscribe to several (although another thing I'm curious about would be if watching the type of homemade/amateur content I subscribe to in-person would take the pleasure to another level).

Then back to my original question, does anyone have experiences filming or being filmed during encounters for exclusively personal and private use/viewing/watching? I'm curious if any providers (or clients) have any experience or thoughts with this, and how it did (or how it might) work out in actuality.

 👀

  

[jeezifonly]

Hmmm. I’m applying your setup a little differently. 

Picture it: (No, not “Sicily, 1947…”)I book an appt with a new-to-me, well reviewed ticks-the-boxes provider at his place. Contact easy and genuine. He loves older guys, any shape, and I am both of those things.
I’m arriving sober, on time, cash in pocket, and sparklingly clean all over, with a gift bottle of Veuve.

Warm greeting, ice cold bottled water. Great volley of easy conversation.  Once he takes me to through to the room where we will play, I see a couple of fixed angle cameras , a mic, a monitor and lighting equipment. “What’s this?”

He gives me a great kiss …or 5 and says “I’d love to be able to watch our encounter later - you don’t mind do you? No one else will see it, I promise. It’s just a memento for me… I rarely post things these days, anyway!” he chuckles. 
And… his gorgeous and truthfully advertised unit is now in my face as he manages to undress us both… He knows I must have a taste of his talent, and he arches forward and says “c’mon, it’ll be fun! it’s really just for me,” (my mouth is now full and my hands pulled to grasp his beautiful hairy bum.)

“I mix in some old GEsoft white incandescent bulbs” he purrs. “It’s nicer.” 
It’s like he’d read my mind watching every homemade porn ever. Another deeper kiss and I’m being guided up off my knees.

I have never once had sex in front of a camera, and only once in front of a watcher, at an old dim lit sex space in Hollywood. Years and pounds ago.  Now, though…? What an adventure, just this one time maybe? I admit I fantasize about being an exhibitionist. IRL I do not see someone my age, build and type as “exhibitionist” in any successful way - the image of my exhibition in my mind pairs with Local news, added bands of pixels across the bits and the Chiron “pervert held pending bail”

I can be nude at doctor, in changing rooms, spas, etc - humbly and briefly. With a masseur or provider, I’m not so horrid as to cause them losing lunch, and the right ones make it comfortable immediately. But I have no nude selfies on my phone, and have given permission to very few to see the 3 I do have on one app. 

My provider’s warm hand finds the right spot on my backside where I really feel desired, yet not like a bowling ball. With the other hand he’s reaching for an in-line switch. I dread the imminent flash of light, like Nosferatu at sunrise, eyes clamped shut! A click, a hum of a fan, and my eyes open to a beautiful soft amber space. It is …nicer. The mirrors don’t reveal my worst. As he flips me on the bed, I can see the monitor- it’s me on there, and he’s gently on top now stroking my chest and belly, mmmm. With a quick twist to his tits, I roll him over.
“I’m about to call Camera and Action!” he laughs. An iPad on the bedside table is apparently the gateway for all the equipment operations.

Now, a brief digression, I have friends who look at sites of amateur vids, trying to spot particular people, and my face with my body showing up on such a site could lead to problems,  potentially impacting work and home. The odds are extremely slim. 

Wow… he grips with one hand the back of my head, and draws me close, as his fully charged member finds its way between my closed thighs as he reaches for the iPad. Another even more convincing kiss. and connective embrace. 

I pull back and say, 

“…………… “

•••••••••••••

 what do you think I should say?

 

 

 

 

[+ DrownedBoy]

I've done some short smartphone videos of my particular fetish with regulars. One only consented once I arranged it so his face wasn't visible. Since my face is visible,  I'm taking those small MP3s with me to the grave. 

[Jamie21]

9 hours ago, jeezifonly said:

Hmmm. I’m applying your setup a little differently. 

Picture it: (No, not “Sicily, 1947…”)I book an appt with a new-to-me, well reviewed ticks-the-boxes provider at his place. Contact easy and genuine. He loves older guys, any shape, and I am both of those things.
I’m arriving sober, on time, cash in pocket, and sparklingly clean all over, with a gift bottle of Veuve.

Warm greeting, ice cold bottled water. Great volley of easy conversation.  Once he takes me to through to the room where we will play, I see a couple of fixed angle cameras , a mic, a monitor and lighting equipment. “What’s this?”

He gives me a great kiss …or 5 and says “I’d love to be able to watch our encounter later - you don’t mind do you? No one else will see it, I promise. It’s just a memento for me… I rarely post things these days, anyway!” he chuckles. 
And… his gorgeous and truthfully advertised unit is now in my face as he manages to undress us both… He knows I must have a taste of his talent, and he arches forward and says “c’mon, it’ll be fun! it’s really just for me,” (my mouth is now full and my hands pulled to grasp his beautiful hairy bum.)

“I mix in some old GEsoft white incandescent bulbs” he purrs. “It’s nicer.” 
It’s like he’d read my mind watching every homemade porn ever. Another deeper kiss and I’m being guided up off my knees.

I have never once had sex in front of a camera, and only once in front of a watcher, at an old dim lit sex space in Hollywood. Years and pounds ago.  Now, though…? What an adventure, just this one time maybe? I admit I fantasize about being an exhibitionist. IRL I do not see someone my age, build and type as “exhibitionist” in any successful way - the image of my exhibition in my mind pairs with Local news, added bands of pixels across the bits and the Chiron “pervert held pending bail”

I can be nude at doctor, in changing rooms, spas, etc - humbly and briefly. With a masseur or provider, I’m not so horrid as to cause them losing lunch, and the right ones make it comfortable immediately. But I have no nude selfies on my phone, and have given permission to very few to see the 3 I do have on one app. 

My provider’s warm hand finds the right spot on my backside where I really feel desired, yet not like a bowling ball. With the other hand he’s reaching for an in-line switch. I dread the imminent flash of light, like Nosferatu at sunrise, eyes clamped shut! A click, a hum of a fan, and my eyes open to a beautiful soft amber space. It is …nicer. The mirrors don’t reveal my worst. As he flips me on the bed, I can see the monitor- it’s me on there, and he’s gently on top now stroking my chest and belly, mmmm. With a quick twist to his tits, I roll him over.
“I’m about to call Camera and Action!” he laughs. An iPad on the bedside table is apparently the gateway for all the equipment operations.

Now, a brief digression, I have friends who look at sites of amateur vids, trying to spot particular people, and my face with my body showing up on such a site could lead to problems,  potentially impacting work and home. The odds are extremely slim. 

Wow… he grips with one hand the back of my head, and draws me close, as his fully charged member finds its way between my closed thighs as he reaches for the iPad. Another even more convincing kiss. and connective embrace. 

I pull back and say, 

“…………… “

•••••••••••••

 what do you think I should say?

 

 

 

 

First of all, you write beautifully. It’s rare to read such descriptive and engaging prose. I love it. Thank you. 

What you should say at the point the cameras start to whirr is “cut!” …and then negotiate your fee for performing and ask to sign your model release form. It will break the spell unfortunately but you might as well take a commercial view of your performance. 

I have had clients request to be filmed. If they genuinely want their encounter to be immortalised on screen that’s fine. I tell them about the porn filming I do and that it gets published on my justforfans site (MassageForHim). See massageforhim.com for info. 

Your story makes the situation sound erotic and sexy but the unfortunate truth about filming porn is that the set and the process isn’t sexy atall. The lights are harsh, the cameras need to be kept in mind (is my arm obscuring the entry of my cock to his hole for camera A?. Does my bum look sufficiently pert when I lean back in his embrace?) and the regular stops to change positions, piss, deal with cramp arising from a visually pleasing but athletically challenging position can make the whole thing quite cock softeningly tedious. It is fun though if, like me, you are exhibitionist. So yes my clients can appear in a massage porn shoot and watch themselves later if they want to. It’s quite popular such that I have a long list of volunteers for future filming sessions. 

However I do counsel clients who want to be in a film about the drawbacks and that their massage won’t be especially relaxing (and of course the mask hinders good kissing) and this is mainly why I don’t charge them my normal rate. I just make a small charge to contribute to the cost of the studio. My compensation comes from the fans site subscribers. My ‘client’ gets the thrill of being a porn star and watching back their performance.

Maybe they can show their grandchildren one day…such is the preponderance of porn and naked selfies in youth today I expect that in 50 years time everyone will have some action of themselves on the net and it will be normalised…. “Hi kids let’s watch the time your grandmother and I went to the beach at Southend, it’s on my Facebook feed…oh and yes there’s the video of that masseur fucking me in London. Was that really 40 years ago. I couldn’t get my leg in that position now” “I can grandad Tom..look!”. Hmmm maybe not. But I do think (hope) it will be much more accepted to have appeared in porn. It’s just sex. 

Occasionally in a proper massage session a client has booked (non porn filming) they will ask me if they can film a bit on their phone. This is fine and I’m happy to film a bit of POV for them using their phone. Usually they just want a minute or two of my cock in their hole(s) as a memento of the visit. I think many people are quite visual and do like to watch what’s happening in a mirror so filming a close up of bits they can’t see live is a nice thing to be able to look back at. 

See you all on set….

 

[+ RJD]

I'm usually not one to grab my phone and start taking  pictures or videos.  I prefer being in the moment and enjoying it.  However, I have two regular providers whose company I really enjoy, but are very private and not the type who want their faces on public display in a video.  I asked each during one our sessions if I can video them as they topped me, so I had something to look back at between encounters.  Both agreed.  I get turned on making my partner climax, so I have video of both doing exactly that.  Given their aversion to their faces appearing on video, I think I've established a level of trust with each through our multiple extended sessions, and they know I wouldn't share them with anyone else.  

In contrast, last September I arranged for a weekend with a very sexy, gorgeous Asian bodybuilder provider.  He's an exhibitionist and does porn, so he loves being seen in person and on film/video.  I purchased a few thongs for him (his underwear of choice) and he was more than happy to model each as I snapped photos with my iPhone for myself.  I am nothing close to a professional photographer, but between his insane body and the afternoon light shining in my bedroom, most of those pics turned out great.  The light and shadows made the pics really dramatic.  He liked them so much that he used a couple on his Twitter account.  In addition to exhibitionism, he also gets into dirty talk (as do I) and having his body admired, so I have a couple videos of him pleasuring himself to climax while I'm givng him "verbal encouragement." 

It's fun to look back at the pictures and videos. However, as I said earlier, I prefer being in the moment and focusing my undivided attention on them and not my phone. 

[big-n-tall]

On 7/23/2021 at 1:49 PM, goodsport said:

Then back to my original question, does anyone have experiences filming or being filmed during encounters for exclusively personal and private use/viewing/watching? I'm curious if any providers (or clients) have any experience or thoughts with this, and how it did (or how it might) work out in actuality.

 👀

 

I have always wanted to film stuff... strictly for private use. It took me a long while to get up of the nerve, but I have filmed a number of scenes (one muscle worship, couple fetish leaning, and a few full on sexy ones) with a small number of providers. Surprisingly, although I'm no adonis physically, watching the vids with me in them actually has been a real turn on. Most of the providers I asked were gung ho to do it, some weren't and turned me down politely. I talked to/asked around 12 providers if they would be willing to film something with me. Some of the talk was just surface level and some of it was more direct.

One guy was eager to let me film as long as he had assurances i wouldn't attempt to make a profit from the clip. We didn't end up filming though. I wish I had because he is now retired. Some guys wanted me to put the stuff we filmed online (i declined). However, most of the guys who filmed stuff with me didn't exactly say one way or another about what I do with the video. I think it's because we have a long standing relationship, with a lot of trust, and they know I would never show or sale the vids to anyone else. Luckily, none of the guys I filmed with wanted extra fees to do so. I wouldn't expect all providers to be so giving.

I have been asked to film some onlyfans content with a provider. I declined. The provider knew I wouldn't want to show my face, so he just wanted to film him giving me oral pov style. Although I did not film with him, I did film a clip of him talking dirty and playing around with his dick for his fans page.

Another provider I really wanted to film something with won't do a full on sex scene filming, but he has let me take pictures and a vid clip. No faces were shown (just my hands and his ass) but the clip was just a scene of his reactions as I removed anal beads from his ass. I think he sold it to some of his clients who are into fetish and s/m. 

I use a super small (smaller than my hand) Sony digital cam that has no bluetooth or wireless online connectivity. (I also use one of those super bendy tripods.) I picked a cam with no online connectivity because I didn't want to risk the vids being transferred online (by me doing it accidently) or the cam being wirelessly hacked in some way. Some of the vids came out better than others. It had a lot to do with me trying out things, lighting and the size of the room. A large room allowed me to have the cam closer but at a better angle to capture good shots. I usually set the cam next to the bed and let it go. I have held the cam in my hand sometimes, but I find this super distracting. For me, it works better if I just let the cam record. if I think about it too much I have a hard time focusing on the fun at hand.

 

[DerrickRigg]

Yep. Guy just wanted to jo to me later. 

[goodsport]

Thanks for all the replies! Some great responses, some erotic novel worthy prose in here too! 

This really further intensifies my intrigue for exploring my voyeurism interest. 

And if anyone in NYC wants a free cameraman to try having their encounters films, shoot me a DM! 😜 (really though! I'd say I've got "prosumer" equipment and skills as videographer/photographer) 

[MaybeMaybeNot]

21 hours ago, goodsport said:

Thanks for all the replies! Some great responses, some erotic novel worthy prose in here too! 

This really further intensifies my intrigue for exploring my voyeurism interest. 

And if anyone in NYC wants a free cameraman to try having their encounters films, shoot me a DM! 😜 (really though! I'd say I've got "prosumer" equipment and skills as videographer/photographer) 

I have wanted to try this too, though I don't have the equipment. I live in Los Angeles, where we have content creators galore. I figure it's better for them to have an inexperienced person with a camera than a camera set up on a table 10 feet away so no one can actually see anything. 

[Luv2play]

On 7/23/2021 at 6:09 PM, jeezifonly said:

Hmmm. I’m applying your setup a little differently. 

Picture it: (No, not “Sicily, 1947…”)I book an appt with a new-to-me, well reviewed ticks-the-boxes provider at his place. Contact easy and genuine. He loves older guys, any shape, and I am both of those things.
I’m arriving sober, on time, cash in pocket, and sparklingly clean all over, with a gift bottle of Veuve.

Warm greeting, ice cold bottled water. Great volley of easy conversation.  Once he takes me to through to the room where we will play, I see a couple of fixed angle cameras , a mic, a monitor and lighting equipment. “What’s this?”

He gives me a great kiss …or 5 and says “I’d love to be able to watch our encounter later - you don’t mind do you? No one else will see it, I promise. It’s just a memento for me… I rarely post things these days, anyway!” he chuckles. 
And… his gorgeous and truthfully advertised unit is now in my face as he manages to undress us both… He knows I must have a taste of his talent, and he arches forward and says “c’mon, it’ll be fun! it’s really just for me,” (my mouth is now full and my hands pulled to grasp his beautiful hairy bum.)

“I mix in some old GEsoft white incandescent bulbs” he purrs. “It’s nicer.” 
It’s like he’d read my mind watching every homemade porn ever. Another deeper kiss and I’m being guided up off my knees.

I have never once had sex in front of a camera, and only once in front of a watcher, at an old dim lit sex space in Hollywood. Years and pounds ago.  Now, though…? What an adventure, just this one time maybe? I admit I fantasize about being an exhibitionist. IRL I do not see someone my age, build and type as “exhibitionist” in any successful way - the image of my exhibition in my mind pairs with Local news, added bands of pixels across the bits and the Chiron “pervert held pending bail”

I can be nude at doctor, in changing rooms, spas, etc - humbly and briefly. With a masseur or provider, I’m not so horrid as to cause them losing lunch, and the right ones make it comfortable immediately. But I have no nude selfies on my phone, and have given permission to very few to see the 3 I do have on one app. 

My provider’s warm hand finds the right spot on my backside where I really feel desired, yet not like a bowling ball. With the other hand he’s reaching for an in-line switch. I dread the imminent flash of light, like Nosferatu at sunrise, eyes clamped shut! A click, a hum of a fan, and my eyes open to a beautiful soft amber space. It is …nicer. The mirrors don’t reveal my worst. As he flips me on the bed, I can see the monitor- it’s me on there, and he’s gently on top now stroking my chest and belly, mmmm. With a quick twist to his tits, I roll him over.
“I’m about to call Camera and Action!” he laughs. An iPad on the bedside table is apparently the gateway for all the equipment operations.

Now, a brief digression, I have friends who look at sites of amateur vids, trying to spot particular people, and my face with my body showing up on such a site could lead to problems,  potentially impacting work and home. The odds are extremely slim. 

Wow… he grips with one hand the back of my head, and draws me close, as his fully charged member finds its way between my closed thighs as he reaches for the iPad. Another even more convincing kiss. and connective embrace. 

I pull back and say, 

“…………… “

•••••••••••••

 what do you think I should say?

 

 

 

 

Er, Fu*k me?

[jeezifonly]

4 minutes ago, Luv2play said:

Er, Fu*k me?

“I’m not signing a release without prior consultation of my lawyer and styling team”

[Luv2play]

On 7/29/2021 at 5:41 PM, goodsport said:

Thanks for all the replies! Some great responses, some erotic novel worthy prose in here too! 

This really further intensifies my intrigue for exploring my voyeurism interest. 

And if anyone in NYC wants a free cameraman to try having their encounters films, shoot me a DM! 😜 (really though! I'd say I've got "prosumer" equipment and skills as videographer/photographer) 

I only once had a film made of me having sex with a provider. It was in 1999 and I engaged a provider I had been with once before and a cameraman he engaged.

We worked out a script in advance and they came to my place. We filmed from the front door to my bedroom, where all the real action took place. 

The film was transferred to a cassette, not the Betamax but the other format, I  forget the name. I kept the original and the cassette.

I didn't mind being in front of a camera man. I basically ignored the filming and we didn't do many interuptions. The sex was only so-so though as the top was unable to keep a firm erection, particularly during the fucking, he was better when receiving oral. I think the condom inhibited his performance. Remember this was 1999.

Anyway I only watched it a few times and eventually destroyed the two copies. I only regret that I can't see how good I looked in action in my early 50s. Not sure I would repeat the exercise, unless the lights were a lot dimmer. lol

[Storm4U]

Someone asked. I declined.

[Greg_blond]

I agree, better be careful. These things get shared easily .... whatsapp communities a lot these days ....

I accepted once $$$ but faceless and asked to check afterwards!

But video is indeed more storytelling than a picture 🤪

[Jamie21]

I make massage porn which I post on my justforfans profile. I keep it separate from my sensual massage work though. I only film with guys who volunteer to be in a movie or with other Justforfans  or Onlyfans porn models. However I keep my face covered and I require that the volunteer models also cover their face (or I blur out their face). 
There’s a lot of guys who want to be in a massage porno so I’m not short of volunteer models. They have to sign a release form which puts some off. 
If my massage clients ask me to film their session I decline because filming is quite disruptive to the flow of a good sensual massage but I do suggest to them that they volunteer for a filming session for the Justforfans site. That way it’s all done properly with good angles, lighting and professional editing (plus masks and release forms!). Then they’re confident it’s not going to cause a problem later on.

[goodsport]

I'm a voyeur with a photography/video background (now just a hobby) and been TRYYYINNNNNGGGG to find someone to let me watch and film and channel my inner Chi Chi LaRue. Seriously! You could even keep the SD card before I leave so you don't have to worry about me leaking it.

On a more serious note, a POV film would be hot and pretty easy to keep your face out of the frame (if your face comes into the frame then you're not being a very good cameraman). Maybe even get a helmet and attach a GoPro cam to it like a coal miner's flashlight.

And in post production it's actually fairly easy to blur out or edit out any identifying trains or physical markers, even with moving images, you can track or anchor the blurred portion to follow the identifying marker and still maintain the quality and usability of the footage ...happy to give further pointers if this is something yall are considering but still have reservations

[+ IronMaus]

I love when clients want to film or take pictures! Sometimes, if their phone is near the bed, I'll ask if I can use it to take a video - and often they end up watching the video while I continue doing what I was doing in the video haha

I'll ask if I can have it and post it because some clients like making anonymous cameos. But if not, I don't care - what are they gong to do? Put it on the internet? Oh darn.

[marylander1940]

17 hours ago, IronMaus said:

I love when clients want to film or take pictures! Sometimes, if their phone is near the bed, I'll ask if I can use it to take a video - and often they end up watching the video while I continue doing what I was doing in the video haha

I'll ask if I can have it and post it because some clients like making anonymous cameos. But if not, I don't care - what are they gong to do? Put it on the internet? Oh darn.

 

Unfortunately taping someone without his consent is very easy now a days. 

 

 

[+ Coolwave35]

On 7/29/2021 at 5:41 PM, goodsport said:

Thanks for all the replies! Some great responses, some erotic novel worthy prose in here too! 

This really further intensifies my intrigue for exploring my voyeurism interest. 

And if anyone in NYC wants a free cameraman to try having their encounters films, shoot me a DM! 😜 (really though! I'd say I've got "prosumer" equipment and skills as videographer/photographer) 

I film a lot of encounters in NYC after the Adonis nude parties. If you want to be a fly on the wall and record, you’re welcome to. I’d want to retain the only copy though. Is that something you’re open to? 

[Guest Cruiser04]

2 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

I film a lot of encounters in NYC after the Adonis nude parties. If you want to be a fly on the wall and record, you’re welcome to. I’d want to retain the only copy though. Is that something you’re open to? 

Sign me up!

[+ Coolwave35]

8 minutes ago, bostonhb said:

Sign me up!

Hey @Prime38its fun to be a fly on the wall right?    

[Prime38]

@bostonhb Omg, yes!! I was very much a fly on the wall last month after July's Adonis nude party, it was one of the best nights of my life!!! You're always in for a good time when @Coolwave35 is involved  DO IT!!!

[Guest Cruiser04]

On 9/1/2021 at 12:38 AM, Prime38 said:

@bostonhb Omg, yes!! I was very much a fly on the wall last month after July's Adonis nude party, it was one of the best nights of my life!!! You're always in for a good time when @Coolwave35 is involved  DO IT!!!

In reading through some of the posts here it VERY much sounds like it !!

[Prime38]

You won’t be disappointed