HockeyMan

Escorts get a lot of messages from unreliable prospective clients, and guys who treat messaging as cybersex. It wastes their time. And the in demand providers get a lot of messages. If a provider doesn't respond to you, it means he's not into you or doesn't have time to reply.

It's not a big deal. You set the pace of sessions. The provider's job is to accommodate you.

It's not a big deal. You set the pace of sessions. The provider's job is to accommodate you.

Escorts get a lot of messages from unreliable prospective clients, and guys who treat messaging as cybersex. It wastes their time. And the in demand providers get a lot of messages. If a provider doesn't respond to you, it means he's not into you or doesn't have time to reply.

Escorts get a lot of messages from unreliable prospective clients, and guys who treat messaging as cybersex. It wastes their time. And the in demand providers get a lot of messages. If a provider doesn't respond to you, it means he's not into you or doesn't have time to reply.

Escorts get a lot of messages from unreliable prospective clients, and guys who treat messaging as cybersex. It wastes their time. And the in demand providers get a lot of messages. If a provider doesn't respond to you, it means he's not into you or doesn't have time to reply.

Escorts get a lot of messages from unreliable prospective clients, and guys who treat messaging as cybersex. It wastes their time. And the in demand providers get a lot of messages. If a provider doesn't respond to you, it means he's not into you or doesn't have time to reply.

It's not a big deal. You set the pace of sessions. The provider's job is to accommodate you.

I doesn't. There's an exception to every rule.
I was actually very young and fit when I hired my first escort. I just happened to like him ( a lot ) and he was working...so to get what you want, you do what you gotta do.
Just saying, that there is this weird attitude about escorts "giving it away" on Grindr being "bad for business". No reason they shouldn't have fun hooking up with who they LIKE
as opposed to who will pay. Most clients hire because they can't get laid any other way. Yes..there's lot of exceptions. 

It's not a big deal. You set the pace of sessions. The provider's job is to accommodate you.

That's quite the hot ass he has in those pounding videos of him as a top. 

1)It would be repeat, long term visits.

2) 1)Repeat, long-term visits
    2)Good reviews on messageboards or elsewhere
    
    Tips, Giftcards, or expensive experience while great are never expected.  Spending time with a great client is much more important to me. 

If this trainer also advertises escorting, you can do that. If you're trying to seduce a random personal trainer into providing, don't bother. You can watch porn to fulfill that fantasy.

I've been a porn hound since I was a teenager.  It doesn't matter if I'm regularly getting it in the flesh or not -- I enjoy watching porn.  While I don't subscribe to any Fans pages on an ongoing basis, when someone catches my eye in a significant way I'll typically do an initial subscription for a month (or maybe longer if they have a decent promotion for a longer subscription).  Most guys aren't worth returning to, for me, because they don't post enough new, full length content to make it worthwhile.  
I'll also say that subscribing to some guys' pages have saved me the cost and time involved in hiring them as escorts.  I figure that if a guy can't seem to have passionate sex with someone he's likely more attracted to than he would be to me, I don't need to pay hundreds of dollars to be ultimately disappointed with an in person meeting.

I booked him for BFE. He's beautiful, loves his job and is eager to please his clients. He's not a good conversationalist. We had a great time. He's worth booking for his appearance and passion for his job.

https://rent.men/Connorwood
His pics are accurate and up to date. He's a fun twink who loves being intimate with clients. He is immature which affected my experience with him. But it's common among young escorts.

Well said, @DMonDude.
I, too, wish more US domestic providers used Signal.

Sniffies is good for finding hookups. I'm not sure it's as good for finding escorts or clients. In addition to the word filters and scam accounts, some users are not that serious. One guy messaged me saying he was generous (spelled incorrectly to avoid word filters). A few messages later, he revealed he was unemployed and couldn't spend much. Not sure why he started off by saying he was generous.

I've always been lightly active. I wanted to get back into providing. So I started working out 10 hours per week and improving my diet. I go to a gym with a good culture and do sports. I view it as part of the job. Vanity's part of the business and I'm proud of my muscles. My health has improved too. I don't think escorts need a specific body type to be attractive to clients. I'm not the most buff guy at the gym and I don't need to be.

I've always been lightly active. I wanted to get back into providing. So I started working out 10 hours per week and improving my diet. I go to a gym with a good culture and do sports. I view it as part of the job. Vanity's part of the business and I'm proud of my muscles. My health has improved too. I don't think escorts need a specific body type to be attractive to clients. I'm not the most buff guy at the gym and I don't need to be.

I've always been lightly active. I wanted to get back into providing. So I started working out 10 hours per week and improving my diet. I go to a gym with a good culture and do sports. I view it as part of the job. Vanity's part of the business and I'm proud of my muscles. My health has improved too. I don't think escorts need a specific body type to be attractive to clients. I'm not the most buff guy at the gym and I don't need to be.

I stick to smaller gyms and tend to go during off peak hours. I went today, around 7:30 and there was maybe 5 of us there. I could have did a strenuous workout, but I didn’t want to stay too late as I had to commute home.
It could be your city, but I doubt the “whole world” wants to be fit. In the Midwest and South there’s still a lot of obesity. Also, not to put down or generalize: but I do notice fewer gay black men and gays in general, are going to the gym in some areas. It makes me cringe when I go to the gym, and it’s only the hetero-flexible guys hanging with their bros. I go on the apps, and all the gay guys are 5,000 feet from the gym 😑 
I would love to bulk up more, but I’m also aware that some of these guys out there are using 💉 to get there. No shade if that’s the case but, that doesn’t work for everybody. Even just naturally working out with legal GNC/Walmart/Vitamin supplements, I’ve outgrown some really nice shirts that I used to love wearing but they look too small on me now. I’ve also ripped a few pair of jeans and shorts 😂 
I also like to admire a nice body, however I find too many gym warriors be hella conceited and narcissistic. Like, it’s all about them (not saying everybody is but, across the board they can be. Or they’re only loyal with people who are in their party/druggie circle). Sometimes I rather just go for a guy who’s not in the gym as much, but I do want to have someone who is fitness conscious to some degree.
 

Nice guy. He's very attractive with a gym fit figure. I loved his sense of intimacy.

First time clients should pay up front. It's an anti-theft measure. Regular clients can pay when they want, because they have more trust with the provider.

I’m a cam boy, and one of my clients wanted to meet in person, so he decided to fly in to see me. He was incredibly kind—he covered the trip himself and even offered to compensate me for my time. We went out for dinner, which was amazing and ended up costing over $600. He also surprised me by buying me some underwear.
At first, I made it clear that I didn’t want anything sexual to happen. But as the night went on, I started feeling a bit playful. I told him I’d model the underwear he bought me as a small way of saying thank you. He initially refused, but I went ahead and did it anyway. I figured since he had been so generous—especially covering dinner—it wouldn’t hurt to tease him a little.
He really liked how I looked and ended up offering more for some muscle worship, which I honestly found hard to resist.