HockeyMan

You say this as if you're paying for an essential service and not a luxury. Escorting is hard work and escorts put a lot of effort into their jobs even when they're off the clock. I'm not familiar with San Francisco, but many popular cities for escorts have high lodging costs. A one hour session for $300 isn't enough to break even for the day in these cities.

His photos are all years old. How does he look now?

I booked him for BFE. He's beautiful, loves his job and is eager to please his clients. He's not a good conversationalist. We had a great time. He's worth booking for his appearance and passion for his job.

I booked him for BFE. He's beautiful, loves his job and is eager to please his clients. He's not a good conversationalist. We had a great time. He's worth booking for his appearance and passion for his job.

Free enterprise at its purest. No regulations, rules, oversight, or competitive bidding!  Charge what the market will bear. Supply and demand. 
The forum has been wringing its hands with this topic since Hooboy days!

Escorting is an on-and-off job for many guys on Rent Men. They leave their expired ads up when they're not escorting, and reactivate them on return.
If a profile's been inactive for years, he abandoned Rent Men or escorting entirely. They're not diligent and don't take down their ads.

Escorting is an on-and-off job for many guys on Rent Men. They leave their expired ads up when they're not escorting, and reactivate them on return.
If a profile's been inactive for years, he abandoned Rent Men or escorting entirely. They're not diligent and don't take down their ads.

I've asked providers to not wear cologne or to wear my preferred underwear type. But I've never asked a provider to change his appearance. I don't hire providers who don't meet my preferences for appearance and grooming.

Escorting is an on-and-off job for many guys on Rent Men. They leave their expired ads up when they're not escorting, and reactivate them on return.
If a profile's been inactive for years, he abandoned Rent Men or escorting entirely. They're not diligent and don't take down their ads.

Escorting is an on-and-off job for many guys on Rent Men. They leave their expired ads up when they're not escorting, and reactivate them on return.
If a profile's been inactive for years, he abandoned Rent Men or escorting entirely. They're not diligent and don't take down their ads.

the single "premium photo" is a mirror selfie of a shirtless, lanky, dark-haired, young-ish dude with underwear and jeans sagging just enough to show healthy pubes......
by itself, the picture is not sharp enough with which for most to make a decision......

He made a new profile.
 

1. The reason why we want to text outside the Grindr platform because Grindr bans accounts that talk about transaction and money.  

2. I actually had a very good experience with Grindr. Over the summer of 2025, I remembered I was averaging around 20ish clients per month from July-September just from Grindr alone. It is harder to get clients on RM if you stayed in a city for over a year, because you are no longer the new face. On Grindr, you will ALWAYS be a NEW FACE when you move around to different areas since profiles are distance-based.
 
3. In my experience, RM heavily relies on clients with Asian fetish. Grindr clients are picky and very into looks; they are very discriminatory toward Asians, so being a muscle Asian helps out alot. Relying on Asian fetish wont get me far on Grindr. So you need to make sure your body is as muscular as possible and hit the GYM. 

4. Any Asian guy can get clients on RM, but on Grindr it is an uphill battle especially if are not muscular/attractive. 
 
5. I would say I get more clients from Grindr when RM starts to slow. On RM I go more expensive because all of the guys using the platform are 100% clients and they will pay your asking rate. On Grindr, I go cheaper because you are targeting normal people who have never used escorts before. Plus, you cannot go too expensive on younger clients.
6. On Grindr, go cheaper on young or hot/attractive guys. More expensive on older.

7. In my case, my clients from Grindr are mostly young guys in 20-30s. I dont often get older clients on Grindr. Most of the attractive clients I ever encountered were all from Grindr. And yes, believe me hot guys do actually pay for these services. On RM, there are more older.
8. Just two days ago I went to Queens, NY to visit my friend and I got a cute Colombian client right away from Grindr on my first day there. I paid my buddy a fee to host at his house 🤣. My Latin buddy was stunned that I was able to get client on Grindr that easily. He would not have believed me had he not seen it in person. Grindr is life!

Signs that hiring is becoming a compulsive behavior or harming your personal life:
Spending non-discretionary funds on providers, or not budgeting how much you spend on providers. Obsessing over a provider when he's off the clock Ignoring relationships with friends, family or romantic partners. Ignoring physical or mental health.

In my experience:
Sometimes, RM chat has a weird thing that clears out everything you’ve been previously typing.
More importantly, lengthy convos are things that some time-wasters jack off to. 
 
Providers want to have signs that a paid meeting will occur, and that you are not taking advantage of their time for free. I see warnings in bios now too: providers are tired of being  contacted by of scammers, free-jerkers, and time wasters on the site . 
 
Once you meet with them, they could indeed become more verbose. 

I saw a guys profile the other day and he gave advice as to how to reach out and I thought it was fantastic - Short, simple, polite, and serious!
Hello, my name is (Desired name) 
I’m in (Desired City) and i would like to get together with you (Desired date and time) 
I’m interested in ( Desired information)
I can almost guarantee that you will get a good reply if you use this template with a solid provider. I think a good general rule is = you get the same energy back you put into the message.

If you were not planning on leaving a review before he asked for one, and you can't honestly give him a good review, and you are not planning on seeing him again, I think you should find a way to get comfortable with ignoring his request. There really is no upside (for either of you) to continuing the conversation.

He's just hoping I'm guessing to find a sugar daddy.

I've asked providers to not wear cologne or to wear my preferred underwear type. But I've never asked a provider to change his appearance. I don't hire providers who don't meet my preferences for appearance and grooming.

Bring sandals and toiletries. 

You're already advertising your brand on Twitter and OnlyFans. You just need a contact system. Get a dedicated phone number for business inquiries (OF collabs and private engagements). Some escorts share contact info via their business email or their website.

Bring sandals and toiletries. 

Bring sandals and toiletries. 

Sorry I am new, this is my twitter account: https://x.com/ayballss
- 27
- toronto
- asian, handsome, look good clean shave and scruff
- lean, fit build, smooth
- boyfriend experience, massages available, companionship, dates
- i enjoy eating, working out and travelling

Bring sandals and toiletries.