Nightowl

I think you’re on to something. I’ve noticed the absence of a couple of very frequent posters as well.

When are the Mr. Planet, Mr. Earth, and Mr. Blue Marble pageants?

I’m just the opposite. Not usually horny when I book since I do it weeks in advance, but raring to go when the real situation rolls around!😂

I do the same thing. I also am more inclined to give my business to providers who use their own numbers unless I know something about them from another source such as this site.

Well, I did start my comment with “I doubt….”

If he has an OF or JFF site, I doubt that the provider would let *you* record the session since the whole point of making the video is to make money for *him*. He would most likely want to control what happens with the video. I think he’s either looking for willing guys to film and make money off of on his own OF/JFF site or not-so-subtly putting himself out there for potential porn hiring offers.

4. Thought I was a 3…

I probably wouldn’t hire someone I see often on the outside. There’s a certain appeal in seeing someone only in situations where we are going to be together. Seeing him at the gym would destroy that. I also keep my “normal” life and “hiring” life completely separate. I don’t think I would want them to overlap.

You could try showing him the video on your own device when you meet him. That way you wouldn’t compromise/infect his devices with malware. In your initial outreach to him you could just say there are some things you’d like to do with him that you’ll show him when you meet.

This is what I love about CoM. You can compliment another man on his attributes after actually having seen them.

This makes sense, though I wonder whether attraction has anything to do with it. Faced with years behind bars with no access to sexual partners of their own choosing, a lot of men would probably end up in sexual relationships with whatever is available.

The only question about orientation I’ve ever been asked was whether I was a top or a bottom 😀

A lot of guys will claim to be straight because they are reluctant to admit to themselves that they might be otherwise.

Mandy Patinkin

I’d recommend working out with a personal trainer a couple of times each week and ask him/her to build a companion program that you can do in your home gym on your off days.

I wouldn’t treat lube any differently than any other toiletry. Pack some in your dopp kit or buy it when you get to your destination. The only reason to worry about having it in your carry-on is if you think you’re going to fuck or be fucked en route.

Because trained medical professionals say it is safe, yes, I’d recommend it.

I was being sarcastic

Me too.

Tylenol has a history of doing harm. Anyone remember the Tylenol Murders back in the early 80’s when they found someone had put cyanide in Tylenol capsules, killing 7 people? Now we all have to fight our way through 237 non-tampering layers to get to our drugs and other products. I think Tylenol started it because they knew what would happen and that we’d all need Tylenol to get rid of the headaches the extra packaging causes. (This was not supposed to be taken seriously, folks!)

Don’t hold your breath.

Never heard of it. I’m interested in what you learn if you are willing to share.

Providers I’ve been with have some pretty nice digs.

I walk 5-6 miles every day at a very fast pace and get thumbs-up from passers-by, frequent questions about my age (70), and comments from younger people saying that they can’t keep up with me. I’m with you; I hope to keep walking until my last day.

Why do most RM provider profiles list “daddy” in their “into” list? Is it a set of appealing physical characteristics, a set of desireable behaviors, or something else entirely? What say you?