Nightowl

One of my absolute favorites. Great guy with great personality and terrific skills.

Even fewer know how to give a good blowjob. I have yet to experience a BJ from anyone that brought me close to orgasm. Shooting my wad in someone’s mouth is one of my unfulfilled fantasies (as is having someone shoot his wad in my mouth).

Exactly! Airlines discovered that people were willing to pay extra to check bags, have a meal, get an aisle seat, etc, so those charges will continue forever. Why wouldn’t masseurs try to do the same thing? Extra for shower, water, clean sheets… As far as paying to suck by the inch, that’s a no-go for me. It’s the whole magilla or nothing.

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Mentally I am young, physically I’m not. I try not to succumb to negative thinking about my age, limitations, or impending mortality.

I’d do it daily if I could find some alone time. Usually, though, I’m not alone in the house and I don’t have the opportunity or the time to get myself worked up slowly the way I like to. Rubbing out a quickie is unsatisfying to me.

I’ve had massages a number of times where the bulk of the massage took place after ejaculation and, with a skilled masseur, it has been great. I was more relaxed and less concerned about what was going to happen next. The problem with what @Jamie21 calls a “happy start” for us older guys is that, as much as we may want to round out the session with a happy ending, a second ejaculation may not be in the cards.

Maybe we should start a variation of this as a new topic on CoM. Someone starts the story to get the ball rolling, the first commenter continues the story, and so on. The only requirement would be that it not stray too far from being erotic. Might be fun for the creative writers among us.

Yep. Prostate massager, butt plug, finger(s)…all enhance the experience.

Maybe he’s on the forum and can clear things up. Doug, are you in the room with us now?

I know the birthday of one of my providers but only because he moved our appointment to free up the day for a family celebration. Though I know the date, I’ve never reached out or commented on it. It seems to cross a line that might not be appreciated.

I don’t know that having followers or being followed really does anything, good or bad. I follow a few people but never get notified of their posts and I suspect they’re never notified of mine.

Massage on a table, fun on a bed.

I’m in that 0.00001% group too.

Nothing to be ashamed of. Point it down. As he watches it grow as he massages your inner thighs from behind could be all the motivation he needs to take things further.

If there’s a hole in the table, pointing it down through that hole is the only option…

At times it’s difficult to watch but it has still captured my attention. I don’t know where it’s going—probably nowhere good—but I’m riveted.

One of the guys I see frequently is always 10-15 minutes late but I know that and, since he always texts to let me know, I don’t let it bother me.

Conjures up images of Catherine the Great….

I would have walked out.

I used to hand cash to the provider/masseur but that started to feel weird so I started putting it on a table. Since most guys don’t leave the room when I get dressed, they see me put it there so it’s clear what it’s for. No one has ever counted it in front of me but many will text a thank you after I leave.

I’m that age too and only started four years ago. I’ll keep going until the rejections become too frequent, the funds run out, or my body no longer cooperates.

The only ones who know are myself and the men I hire.

I’ve seen a number of guys on this forum indicate that they no longer hire which makes me wonder why. If you stopped hiring or stopped massaging/escorting, can you share what led you to that decision? Update: just realized this probably belongs under “hiring.” Admins, feel free to move it.

I don’t respond to most survey requests about anything so I would ignore this one too. Most surveys are simplistic (5 stars to rate the entire experience) and the ones that aren’t are badly written. They’re a waste of time. How many times have we all been confronted with five choices ranging from “below expectations” to “exceeded expectations?” If my expectations were low, “exceeded expectations” just says “you weren’t as bad as I expected.” The message the recipient receives, however, is “hot damn! I’m winning!” because he doesn’t know what my expectations were in the first place (and didn’t ask for them). Similarly, if my expectations were stellar but the situation wasn’t as fantastic as usual, “below expectations” is a knife to the heart of the one who asked for the survey. In the case of a provider, I’m with @Mark_fl: If you give me some categories with clear baselines of performance in each category and the opportunity to respond at length, I’ll consider responding. I’d love the opportunity to say “His communication skills were exceptional, although he was very hard to understand when my dick was in his mouth”….