Nightowl

I’ve never watched any of the Marvel or other comic-book-based movies and wonder if I’m overlooking a critical piece of popular culture. The only ones I’ve seen are the first two Deadpool movies. Now that there are shitloads of these movies, I have absolutely no idea where to start watching them. Should I start with the oldest movies? A specific series? Focus on a specific superhero? I’m lost. Any suggestions?

Welcome! Though bigotry and snark do rear their ugly heads on this site, I’ve found it to be, on the whole, a very welcoming site where participants can be themselves. Glad to have you among us.

I’m an Irving fan too, and for most of the same reasons. Another reason for me is the setting. He sets a lot of his books in southern Vermont and I’ve been going there for years so I’m familiar with a lot of the things he describes. He used to live in the area and I saw him in restaurants several times. I’m not sure if I’m remembering correctly but I think his son is gay and I read that he moved to Canada because of the way a recent administration was treating the LGBTQ+ community. I’m currently reading “The Last Chairlift.” Not his best but the themes will be familiar to Irving fans.

I might have to take another look at that movie 😂

This just brings to mind stories of some guy’s penis getting bent the wrong way, necessitating a trip to the ER….

I got an Rx from my doctor and along with it came a coupon that cut the price for 13 25mg tablets down from $240 to $46. I’m hoping I can use the same coupon for refills….

Many years ago my 12-year-old cousin told me I looked like Tom Selleck from Magnum P.I. I’d settle for looking like that again and having any guy who looked like that. As I’ve commented in other postings, give me a guy with a hairy chest any day. I’ve maintained one of my own but it’s not as dark as it once was. Aging’s a bitch.

Absolutely! Who can forget such colors as “burnt sienna,” or as my sister and I called it, “dog-do brown”?

Cock rings, genital piercings, and completely shaved “down there”

I’ve probably done that a few times too.

I’ll second the recommendation of Bliss Bodywork. I’ve seen him 7-8 times and he’s worth it.

Diversity from a single masseur also helps. When you don’t know what he’s going to do during each visit, there’s anticipation without boredom.

The most useful thing to me in a review is when the client waxes poetic about how great the parking is 😂.

@Simon Suraci and @Jamie21 both highlighted the importance of trust and safety in their provider-client relationships. To be able to build those is a rare gift that—in my few years of experience—many providers either do not have or spend no time trying to encourage. It’s no wonder these two gentlemen love what they do and are so highly regarded by their clients.

Mostly silent with an occasional “aaah” when touched in certain spots.

The downside of a prominent Adams apple is that it makes it hard to shave.

Your views are always very insightful. I appreciate the way you view your profession.

Funny, but not particularly helpful. Thanks for playing! 😀

When I first started going for massages using RMass and MF, I didn’t know what to expect or how to behave. At my very first booking, I thought there would be some discussion of what I needed or was expecting but there wasn’t; all I got was an instruction to undress and lay on the table. No draping and the masseur watched as I stripped. I knew then that it was going to be different but I had no idea how I was supposed to behave. Was I supposed to lay there and let what happened, happen, or was I supposed to do whatever moved me? I ended up with the latter and apologized to the provider via text the next day for letting my hands roam too freely over his body. Fortunately, he had no problem with me or my actions and I met with him many times after that. My questions for providers, though, is this: what behaviors do you want and expect from the ideal client? I’m not talking about physical characteristics but about what the client does or doesn’t do that makes for the ideal situation for you. I know grabby clients are annoying so no need to focus on that. What could and does a client do that makes you more inclined to accept bookings from him again?

I’ve tasted my own cum but never anyone else’s. Shooting my load in someone else’s mouth or having him shoot his into my mouth sounds pretty hot though…

Try “Sarum” by Edward Rutherfurd. It’s a cleverly constructed (and long) novel that covers many centuries in the real place of Sarum, England. Rutherfurd makes it interesting by weaving characters from early in his novels into later parts through their descendants. Kind of like what Follett did from novel to novel in the Pillars of the Earth series. Rutherfurd has written a number of novels about different cities using the same device. “Russka” is also very good. Though fictional, all of his books give you a goodd sense of the place and its history.

I’m happy everyone gravitates to twinks so that I have less competition for the guys with hairy chests.

I hire maybe once every 2-3 months so I haven’t gotten jaded. The lead-up anticipation is still agonizing and the experience itself is still exciting. I do understand where you’re coming from though. A couple of years ago I had two erotic massages in a week. The first was exciting but the second was “meh” even though the provider was great. I think it was that experience that prompted me to space them out by months rather than weeks or days.

The UK. Lived in North Yorkshire for a while and made frequent trips to London and Edinburgh. Absolutely loved it.

I used to think I could do it but quickly realized that there’s more to it than knowing your way around a penis. True therapeutic massage, which is what I would want to be able to do along with erotic, is physically grueling and the older I get, the less strength and stamina I have. Escorting would be out of the question since that would require a whole other set of social skills, including the ability to make scintillating conversation with men who may not be that interesting.