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Probably, but having the means to make contact doesn't mean that they will make contact, unless there is anything that will pick their interest.

Can't give any personal insights, but I found this: Verifying if your connection is secure... WWW.NSWP.ORG Lots of info about female prostitution, but very little about male escorts. Only ptopaganda about getting jail and similar things. Seems like it's like USA in the 70s.

Now after reading all this I want to see Enzo Falcone and Jarrod_Uncut making out.

Welcome to the group.

I happen to be an advocate against abuse towards men and boys in different parts of the world, and yes, there are certain concerns. A place like RM has had connection with people being in the business against their will, but it has been minimal. RM is monitored and supervised, and some other sites are also heavily monitored. Furthermore, some companies that run similar websites and other venues work in partnership with institutions such as ECPAT, which specializes in addressing the issue of exploitation of minors. Sadly, there isn't as strong of an infrastructure to protect those same children once they age out and become adults. In my main profession, I actually designed training for healthcare providers to recognize signs of human trafficking in patients. Very difficult to do nowadays in times when everybody is ready to lynch whoever asks too many questions because they are "offensive", "intrusive", or "profiling". I know of other industries that provide such trainings, such as the airline industry. Human trafficking also takes other forms, nut just sexual exploitation. Some men and boys are used for hard labor for no or very little money, with the threat of killing their families if they escape. Now my experience: there is this one place in NYC where I received massages, and I noticed some things that just didn't look right, one of them being that the providers were showing certain underneath signs of submission or fear, even when they smiled. Additionally, the providers didn't speak a single word of English and were never the same; they had too many rotations. I tried to do my own research, but I was discouraged because the place was already under investigations by the authorities, and suddenly it closed. What exactly happened, I do not know. FrankR's list is right on point, though there are some signs that can be attributed to other factors. The one thing that I'd point is that adults are also trafficked and exploited, so the fact that the provider is a person of legal age does not imply that he could not be there against his will. I know we come here for the fun part of the trade, but yes, there's is this nasty shadow that is, directly or indirectly, an effect of this not being a recognized profession.

There's really no rule, but taking days to respond doesn't sound too reasonable to me. I only wait a few hours and move on even if I hear from the provider days later, unless I get a reason that convinces me to try again. Plenty of providers and they are the ones who need the money.

Only very recently was when reviewing providers is allowed in this forum. This forum was not expected to be used for reviewing providers. That's a major reason why there are not that many reviews. So no, I do not believe that there's some type of favoritism or influence of any kind towards benefiting or hindering any specific providers.

First, sorry that you have such judgemental friend. Quite hypocritical since the fact that he found you means that he was looking. That attests to what he thinks of providers in general. Second, you should know that you can search in RM without having an account, so you are findable in RM by the general public. I have the feeling that this might open a flood of information door in your circle, so be prepared. Actually, have you prepared for the possibility of this happening? I hope so. If not, there's a high chance that by now rumors have started. I hope you know how to handle it. Best.

With the way the talk about "boomers" and with their attitude, of course, no one wants to talk, I mean, text them.

No, unless you are meeting for illegal purposes, such as hiring a hitman, deal illegal drugs, or incur into any illegal activity. Meet in a public place, so that way you know that you are not going into some kind of trap in somebody's turf.

Sleeping. I can do that every night for hours on end.

The way I see this whole thing is more from a larger perspective, which means that regardless of what platform we use, there will always be risk involved, financial risk, personal safety risk and health risk. All we can do is minimize it to the best of our knowledge and abilities. More reliable sites like RM have had a few bad apples, causing bad experiences to some clients. It's a matter of what level of risk we are comfortable with. I agree that some sites are safer than others. STG looks terrible and not that professionally organized (not to mention that it doesn't look like the administration monitors what people post). This is not a recognized profession, leave alone protected or regulated. Caution and precautions are key at all times.

Not the best sit, and YIKES! in my city too.

Hey, I answered and sent you my answers by message. Best.

Why? I don't see anything wrong with it. Hope you had fun.

Not me. Trust me, you don't want to see it.

Size queens play an important role, especially in today's society (some ancient societies associated men with big dicks with negative things). Men with large penises will otherwise be feeling sad and lonely. To power bottom size queens.

A while back I did post about the background music (here), but it was about the music being interrupted by loud insurance commercials or some kind of public announcement. As a client, you do have a saying over the type of music you prefer to relax if the current music doesn't do it for you. You can ask, and I believe that they are more than happy to accommodate. With an escort I see no problem inquiring about background music if any, I also had a terrible experience with a "masseur" who was not very professional (or knowledgeable), who had the Steven Wilkos show in the background instead of music, among other things. Other than that, I am fairly easygoing with whatever background music is in the background, but I do know of people who react to certain types of music negatively. I see no problem in asking when booking the appointment.

You can increase your chances if you look at masseurs who are also in escort websites. I you are interested in the massage portion too, first identify the masseur that is also in the escort website, not escorts who have "erotic massage" added to their profile (9 times out of 10, that's self-marketing nonsense). That said, I've had three masseurs who seem willing to get rimmed (I neither confirm nor deny having rimmed the hell out of all three), so they seem to be around. It might be a matter of inquiring and also the way you inquire.

I don't mean to be mean, but it starts to sound like you might be the one who doesn't belong there, then. And yes, if you go there for the eye candy, you are going going for the wrong reasons. That's not what nudism is for.

I have seen some escorts using the "I'm straight" bullshit as means to appeal to those who are willing to pay (a lot) more for having them become "gay for pay". There might be some legitimately hetero escorts, but for what I know, they may not advertise that much, or advertise using different means, especially considering how women operate, think and act. Personally, I come from a place where I used to call myself "heterophobic", so no, I have never cared much for guys who call themselves straight, and it's never been my place to try to prove them right or wrong. I just let them be. There's absolutely nothing wrong with perfectly fine gay and biusexual men (and FTMs for those who like them), so there's plenty to choose out there for me to bother pursuing a person who, by the very definition of who they are, doesn't have any interest in me.

I got curious and looked. Seems like their british site is a little more geographically accurate than their USA site. To me that means that it's fairly new in USA, hence you get the same results regardless of the state that you choose. I also agree that a site that doesn't control the browsers by having them create accounts is not necessarily too reliable, as it is prone to all kinds of outside attacks.

I'va always been very protective of my emotions, especially when it comes to romance. I learned a lesson about that way back when I was a young man. Losing my self-esteem over pursuing a person who has o interest in me that way, but was capitalizing on my interest in him, that was not a great experience. However, it was a learning experience. Took me some time to understand that that's only certain type of men, and not all of us are opportunists. However, in my case it wasn't a for-pay situation. I volunteered helping him with way too many things without any thank you. It did not feel good at all, even if I was a good influence to him (that now he pretends never happened). Hiring is something that, though I can trace to way back when (longer than what I thought), I never went with the mindset of connecting with the guy at an intimate level, at least not in the sense that will interest me in connecting with him outside of a client-provider relationship. I've been married for some time now, but even back when I wasn't I was always conscious that the possibility of developing a relationship with a person who I meet in this setting is remote. My suggestion: Protect yourself. Protect your mental well-being, your self esteem and your wallet. High chances are that you might hurt yourself and qwound up broke, feeling like shit, and angry at both the provider and yourself. That can escalate into something darker. It has in come cases.

Well, maybe you are going either (a) to the wrong beaches, or (b) for the wrong reasons. That is not to mention what you see in non-nudist places are not exactly eye candy either. So I don't see the point in stating that you don't like a percentage of what you see in a nudist place, as if people you don't like seeing don't exist anywhere else. That is, unless you are equating nudism with sexual attraction to people, or a nudist place with a cruising area, which are both the wrong premises.

A lot. A lot. No.