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I'm sorry that happened. Scammers are everywhere, but in the information era, people should know that their reputation can go down the drain quickly.

He doesn't want to. That's the reason, period. End of the story.

I'm not sure that he's being immature. The photos are locked for a reason, and it seems like the inaction happened on your side, not his. Re-locking the pictures doesn't necessarily makes him "wishy-washy" or "immature". He wants some of his pictures locked and not available at any time. I see absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Not an expert, but in my case, when I've found myself doing too much of anything to the point that it becomes a concern, I seek professional help. People recommend things that work for themselves, from password-protecting things so you can't access them, to 12-step programs (seems like there is one of those for every bad habit that there is). The thing is that what works for me might not work for you. I know things can get out of hand, and some people (like me) structure things to ensure that doesn't happen. I have a budget and specific instances for hiring, and set boundaries about where and when are the right circumstances to hire. I also made sure that my life doesn't revolve around things that can get out of hand. Best wishes, and thanks for sharing this. You never know who relates to things that people post.

I figured that much. I just needed confirmation. Sounds like BS.

Please send the link.

If one if not available, and the other is, and he's still within your level of interest, I'd say reach out to him. Worst case scenario, the first one answers later and you might have to cancel with the other. Even if they share their contacts, I'm sure that it's not the first time that a client reaches out to one first. Personally I don;t see a problem.

Just learned about it. Search is definitely weird. I can still look for breast size if I select male providers. Strange.

I agree with what has been mentioned. I also went to the (rather homophobic) Wikipedia. It doesn't have anything on BF Experience, but has an entire page on Girlfriend Experience. Here's an excerpt: Now I wonder if that's true for providers. Is providing the BFE to a client a "more meaningful" experience, not talking from a financial perspective?

As a client, I would never come to a provider (of this quality) telling him that I'm willing to pay only a much smaller amount for services. If I cannot afford him, especially if he's upfront about his charges, I don't even bother contacting him. Just ignore, time you spend entertaining that nonsense is time that you can use in better clients. Where exactly in Philly do you get service for that price?

When I read things like that, I have the feeling that the provider doesn't have a lot of experience, is full of it and just doesn't know what he's talking about, or he can't care less because what he wants is to take as much while offering as little. When I care for the massage portion, I look for years of experience, description of the space, training and certifications, and things that relate to the trade, not any of those "zen" gimmicks that attempt at selling the overall experience. When I care for extras, then I look at the BS they place and look for one that gives me the sense of giving good extras. Or in other instances I see if the masseur also has a rentmen profile. It's all still trial and error.

Not sure I get what you mean, but no. Below are pictures from the website. For some reason they don't show face, except for the hottest of the three.

Just want to share about this place. Before my trip to Dublin, I came to this forum and searched for suggestions and places. The consensus seemed to be that there were not that many choices, and most are not native Irish men (which I prefer, I like to hire locals when I travel). Searching outside this site, I found this place named It's Always Sunny Spa, in the heart of the old city of Dublin. Seems to be the only Spa that provides some men-on-men massage services, that is reliable and that might offer body-to-body, erotic and Nuru massages (there was another Spa place, but the getting an appointment there was as complicated as applying for asylum, and they had so many "rules" and expectations that I didn't even try). The others seemed to be individuals who have a private studio. I booked a session at the It's Always Sunny. The booking required a €50 deposit for a €170, one-hour session of a Nuru massage. This is the first time that I had one of that type of massages, and I know nothing (still don't) about Nuru massages, so I cannot say if the experience was a real Nuru massage. One thing is that the site collects the deposit, but the final transaction in the website shows the full amount, even though when I looked at my bank account transaction, it reflected having taken only the deposit amount, so that's a little confusing. The booking was easy, online and reliable. They had only two male masseurs to choose from, but both choices looked excellent (not local people, though, one was of African descent and the other was Brazilian, both young and with great bodies). They had way more choices of female providers. The place looked very professional, with facilities designed specifically for massages. It also provides facilities for showering with good quality products and towels, etc. The receptionist greeted me and have me enter a massage room, but the masseur came in and took me to another room that had a larger table/bed (looked like some kind of hybrid). They took the rest of payment upfront, but I do not know if that's standard practice (sometimes I look "suspicious" to some people, so I'm used to some service providers expecting payment upfront). The experience was good, but as I mentioned, I am not familiar with Nuru massages, so overall, it felt like having pretend sex. Lots of rubbing with some sticky gel, but no really touching certain parts. Not sure if that's my kind of thing. I felt great afterwards, but it might have been for the thrill of a new experience. All-in-all, not the best, not the worst experience. However, it's good to know that one can have a nice relaxing, body-to-body or Nuru massage in that city. If anyone visits Dublin, it's good to know that there are choices.

Haven't read anything from you in a while, so welcome back. I'm not sure if the amount of toiletries and personal care products determine people's sexual orientation. There might be some stereotyping there. One thing is one's sexual orientation, and a different one is how one feel the need to take personal care via products, needed or perceived to be needed. It might be interesting noticing all the things and wondering why I don't have those or why I don't feel like I need them. But outside of basic human curiosity, I'd say it's not worth giving it too much weight. I'd be happy to be dating a person who takes good care of himself as opposed to some guy who might not even use toilet paper. Enjoyment of the date and the company (regardless of what the outcome is) is what should matter. Best.

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This is not a critique of you asking, please don't take it negatively. Why do dancers dance? Why do carpenters do carpentry? I am actually more baffled about why people wait tables and work in any kind of customer service in other settings, sometimes for minimum wage. I am more baffled by people who work for decades in jobs and professions that they hate, surrounded by people that they hate even more, and they do it day after day until they retire or die, sometimes having nothing to show for afterwards. I'm even more curious about law enforcement people who volunteer to risk their lives for a living, or people who work in case management doing all kinds of thankless jobs trying to help people who are lost causes.

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I have not contacted or hired him, but based on what he has in his profile (in Spanish, which is why I am replying, translating some), I wouldn't expect much of a massage. "Sexual fantasies, threesomes and multiple partners", "can satisfy your fetishes", "full of cum without taboos". Looks like a great escort, but doesn't say much about massages.

I'm currently on vacation in Dublin, Ireland, having a great time with my husband and friends. Decided to treat myself with an erotic massage. rentmasseur.com doesn't list a lot of options, and on top of that the few ones are not masseurs who are native Irish men. I decided to go with the one one only option that the website had, which was this gentleman named GingerIrish. Decided to take a risk because, why not, and in spite of only having one BW picture of his chest. The experience was awesome! That's definitely a perfect balance between erotic and massage, which was great on both respects. His body looks better than in the picture (no idea why he being so good looking only has such an unfavorable picture, and only one, in his profile). He was not a clock watcher, he was very personable, hot as hell. The space that he has is spotless and perfect for the massage, he didn't try to up-sell anything and offered exactly what I was expecting. No about to go celebrate at the Pantibar.

I remember in the 90s and early 2000s there were a few groups of bisexual people who wanted to organize for something. I'm basing this on second-hand information, as I am not bisexual but have bisexual friends who tried to join some of those groups. They were not very happy. I was told that the groups were very clickish, some were swingers-type of groups, and some were discrimiatory on the bases of race and ethnicity. Again, that's what I was told. As far as I know, I haven't heard of any groups, especially now when people have social media, and also with the mess of made-up sexual orientations that they have today.

Miss Universe now accepted a 36 year old with three children to represent Puerto Rico, so it might be an inclusion thing. Skinny, non-bodybuilder pride or something.

Mine too.

First, reassurance, a big hug and no, I wouldn't waste time assigning blame to you I any of it, even if you said or did things that might have given him reasons to. Under any circumstances things like that should happen or escalate to that point. Minimizing judgement,seems like you were honest, direct and candid about running out of funds and about what you wanted to happen next, which I personally appreciate in people. That said, the first thing that came to mind when I first read the part that I quotes was "welcome to dealing with gay men and their BS". I wish I could say that this is the first time that I've heard of men having a complete 180 over some type of relationship, not just a provider/client type. I've heard of and experienced myself similar stories of people going from 0 to 100 in a second over (sometimes) nothing. Of course, as you can see by the other guy, not all and not always things take that turn, but at least in my experience I have seen it happening way too many times. Then there is the business aspect of it that cannot be neglected or pretend it didn't exist. What others have pointed out is true. You are paying for a fantasy, mostly sexual. That connection with men that you (and most-to-all of us) need might net be achieved with a person that you have to pay to give you company. You shouldn't expect a level of intimacy that you might need from provider, or even friendship for that matter. What others are pointing out is true, that might be your contribution to the unsavory situation. I'm sorry that this unsavory situation happened. Don't allow it to escalate. I'd just stop communication. Sometimes there's nothing that you can do or say that will make things better. It's ok to be angry, but don't act it up in unhealthy ways. Best.

Ilk! Oh well. The MrBnB that the owns in PV seems to be used for short-term rentals. My apartment in PV was clean, can't attest to the rest of the building.

I wish I hooked up with the host. No, I just used it to rent a studio apartment in PVR. It's owned by Lucas from Lucas Entertainment. In fact, it's called "Casa Lucas". I think MisterBnB is a gay-friendly version of AirBnB, though I'd not be surprised if it's used for spaces that are more than welcoming to gay men.