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soloyo215

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  1. One of the Spas I go to, I get pedicure, manicure, massage and blow job. They also offer facials and other services, but those are the ones I've gotten. So yes, there are individuals and facilities that can accommodate for other ways of pampering ourselves.
  2. My two cents: I think that they do and they don't. My guess is that they have to be in that city for some reason and they figure that while they are there, they might make some money. Looks to me that the primary purpose of the visit to that city might not be his work. He might want to make a quick buck while he has to be there. At least that's what I think makes sense for him to try to schedule a client that way. I think about me as a client, in instances when I have found myself with nothing to do for one night in a foreign city (waiting for a next day flight, at a conference, or similar situations), and I try to find something (or someone) to do. I reach out and sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. Just my thoughts.
  3. I don't think that your question "stirs the pot". It's quite appropriate for this forum, as it goes to the core of its objectives. I can only speak for my experiences. I do use reviews, but don't take them as law or advice. A good review keeps it about the experience, and provides a balance feedback. Sometimes a bad review is about aspects of the experience that have nothing to do with the provider (i.e. "it's a shady area"). I look at reviews as a group and start seeing themes. That's what I mostly pay attention to instead of emotional/angry bad reviews from some people. That said, I also look at them not as a source of reliable information, but as people's impressions, some of which are very "specific". Ultimately, I decide the level of risk I am comfortable with.
  4. I can see a section like that being abused and weaponized. I see it as the source of many unsavory discussions, arguments, and even lawsuits for slandering. I don't think it's a good idea. Just look at the answers here and see that some people are already calling it "public shaming", arguments about who's really the scammer, what is in fact a scammer, what to do when one person feels scammed and another had a great experience, and things alike. Bad idea, and it even hasn't started.
  5. In essence it's fine, but that's not permission to be fully trusting. Always caution. A good strategy is to as questions about setting, what exactly is he offering, location, etc. I'd treat it the same way that I deal with a hookup with a hidden agenda of wanting money. The app is just the means. The cyberspace is no different than the rest of the world. full of scammers, hustlers, and good and bad people.
  6. It depends 😁. Really, I've gotten a spectrum of levels of enthusiasm, so it varies from provider to provider. The reasons can be from bad or no chemistry, to being the last client of the day, to being the first client of the day, to his mood, to my mood, I mean, so many things can influence how the experience goes. Nothing worse than getting an unenthusiastic, "what a chore!" hand job, but I still get it 🙃 (maybe that's why the word job is in it).
  7. In a massage setting, there isn't a specific rule on how to go about touching. I just reach out and try. I've had various degrees of success with that approach. However, if the mutual touch is the primary reason for it, then I suggest to just ask for it during the booking process. Nothing wrong with respectfully inquiring about it.
  8. "...turning his "multi-faceted business empire" into a "criminal enterprise" over two decades." When I read lines like that one, I deem it unreliable and sensationalistic.
  9. Don't know about LA, but if you've been in Philly, you'll be fine in Baltimore. There's never a guarantee of safety or happiness in any place. There are safer areas and less safer areas. Like any city, Baltimore has its good and bad areas, and "gayborhoods" are dying (using the excuse of acceptance and equity to invade valuable areas that we were once able to consider ours).
  10. If you made communication and have his number, why not using it. The reasons for deleting the account doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't want to talk to you. That would be making assumptions.
  11. As a client, I value the information that I read here, and the feedback that I get in PMs. That said, I treat the information I get here the same way I treat reviews: They are personal experiences, which means it might not be mine Fake sources are always going to be present I try not to let my confirmation bias get in the way, looking to confirm what I want to hear about a provider Multiple sources of information can give me a better sense of what I'm looking for. I see themes and experiences that show similarities. At the end of the day, both the information here and reviews are not to be taken as guarantees, nor as assurance.
  12. I have been asked for a picture several times. I only sent it once, back when I was inexperienced in this, to a provide in Columbus. The provider who received it complimented me, and we he was excellent, and he seemed to enjoy me as much as I enjoyed him, or he's a great actor. I do not know if the outcome would have been different if he didn't like what he saw in my picture. As soon as I learned better, no pictures.
  13. I've felt like that in the waiting room at my therapist's.
  14. I find it off-putting too, mostly because of the common premise that hetero/bi is supposed to mean better or more desirable. I don't care for vaginas, and when I tried them was neither by choice nor because I pursed them. No judgement for those who love it, but don't come to me with the attitude that it places you in a better position (socially speaking).
  15. I'd be distracted by the 10" 😀
  16. 🥷🏿10” BULLY 🇩🇴🇳🇬 Discreet Meets Description title.
  17. I don't anymore, but I have in the past. Body image issues and caring too much about what people who I don't know and play no part in my life would think about me. Personally, and maybe because I've been insecure about my looks, I don't react to anyone with a piece of clothing like that. I just let people be.
  18. If I am getting my ass eaten in a session, the last thing that I'd be worrying about is the definition of therapeutic.
  19. I agree with the others, it's disrespectful, unprofessional and insulting. You pay for their time. If they have to look at some app for something routine checking, I'll be fine with that. But to try to hook up while with me, no.
  20. I can't comment on the multiple providers experience, but I think that you have choices. If it's about finding the right provider, where he's based shouldn't matter if he's willing and able to cater to you for the weekend. Seems like it's more about finding the right provider and experience and less about where the provider lives.
  21. When I shop for technology. I keep a budget in mind, but I also have to ensure that the computer is going to be reliable for my purpose. I use a lot of media and CAD software, so I need lots of RAM, processing power and Graphic cards. My suggestion is to start with what do you want to use it for, and the hardware requirements for that purpose. Also consider convenience (such as portability and connection with other legacy devices) and expected longevity of the equipment. That can give you an idea about if the computer will be reliable for your purposes.
  22. What makes you think he didn't bite? What makes you think I didn't like it?
  23. I've always taken a long time to cum when fucking. As a top, at this age, I do not want to go for a long period of time. Fucking is not even my primary enjoyable activity when having sex. When I was young, my second ex loved it. We could go for hours, and he enjoyed my penis for that long. He also liked sleeping all night with my penis in his mouth. I know that's only one person, but I guess that there are bottoms out there who do enjoy and can go for extended periods of time.
  24. To me depends on what I'm looking at. I do like hole pictures, but not of those with hemorrhoids, those showing the inside out, those that are stretched looking like you can park your car there, or those that show fecal matter or traces of. I like ass, hairy, not hairy doesn't matter to me. And just like with penis, size doesn't matter to me either.
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