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It is a challenging process to learn and go through the hoopes necessary for success. There is so much more than good looks, the social aspect, communication, marketing and the confidence necessary to make it a success. In an environment filled with flakes, consistency is key. Those who are diligent yield successes.

Beyond the St. Christopher's metal (from my mother), not really into anything other than watches or a tie tack. I used to wear one ring that my mother made, but I had to have it cut off my finger as I was a kid when she made it. I haven't had a ring since. No kinds of piercings

I would say I am very normal or typical with this topic. We all have times we suffer from depression related challenges. I seem to allow myself a little time, then I get busy and I mitigate the circumstances (unless a death of a family member or the like). I have found that being productive is essential in getting things back on a positive track, but again, I don't suffer from any serious issues. Clinical depression is something I've not experienced and would rather not. Being an optimist is where I'm comfortable.

I'm sure I'll be ready for some time around the pool for sure!

Appreciate the dedication and I agree. The only thing I can ever equate to my dedication to fitness is the need to floss my teeth every night. I don't sleep unless I floss. That got engrained years ago by a dentist who happened to "speak" to me the right way. The same thing about fitness. My experience comes from lower back pain that came from years riding & showing horses (and riding without a saddle). Had serious lower back problems while in graduate school and my doctor made it clear that I can either live life by drugs to relieve the pain or choose a different path, a prudent path. Change my lifestyle to a very active one to relieve the pain. I can say I chose the latter and have very little back issues of any kind. Good genetics helps and am dedicated to the "mind-body-spirit connection. Our guests on our podcast program only reinforces my beliefs every day!

Well being a fitness advocate (and seeking balance in all areas), I was immediately interested in the term "Body spirit". I'd like to hear his philosophy about the "spirit" part and what his philosophy is on enjoining all. Not questioning his validity, he might just approach it a little differently than I have been educated. Very interesting for sure.

You sound great, and as a client, you should expect the same from an escort!

So, September here, a little late to converting to my fall fitness plan. Time to review goals and some new ideas I have for my exercise routine. That includes my all important "morning cardio (and a little weight training) component in the morning. Good diet and dedicated exercise is so important to me. Just curious, if you escort, do you have dedicated fitness time? I always cringe when I have to compromise that time with client requirements, but life is a balance. It does seem to work.

Interesting conversation, but an important one to have. I think "on the clock time" should be agreed in advance. That includes point of focus. With so many people working from home (or anywhere else), it makes it easy for an escort with a "day job" (so to speak) to double up. I think that needs to be a point of negotiation or discussion and if is a consideration, the escort should discuss (and maybe the client ask about such distractions). There isn't a "right or wrong", just agreement by both parties as to expectations. What about payment for travel? Most escorts may require to be compensated based on mileage, but some may set it on billable time. Again, agreement in advance.

I suppose there is a market for everything. I think is "muscle worship" alone is the focus, then let it be a paid option by those interested! Probably more successful in a large metro area than a smaller city or rural area.

You probably won't like my answer. I'd always be polite and (fi you are so inclined) ask him if he'd consider another booking. As far as a threesome with his photos, I'd pass. Too much there and not enough "return" in my mind.

I don't remember that impression, but it was my first time there as an adult and we were on our way west the next morning. No complaints about the overnight stay.

Hey Danny, we've never covered "sleep" on our fitness podcast in the 9 seasons we have produced the show. I've always planned to get a sleep specialist o the program. We've covered so many other topics. Yes, sleep a critical component of an effective fitness lifestyle. I do quite well when well rested and only fair to good if less. Just need to shut the mind down when I have much going on! lol.

I used to pass on the self checkout. I really don't mind it much now as I am able to focus on each item and the savings they claim are associated with each. If not, I ask questions. Going through a regular line is fine as well.

Shiprock, west of Farmington last September.

I agree, I'd rather pass on the whole damn thing.

I really love NM. It all started with our vacations when I was a little kid and my mother's fascination with Taos. I'm not into Taos that much, but I really enjoy Santa Fe and do get there frequently. My favorite hotel/ motel is the "Lodge at Santa Fe" on the NE side of town. Great place to see clients. The downtown is a little odd, but always enjoy shopping and hitting my favorite places. Was in Farmington last summer before a trip into Utah.

Well I have a number of "red flags" with clients, one is just looking at my ad dozens of times and not asking any questions about services. I like clarity and clients who are serious and direct to the point. That doesn't mean that someone who isn't and drags the process out isn't "client worthy", it takes a little more time to understand where he is coming from and if he is a good prospect as a client. One of the oddest conversations I ever had with a perspective client was one that asked me if I'd ever consider escorting overseas as the money was good . He said he could help facilitate that process. I never asked any more questions, I just considered that a huge red flag.

I had one with a hundred and some odd views over a week. Never said a word to me. It really gave me the creeps.

I find it fascinating the ones who look at your RM profile literally dozens of times. Checking out photos I would assume. Most of those guys never become clients. Most who do, check me out several times, then a contact and a booking.

So I was curious, I've been seeing a number of photos men with neck chains again. Some are "dog tags" associated with the military, others of religious focus or some nothing at all. Gold chains and a number of others. If you wear one, what is it and why? I do wear one, A St. Christopher's tag that my mother gave me . I'm almost never without it.

It definitely is a way of life, Throwing on a pair of shorts and heading out the door every morning with the beagles. Now with cooler weather, I had to wear a pair of jeans. I like less clothing.

Very sad for sure, so much life he could have lived.