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Great input!

So there probably isn't any real answer to this question. I have had clients talk about "too many tats", "not enough" and what they find just right on a provider. I get clients that make recommendations. Some tell me too much is a total turn off. If you are a provider, what do you hear from your cleints and do they like yours? Do clients even expect tats on escorts? If you are a client, what do you like. Just curious.

I generally go to a Kroger owned store called "Dillons". Great store overall. I assume most Kroger stores encourage use of a "card", which provides you with a lower price on many items. If you have downloaded their app, you may have a special price available. Sometimes there are 3 prices listed on an item. It can be a little frustrating, but it works. I am health oriented and because of my background an absolute analyst. Never mind grocery store shopping either. You never know who you might meet, who you come across and what might happen.

A friend of mine who used to escort himself asked me a question. He wanted to know if sex work was "addictive" either physically or mentally? Interesting question, I do think that an active escort had a physical adjustment to sex work the same way ones body adjusts to exercise. Not sure I would ever describe it as "addictive", but I do think it might be for some. Escort work does require a certain mental focus for sure. I certainly invite an opinion on this topic.

I'm with you. The $300.00 is more what I charge, up from $225.00 when I first started. If one offers a professional service and does a quality job, that figure is a deal. I agree with much of what was said. Anything less is not in anyone

I have a client that doesn't take much initiative to eat the right way on a daily basis. He's a regular and has been for a couple of years. I have purchased small things to add to his diet and two or three times fixed a meal for him without any sort of request to do so. He is always very grateful and compensates me for any expenditure plus a tip. He never expects it, however.

Back hair can be sexy and a turn off for me. I know I keep my back shaved and neat, not that I have much back hair.

I like direct and to the point!

So I started out with the idea that my work as an escort would fit neatly into an evening or weekend. Definitely a "side gig" kind of thing. It worked to a point to begin, but as my business grew, I realized the need to be available when the client requests the service, not vice versa. I've been able to manage the process, but I'd had more challenges with vacations, even the few weekends where I am out of town or have other obligations. I get booking requests on holidays and other days that I'd not expect. I totally get the importance of going the extra mile, but to a point. Ideas on how you manage your schedule? I generally let clients know in advance if a weekend/ time off/ is coming up and I am not available during a certain period. Thoughts?

Late last year one of my regular clients was chatting with me about my clothes and started quizzing me about my daytime professional job and what clothes I wear. I responded that I mostly wear athletic dress shirts and Ralph Lauren custom fit polo shirts and typically Ralph Lauren chinos and suits during the winter. He tends to be very trendy and suggested an overhaul. Told me to forgo the older Ralph Lauren chinos and consider something like slim fitting Banana Republic Chinos or even American Eagle. They are much trimmer and tend to show off my ass and body in a way the Ralph Lauren chinos did not. This was a bit of an educaiton for me. A couple of things he stressed: 1. Dress for success in a professional setting means showing off your bod and showing what you have. Marketing yourself all the time can be a good thing. 2. Be willing to change things up and keep a new and fresh appearance, whether it be for casual clothes or work. I did make some major changes. I do like the refresher. Comments on this client's thoughts and his thoughts of "marketing yourself" no matter what the venue?

So I'm curious from any clients out there that have opinions on providers that may give a bad initial impression. I mean, I think we all know you need to show up to an appointment or booking on time and prepped accordingly. I have heard clients tell me that they don't want any cologne or hairspray. A number of things. Just curious as to things you may find offensive or "off putting" when it comes to providers and their approach.

Really nothing unusual for Kansas. We've had about 15 days above 100 this summer, which is relatively normal. Up until the last 2 weeks, we had a "modest" summer going so far. We'll see how it pans out. So long as I can go swimming relatively frequently, I'm good. Sounds like parts of the country are less lucky.

It would be a curiosity to have a pimp I think. It probably wouldn't fly, but a curiosity.

Glad you said that. I have heard that. Interesting

I was approached during my 2nd year and asked if I needed “an agent” and explained he represented several women. I’d never heard of such a thing.

So that means I can come to you with all my problems? jk

This site is certainly an education. I keep learning things I've never heard of. I appreciate the information and getting clued in!

So had a client book me recently and while a very positive experience, he asked a number of questions, one was if I was independent or "through an agent or "business manager". At first I thought it was an odd question and I said I was an independent. He responded that there are some great managers out there. I assumed he was really asking me if I had a pimp. I kind of chuckled. I assumed that the "business manager" or pimp mostly applied to women and not men. The reality is, I guess I have no idea what's up with this. Anyone want to fill me in?

I hope you would be up for sexy underwear that is low rise or a thong......lol

Well I think when one talks "red flags" it is important to know that those flags can change over time. I still remember when I first started escorting, I didn't want a client that didn't come with a referral. It was important for me to know who they were and it was legit. It was all about my own comfort level as a newbie to the business. Times change, but some things don't. I like client's who give a clear and concise message about what they want and what they are looking for. If I'm booked at a hotel, a location that is clear. A ref flag for me is some indecision or a lack of clarity. If I were a client, I would think talking to an escort who is impersonal, insensitive or unprofessional would be a red flag.

Greetings all! As a newbie here, I wanted to say thanks for this site. I had no idea this place existed until I fell on it this week. Still learning, but appreciating the topics, the views (whether I agree or not) and the ability to share with others. Looking forward to learning more and offering input and ideas. Thanks to those who created the site and for the current administration. I'm sure I'll be a regular. Thank you.

Certainly glad to see and experience the lower inflationary environment. The market for July really responded to the news, despite the rise by the Fed of a 25 basis point increase. Hopefully no more. While always a worry about a recession, it looks like the rise in interest rates didn't create one. We'll see what the end of the year brings.