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If I were hiring a bottom and he said he was fine with barebacking, I would suspect that he's fine with finishing the same way. If you feel it appropriate to ask, ask in advance, I would never wait until your fucking him and then ask as you start to get close. Kind of breaks the mood and both parties should be in agreement in advance as to what is acceptable and if something isn't. When I'm with my top clients, both know what the expectations are.

Good enough!

Now, now, I thought this thread was going to be about Kansas. I have my Ruby slippers...haha

Hey Mr. S... I like your dirt! Thanks for including me last month when I was new. I've been enjoying it!

No rejection. I have overweight clients, some regulars. My job is to provide service in a professional manner with the client's interests at hand for a positive experience. If you were dirty or some issue beyond merely being overweight, the answer may be very different.

Glad the issue was resolved in what looks like a reasonable ending. Negative drama never helps and even I need to remind myself to steer clear and not insert my opinion into something that isn't my business to begin.

You are very nice, kind sir!

You realize, Mr. C, I'm going to have to talk to you when I prep fish for dinner in the future! LOL

I remember when I was in graduate school and I took some "sleep aids". It really caused me some challenges with wake up challenges and just hate taking any aids at all. Asprin might be an exception. I find your "noise machine" truly interesting. I don't have much of a problem with noise, but still find it intriguing. My issue is just shutting off my mind when I start thinking about something. As usual, Mr. S... you are on point and your input awesome!

Hey Rudy, what do you think of the "Calm" app? I've heard about it for several years and wondered if it was worth the money. Let me know what your app contains and if it is worth it?

Let me say, most initial openers from potential clients haven't ever been an issue for me. Most are polite, going direct to the point never offends me either. I think your approach sounds fine. Most initial contacts are brief, asking about the totality of service and asking rates at the end of that initial contact seems totally appropriate. I would hope most clients show the professionalism that you do.

I'm sure I wouldn't. You noticed, I said, "if there is evidence to show".

This is crazy stuff. RM should ban him immediately if he is outwardly being aggressive toward others (and evidence to show).

A "gentleman of the night".... interesting indeed!

Very true, thanks for the input.

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While I had never heard the name "provider" until I came to this site, there are a list of names that reference our work as a provider. "Escort", "whore" and "prostitute" among them. I've been called a "hooker" by a friend who was kidding around. I think in the beginning I was a littlesensitive to it, but now it all works. "If you can't handle the heat, probably shouldn't be in the kitchen" as they say. I think the terminology is the least of the concerns. I did have a client who liked to refer to "whore" as I spent time with him. Not sure if it was a point of degradation or he was just enamored with the term. The experience was fine, however. So for the providers (or for clients for that matter), do all these names mean the same thing to you and is "escort" the name you refer to us more than any other?

Sounds like a good plan.

Definitely C-in2 underwear is my thing.

Hope it was an awesome one. Work and swim time here!

I really like Arm & Hammer, glad it is getting some favorable airplay here.

I may have missed it as a new member of the site, but I only see "ignore user" options and not "block" a participant you'd rather eliminate. It looks like "ignore " doesn't work very well. Should there ever be an issue where one wants to "block" all communication and each user seeing the others information, is that possible? Thank you.

Great to see information on this topic. Always enjoy eating both Salmon and Catfish. Orange Roughy also ranks, but harder to get. Don't take a lot of time prepping food, but I can do it if I apply myself. A thread like this one is certainly encouraging!