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Well first, congrats on a very positive and exciting experience. Really like those that are "life growers" and are above all... positive! My thoughts are to be realistic. Hard to do, but being a logic prone person, I'd be logical in that he (and you) live apart and each have busy life with a lot of things (and people) going. That said, I'd see what happens. He may be very different and values meeting and getting to know you. I have to say, those extraordinary "personal touches" in life make it exciting. I would see what develops. Even a friendship is something special, it doesn't have to be some kind of ongoing sexual relationship. Congrats.

So I had inquiry about my escort services and was asked if this was for "general companionship" or if I was a "full service" escort? He stated he would be into general companionship (which I asked him to define), but wanted all services. He said he didn't just want a dinner date, that he has hired men that only go to dinner! We chatted and asked me some questions, but I wondered if there were any "without sex" escorts still out there? If so, are they really in demand? Curious?

I totally get the challenge with bookings at times. I have a dentist who is one of my longest term clients. He tends to cancel sometimes at the last minute. I just try and remember he had referred me to other clients and always has a good attitude. He also gives me a tip occasionally. I have had others that just cancel out, but part of the scene, I usually use the time in some other productive context.

Before becoming a member of this site, I would discourage it, but I think a relevant review of all facts is in order and making the right decision. I'd just make sure a trusted friend is aware of your visitor and take defensive steps in your home. (no money out or wallets and any jewelry or valuables secured.

It can be difficult for sure. I used to think a dissatisfied client would respond faster than one who wants to leave a good review. Fortunately I had several good comments. About to return to RM after a break and will need to go through the process again, but I'll encourage several regulars to leave a positive response. Good comments are important.

Welcome to the site, I hope you find it very helpful!

Well certainly one can be recommended and some good ones at that. There may be a licensing issue (what state are you located)?. FINRA requires that any advisor that you chat with needs to be licensed in your state and really with your investment type, probably Series 7 would be wise. That may help in suggesting someone.

When I wake up in the morning with wood, the urge to pound the bed and relieve it comes to mind.........LOL

Having a hard on in the morning is pretty typical, but it can be challenging..... when one needs to head to the bathroom with a full bladder LOL

I've never been in therapy for anything, but I would hope if I were, that I could talk to my therapist about anything. If you are seeing him and have a comfort level, I would hope you would anticipate how he might react. If I had anxiety about what might be said, I'd probably want to get a new therapist.

I've seen it both ways. I do find it interesting that my regular clients tend to follow the same pattern (i.e., those who get two full or queen beds continue to do so). I can say that 90% (or above) get hotel rooms in moderate or nice hotels. I had a client book me in a motel that was a bit less than. I didn't appreciate that, but I don't think he realized what he was doing, it was a novice as he explained.