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Glad to see you had a smooth booking in the first example. I appreciate those as well. What I found kind of odd was the 2nd example of the "bad booking". I think that shows a lack of consideration and appreciation for you and what you bring to the table (so to speak). He'd probably be a good candidate to be told "you follow this procedure, or no booking".

I had never tanned (other than a "Farner's tan) prior to the fall of 2016, but a photographer suggested I tan because of the photo shoots I do, both indoors and out. The difference was amazing and would never do a shoot unless I was tanned appropriately, especially in front of white walls or other light colored items in the photo.

Some simple accommodations are fine, maybe a special room or two outfitted with people who are grossly overweight. That's it. There are some people that are greatly overweight due to a medical issue or problem, not because they fill their face with food and get no exercise. I think we have to have some allowance for these folks. Those who are overweight because they opt for a "fat lifestyle" are another matter. Our job isn't to make their lives "comfortable", because they have made a deliberate decision to be unhealthy.. I counsel my non escort clients that a healthful balance is always the desired approach. Here, not sure we can separate one population from another.

Interesting. I know they do those at my salon, but have never done it. I enjoy time in the tanning booth, great way to chill out and relax.

You are most kind, A lot of hard work there. My landscape pond was one of my last projects last week.

I typically have "green hands" from grass stains and mowing. Does that count? LOL

I like the sock usage approach and I'd always take my ID with me, but limit as much as possible after. Maybe cash needed for the evening only.

Hey Scott! Didn’t fare well against Texas, but looking better this year!

Kyle, thanks very much. Really designed the whole place. I live in Wichita. It takes a lot of work. Taken this morning

Thanks very much, Nate. I think your comments are reasonable and make sense to me. We are in the same place as we always seem to be with our personal messages. I did mention to the client that Iin the future, I'd prefer things always to be discussed in advance. Being a structured person, I'm that way with most things like this. He was concerned he had acted out of bounds when we spoke this morning and I told him he did not. We had talked about it and he did say he'd bring his boyfriend along "sometime". My point in this thread was that I was pleased that I could experience a little surprise and react confidently about how the booking would flow. It was fine. But I would call this a standout exception to the general rule.

I wanted to take a minute and recognize many of our state parks. I have been to many of our national parks, especially in the western part of the US, but many of the local (state) run parks can be gems. Being a Kansan, I am quite familiar with the parks in our state and some are amazing. Kanopolis and Wilson State Park are my favorites. I have done a series of fitness photo shoots for my weekly podcast program in many and am into hiking and trails. The photo below is from the El Dorado State Park.

I would have answered in the negative, but the reality is, long hair can be intriguing, like anything else. I think it all depends on teh man and how it looks, uniquely, on him. I do have one client with long hair and hie looks great with it.

Every person is different. My suggestion is that you have a consultation with him. If you can't determine by a general conversation, be direct. You won't get anywhere by guessing. My preferences are likely very different than his.

Had taken a partial break from Escort duties and my RM ad (and new clients) over the last 2 months to get moved into my new home and do some major landscaping work, which is a big interest of mine. Took a week off from my office as well. Several members ask if I would post a photo. Back to regular work next week.

Apology accepted. Use of constructive words would have been better. And I expect I will last on this board. Thanks.

The fact he has been in this business for some time isn't relevant to me with regard to his ridiculous comment. Neither of you know me, know how I relate to my clients (of various kinds, I don't just escort). To make a comment about "people (plural) "walking all over me" is an over the top comment and without basis. This conversation between you and I is over.

I like much of what I have heard here. I will certainly consider the "incall" at home. If I have worked with the client over a period of time and have a positive synergy, I can see where this can be a very valid answer.