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I'll ask for sure

LOL, he didn't get that detailed. But he still has my contact info.....

You sound like a great client!

He just seemed resentful that he was told they could handle him and come to find out they could not. What he wanted from me was some assurances. Well I'm very capable, but how would I know for sure.....LOL

I'm getting a lot of experience. And the comfort level has improved.

So I was contacted by a potential client that will be in my city next month about a possible booking. He's a top, large cock and stated that he was only interested in booking me if I could be effective in bottoming for him based on his size. I've had clients who are larger ask me if I'm OK with that, but I've never had someone ever say that "booking me was based on my ability to take size". I asked him if he has had other providers that haven't been able and he said he has and they don't get paid. It takes me a lot to be speechless, but I decided this might be one I'd rather pass. Has this ever happened to other escorts on this site?

Hey guys, so I'm thinking of finally taking a trip to Hawaii with a friend of mine. We originally planned it for 2020, but then COVID hit and everything went to hell. I'm planning on cashing in some of my credit card points and after a little review I can see I lost (not gained ground, even with purchases since). I've always heard that a trip to Hawaii was best planned in October or early November during the off season. Just wanted to get your take on: 1. Is my understanding correct that October and early November is best? 2. Good hotels to stay, that are cost effective. I don't want something that is dirt cheap, but a good value for the money and reasonable. 3. I know nothing about the gay district in Honolulu. What are some good places to see in the gay district? I may decide to do some escort business while there, we'll see. Wanted to get my travel down in advance. Thoughts? Thanks much.

This is an interesting topic. Let me say that with some clients, I naturally just don't get off. It is about the client and not me. It is also helpful for those days when we have multiple clients in a day. If you would expect your provider to get off with you, I'd make sure to communicate that with him in advance. It might be the kind of thing where he doesn't book a lot of clients in advance so he can perform up to your expectations and a way that is meaningful..

I would concur. Always prudent for us to be aware of legal action of this kind and what can be and is out there. I think with gay clientele from RM, it would be a more expensive operation to prosecute those in a gay sting operation. I also agree with the comment above that it serves the politics of right wingers to show they are "large and in charge".

I would agree, special foods can be awesome and a great treat. My point is, I always eat in moderation. More the amounts than the food at hand. I like all fish. Had a catfish dinner (a little atypical for me) and it was fantastic. But again, ate at the level my fitness goals require.

So here we have 2 endorsements for this product. I've never heard of it, but I will certainly check it out for sure. Thank you for some great input!

Was just at Red Lobster last week with a very nice client. I had the Salmon bowl. If you have a chance to go to Red Lobster, definitely consider that. I think it was $17.49, but damn, it tasted good. No real opinion on the "Endless Shrimp" option. It sounds good. I do have an opinion on "buffets" in general. The encourage the fat to get fatter. I go to a Chinese restaurant regularly and eat a plate and a few scraps extra. My plate is never piled. I've seen people put away enough food for me for 3 meals easy. I'm the perfect "pigeon" for a buffet. I pay the price, but I never overeat. My dietary approach with fitness almost never allows overeating.

Well I can say I've never attended any of them. I have no doubt it would be an interesting eye opener for this Kansas kid. My gut reaction is I'd be very curious and want to see what's up. If there is drug usage, I'd be turned off, but I'd have fun checking it all out. After one of the events, I'd hazard to guess that would be enough.

What you are saying is absolutely correct, at least in my case. He seems to be having a great time. I definitely find it a physically challenging experience...lol

So I have a client that had encouraged me to play the role of a sub during my bookings with him. He isn't a new client and I knew he had previous relationships that could best be described as Dom/ Sub. He wanted to know if I would be comfortable with the role of "sub" for our encounters. I am vers in many ways, but I wasn't sure if I could pull it off. I'm a Type A personality, dynamic and am used to taking the initiative in most situations. No, not much like a sub. But part of being a good escort is the ability to change up and explore new avenues so I said I'd do it. Perhaps a bit awkward the first outing, but I have found I actually enjoy some of what he does and encourages me to do to make him happy. One key point is, I have broadened my horizon and experience by participating and for that I'm pleased. The client appears to be happy as well.

I'd probably want to know in advance so to meet all expectations. Honesty is the best scene, so I wouldn't hold back with your opinion.

So long before I thought about escorting, I appreciated the value of referrals with my daytime job. A referral is almost as good as doing business with a client. When I got into this business, "escorting by referral" was a great way to get "immersed" so to speak and it gives a real positive sense the booking right from the beginning. I still ask for referrals and love when I'm told "a client referred me". For the providers, how often are you referred, do you actively seek referrals? I realize it needs to be approached carefully. For clients, do you like when you get "a referral" to a provider based on a positive experience by others?

I have a face picture on this site and certainly have had one on my RM profile. Now if someone doesn't that's their prerogative. He might not get very many inquiries, but certainly their right to do so.

Once I decided to get into the business, it was pretty wild. Most of my early clients were "referrals" from the three friends who encouraged me to do it. I learned, was comfortable and was busy with more. Joining RM was just a part of the process over time. For me, this journey has been remarkably positive, I can only count a few negative experiences and I always try and see the "learning process" out of each. What was missing for me was the ability to chat with others with like experiences and share. This site has certainly helped with that. I've been impressed with the professionalism and dedication by the board to this site's success.

Interesting topic for sure. As a provider, I would certainly want to be considered for a second chance had their been a problem. Any person can have a physical challenge during "work time". In this case, I would think the provider should be aware of the earlier concerns and have a chance to redeem himself. Good for you for thinking this way. I hope you will take the time to report back if you do have that second opportunity!

Looking forward to all this stuff, pool time and hikes, sounds great. Shopping is great as well.

Well said, I started this journey with 3 major supporters who had encouraged me to get in the "business" and then finally did. I have a busy agenda each day, but my work in this "field" goes on as a major sideline to my day. When I stumbled upon this site last month, I was thrilled. Some great guys here who have reached out and shared their experiences, all different and all important. If I have questions on a personal basis, I am comfortable with reaching out to those. Looking forward to chatting up more and meeting in person with various social events.

Interesting update. I would think anyone charging extra "for the facility" (as an add on) would need to be disclosed in advance. I can see it could make sense, especially in cities with limited space or high rates due to conventions or other events that limit hotel space. Since we all disclose our hourly rates, any additions should be made clear in the beginning I would think.

First, congrats on taking the initiative and working out to the degree you do. Few people are driven when it comes to health and exercise and so I'm always impressed when I meet people who take it seriously. So have you had professional training with a trainer and been given a professional evaluation? My suggestion is that you seek out a trainer with a strong background in dietetics (needn't be a registered dietician, but someone with a background who is also certified as a personal trainer . You have to be comfortable, but the point they need to understand you, your health background and lifestyle and get some prudent evaluation based on you. Guessing isn't a good idea and may seem frustrating. I'm all about getting input from 2 trainers with my specific goals, but let their expertise work for you. Yes, it will cost money, but if you are serious, gaining a support system like this won't only give you important information, but some education on the goalsetting process ahead. Make it positive and I wish you all the luck in obtaining your goals!