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You did nothing offensive. Unfortunately, there isn't a "preset" etiquette regarding this sort of thing. I have seen clients of mine outside of bookings and most I have waved or spoken to. If a client speaks to me, I'm never uncomfortable. I know a lot of people from different areas of my life and to wave to someone else would mean nothing to someone I just happened to be with. If questioned (as I have been) I say, "he's just a client", and we move on. My suggestion is that if this bothers you, you might ask the provider if seen, how would you prefer I act? That way, everybody knows and it isn't an issue, although I just don't like the "undertone" of it personally.

So there was a discussion in the "Age Shaving" thread about expectations and what clients may want or expect from providers. Some mentioned that "age shaving" helps some to fit into the fantasy of what a client may be looking for in an experience with a provider. Interesting discussion and this thread goes a little beyond the former. The reality is, clients seek very different things from providers. Sure, many might want the young twink, but others may seek a more mature provider, others may appreciate a provider life experience, confidence and education for conversation. Some client may even seek out a provider with specialties in certain areas. So this thread asks two questions. 1) If you are an escort or provider, what do you bring to the table that a cleint may find attractive, satisfying or desirable and 2) If you are a client, what do you seek from your provider and why would you hire him again? I'll talk about my own later in the thread.

Now I'm disappointed, I thought maybe a new "fountain of youth" had been discovered!! lol Seriously, I'd rather just give your age and be the absolute best you can be.

Well said.

I usually don't pay much attention to them, except to say hello. I'll have to check the food out more closely!

Well I can see why the OP has an issue with the process, but here's the reality. In this business, you have to expect some "ghosts" occasionally. People who book and back out last minute. I don't usually have a problem with a regular client doing that. Some new clientele will naturally pull it. If you have an RM account, you likely have nudes. I always have had. I have no problem with a prospective client seeing me nude via photo before we meet. I suppose I'd rather he pay for it via "Only fans", but I don't have an OF account at this point. Limit the nude photos to one or two if needed, always make sure the photos are recent, clear and honest and move along.

I have no problem with charging $300 in Kansas.

I've been briefed on the event, it would be awesome to attend next year!

Likewise, I have no doubt we share many of the same thoughts and ideas on a number of issues. Make it an awesome weekend!

Great comments, V_Marco!

Part of the reason I waited 6 months for my "Jason" garden tub. 2 people fit very nicely here....

Bring on the main events! LOL

Taken a tub? It can be very sensual in a tub, Mr S!

So what do you enjoy the most, bathtub or shower? So I like my showers in my home, but love to relax in my garden tub. I’m not adverse to sex in either place so my favorite depends on my mood and if I’m with a client, what they desire. You?

If I were hiring a bottom and he said he was fine with barebacking, I would suspect that he's fine with finishing the same way. If you feel it appropriate to ask, ask in advance, I would never wait until your fucking him and then ask as you start to get close. Kind of breaks the mood and both parties should be in agreement in advance as to what is acceptable and if something isn't. When I'm with my top clients, both know what the expectations are.

Good enough!

Now, now, I thought this thread was going to be about Kansas. I have my Ruby slippers...haha

Hey Mr. S... I like your dirt! Thanks for including me last month when I was new. I've been enjoying it!

No rejection. I have overweight clients, some regulars. My job is to provide service in a professional manner with the client's interests at hand for a positive experience. If you were dirty or some issue beyond merely being overweight, the answer may be very different.

Glad the issue was resolved in what looks like a reasonable ending. Negative drama never helps and even I need to remind myself to steer clear and not insert my opinion into something that isn't my business to begin.

You are very nice, kind sir!

You realize, Mr. C, I'm going to have to talk to you when I prep fish for dinner in the future! LOL

I remember when I was in graduate school and I took some "sleep aids". It really caused me some challenges with wake up challenges and just hate taking any aids at all. Asprin might be an exception. I find your "noise machine" truly interesting. I don't have much of a problem with noise, but still find it intriguing. My issue is just shutting off my mind when I start thinking about something. As usual, Mr. S... you are on point and your input awesome!

Hey Rudy, what do you think of the "Calm" app? I've heard about it for several years and wondered if it was worth the money. Let me know what your app contains and if it is worth it?

Let me say, most initial openers from potential clients haven't ever been an issue for me. Most are polite, going direct to the point never offends me either. I think your approach sounds fine. Most initial contacts are brief, asking about the totality of service and asking rates at the end of that initial contact seems totally appropriate. I would hope most clients show the professionalism that you do.