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I am not on here quite as often as last year, but I missed it. Always nice to check in.

I saw this yesterday, very sad indeed.

I have seen this in practice here. Probably for a variety of reasons. First and above all, things in writing can misconstrued very easily, especially if not clear in the first place. Probably wise to consider all comments and response carefully when placing to make sure all clear. Secondly, with differing points of view, experience and focus, very easily to misunderstand what a poster is trying to say. Added to that, people are people, we all come with our own challenges. Some may be resentful or jealous based on perception. I try never to take criticism personally, but I will say I have seen it at play here.

Great to hear the story and certainly sorry to hear he's retiring to Florida. You never know what possibilities may have been had. On the other hand, he gave you years of fantasy and appreciation. Enjoy it for what it is. Some men never get this kind of long term fantasy and you had it for decades. I'd of course want to give him a going away present.

As a provider, I've never had that experience, but my photos are clear and I always try and be concise with all representations. I've only had one experience with a client and a cancellation of a booking. He was 45 minutes late and I had another obligation. 15 minutes can be acceptable (with notice provided via text), but to show up that late. I just told him the truth and that was it.

I do have a friend who does this at his home. He teaches fitness and is nationally known for his focus on long term health issues. I found it curious when he shared some of his hobbies, this being one of them. I was a bit surprised, but he explained how and why. I have come to the conclusion it helps him (or hobbies in general) to be more balanced as an individual. I'm a gardener and work landscaping as one of my hobbies. It all does help.

Interesting conversation, thanks for taking the time to discuss. As a provider, I've had some very "real" intimacy with my clients. I think it is more about the connection between people than whether one pays or not. I really make an effort to convey certain things during the time spent. I think if a provider doesn't care about the experience of his client, he shouldn't be an escort or provider. I'd encourage you to consider exploring this. Whether you pay or not is between both of you. Don't set up expectations, but enjoy the experience with an open mind. You never know what you will find out there. Be optimistic, but realistic.

Interesting information to analyze and review. It does seem to make sense. Would be intriguing to compare "notes" and data from year to year and see about changes.

Always important to remember those who sacrificed. Wet weekend here in the middle of the country. A busy weekend. Wishes to all for a great holiday.

So I have discussed my interest in travel throughout the US Southwest and visiting a number of National Parks. Love New Mexico, Colorado and Utah. It all started with my parents and our visitation of numerous national parks in the west when I was a small child. Now I not only want to return, but to explore more. I talked about my visit of 2 Utah national parks last summer, "Bryce Canyon" and "Zion". We usually do a fitness photo shoot as well as I'm into that. So I've been talking "Yellowstone" and the return for the last 3 years. Weather and infrastructure in the park were problems and so I just decided to go elsewhere. I was there when I was 5 years old and will never forget Old Faithful and the smell. Some things you never forget. So, want to hear from others about what to see when at the park, areas I might want to consider for fitness photo shots and best entrances into the park. I might say the input from a certain member last year was VERY important to my enjoyment of Zion National park. It was all awesome. Thoughts please!

Interesting conversation. My own situation maybe wasn't that atypical. While in college and law school, I basically chose to ignore it. Maybe "not accept" the reality with some sort of inner explanation. We all do that it seems with this or that. As I got into work I certain event came up that made me realize I wanted to address this part of my life and so I did. I don't think I ever have really been one to "worry about others finding out" kind of thing. But I also don't feel the need to make everybody around me aware of my sexual orientation. I do my thing and I live my life with confidence.

With only catching a small part of the "facts" with this case, I'm still probably not very articulate, although certainly am aware of the criminal charges alleged. I am aware of the apparent role of the male prostitutes. I was curious to see if there were any gay male prostitutes involved in some manner. Definitely going to catch who is testifying and who both the prosecution and defense call as witnesses.

So while I'm a very political person, I do my best to keep any politics out of it. Professionally it doesn't make sense to discuss politics and that extends to my escort work on the side. I don't need to know the political views of a client. There are exceptions. I have 2 regular clients that do talk politics and while I may join in, the conversation is limited. We have other things to discuss ..... and to do.

For years I would always say, "I've never spent any money toward a lottery ticket" and then with the jackpot at some unbelievable level, I bought two. Haven't ever since.

I think most of the answers here are helpful. To be a "tip" is at the discretion of the client. As a provider, if I see a regular client and know I'm doing a good job, a tip is certainly appreciated, but not absolutely required. I have different situations. One client has to reschedule quite a bit and always gives me a tip as his way of thanking me for extra effort toward making that booking happen. He's told me so. I have other regular clients that tip me simply because they know I do my very best to see they are satisfied. That's important to me. I am not offended if a client doesn't tip me and know it's more a financial decision.

Sounds like a great time! I would like to be there and meet everybody. Just a really busy period and with Monday being the tax deadline, just can't get away! Looking forward to meeting several in the year ahead and hope this can be planned for next year. Have a fantastic time!

I would welcome that, Steve!

I was hired to mow a client's lawn shirtless. Happy to do it. I'm very much into landscaping and mowing shirtless is very comfortable. There was a reason to his "madness" , however. It wasn't really about having his yard mowed. He wanted a video and photos of me doing it and displayed them to friends. Kind of funny.

The stock market issue has created issues, but maybe not in the way most here think. It is taking me away from as much time with escort clients. My time and attention has had to be elsewhere, although I haven't noticed any less bookings on the escort side. It is definitely a topic of discussion even with my escort clientele. It can be challenging to discuss without politics and that... isn't a very good thing , just as on here site!

What a topic...lol. I think the reason it appears to be so unattractive is it runs against the grain on what is appropriate. A "hole" picture might be getting the "cart before the horse" so to speak. Some may say that "holes" are not all that different, while the men who have them may vary widely. Who knows? For me personally, I'm not offended, but I do think they should come with other photos, not as a "stand alone"....lol

Well first, from a positive viewpoint. Great that you decided to explore this and took the initiative. As a provider, my immediate reaction was thinking you went way too far too fast. Book the dude for an hour, communicate what is expected and make sure you have a fantastic time for an hour. Gradually expand, add or "explore" with more time as you gain experience and confidence about what is important to you and communicate that to the provider. I would encourage you to continue to hire, make sure you know what you want out of it and no doubt hire those with references. Talk to them, make it simple in the beginning and I'm confident you will be satisfied.

As a provider I swallow for several reasons: First I'm asked (and/ or expected) to do so by clients and I have no objection. I'm also quite turned on by doing so. It pleases them, they are satisfied and I find it quite a turn on My embrace of their satisfaction. Taste can very from quite good to a bit less than, depends on their diet.

Very interesting topic of conversation. Never participated in anything like that as a provider, but certainly have been asked.

Greasy hair. That always is a deal braker for me. Not sure why.

Interesting conversation. I could certainly "do it" with someone who was less than attractive provided he was clean and no drugs. There are various definitions of clean. I can handle sweat odors without any issues, but if the client wasn't "clean" I wouldn't proceed. I've never had that experience. I usually talk about my own prep and readiness when I talk to a potential new client. A client should always expect a provider to be clean and prepped and the same in reverse.