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So the holidays are fastly approaching. I've noticed that clients, especially those who are regulars, spend a greater amount of time than typical just chatting with me about their lives, families, friends and their state of affairs. I always take the time to visit with them. I ask questions that are appropriate for good conversation. Some seen very appreciative of that time spent. Just visiting, generally after our regular activities. I've found most are very generous with me and the time spent. One had an incredible flower arrangement and gift sent to my home. I didn't know for 3 months who had sent it. For the clients, do you show a greater degree of appreciation during the holidays? For the providers, any difference with your clients over the rest of the year?

When the topic comes up with clients, I characterize inflation as a "reduction", but not eliminated. I think the Fed continues to adopt a "hawkish stance" with regard to the raising of interest rates even 25 basis points. The economy is buzzing, although I missed the core report on Friday for October. We'll see what happens.

I've done it once and it was a great experience. One of the participants is a current client and the other is a provider I had not met previously. The client (who initiated the idea) talked to us individually and I actually met the other provider in advance. I knew of the client's interest. I would say good communication and chemistry really added to the experience. I still see and talk to the other provider and anticipate some mutual work again.

Communication is key and certainly many ways to get confused. I agree, the aim is to be on time and that may mean being early. A prompt arrival always leaves a good impression on a client. Conversely, if the client is late, I try and be patient and flexible.

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For me, it really varies upon the day and the time of day. Being a structured individual, I like advance planning and notice, sometimes it just isn't possible to address a client's requirements if the focus is on an "immediate booking". I have made it during the middle of a business day. Interesting to show up for a client in a shirt and tie.

I think that's awesome!! Congrats on a great tradition and really giving back at a tough time of year for many!

Thanksgiving is always a great time, one of my favorite holidays of the year. Always a family event. It looks like there may be a rather large meal at my home with family and several friends invited. My contribution is limited to location and "directing traffic", along with Christmas decorations. Looking forward!

I get irritated with Kroger's special pricing. You ahve the regular price, a sale price (and a price with card). Now "digital price". Just give me the damn stuff!

Well from a provider's perspective, I'd prefer to avoid either. However, I have client's who do smoke and vape. I just ask it not be around me and that they are prepped before a booking.

Ah the topics we talk about! Some can, but my own fitness experience would present a guy with a hard body and nothing bounces...... well except for that which is meant for flexibility. lol

I am of the approach that knowledge is power with decision making. The problem in some of these jurisdictions is that nothing is clear. I would suggest caution and reason when going forward , whether the law has changed or not.

I've been asked several times by potential clients to meet me and chat about my escort services. I generally don't charge so long as it is local and if the proposed client wants to buy a drink or lunch, I'm totally open. From those I have had, almost all have been successful and all but one have booked me after. The one that didn't was in town on business and hasn't been back as of yet. We'll see. The bottom line is, the business is yours, if you want to make the time or not, it's a decision you make. I don't htink there is a "right or wrong", but what makes sense to you.

Halloween is always a varied kind of event here in Kansas. Sometimes warm and pleasant, sometimes chilly (as this year). If on a weekend, maybe a party or a great social activity to attend. Some years I dress up and have a little fun with trick or treaters. This year will likely just be a "hand out the candy" approach. My beagle, "Gabe" will be dressed as my "assistant" to celebrate. He always likes to greet visitors. You come to my door, be prepared. You might get get a treat or a prank.... Have a great Halloween, what will you be doing tonight?

Members 525 Posted just now No doubt they would. I wonder if kissing or a blow job could be incorporated as a means of compensation. haha

I tend to like my example of a plaintiff at trail without a cause of action or evidence and the judge just throws it out of court....lol

Everyone has their own views. We just disagree on this one.

Very sad indeed. Thoughts and prayers to his family.

I suppose anything is possible, but for a provider not to kiss or provide oral is like an attorney going into court with the plaintiff asserting a cause of action without evidence. Kind of lame. Both could be "laughed out"....

My only issue is whether I have enough candy. Not expecting a huge number of kids, much like my previous neighborhood, but I'll be ready. I'll have one of my beagles dressed up as well, we are the reception committee.

Other areas of my business life have an effect....lol

I think a consultation is appropriate, even if it is something as simple as an exchange of messages. I realize some clients may want to discuss by phone, text or even in person. I've had several face to face discussions with potential clients in person (one via zoom) about my work as a provider. I should not have any objection and take the time to make sure the client is comfortable and all reasonable questions are addressed.

I can understand your approach with regard to health issues and you are certainly prudent to take care of yourself first. I believe for my own peace of mind, I need to start with a "healthy slate" and know I'm doing the best for all concerned. As far as meeting with the proposed client, no I didn't charge. I never charge when meeting with a client about proposed services. I've had them buy me a drink or lunch or even dinner, but I have never charged a client for a consultation.

I would discourage this kind of contact. It would be easy to view it an intrusive. A critic might observe that you are placing your desire to contact him above his need for privacy. I'm not concurring with that sentiment, but understand, it isn't the normal approach to contact a provider and I certainly would encourage the "normal path". If he doesn't respond, I'd find someone who will.