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No dude, irresponsible financial behavior like this isn't a "fetish" in my book, its just ill advised and contrary to ones financial health long term. Enough said.

Quite interesting situation. My only thought is the importance of communication. Since you are getting to know him along the way, communication at all levels is vital for success. "Tabling it" was the only error in my view. I'd "reopen the case" and try and nail down all the major points BDFORE starting the trip. Sounds like you are both reasonable and open to the others opinions and concerns. No doubt you can make it an incredible experience. Make it work for a better one in the future too!

I think this runs contrary to every fiber in my being... based on education, career and common sense.

As a provider, I would be beyond embarrassed as well. A couple of things I might mention. He could have cleaned himself up very thoroughly in advance and bodily function being what it is..... it cam happen! One personal experience I had. I was meeting with a great client ad we were involved. I'm very clean and he had me in several positions while bottoming. While in one, I developed a hamstring knot, which hurt like holy hell. We had to stop. I realized I couldn't continue and he wasn't happy. That was in June of 2021. Even if I could have continued with the client, I probably would have had to check everything as the hamstring issue caused a bunch of stress on me internally. I could have had the same problem your provider did in that case .. perhaps. The good thing is, I saw the client several more times all of which were successful and he was very happy. Sometimes there can be exceptions.

Most cards are a thing of the past. I send out 100 imprinted cards, but personally sign them all in connection with a separate career than my work as a provider. I do about 25 personal Christmas cards. Many people just don't do them anymore with postage costs and the price of a good quality Christmas card. I do it because it makes me feel good and I always go the extra mile....... and it's Christmas.

As a provider, I certainly don't look at a client in a derogatory manner or as an ATM. I'm a professional (by nature). You gain clientele's trust by doing a good job with repetition. You show up with a positive attitude and on time. You approach and complete the time booked with energy. If you do a good job, you develop a reputation, especially if one is honest, candid, communicate well and show empathy toward his client. And by the way, this holds with any career path, not just a provider and his booking.

Not into the PNP scene. If you are not, I'd just bypass those who list it. It is your choice on what you want with your booking. There are many other escort options available in which that isn't a preference.

As a provider, being hired in the middle east might be interesting, but the reality is, not worth the risk.

I remember the discussion, I believe I initiated it! Happy holidays!

Busy holiday period with clients, but I am "on vacation" as a provider on Christmas day. I usually have requests for the day, but I do think the holiday should be reserved for rest and time with family and/ or friends. Many wishes to all for an awesome Christmas and a positive and successful 2025!

I have been asked to provide change once and I did so. It wasn't a big deal. Generally the client has it counted and ready.

My suggestion is that you find out why he was in prison and the circumstances. "Being in prison" can mean a whole lot of different things. The assistant manager at my gym was in prison for something related to theft. He is very good at what he does and we get along tine. Of course he has a regular job, not an escort. I'd get facts and talk to him about his background and what happened. Make your decision with eyes open.

They like me, I know they appreciate my time and efforts. They give me tips for time and work completed.

You are awesome, thanks for that.

It shows nothing except someone who wants to create an issue when in this instance there isn’t one.

You remind me of an opposing counsel trying to argue his client's position in court. You certainly have your opinion and I have mine. I provide the service, One needs to be aware of emotional attachments and be candid and straightforward about undue personal attachments. In my business it isn't a problem. Enough said.

Dude, don't overstate the situation. I never said they had "fallen" for me in any way. A degree of emotional attachment isn't "falling for someone". They are regular clients and I remind them of the relationship. I don't manipulate them, I'm straight forward. One of the recently asked me "if it was appropriate for them to give me a small gift for Christmas". My response was a tip was plenty. Be upfront and straightforward, not a manipulator.

As a provider, I'm certainly aware that several of my regular clients have some degree of emotional attachment. I'm a professional person by nature (and via regular career), so it can be an interesting "tightrope" to walk to do a job, be balanced and logical and provide a very personal service. Think about it, it really is a contrast and to navagate it appropriately can require talent. I am not into drama, I'm there to provide a positive service that means something to the recipient.

My first reaction after hearing about it initially was "how sad and what a waste". The CEO sounds like a great family man and the accused sounds like he had much to accomplish in life. You wonder about why this happens? I've heard the term "off the grid" mentioned about his last several months. I have no doubt part of his actions were fashioned by conversations online. One question.... what the hell did he do for a living? I get he earned his Masters degree. Was he employed?

Well let me say, if you choose to hire, it should be based on your comfort level and desire to do so. I have many clients in their 60's and I am kept quite busy! You are not too "old" and if a provider judges one by age, he's no professional. Good luck and hope you do.

I'm confident all will go well based on our history and skills on the communication of expectations.

He is paying me and we've had the discussions about my going the work for the time expected. He understands (and suggested) interested parties give me their phone numbers for further interest later. I think we are of the same mind on expectations.

A regular client who is known for his parties and social gatherings is having a New Year's party and has ask if I would be willing to serve as one of the "greeters" for guests. My attire is a speedo and wear a big smile and welcome guests to the party and direct them to food, beverages, restrooms and other needs. I will also be delivering things like drinks and requests. I haven't done this previously in this large a gathering. I was told that not "if", but "when" I'm ask about spending time alone with guests, I should give my number out, but continue to do the assigned duties. Makes sense, but is it really that easy? I'm sure there are providers here that do or have done this kind of thing. I've done small parties, but not something with in excess of a hundred guests. Thoughts?

Well to start, I think how much one can "take" depends on a number of factors, including how comfortable the escort is and the location and means of taking the cock. I'm very flexible and when bottoming can accommodate a large cock, part of the reason I bottom more in the first place. I enjoy it. Orally I do well too, but that took more practice over time.

I've never asked for a deposit, but generally if I have to travel to a client, I have had some dialogue in advance and feel comfortable in going without any sort of deposit or money in advance. I can see the alternative, I can see when it would seem to make sense.