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For years I would always say, "I've never spent any money toward a lottery ticket" and then with the jackpot at some unbelievable level, I bought two. Haven't ever since.

I think most of the answers here are helpful. To be a "tip" is at the discretion of the client. As a provider, if I see a regular client and know I'm doing a good job, a tip is certainly appreciated, but not absolutely required. I have different situations. One client has to reschedule quite a bit and always gives me a tip as his way of thanking me for extra effort toward making that booking happen. He's told me so. I have other regular clients that tip me simply because they know I do my very best to see they are satisfied. That's important to me. I am not offended if a client doesn't tip me and know it's more a financial decision.

Sounds like a great time! I would like to be there and meet everybody. Just a really busy period and with Monday being the tax deadline, just can't get away! Looking forward to meeting several in the year ahead and hope this can be planned for next year. Have a fantastic time!

I would welcome that, Steve!

I was hired to mow a client's lawn shirtless. Happy to do it. I'm very much into landscaping and mowing shirtless is very comfortable. There was a reason to his "madness" , however. It wasn't really about having his yard mowed. He wanted a video and photos of me doing it and displayed them to friends. Kind of funny.

The stock market issue has created issues, but maybe not in the way most here think. It is taking me away from as much time with escort clients. My time and attention has had to be elsewhere, although I haven't noticed any less bookings on the escort side. It is definitely a topic of discussion even with my escort clientele. It can be challenging to discuss without politics and that... isn't a very good thing , just as on here site!

What a topic...lol. I think the reason it appears to be so unattractive is it runs against the grain on what is appropriate. A "hole" picture might be getting the "cart before the horse" so to speak. Some may say that "holes" are not all that different, while the men who have them may vary widely. Who knows? For me personally, I'm not offended, but I do think they should come with other photos, not as a "stand alone"....lol

Well first, from a positive viewpoint. Great that you decided to explore this and took the initiative. As a provider, my immediate reaction was thinking you went way too far too fast. Book the dude for an hour, communicate what is expected and make sure you have a fantastic time for an hour. Gradually expand, add or "explore" with more time as you gain experience and confidence about what is important to you and communicate that to the provider. I would encourage you to continue to hire, make sure you know what you want out of it and no doubt hire those with references. Talk to them, make it simple in the beginning and I'm confident you will be satisfied.

As a provider I swallow for several reasons: First I'm asked (and/ or expected) to do so by clients and I have no objection. I'm also quite turned on by doing so. It pleases them, they are satisfied and I find it quite a turn on My embrace of their satisfaction. Taste can very from quite good to a bit less than, depends on their diet.

Very interesting topic of conversation. Never participated in anything like that as a provider, but certainly have been asked.

Greasy hair. That always is a deal braker for me. Not sure why.

Interesting conversation. I could certainly "do it" with someone who was less than attractive provided he was clean and no drugs. There are various definitions of clean. I can handle sweat odors without any issues, but if the client wasn't "clean" I wouldn't proceed. I've never had that experience. I usually talk about my own prep and readiness when I talk to a potential new client. A client should always expect a provider to be clean and prepped and the same in reverse.

Well congrats for losing the weight. I would hope you would do it for your own health, confidence and fitness and for attention by others. I know that positive remarks and work can help with confidence, so I recognize the "hand in hand" approach they may take. My suggestion is to continue the work and challenge yourself to be more outdoing with others. Be friendly, be supportive and you will gain more the same. Being helpful to those who are trying to improve their heath, is of itself, very helpful. I'm confident you will gain more by giving to others. Just my thoughts.

I think it would be interesting for the original OP to define "later in life". For me I was in my late 20's when I came out. A variety of reasons, I was in college and graduate school, additional education and then had to apply myself in establishing my career. I didn't make time for my sexuality and I had made the decision I wanted to ignore it. What changed my mind? I decided I was worth exploring who I am as a person, being gay a part of it. That was interesting and fun.

It can be frustrating. They don't seem to be very reliable employees. I've found they seem to be in a world of their own and things like job responsibilities seem to be a secondary consideration. That said, there are some that are dedicated and I do find conversation with some of them enlightening. Some no.

I think it's very fair to say that as a provider, my "sexpectations" have been exceeded by reality. I rarely have letdowns and what I have learned and experienced is far greater than what I would have expected. No complaints. Sure, you can have a disappointment with a client, but use that to learn.

It was a tragedy for us in Kansas. Many heartbroken families and the Wichita community was certainly very sad. My thoughts and prayers to all those involved, those lost and their family and friends.

When I'm with a client, we do what he prefers. Most of the time there is little music or something very subtle. For me personally, music can enhance or distract from the mood at hand. The atmosphere and scene also makes a difference. Music can also help create or advance an intense session if done correctly. I would never rule it in or out!

Well to start, this thread isn't "stupid". Escorts want to make money and clients want to hire them. Health and illness is a potential stumbling block to both, especially at this time of year. Very basic discussion and I think timely for many. On my own background, I don't "claim" anything. I have never said what my full time career is in any post on this site. I'm a part time escort. and I do it because I choose to. My comments reflect a legal background, a business, investment and fitness background. Definitely multifaceted and that background affects about every post I comment on here. You are certainly entitled to your own opinion, but the term "stupid" seems more apt to somebody who isn't clear what they are talking about or don't have their facts.... um, yeah.

So I am generally a very healthy person and strive to remain so, from fitness, exercise and sleep. I did get my annual flu shot when I had my regular "prep' review and HIV testing.. I think it makes sense for anybody, provider for sure to ensure they are good health...... but we are in the winter and at that time of year.... Recently picked up what is likely a severe cold virus. Sneezing, coughing and sounded worse. My approach is always to notify those clients who have booked me and let them know I'm not up to par. Most are very patient (especially my regulars) and reschedule. The last thing I ever want to do is show up for a booking and sound terrible. Fortunately I'm feeling better, but my Hawaii vacation has to be postponed. I would rather not meet someone new for a booking than create a rough first impression. Thoughts from clients on this topic. Just curious. Be safe and healthy!

I’ve actually never been on Grindr. I would likely not take it seriously as a provider, the same for Adam4Adam. RM is about the most credible forum currently for the client and provider. I think there are likely other places for the provider to get their information out, but I’d stick with RM for meaningful discussion for booking.

Not really interested in getting a Mastercard. I don't want additional credit cards, it affects your credit! The whole thing isn't very helpful for sure. I'd rather provide service for membership.

I think the client's attitude, his sense of confidence and ability to communicate that confidence I find very attractive. I have plenty of confidence with the clients I see, but I am always attracted to a guy who knows what he wants from the booking and is smooth in letting me know his wants, desires and when he finds me satisfying and stimulating. The sex is generally awesome. Physically I try and appreciate all. It isn't a "comparison" with me and my attributes, I just appreciate what the client brings to the table.

I don’t think they were out of style to begin with. One of my many assets that clients like and appreciate!

Definitely a tragedy for all involved. With climate change, dangers like that presented are enhanced for sure. I think anyone living in the area needs to reassess the dangers. There are dangers living anywhere, earthquakes, tornadoes and more. This seems to be something that is changing and clearly an "eyes open" approach to what might happen is in order, plus the insurance challenge. So sad for all involved.