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I do know a financial advisor who has clients in California and is happy to work with additional new ones.

I think New Mex is like most states, its "retirement value" is predicated on what one values in terms of climate, cost of living and things to do.

My colleagues haven't "spoken" as you claim. Most gave constructive criticism and from a very small cross section of escorts on this site.. I seem to have received very positive reaction with the first post on this thread. I appreciate reasonable commentary from objective people. And those that can't be positive or constructive, aren't worth reading.

Lets not be ridiculous and the above comment is way over the top. Nobody walks "all over me".

We are paid for time, but it isn't a blanket slate. Differing requirements requires different compensation amounts.

I do of course. However, we had discussed this in the past as a possibility. Discussion for this booking would have been what I would have expected based on my own work as a professional, but I didn't mind . It added an element of surprise. I grew from the experience as did the boyfriend who had never had a threesome prior. I did make it clear this was an exception to the norm.

Thanks for the input. It was his boyfriend, we talked about it more after. Seemed like a very nice guy. If he boyfriend was an average looking man (as most of my clients are) I would have been thrilled and my reaction wouldn't have been any different.

Thanks very much. I might mention that he had talked about his boyfriend joining, but not recently. It took me a minute to realize what was going.

Well I wanted to relay an interesting client experience last night. Correlates with a couple of recent threads, plus it was hella fun! Had my regular client who is a Dom kinda guy. He scheduled at the last minute, so it was gym time, then off to the booking at 8:00 p.m. Regular kind of start, was kneeling on the bed, head down and I look up and here was an attractive man I had never met or seen standing in front of me, naked with hard on. I'm sure the look on my face was priceless. The client had brought his boyfriend along. The bf had seen my photos and wanted to meet me. It was after the first round, he actually spoke and introduced himself. Nothing like being involved with someone you'd never met or had uttered words, except hearing "pants and moans". It was a very good experience for me, it added to the evening and I received a big bonus at the end. He and I never talked about my rate for 2 versus one and the bonus really made the difference very minor. We had talked here about "discounts" and finding other ways to reward regular clients. This was one! I think we'd have to talk about it if Bruce (the boyfriend) joined regularly, but both client and boyfriend were thrilled and I continue to learn the art of "flexibility". I am not generally much of a spontaneous person (very structured), but .. I'm learning!

Sounds awesome, Scott. I should just be asking you travel input directly! LOL

I will do that, any recommendations on gay areas of Honolulu to visit or is that really a not?

Well Jarrod, when I finished my original post, I realized my answer probably wasn't the best. You are going through something I probably just haven't experienced as of yet (hopefully won't). I hope my answer above didn't come across as insensitive. I hope all can improve. I would agree, anyone, client or escort should be expected to be treated fairly and (hopefully) professionally.

Now, I know no politics, but I want to commend this woman for what she did for the gay community. Yes, she probably needed to retire, but she was amazing for her contributions. MSN WWW.MSN.COM will be missed and certainly appreciated.

Well first, congrats on a very positive and exciting experience. Really like those that are "life growers" and are above all... positive! My thoughts are to be realistic. Hard to do, but being a logic prone person, I'd be logical in that he (and you) live apart and each have busy life with a lot of things (and people) going. That said, I'd see what happens. He may be very different and values meeting and getting to know you. I have to say, those extraordinary "personal touches" in life make it exciting. I would see what develops. Even a friendship is something special, it doesn't have to be some kind of ongoing sexual relationship. Congrats.

So I had inquiry about my escort services and was asked if this was for "general companionship" or if I was a "full service" escort? He stated he would be into general companionship (which I asked him to define), but wanted all services. He said he didn't just want a dinner date, that he has hired men that only go to dinner! We chatted and asked me some questions, but I wondered if there were any "without sex" escorts still out there? If so, are they really in demand? Curious?

I totally get the challenge with bookings at times. I have a dentist who is one of my longest term clients. He tends to cancel sometimes at the last minute. I just try and remember he had referred me to other clients and always has a good attitude. He also gives me a tip occasionally. I have had others that just cancel out, but part of the scene, I usually use the time in some other productive context.