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To each their own, but I find him attractive and have considered hiring him when he was living in Maui and I was planning to visit there pre-pandemic.  My recollection is that those rates were pretty much what he quoted me.  My belief is that rate might not be too unreasonable for that particular market where there are slim options available and the clientele, living or traveling there, would likely be more open to paying that amount.  I don't know how that would translate to San Francisco but my guess is not too well.  More power to him if it works for him.

To each their own, but I find him attractive and have considered hiring him when he was living in Maui and I was planning to visit there pre-pandemic.  My recollection is that those rates were pretty much what he quoted me.  My belief is that rate might not be too unreasonable for that particular market where there are slim options available and the clientele, living or traveling there, would likely be more open to paying that amount.  I don't know how that would translate to San Francisco but my guess is not too well.  More power to him if it works for him.

I'll be contrary to the opinions here, in that I find him attractive. I like his face... it's distinctive and I find it handsome. And his body looks great. I'm not a fan of the hair style, but it's a look some of the young guys like these days.

One year ago today that was the headline on Daddy's last posting for his M4M Reviews home page https://archive.m4m-forum.org/news
If only it has been "The Nurse Says I May Have Covid-19", perhaps he would still be alive today.  It is difficult to remember the original headline knowing what transpired.  Rather than dwell on that I will take this day as another opportunity to remember and show appreciation to Daddy for what he provided for those of us who used the review site and the forums for years.
This is also a good opportunity to again express some thanks and appreciation to those who stepped up and were able to work some magic to keep this community going (and make some positive improvements as well, IMHO).  
 

One year ago today that was the headline on Daddy's last posting for his M4M Reviews home page https://archive.m4m-forum.org/news
If only it has been "The Nurse Says I May Have Covid-19", perhaps he would still be alive today.  It is difficult to remember the original headline knowing what transpired.  Rather than dwell on that I will take this day as another opportunity to remember and show appreciation to Daddy for what he provided for those of us who used the review site and the forums for years.
This is also a good opportunity to again express some thanks and appreciation to those who stepped up and were able to work some magic to keep this community going (and make some positive improvements as well, IMHO).  
 

One year ago today that was the headline on Daddy's last posting for his M4M Reviews home page https://archive.m4m-forum.org/news
If only it has been "The Nurse Says I May Have Covid-19", perhaps he would still be alive today.  It is difficult to remember the original headline knowing what transpired.  Rather than dwell on that I will take this day as another opportunity to remember and show appreciation to Daddy for what he provided for those of us who used the review site and the forums for years.
This is also a good opportunity to again express some thanks and appreciation to those who stepped up and were able to work some magic to keep this community going (and make some positive improvements as well, IMHO).  
 

One year ago today that was the headline on Daddy's last posting for his M4M Reviews home page https://archive.m4m-forum.org/news
If only it has been "The Nurse Says I May Have Covid-19", perhaps he would still be alive today.  It is difficult to remember the original headline knowing what transpired.  Rather than dwell on that I will take this day as another opportunity to remember and show appreciation to Daddy for what he provided for those of us who used the review site and the forums for years.
This is also a good opportunity to again express some thanks and appreciation to those who stepped up and were able to work some magic to keep this community going (and make some positive improvements as well, IMHO).  
 

One year ago today that was the headline on Daddy's last posting for his M4M Reviews home page https://archive.m4m-forum.org/news
If only it has been "The Nurse Says I May Have Covid-19", perhaps he would still be alive today.  It is difficult to remember the original headline knowing what transpired.  Rather than dwell on that I will take this day as another opportunity to remember and show appreciation to Daddy for what he provided for those of us who used the review site and the forums for years.
This is also a good opportunity to again express some thanks and appreciation to those who stepped up and were able to work some magic to keep this community going (and make some positive improvements as well, IMHO).  
 

One year ago today that was the headline on Daddy's last posting for his M4M Reviews home page https://archive.m4m-forum.org/news
If only it has been "The Nurse Says I May Have Covid-19", perhaps he would still be alive today.  It is difficult to remember the original headline knowing what transpired.  Rather than dwell on that I will take this day as another opportunity to remember and show appreciation to Daddy for what he provided for those of us who used the review site and the forums for years.
This is also a good opportunity to again express some thanks and appreciation to those who stepped up and were able to work some magic to keep this community going (and make some positive improvements as well, IMHO).  
 

One year ago today that was the headline on Daddy's last posting for his M4M Reviews home page https://archive.m4m-forum.org/news
If only it has been "The Nurse Says I May Have Covid-19", perhaps he would still be alive today.  It is difficult to remember the original headline knowing what transpired.  Rather than dwell on that I will take this day as another opportunity to remember and show appreciation to Daddy for what he provided for those of us who used the review site and the forums for years.
This is also a good opportunity to again express some thanks and appreciation to those who stepped up and were able to work some magic to keep this community going (and make some positive improvements as well, IMHO).  
 

One year ago today that was the headline on Daddy's last posting for his M4M Reviews home page https://archive.m4m-forum.org/news
If only it has been "The Nurse Says I May Have Covid-19", perhaps he would still be alive today.  It is difficult to remember the original headline knowing what transpired.  Rather than dwell on that I will take this day as another opportunity to remember and show appreciation to Daddy for what he provided for those of us who used the review site and the forums for years.
This is also a good opportunity to again express some thanks and appreciation to those who stepped up and were able to work some magic to keep this community going (and make some positive improvements as well, IMHO).  
 

This is an interesting position he’s gotten himself into: https://18.tyler-brown.com/watch/-143124416_456244245

This is good. I’ve had guys refund money. Which made me think highly if them. 
Yes. Sadly. There are cons. I know some here may not believe it, but I do like to believe the best of people. Same with escorts.
It really comes down to the gut. In cases like this. And experience. There would be less hesitation on my part if he was someone I’ve hired before, multiple times. I do think it’s worth pointing out again that he didn’t directly ask for money til we meet, at least not for his current situation. He mentioned it, which was likely a hint, but I’ve had guys who brashly just ask when they’re “dealing with issues.” One guy asked because he needed to post bail for his dad. Pass and block. Scam.

This is not a criticism of him for getting implants.
If the story is correct and he has bicep implants, and the pictures were taken post-implant he should demand a refund.

I don't share the experiences, but I certainly recognize the sentiments. 
The only thing I can really think to say is that beating yourself up never helps. You've recognized choices that are bad for you and you're making different choices to move in a direction that is better for you. Good for you, and good to luck you.

Our experiences have not been nearly as bad as the OP described. Maybe it’s bc we’re in NYC. But most of the guys we’ve hired do look like their pics - some even better. 
 
Our primary reason for hiring is that it’s easier then wasting time on Grindr and Scruff. We’ve had a couple of duds in our time hiring, but probably 80% positive. But I read reviews. I check their social media. I come on here. 
 
I do think you have to be discriminating. What we look for more than anything is someone who seems to genuinely enjoy this work. 

You have to do what's right for you.  And only you know what that is...  live your life as makes sense and the rest will work out.  

Feeling the way you do you are obviously doing the right thing.  GOOD LUCK

I started hiring in my twenties, but I didn't hire very often back then not only because I had much less money and it was pre-internet but also because I got more of my needs met by dating which was much easier for me in my twenties and thirties (and even into my forties) than into my fifties and now sixties. To be honest, even when guys do match their descriptions that's no guarantee that the session will feel "worth it" since that's entirely objective.  Sounds like you've figured out that, at least at this point in your life, hiring isn't for you.  Don't get hung up on regretting your past choices; just most forward.

Before I begin, I want to say that these are my opinions based on personal experiences. After 10 years of hiring men, I can say that I’m totally giving up on it. I’m in my 30’s, so I guess I’m a little pickier, but of the 100+ men I’ve hired over the years, I can honestly only think of 3-4 that were actually worth it. Most of the time, the guy does not look nearly as good as his pictures ( not as muscular, older than advertised, different body pics used, etc.). Most of these guys I could likely meet for free. Somewhere down the line, hiring men became an addiction because I’ve suffered from low self esteem most of my life and any sort of rejection would put me in a funk.   I’m realizing now that spending so much money just to avoid my fears is not helping me in the long run.
 
I feel so ashamed to have spent so much money over the years for companionship I basically could have received for free had I stuck to a workout routine. 
I will say that the worst escorts are usually the Eastern European/Russian ones or the South American ones. They’re usually the rudest and more likely to have misleading pictures/ show disinterest.
I don’t mean to offend anyone with my post. They’re my experiences and options.
 
 

I also wish they would be more helpful.  I will note that I have made contact with several RM reviewers of other escorts in the past and have had a decent reply rate.  It is just odd that for this particular guy that no one responded, however it may be just the luck of the draw.  I have sent a PM to @Kufrolasking about his review and will see if he responds (he has recently been on line here so it appears he is active).
 

Any feedback or firsthand experience would be appreciated.  https://rentmen.eu/Tothemaxx

Any feedback or firsthand experience would be appreciated.  https://rentmen.eu/Tothemaxx

I met him several years ago in Vegas when his look was more "clean cut".  Not as thrilled with his new look.  I had an ok time and he is a nice guy with a smoking hot bod but I likely would not repeat mostly because of his limits (no kissing) and I don't recall but am not sure he gives oral (perhaps others that have seen him can indicate if they had that experience or not).  May not be indicative of what he does with clients but his OnlyFans page only shows him receiving oral and rimming but not giving.  
From what I can gather from my experience and other posts, he is more likely in his mid 30s now rather than the advertised age of 28 so I speculate that he is trying his best to keep that youthful look with whatever he has had done and the hair styling (if you can call it styling).  To each his own and I am sure many like the look and being with a straight guy.  Different strokes for different folks.
 
 

Can we please stop policing each other wondering why someone bumped this or that while at the same time bumping the thread again...
The Mgt. made a wise decision making old threads untouched for 2 years unbumpable