CuriousD

From his description, he should be in Spas & Masseurs.

for those, like me, who wondered.....
 


 

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Here’s what we know, guys: Escorts can charge whatever they want. We, the clients, can pay that rate or find lesser-priced escorts. Or not hire at all, and simply date our dominant hand. It’s that simple. There is no union to strike against, no Groupon deals, not even a well-endowed (ha ha) support group to shoulder the myriad emotional turmoil this financial burden may inflict upon us. Do I think $400 is a lot of money for an hour of shenanigans? Fuck yeah!  However, I prefer to look at it this way: If a hot, hunky, hairy, hung provider charges me $400 to let me have my way my him and in doing so gives me an inarguably unforgettable experience, I’m going to practically force that $400 on him and feel like my cash was well spent. And the day that splendid feeling evaporates is the day I stop hiring. Until then, I’ll continue to open my checkbook (and all of my orifices) and have the fucking time of my life. Cheers, my friends! 

yes, RM is the best of a sad lot.....the other three you mention plus friendboy.pro are the rest of the lot......
it appears many well-known guys are going the OF et al route and making good money.....if they can work hard and catch a following, why bother trying to deal with flaky clients and endless texts when you can just fire up your laptop at home and watch the credits roll in?!
I don't really do the social media thing, but some here have luck directly contacting likely guys who appear to be amenable and politely/professionally proposing a meeting.....
this forum is really the best way to cull through the options, see what others report, ask questions........
and, of course, there are those very few ultra high-end providers who only work by word-of-mouth between trusted and discreet clients or who have a list of regulars plenty long enough........they don't need to advertise!

Is Rent Men the only viable option for finding escorts online? It seems like the quality of men on there has gone downhill over the past couple years. For example, where did all of the famous hot porn stars go? Sure there are still a few of them on RM, and many guys who call themselves porn stars but aren't really. Did the most popular ones stop escorting because of OF and JFF? 
I tried using google to find other platforms, but didn't have much success. The selection on Jock2Go, Mint Boys, and Hunqs isn't any better. 
Any advice? Thank you 

Hey there, I'm looking for a specific type of guy for what I've planned for my summer vacation. This is what I'm looking for, based off rentmen filters
Age: 18-38
Height: 5'11 or higher (would do shorter if they are exceptionally hot)
Ethnicity: White, Latin, Meditteranean or Arab
Body: Muscular/athletic
Style: Jock, Muscle Guy, Bro, Alpha, Dom
Orientation: Straight, Bi, or at least straight acting
 
Preferences: able to fly (but willing to come to them), open to cam for first meet, into working with other guys (but doesn't have to do anything sexual with others)
There's a lot of perks for the guys, and I'd be willing to also spoil their girlfriends/wives/friends if they want

many here love to help, but if you could offer some physical preferences (age range, hairy or not, twink/big, cut/uncut, etc.) you like in a guy and a general vibe you prefer, that might remind others of somebody who will work......
you may also want to look at rentmen for the areas in which you can travel, find guys who appeal, search here for any existing threads on them, and then start a new thread if you find nothing on them/him.......
if you ask them to travel to you, be aware some may ask for a pre-meet deposit......this is a hot topic here in the forum and most recommend against it........you'll need to decide for yourself on how to handle this concern

He and Bill Clinton have something in common. They don’t think oral is sex.

You’re missing the point. Providers’ pics should show how they look NOW. That’s it. That’s the point. 

Yeah MateoBlanco is exactly what you want! And he is the sweetest! 

Fake ass, fake lips, as Fem as it gets 🤷🏻‍♀️

https://rent.men/MateoBlanco

Had a pretty good experience with him too.

No.
Take the hint and move on. 

To give you the optimum chance of being satisfied, you have to make sure he is into doing that. You have to tell him what you want and you should describe yourself.
 
I had regular client that asked me to kiss him so I pecked him on the lips and he told me to really kiss him, and I declined. He irritated me because of a few things before in our sessions and I wasn't attracted to him at all. I told him he was going to tell that I don't mean it and don't want to do it. He understood and thankfully left me alone. I'm sure he really wanted some foreplay but he never addressed it verbally, beforehand, and he hired me for a massage, not that.

It’s always fun to reminisce- my first hire was a starving med student. We were both new at the game and it started off with oral. I’ll skip the details, but my biggest mistake was not masturbating earlier in the day. I tried my best to hold back, but old one-eyed “Wilbur” had a mind of his own. My provider was incredibly kind and suggested we go to the hotel bar, have a drink and then go back for a replay. And sure enough, the second time around lasted much longer and was a virtual blast. I tipped very well.

I don't believe location matters; you're paying for the erotic experience that you request. If you have a straight escort, there are going to be definite limits (I've yet to encounter one who would even consider fucking a man's ass). Just don't overthink it. Be clear about your wants and needs, keep an open mind, and have a ball!

Hi pre warning om a total newb to this and it will be my first encounter.  This is the scenario I'd like to have "sitting on the couch talking then that leads to kissing or groping and then love making.  More sensual exploring than just fucking. I pretty much want him to do everything to me. Sorry to be clumsy.  How can I make that kind of scenario sound more professional or clear to convey to a provider?  

I wish he'd actually have sex with men.  He's a gay baiter and we shouldn't support him.

Just let him know that you want foreplay and for it to be sensual then lead up to sex. 

The premium membership is not expensive and allows you access to additional facts and photographs. You’re going to spend a fair amount on an escort and you want to make sure you know as much as possible about the guy. Sometimes you can’t see his dick without that premium membership. You should get it. It’ll improve your research experience and help ensure that you get what you want. 😋

purplekow gives excellent advice here ☝️☝️, @CuriousD . I have been hiring for 30 years myself, and I still remember how amazingly nervous I was the first time(s). Let things flow, nature will take its course and a good provider will know how to make your meeting the most pleasurable possible for both of you. Just don’t overthink. Best wishes, you will be thrilled. 

Hi pre warning om a total newb to this and it will be my first encounter.  This is the scenario I'd like to have "sitting on the couch talking then that leads to kissing or groping and then love making.  More sensual exploring than just fucking. I pretty much want him to do everything to me. Sorry to be clumsy.  How can I make that kind of scenario sound more professional or clear to convey to a provider?  

Even the most experienced of us had a first time hire.  A bit of trepidation is expected but fortunately for most of us, that first touch, first kiss, first tingle of excitement usually has the nerves on the run and our cock rising to the encounter.   You are requesting a pretty vanilla experience and you described what you want clearly here.  Have him come in, offer him a beverage.  Have him come sit next to you on the couch.  If he doesn't initiate after a minute or two lean in for the kiss or place your hand on his groin.  You both know why you are there, so there is no reason to act like a teenager on a first date, though you may feel that way initially.  Once your eyes have met, your lips have touched and you hand has found your way into his pants, allow the action and the juices to flow.  
My suggestion is to be sober, but if you do take something to take the edge off, do not indulge to the point of not being in control of yourself and the situation.  
Also, do not be afraid to say no.  If he tries to do something you are not ready to do, a simple, not that or not yet should have him moving onto something else.  He will likely do the same.  Good luck with that first hire.  
 

Ty so much