Jose Anmo Posted January 9, 2023 Share Posted January 9, 2023 the provider blocked you on social media i.e. Grindr, Scruff etc... the provider ignored you on social media Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ nycman Posted January 9, 2023 Share Posted January 9, 2023 No. Take the hint and move on. peter831, DMICS, Wanderoz and 7 others 1 1 6 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TorontoDrew Posted January 9, 2023 Share Posted January 9, 2023 I'm not sure. They could just be trying to keep work and regular life separate. I do. No one I work with has access to any of my social media. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dutchal Posted January 9, 2023 Share Posted January 9, 2023 Have seen profiles using pics from providers that I assumed were indeed those providers and have woofed or tapped. Have always been ignored with one exception (which led to a very hot time off the clock with a well reviewed provider). I still would consider hiring them if they push enough of my buttons. Question for me is whether reviews here and elsewhere indicate they consistently provide a good time to all clients. They're entitled to choose how they spend their off the clock time. It's probably limited and it's only rational that they'd limit using it to guys who really push all their buttons. I'm not that kind of guy for most guys and I accept that. TorontoDrew and Luv2play 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Medin Posted January 9, 2023 Share Posted January 9, 2023 46 minutes ago, Jose Anmo said: the provider blocked you on social media i.e. Grindr, Scruff etc... the provider ignored you on social media Not a chance. I agree with the others....time to move on. Wanderoz and DMICS 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jostar Posted January 9, 2023 Share Posted January 9, 2023 Why see a guy that blocked you. Their like a million hot guys on the world to see. Don't waste your time. It time to move on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ StLouisOct Posted January 9, 2023 Share Posted January 9, 2023 1 hour ago, Jose Anmo said: the provider blocked you on social media i.e. Grindr, Scruff etc... the provider ignored you on social media Not clear why one would ever pursue an escort in such a situation. His message is so clear. His answer is no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CJK Posted January 9, 2023 Share Posted January 9, 2023 1 hour ago, Jose Anmo said: the provider blocked you on social media i.e. Grindr, Scruff etc... the provider ignored you on social media I am confused.... Did you previously regularly communicate over social media and have now been blocked? If that is the case, take the hint and move on. Or has the provider kept other lines of communication open but does not want to communicate with you over his personal social media accounts? In that case, the provider is obviously trying to keep his personal and professional relationships separate. If you can respect the provider's parameters, then you should continue the business relationship. TorontoDrew and Marc in Calif 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lazarus Posted January 9, 2023 Share Posted January 9, 2023 Does the guy who blocked & ignored you you on social media know that you are the same person that is trying to hire him (on Rentmen I’m assuming)? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glennnnn Posted January 9, 2023 Share Posted January 9, 2023 (edited) I get your point. But does it really matter? This provider seems like an insensitive tool at best. There are so many Worthy, cooperative guys just waiting to hear from you. Contact someone else! You don't need this aggravation. Edited January 9, 2023 by glennnnn BaronArtz, + nycman and Jose Anmo 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jose Anmo Posted January 9, 2023 Author Share Posted January 9, 2023 2 hours ago, Lazarus said: Does the guy who blocked & ignored you you on social media know that you are the same person that is trying to hire him (on Rentmen I’m assuming)? no + keroscenefire 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scott Virginian Posted January 9, 2023 Share Posted January 9, 2023 No. I need communication. If we're not communicating, it's not going to be a good match. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ azdr0710 Posted January 10, 2023 Share Posted January 10, 2023 I'm wondering why this was even an issue to ask the forum about.......... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scott Virginian Posted January 10, 2023 Share Posted January 10, 2023 11 hours ago, azdr0710 said: I'm wondering why this was even an issue to ask the forum about.......... Ehhh, everyone needs a gut check once in a while, even on the simple stuff. That's why we're here for each other. 🙂 coriolis888, Cruiser7, + azdr0710 and 4 others 5 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted January 10, 2023 Share Posted January 10, 2023 Nope. Let's put it this way. I once asked a RM in my area to unlock his private photos. It's common to be ignored, but he outright answered "no." Instant block. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ keroscenefire Posted January 11, 2023 Share Posted January 11, 2023 On 1/9/2023 at 3:29 PM, Jose Anmo said: no On 1/9/2023 at 3:29 PM, Jose Anmo said: On 1/9/2023 at 12:39 PM, Lazarus said: Does the guy who blocked & ignored you you on social media know that you are the same person that is trying to hire him (on Rentmen I’m assuming)? no So this is interesting. Because basically the provider blocked you on social media but could be open to hiring you if you contacted him through Rent.Men. In fact, he doesn't know you're the same person necessarily. I'd be curious of the context in which he blocked you on socials. Like I've gotten blocked occasionally by random dudes. Maybe they didn't feel we'd be a good connection for some reason. I've blocked people for the same reason. When I was a teacher, I blocked virtually anyone under 22 or so who contacted me just as a matter of course. Maybe he recognized your social media attempts and just didn't like it. I think it's valid to block someone who you think is maybe pseudo-cyberstalking. TorontoDrew 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Asterisk Posted January 11, 2023 Share Posted January 11, 2023 Depends what you seek. His blocking you on social media makes it pretty clear that he is not interested in a social/romantic relationship with you. However, he may be open to a transactional relationship with you. If you think the latter opens a door to the prior, then "no" -- his actions are clear and you are not what he seeks. If the latter checks your boxes, go ahead -- it's not love everlasting, but you'll learn what you didn't on social media! + keroscenefire and TorontoDrew 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coriolis888 Posted January 11, 2023 Share Posted January 11, 2023 On 1/9/2023 at 8:35 AM, Jose Anmo said: the provider blocked you on social media i.e. Grindr, Scruff etc... the provider ignored you on social media You question is already answered as follows: i. e., if he blocked you, how can you make arrangements to meet? There are too many other providers for you to possibly meet. Don't waste your time on a person who would be so childish as to block you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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