Simon Suraci

YoungBoyTommy’s RentMen Tommy checked me out and his pics make me pretty thirsty 🥵 but I am wondering if it’s TGTBT. He just joined RentMen this month. Says he’s in Manhattan in the profile text but lists San Diego, and San Diego is not listed as a travel destination. Something is fishy here. Maybe a reincarnation from some other profile, AI generated, or ripped pics off the internet? Any experiences?

That whole “jet lag” schtick was really off. I hope it becomes a plot point that makes more sense for her character later.

Ok, it’s on like Donkey Kong! Group for my client with Damian Quantas and Damiano confirmed for this Sunday. I’ll report back on my San Diego thread in the Deli, as this is Spas and Masseurs. While Damiano is a masseur, this will definitely be a little too steamy for the spa section. And yes, I realize Damian is a forum member, inactive for a hot minute, but…more to come later… P.S. Damiano’s BF is Teddy Hunter. Not sure where the mix up was with Anthony or if things have changed since the last intel, but Damiano tells me he’s with Teddy now. Potential here for bringing them both in for future group play sessions. Will see how it goes.

Damiano tells me he lives in SD. His RentMasseur ad is expired. Anyone hire him for deli services? PM me. Waiting to hear back if he is interested in doing a group scene.

^agreed! I’ll take whatever male nudity they dish out. Nice ass shot. What’s with the creepy incest vibes though? This season seems like it will be a slow burn indeed. I want more Jennifer Coolidge 😊

There is no right answer on deposits. You have to do what’s right for your business. No amount of input from clients or escorts will establish an acceptable standard across the board. Whatever you feel is the right approach for you, for your market, that’s the way to go. Personally I write these experiences off as a cost of doing business so that I am free to continue doing business the way I want to - without deposits. It serves me well 98% or more of the time. Also, screening and making decisions with your gut to begin with helps that number. When your percentage for whatever strategy you use gets out of whack I would consider changing. There is no foolproof choice free of some cost to you. All choices have pros and cons. It’s about measuring and managing that cost to your business.

@DomKingNYC we’ve all been there. Sorry this happened to you. Welcome back!

Leave a voicemail That will solve your problems. The guys who won’t get back in a reasonable time by text won’t be any better at returning calls. Hire the guys who call you back within 24 hrs. The good ones will call you back, and leave voicemails of their own as needed. The others aren’t worth your time. Let the rest of it go. I started to explain in long form all the reasons you can’t expect an escort to pick up the phone for a new contact and be ready to discuss details out loud at the moment you decide to call. But it’s not worth my breath. Even I am exhausted running through my long list. I’ll shorten to this. Clients who prefer phone calls for initial contact and/or exclusive contact fall into two camps: 1) You feel entitled to everyone’s immediate attention over the phone, even if it interrupts something important the other person is doing. You won’t hire because he didn’t pick up on the first ring. Good luck out there. It’s going to be a very long, unsatisfying winter for you. 2) You understand your providers are busy and that phone calls are the least preferred method of contact for anyone living in the 21st century, especially escorts. But you still want phone communication. So you leave a voicemail, and wait a reasonable period for a reply.

I agree with much of the above. We do not operate like other businesses. It’s just the one guy handling everything, with few exceptions. We do not have receptionists available to answer calls during specified business hours and you probably don’t want to chat with a receptionist anyway… or an AI bot for that matter. Expecting us to provide on call receptionist services and still do our jobs is… unrealistic, to put it generously. Texting is standard, unless you are using another messaging platform. Calls are long a thing of the past, unless you message to request a call first. Some of us, like myself, are happy to schedule a call. The chances of your provider being in a private, quiet, safe, undistracted environment with full availability and attention for your questions at the exact moment you want to call … is quite low. Here is a link to a related discussion with more elaborating comments:

What your escort does in his personal life: 1) is none of your business; although he may volunteer this info (or lie about it) 2) is unverifiable speculation 3) has no bearing on what he offers to his clients; it may align or not 4) has no bearing on his competence in delivering services; if he’s good he’s good 5) does not entitle you to put him in a box 6) does not make him inferior at providing the opposite role for work; he could be talented at both and maybe even genuinely enjoy both, but for any number of reasons tends to take on more of one role or the other for work 7) does not guarantee he will genuinely enjoy taking on the same role with YOU; a lot of times it’s about individual chemistry and connection, but at the end of the day he is providing a service aligned with client preferences whether your provider is genuinely enjoying it or not. 8 ) might only be presented as part of playing into a client’s fantasy; i.e. I will only bottom (or top) for YOU, to make you feel special, worthy, valuable, hot, masculine, desirable, or validated in some way For all you know, your provider is presenting a persona, to appeal to an audience. Maybe he is more desirable to more people as a (fill in the blank), and so he lists that for marketing reasons. It could be a lie, a total facade for business purposes. Or perhaps a practical decision. Also, versatile men exist. Short of hiring a private investigator to follow him around for months and invade his privacy, how on earth would you verify he only tops or only bottoms in his personal life? Is it really that important to you that he live his life in a certain way to satisfy your fantasy lasting only for an hour or two (or overnight, or a week)? Clients: suspend your disbelief. Better yet, stop caring so much. Ask your provider for what you want. If he can deliver on that, great. That’s all that matters! As to the original question: ‘More top’ simply means he is more inclined to top with most other sexual partners, most of the time. This question assumes he is having anal sex in most of his encounters, but the dynamic applies to oral sex as well. Not all sex involves penetration either. Topic for another day. A ‘more top’ guy recognizes that he is a human being with different moods and desires at different times. He also has a human body that is more or less willing/able to cooperate for different roles at different times. A simple binary label allows no room for deviation. I can’t tell you how many men identifying as total tops have switched roles after being with me. It happens. Binary identities are too limiting. We’re all on a spectrum. A ‘more top’ guy enjoys bottoming under certain circumstances, at certain times, with certain people. Maybe that’s 10% of the time. Maybe that’s 0.001% of the time. Either way, he’s bottoming significantly less than 50% of the time, which in my mind makes him ‘mostly top’, or as some might say top/vers. He might also bottom for work, upon request. I fall into this camp and I do not charge differently for it. Being mostly top doesn’t make me less qualified to bottom, worse at it, or my clients less satisfied. Nor does it take away from my mostly top identity. Clients love my ass and I get into servicing them in this way. More top just means I am usually the one topping and tend to enjoy that role the most. But at times I enjoy bottoming too, for work and for personal pleasure.

Anyone try him yet? He’s in LA, travels to other cities here and there. Taylor Sinn’s RentMen Taylor Sinn’s Website He’s publishes his porn content in the usual places. He’s interviewed in this article in September 2024.

Post your ads, gents. Clients here want to know who you are. Some of them may hire you.

I’m a pleaser. Whatever the client wants, the client gets. I don’t want/need to cum. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don’t. As long as my client is satisfied, I’m satisfied.

GayWellness is small but growing rapidly. I imagine within a couple years it will give MasseurFinder a serious run for their money. MF now charges their masseurs hundreds (yes, plural) of dollars a month! GW is charging similar fees as RentMasseur. I’m on there because I negotiated a discount while the site remains relatively low traffic. GayWellness

Meet Rocco Suraci, one of my eighteen runner ducks. That shirt is bananas. One of his ducklings And of course, Bjørn and Finnr Suraci, my Italian Maremma livestock guardian dogs. Bjørn, our handsome guy Finnr, his younger bully brother My boys love treats and praise And spooning Finnr gets scared of fireworks. We snuggle in the casita to calm him down. Bjørn loves rain and mud And sleeping on his back. How can we forget about Kaiya? She’s an old crotchety lady, going on 20 years now:

Happy Birthday @mike carey! On your birthday: If it rains, let it be cum If it pours, let it be true Should another year pass May the time skip you But not the cum Or the view

^This is quite common on MN. Without context, the comment means nothing. I do not take these comments seriously as they indicate 9x out of 10 an inexperienced, unprofessional, low quality provider writing off a potentially good client for no reason. A good provider won’t pay any heed to such a flippant comment. You need not worry about these. If anything, it filters out the bad providers from booking you. My favorite is: “time waiste”. That’s when I really roll my eyes. You’re dodging a bullet with those. ^Yes. For the Nth time, Mr Number is NOT designed as, or used as, a review platform, a referral platform, or a place to promote clients. The actual purpose of Mr Number is to report fraud, spam, and scams. While some of us like myself also use the app for what it’s designed for, to report fraud and scams, providers mainly use it for our own purposes as a warning beacon only. The good ones among us only report really serious problems, like stalking behavior. I detail more of those situations upthread. The unspoken rule is: warn others about really bad client behavior, especially with regard to safety and unreliability. If he’s ok to see, say nothing. So yes, you’re going to see negative comments if you see any at all. It makes no sense to “refer” a client to the whole world of other good and bad providers by talking him up on Mr Number. It takes us extra time to do that. We want to keep good clients to ourselves, not cut into our business by attracting other providers to him. Also we don’t want to lead our clients into the hands of bad providers who see a positive comment and decide take advantage of him in some way. Some comments are legit and definitely reflect consistently bad client behaviors. I can usually tell when this is the case by the way the provider wrote it, and of course how many times others post similar things or agree with the previous comments. Those are mostly right and we steer clear of the problem client. The good providers among us reserve our comments for really bad stuff, not something stupid like he sent some annoying texts or decided not to book after all. The bad providers abuse the system. When I see a flippant negative comment, I see the client anyway. When he turns out to be a good client that doesn’t exhibit the behavior referenced in the comment (which tbh is most of the time with flippant comments), I post a new comment on him under the “not fraud” category saying something brief to the effect of negating the previous comments with positive statements and affirm it is safe to see this client. I do this out of kindness. Nobody is rewarding me for it. I want my clients to have a good experience hiring. Good clients deserve to see others they want to see. More power to them. I would not expect even a small percentage of other providers to spend any time going out of their way to do this for their clients. It takes extra time and effort (even a little), and most providers are unwilling to spend that extra time and effort. Maybe it never crosses their minds in the first place. Also, I don’t tell my clients I am doing this for them. Most clients don’t know Mr Number exists, and for everyone’s sake, that’s really for the best.

No. We don’t see who buddy listed us. We do see client profile views, but you can turn that feature off in settings if you wish.

No.

Speaking from experience here. I am a provider. From time to time, virgins hire me for their first time and they absolutely loved it. Younger and older alike. Last week, in fact, a 40+ yo virgin hired me for what some others here have suggested: a slow, go-at-your-own-pace approach with an emphasis on intimacy, trust, and feeling completely comfortable. Hiring a provider gives you the space and safety you need to explore your interests without judgment and take things at your own pace. It’s empowering. It helps build your confidence. My client wants to have sex soon, but on his own terms. He hired me outcall for an hour of naked cuddling and chatting, which turned into two. Amazing how time flies with these things. He commented how amazing it felt to be naked, entangled with another man, without any pressure, expectations, or agenda. I gave him his first kiss, and it was magical. Then I gave him an hour of massage on my table. He was really happy. This was his birthday gift to himself. I am a masseur and an escort. I happen to fit into the slim overlap of men who excel at both. Most of the time you have to choose between the two. Both options can be good. Fortunately for him, he likes both and gets both with me. The most important thing is hiring the RIGHT provider for you. That applies to any client, but especially for an inexperienced one. For others reading, I personally recommend hiring an escort. Masseurs can be all over the map in what they offer and how they deliver service. Communicate clearly upfront with your provider about your situation and what you hope to get out of the experience. Be specific wherever possible. Seek out providers with experience specifically with virgins, who understand your needs and respect your boundaries. You need someone who really cares. Also, don’t rush. Consider hiring him to cuddle, kiss, or go on a date together. Take as many appointments as you need to feel comfortable. Consider longer appointments. Some of us (myself included) offer companionship at a lower rate than typical sex work hourly rates. That may be best for some of the clients needing to start slow. You don’t have to “get it over with” in an hour. Your first time is special. You will remember it vividly for the rest of your life, and it will shape how you view sex and intimacy going forward. That’s a really special moment. Savor it. Don’t rush. Get the RIGHT guy. Only when you feel ready, that’s when you get to have sex for the first time. On your own terms, and for your own pleasure. Then you get to take your new level of confidence and perspective and apply it to the “real” world of dating, friends, hookups, bars, or wherever you go. The value of that service extends well beyond however many sessions you hire. It follows you and benefits you as you navigate through the world. You can’t buy confidence, experience, or patience, but man does an escort smooth over a path for you to take hold of all the things in life you really want.

No. Pay his rate. That is all you’re responsible for. Enjoy!

Hire pros with good reputations. Nobody worth their salt is going to judge you, ignore you, or swipe your money after failing to perform. Do your research to minimize your risk of disappointment. Professionals work with all ages and body types. Empathy and chemistry drive us. Porn can be good in some situations and not in others. I find it distracting, personally. There is no one size fits all.

Well said 👏 👏 👏 Take notes, gentlemen.

When asking for more and higher levels of service, it would be appropriate to offer more compensation, or to ask him what would be an acceptable fee. That’s a more fair value proposition. I’m assuming he’s already going way above and beyond for you for a massage fee. Good on your masseur for drawing a line and protecting himself from you taking advantage of his already very high level of generosity. And he did it politely. A lot of us wouldn’t have handled your message so well.