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Went this week hoping for Kenny but he was off for the night. First time with Wayne. I will repeat.

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new schedule is up 😊

As we approach the 5th Anniversary of “daddy”/ @Guy Fawkes passing, I  read through this memorial thread. So many of you had such kind words to share. He definitely touched our lives and considered us as family.
To me, he was an amazing person to work for. He made it fun!  He worked endlessly in making this a site where we will feel comfortable in sharing stories & experiences.  He truly appreciated all your support. 
RIP  🌹 

I got a massage from Dave at 27 Tai Ji  Spa/west 27 st . He has a calm personality, strong arms, and powerful hands. His technique was excellent, especially on my lower back. He also spent extra time working on my inner legs, Dave looks very masculine and handsome, and he’s super cute. He told me he works here three days a week and spends the other days working as a construction worker.

Shout out to Norik who appears for a few weeks and then disappears from the schedule. Was hoping for this week but sadly he is not on. I hope his absence is temporary.

I sometimes felt like I personally controlled the price of gas with whatever I happened to be driving.  I’d drive a pickup truck with a big V-8 that sucked gas and the price would go over $4/gallon or I’d buy an economy car that got 35+mpg and the price would drop to $0.99/gallon.

He is half Filipino, half Arab, not very tall. Cute smile but not muscular. Quite hairy. 

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Schedule for the coming week ☺️

I know I'm very old, and the brain no longer understands many things, but, I just read that Chaz Bono recently got married, and they created a website to crowd-source funding for their honeymoon. In the meantime, Cher shows up at the wedding, supposedly wearing a $300,000 diamond ring. Is it me, or is something odd about all this?

I watched most of it though, I have to admit, I taped it and watched on a delayed basis in order to skip the cringiest parts which, turned out, included most of it.  As a previous member observed, the audience looked dead and, in my opinion, appeared as though many would bolt from the theater were the show not being broadcast Live. Timothée Chalamet in particular looked uncomfortable and dyspeptic - like he drew the short straw and had to sit in the front row where he was continuously berated by Conan's not-very-funny jabs. The worst part of the whole debacle were the tortuous conversations between Presenters whose mumbled dialogue seemed so stilted and silly that I'm sure a few of the Directors in the audience were tempted to shout "Cut - let's take it from the top, this time with a little more enthusiasm." Whoever wrote, directed, or choreographed this inane spectacle should have their membership cards from the Academy of Motion Pictures Arts & Sciences revoked. 

That was today?

I am pretty sure the last time I watched the Oscars was during the Roosevelt administration but I don't remember if it was Franklin or Teddy.

Had a great massage with Kenny at TSMS recently.  He’s fun, interactive and it’s a great massage.  On my way out I saw two other guys, one younger who I’d be interested in trying.  Anyone know his name?  From my extremely vague description lol 

For those who miss Timmy who used to work in TSMS, he can be found in 3 different locations on Long Island:
Flushing, Medford and Franklin square  
See his schedule here:
https://www.instagram.com/m2mmassagespa?igsh=MW8zamZvNHAzd3lnMw==
The Medford location must bring the Hamptons customers, it might make him some nice tips. 

As much as Bozo sympathizes with the OP's tale of woe, it must bear repeating... NEVER, repeat, NEVER, repeat, NEVER give a deposit up front. There are enough stories of escorts and masseurs that scam, ghost, don't show up, and then block the client. How many times do you have to read or hear about all of the warnings?
There comes a time when we have to take responsibility for our actions. And Bozo is glad to see that the OP took accountability for his mistake.
Sending a deposit bears a risk. If you choose to ignore the risks, and still go ahead and send money in advance, don't complain that you got ripped off. It's akin to a cigarette smoker lamenting that he/she was diagnosed with cancer. 
Anytime a provider asks for money in advance, click your heels together and repeat three times, "No thanks, No thanks, No thanks...." And then move on to another provider in your area.
Caveat emptor.
BTC
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The full version of this story is quite a saga, but here's the TL;DR version.
I was planning a long evening with a provider I had seen a handful of times. We were going to see a musical--he's a really fine singer and I knew he'd like that--and then enjoy a few hours together. I had the tickets, and he was taking care of making the rest of the evening an event. When he asked for a $500 deposit to help with that, I overcame my qualms and sent it to him.
It will surprise absolutely no one in this forum to learn that on the very day we were supposed to get together, he texted me to say that he was stuck in a faraway city (inset tale of woe here) and wouldn't be making it. I tried to be understanding, but I was also firm in saying that I felt scammed because I had paid for an experience I wasn't going to have. He assured me that he would return the money, though not right away because his finances were a mess (insert further tale of woe here). Repeated enquiries have produced ever-receding deadlines for repayment, but of course no actual money.
No deposits.
Ever.

Can I tell you guys a trick? When getting the scrub go and turn on the hot water immediately. While you’re getting undressed the steam should warm up the room. You’re welcome lol

Quick update for everyone: with today’s weather in NYC (heavy snow, that gross sleet mix, and genuinely sketchy travel conditions), we’re going to be closed today so nobody has to risk getting stuck, sliding around, or turning a simple appointment into an extreme sport.
The safety of our clients and our guys comes first. Thanks for understanding. This weather has been absolutely wild lately, and we’ll post again as soon as things clear up and it’s safe to reopen.

Quick update about TSMS. 
 
if I understand well, you can find the following guys (not all of them every day, they each have a different schedule)
- The amazing and super classy Kenny
- super hot Charlie. Beautiful muscles
- Nelson
- Simon
- Rudy
- Robert
- maybe Wayne still works there although I have not seen him recently.
I have seen Jimmy a couple of times there too, but I don’t think he does massages anymore, I think he goes there to manage the team. That’s a pity, he was always so nice to me, I would love one last massage with him  
All of them make sure I have a good time when I go there, although they each have their limits, and I am sure your mileage may vary.
 

You could try a 24-hour mens spa in the city. They’re usually still open and not really affected by the cold, especially at night

Utopia was on Lex and maybe 72nd.

Thank you for posting this. I do wish the management would post it here weekly.

I hate to sound silly, but I usually just stop them right at the end of the massage and say “can I get your number” and make a motion like I am texting on a phone. If that doesn’t work I make the phone signal with my hand and hold it up to my ear and say again “can I get your number” and then usually I say “to text you” and make the texting motion again. I’ve never had them not understand after all that what I’m asking, even with almost 0 English. But I have had them occasionally say “no” or “not allowed,” etc. I’d say though I have at least a 70% success rate though when I ask. Usually they pull out their phone or if they don’t have it on them at that point I get up and grab mine.
Other thing is sometimes they don’t have text but have WhatsApp or WeChat, or even occasionally Facebook or Instagram. So be prepared for alternative options to text (but that’s more common in Asia or elsewhere).

This was posted as the roster for 27 men spa this week. 

Everyone who is able should consider adding $10-$20 to your tip next visit to help these guys recoup some of their losses today.