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    + purplekow got a reaction from + bashful in The death of the phone call as a method of communication   
    I receive phone calls all the time as part of my job.  What is annoying to me is that people call and then do not leave a message.  They are usually calling from a number which is an extension and as a result the number reported on the phone is a main number.  As a result, there is no way for me to return the call and I need to wait around for them to call again.  I do not understand why leaving a brief message is such a chore.  This is particularly annoying when the call has wakened me from sleep and now, in 5 to 10 minutes I will be awakened again.  
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    + purplekow got a reaction from TruthBTold in 21st Annual Palm Springs Weekend   
    You might consider adding a link to your advertisement if you have one.  That may spark some interest in a more privat meeting during the time you are in PS, unless it is a non working trip.  
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    + purplekow got a reaction from nate_sf in 21st Annual Palm Springs Weekend   
    You might consider adding a link to your advertisement if you have one.  That may spark some interest in a more privat meeting during the time you are in PS, unless it is a non working trip.  
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    + purplekow got a reaction from newdad in 21st Annual Palm Springs Weekend   
    You might consider adding a link to your advertisement if you have one.  That may spark some interest in a more privat meeting during the time you are in PS, unless it is a non working trip.  
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    + purplekow got a reaction from + sf westcoaster in 21st Annual Palm Springs Weekend   
    You might consider adding a link to your advertisement if you have one.  That may spark some interest in a more privat meeting during the time you are in PS, unless it is a non working trip.  
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    + purplekow got a reaction from + Pensant in 21st Annual Palm Springs Weekend   
    You might consider adding a link to your advertisement if you have one.  That may spark some interest in a more privat meeting during the time you are in PS, unless it is a non working trip.  
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    + purplekow got a reaction from nate_sf in DC Forum Meetup - MAL 2024   
    MAL is an event which can only be understood in attending.  No written word can quite describe the debauchery which one might encounter  and or participate in doing.  I attended about 5 of these Forum Mettups including the first one at Annies for Brunch.  The weather was actually quite nice and the the fellowship was refreshing.  The others I attended were always a fun weekend but the number of attendees waxed and waned.  I was one that tried to Nate to get it off the ground again in 2022 without success.  
    Some of us recall the most scandalous and controversial occurrence in all the forum meetings occurring during an early MAL meeting.  Ah the drama.  It had everything one could want in a scandal and there was a substantial hold over after the weekend was over.  Do not contact me for details, because unlike other orifices of other people that weekend, my lips are sealed.  
     
     
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    + purplekow got a reaction from + m_writer in DC Forum Meetup - MAL 2024   
    MAL is an event which can only be understood in attending.  No written word can quite describe the debauchery which one might encounter  and or participate in doing.  I attended about 5 of these Forum Mettups including the first one at Annies for Brunch.  The weather was actually quite nice and the the fellowship was refreshing.  The others I attended were always a fun weekend but the number of attendees waxed and waned.  I was one that tried to Nate to get it off the ground again in 2022 without success.  
    Some of us recall the most scandalous and controversial occurrence in all the forum meetings occurring during an early MAL meeting.  Ah the drama.  It had everything one could want in a scandal and there was a substantial hold over after the weekend was over.  Do not contact me for details, because unlike other orifices of other people that weekend, my lips are sealed.  
     
     
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    + purplekow got a reaction from + FrankR in DC Forum Meetup - MAL 2024   
    MAL is an event which can only be understood in attending.  No written word can quite describe the debauchery which one might encounter  and or participate in doing.  I attended about 5 of these Forum Mettups including the first one at Annies for Brunch.  The weather was actually quite nice and the the fellowship was refreshing.  The others I attended were always a fun weekend but the number of attendees waxed and waned.  I was one that tried to Nate to get it off the ground again in 2022 without success.  
    Some of us recall the most scandalous and controversial occurrence in all the forum meetings occurring during an early MAL meeting.  Ah the drama.  It had everything one could want in a scandal and there was a substantial hold over after the weekend was over.  Do not contact me for details, because unlike other orifices of other people that weekend, my lips are sealed.  
     
     
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    + purplekow reacted to Lucky181 in 21st Annual Palm Springs Weekend   
    Provider here, based in Orange County. I'm definitely going to try to make it out for this! Sounds like a great time. 
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    + purplekow got a reaction from + Charlie in Credit card debt hits 1 trillion! How much do you owe?   
    Most of my bills are utilities and other large companies.  When I eat at a restaurant I usually pay cash for the tip and use the card for meal.  Businesses that rely on credit cards up their price to cover the 2 to 4 % that the credit care charges so it is really the cash payers who are subsidizing my appliances and I thank them for it.  
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    + purplekow got a reaction from samhexum in The death of the phone call as a method of communication   
    I receive phone calls all the time as part of my job.  What is annoying to me is that people call and then do not leave a message.  They are usually calling from a number which is an extension and as a result the number reported on the phone is a main number.  As a result, there is no way for me to return the call and I need to wait around for them to call again.  I do not understand why leaving a brief message is such a chore.  This is particularly annoying when the call has wakened me from sleep and now, in 5 to 10 minutes I will be awakened again.  
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    + purplekow got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Walking on someone else’s lawn???   
    Ii no longer walk my dogs as I have my backyard fenced for them but when IO take thenm out for a stroll and they decide to pee, I try to have it be on pavement.  I do not fuss with the dogs if they are walking on the lawn edge as the pavement may be too hot for their paws.  I do not mind people walking on my lawn though I was taken aback when a parent with an ATV drove up to my door with his kids in a trailer in their Halloween custumes.  I live on a corner and with no sidewalks so sometimes walking on the lawn edge is necessary to avoid car traffic.  I would rather the footprints on the lawn rather than a blood trail. 
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    + purplekow got a reaction from + Pensant in How to gracefully turn down a provider?   
    Lie, kind of.  Say, something to the effect that I was really looking forward to meeting you but something urgent came up and I really needed to take care of it.  Is it alright to contact when I have a bit more time.  Thanks for answering so quickly.  
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    + purplekow got a reaction from MikeBiDude in Walking on someone else’s lawn???   
    Ii no longer walk my dogs as I have my backyard fenced for them but when IO take thenm out for a stroll and they decide to pee, I try to have it be on pavement.  I do not fuss with the dogs if they are walking on the lawn edge as the pavement may be too hot for their paws.  I do not mind people walking on my lawn though I was taken aback when a parent with an ATV drove up to my door with his kids in a trailer in their Halloween custumes.  I live on a corner and with no sidewalks so sometimes walking on the lawn edge is necessary to avoid car traffic.  I would rather the footprints on the lawn rather than a blood trail. 
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    + purplekow got a reaction from + Pensant in Credit card debt hits 1 trillion! How much do you owe?   
    This is generally an affluent group so it is not a surprise to have many people with no debt.  I am also an Amex user with monthly full balance payments taken automatically.  I use Amex to pay all my purchases and bills.  I see no reason for automatic payments of utilities and the like when I can have them paid automatically through Amex  and get the points.  When I redid my kitchen, I got all of my appliance with points and racked up a bunch of new points with the purchase.  
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    + purplekow got a reaction from JourneysEnd in Friendship with A Gay-For-Pay Porn Star That (Sadly) Ended   
    So he has blocked you on all social media.  Might I suggest from a mental health point of view to get some closure.  Write him an old fashioned letter.  You have been to his home and so ou probably know the address.  Write out whatever it is you want to say.  After it is done.  Rip that first one up and write the second one with all the initial hurt and anger diffused.  Mail it out and forget about it and him.  He may try to contract you and at that point you can make a decision of finality but I would say don't return to the scene of this crime after the closing letter.  
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    + purplekow got a reaction from CuriousByNature in Friendship with A Gay-For-Pay Porn Star That (Sadly) Ended   
    So he has blocked you on all social media.  Might I suggest from a mental health point of view to get some closure.  Write him an old fashioned letter.  You have been to his home and so ou probably know the address.  Write out whatever it is you want to say.  After it is done.  Rip that first one up and write the second one with all the initial hurt and anger diffused.  Mail it out and forget about it and him.  He may try to contract you and at that point you can make a decision of finality but I would say don't return to the scene of this crime after the closing letter.  
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    + purplekow got a reaction from + m_writer in Friendship with A Gay-For-Pay Porn Star That (Sadly) Ended   
    So he has blocked you on all social media.  Might I suggest from a mental health point of view to get some closure.  Write him an old fashioned letter.  You have been to his home and so ou probably know the address.  Write out whatever it is you want to say.  After it is done.  Rip that first one up and write the second one with all the initial hurt and anger diffused.  Mail it out and forget about it and him.  He may try to contract you and at that point you can make a decision of finality but I would say don't return to the scene of this crime after the closing letter.  
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    + purplekow got a reaction from BSR in Friendship with A Gay-For-Pay Porn Star That (Sadly) Ended   
    So he has blocked you on all social media.  Might I suggest from a mental health point of view to get some closure.  Write him an old fashioned letter.  You have been to his home and so ou probably know the address.  Write out whatever it is you want to say.  After it is done.  Rip that first one up and write the second one with all the initial hurt and anger diffused.  Mail it out and forget about it and him.  He may try to contract you and at that point you can make a decision of finality but I would say don't return to the scene of this crime after the closing letter.  
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    + purplekow got a reaction from SlimJim in What are you doing New Year’s Eve?   
    Watched some of the Harry Potter movies on tv and then went to bed.  I took the dogs in and closed the door so that they would not go barking into the backyard through the doggie door which is what would have happened due to the fireworks.  Keep a radio on to drown out the fireworks and feel asleep.  AT 2AM, I woke up and said happy new year to my prostate as I tried to coax a reasonable flow.  It seemed to work.  
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    + purplekow got a reaction from fancyboot in Closeted guys   
    Chances are that the provider does not care what your life away from him entails as far as your orientation, or at the least, he does not care about knowing as much as you care about telling.  So when you are ready, tell him what you want him to know.  He has heard it all and it likely does not rub him the wrong the way.  
    As far as being out, I was happy in a monogamous heterosexual relationship and as a result, I did not start seeing men until I was almost 50,  It seems that at that age no one really cares with whom you have sex and it may be that some do not believe that sex happens for people over 50. Being widowed, did occasionally raise the question as to whether I would date again or marry again.  I did ty dating again and did not care for it with either sex.   In any case, my situation now is Don't Ask, Don't Tell.  They don't ask and I feel no responsibility to discuss my sex likes with them.  I also do not ask them about their sex life.  To me, it is rude to ask  and it is really none of my business if my friends or relatives are having sex, how often, with whom, in what position.  On the rare occasion that sex comes up in conversation with my friends, it is usually relating funny experiences and long past stories, which have been told numerous times in the past. 
    In my office, I do have a gay pride flag that was given out by the hospital years ago and which sits wordlessly on top of a cabinet. If people notice, they do not ask.   A few months ago, while taking photos for a graduation of medical residents, there was a different group taking photos for Gay Pride month and they asked for Gay and Gay Allied persons to join their photo.  I did so.  Again without comment from me or to me.  
    So really, at this point, my sex life to others is more. Don't Care and Please Keep it to Yourself.  
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    + purplekow got a reaction from thomas in Madonna's new face for the Holidays   
    Many people who have cosmetic surgery see the "imperfections" that others don't see even if they are pointed out.  They start with small procedures and the small change eliminates one imperfection but highlights another and then so it goes.  Smaller procedures become larger and more surgery ensues.  
    There is a place for plastic surgery certainly.  Defects are corrected, lives can be changed, function can be restored but cosmetic surgery to me is a hope for something beyond the physical.  It is an attempt to turn back the clock which is an illusion even when cosmetically successful.  
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    + purplekow got a reaction from LFABWC in Alex Oscar - Brothers? 411   
    I do not have a brothers or twin fantasy.  I probably would not be enticed by the thought of joining them and my guess is the number of men who believe as I do probably outnumber the number of men who would find it tittilating. Therefore it would make business sense to play down that aspect.  On the other hand, if as new post pubescent boys you see nothing wrong with having sexual adventures with your life a brother best friend, why frown upon your is a brother best friend?  It is not as though either of you is getting pregnant.  Once you were out to each other, which may delay the interaction, it seems like, hey let's see what it feels like to do each other is a logical next step.  
    In the story of the Time Traveler's wife, teenage time ,traveler is at home when one of his time traveling persons, also teen aged, shows up and they are caught by their father doing 69.   How may of us would not do ourselves if a corporeal version of ourselves existed?  Well with identical twins, you just about have that.  
    At 15, I would have fucked and sucked  myself, even if I was not my type. I know, because I tried.  
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    + purplekow got a reaction from musclestuduws in Madonna's new face for the Holidays   
    Will she be thought of as ground breaking because by that time she will have had so much surgery she will look as though she rose up from a grave?
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