+ glennnnn Posted January 2 Share Posted January 2 (edited) I spent today trying to arrange a hook up for this week with a provider of erotic massage via email. At first, I couldnt find anyone available so I extended my quest to about six very fine candidates, knowing these masseurs very likely already knew I was on the prowl because I was using rentmasseur and I always check the "private gallery" because a beautiful cock ( cut, big mushroom glans, but not too big) is very, very important to me and this investigation into private pix automatically generates a notification of my interest to the possessor of said cock. This was great and I could almost taste my reward! Two hours later it was not so great when I realized that I now had e-mails from six great potential candidates all waiting to confirm appointments with me for just one massage! What to do? I could choose one and ignore the other five, but that is just plain rude and I most likely will want to spend time with some of them in the future. I could fess up via email and admit I fucked up. I could be very business like, thanK each one and hope for future meetings.I could......??? WHAT? I just want to acknowledge their responses and treat them with the respect they deserve. What do you think? I've learned my lesson about being more patient. U Edited January 2 by glennnnn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acks0104 Posted January 2 Share Posted January 2 "Thank you so much for your time! I'm not quite ready to see you at this moment but will be sure to reach out to you when I have the opportunity" No need to make it a big thing TorontoDrew, Medin, Moke and 4 others 1 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ purplekow Posted January 2 Share Posted January 2 Lie, kind of. Say, something to the effect that I was really looking forward to meeting you but something urgent came up and I really needed to take care of it. Is it alright to contact when I have a bit more time. Thanks for answering so quickly. + Pensant 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Mrprofessional Posted January 2 Share Posted January 2 35 minutes ago, acks0104 said: "Thank you so much for your time! I'm not quite ready to see you at this moment but will be sure to reach out to you when I have the opportunity" No need to make it a big thing I’ve told folks I’ve already made other plans when they get back to me but “ I hope we arrange another time soon.” Seems to work and the person understands. I’ve learned you have to make multiple requests at the same time to ensure one of them actually materializes. Luv2play, + Pensant and Moke 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DWnyc Posted January 2 Share Posted January 2 And be aware whatever approach you take (including no explanation / ghosting) may be received differently by each based on their sensitivities, experience etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted January 2 Share Posted January 2 That’s a feature of Rentmasseur I don’t use. I do get the notification that someone has looked at my profile but I never send the potential client an email in response to it. I figure that if they like me and want to book they’ll go ahead either now or at some point in the future. I see guys on Rentmasseur making multiple visits to my profile over many years! It takes some people a lot of thinking to actually make the decision to hire. However, if I did send an email to follow up with browsers then I wouldn’t be upset if they declined to book or just ignored it. I wouldn’t worry about it @glennnnn Luv2play and + Pensant 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maninsoma Posted January 2 Share Posted January 2 I agree that you are making this a bigger deal than it is. I assume you messaged none of them -- that they first messaged you after noticing you viewed their ads? If that's the case, then if you know you never want to meet certain of them you can simply ignore them. You aren't required to book someone just because you looked at his ad. If you do think you want to hire one or more of them at a later date, though, I think you can simply reply and say that you aren't prepared to meet with them now but will reach out at another time to schedule something. End of story. Luv2play and dcguy20 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solution ICTJOCK Posted January 2 Solution Share Posted January 2 I concur with some of the above guys. A provider shouldn't take it personally, I'm sure they get inquiries all the time. I'd definitely respond and tell them you like what you have seen (if you do) and will consider their services in the future as the need arises. I certainly wouldn't be offended. Simon Suraci and soloyo215 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soloyo215 Posted January 2 Share Posted January 2 8 hours ago, glennnnn said: I spent today trying to arrange a hook up for this week with a provider of erotic massage via email. At first, I couldnt find anyone available so I extended my quest to about six very fine candidates, knowing these masseurs very likely already knew I was on the prowl because I was using rentmasseur and I always check the "private gallery" because a beautiful cock ( cut, big mushroom glans, but not too big) is very, very important to me and this investigation into private pix automatically generates a notification of my interest to the possessor of said cock. This was great and I could almost taste my reward! Two hours later it was not so great when I realized that I now had e-mails from six great potential candidates all waiting to confirm appointments with me for just one massage! What to do? I could choose one and ignore the other five, but that is just plain rude and I most likely will want to spend time with some of them in the future. I could fess up via email and admit I fucked up. I could be very business like, thanK each one and hope for future meetings.I could......??? WHAT? I just want to acknowledge their responses and treat them with the respect they deserve. What do you think? I've learned my lesson about being more patient. U I think that providers know (or should know) that we, clients, look for more than one provider when choosing. That's why some of the websites have features for you to create a list of prospective providers. So it's not out of the ordinary that you have looked or reached out to multiple providers. There's absolutely nothing wrong with stating that at the moment I am unavailable to request an appointment, but that you will keep him in mind for the future. And yes, there will be a future interest in booking another session. Nothing out of the ordinary in that. Yes, acknowledge the responses, especially since high chances are that you will want to try such provider in the future, and if not, it's just courtesy and good manners to do so. Simon Suraci 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LookingAround Posted January 2 Share Posted January 2 Looking at an ad is VERY different from actually reaching out to a person. Simply ignore their email. This is their attempt at marketing. It’s. It s personal email to you. They don’t know you. Ignore it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
viewing ownly Posted January 5 Share Posted January 5 The provider isn't being turned down if you aren't making an arrangement with them to begin with. Consider yourself fortunate that so many people have an interest in your business, and choose the big but not too big mushroom-headed man of your liking. See someone else another time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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