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I have good news and bad news for you.  Vin is in terrific shape and if anything he looks better than in those photos.  He is coming to Palm Springs at my request during the Palm Springs weekend.  He has sent me regular updates and he is in amazing shape for a man of any age from 21 to 61.  I can assure you that you would not be disappointed in his conditioning.  The bad news is that, if you want to see him, you need to consider coming to the Palm Springs get together because he just told me he does not have an LA availability.   Besides the great muscular vascular body, he is a gentleman of the highest caliber and a delightful person with whom to spend time over dinner or at a pool party or just hanging around the pool on a sunny afternoon.   
 

If the bottom is not hard and is into humiliation, I find that a good opportunity to make fun of him not having an erection. You have to know your partner and know his turn ons.  I have had one partner in particular who only got hard when bottoming when he was humiliated verbally alomg  with physical humiliation such as teasing slaps across the face.   He would answer back when he was hard, with things like "see I am a man" or "your cock made a man of me". "or no one else gets me hard like that" The exact words did not really matter so much as his realizing that his pleasurable erection was directly due to my control over him.  Now that I think about it, not sure who was controlling whom but it was fun and very hot.

Long Island is a bedroom community of several million people.  With all those bedrooms there are many bedroom closets.  If you open enough of those closets you will find gay men.  There is that one gay strip joint on Long Island Buff Daddy's.

Would only hope he was not a English Composition major.  His profile was so overdone, that if it were Thanksgiving dinner he would be tossing out the turkey from the silver platter and ordering in McDonald's on his platinum American Express. 

I clearly commented on his profile and its content not on him, as did most others.  However, when one chooses to have oneself represented by the gobbledy-gook which is his profile, it is not surprising that there is a run over effect.  

I love spanking a muscle ass barehanded.  Draven Navarro does indeed enjoy a good spanking but you have to vary the tempo with him.  Hard slaps with a loud sound by using a cupped hand and then when he feels comfortable, open the hand and slap so that the slap is just as hard but not as loud and because there is more area struck, it is a bit more painful.  That is when you will get the best reaction, a yelp, a moan, even a sob.  A kiss to the reddened area and a gentle massage will cool down the area and once he is comfortable again another extra hard slap.  
For me though, it is the sound of the slap that I find the most erotic, that and the sound of the moan.  It is not so much a power dynamic.  Also, I never do an over the lap spanking, standing bent over or lying face down are preferable for me.  Allows more variation in the intensity the stroke. Spanking is never the main event, so five minutes would be a long session but there may be more than one session in an encounter.  Also slapping an ass while giving oral usually leads to a jump and a particularly hard thrust which can be fun. 
Do not give up after one encounter, and spank when the fancy strikes you to strike him.  
A belt is also fun but I tend to leave that for one or two strikes as I am concerned I might really strike more than my partner enjoys.  
The redness after is a nice afterglow image.  

Here are a couple of new fun folks who'll be joining us in April for the first time. They're both going to be staying with me at Inndulge, but are looking forward to making all kinds of new connections. Bode Brentwood will be arriving on Friday and Louie  will arrive on Thursday. They'll both likely post in this thread with more info later, but they asked me to drop their links today since I had the time. They're both great guys. Feel free to reach out to them directly.  

I know we will not get a complete list but I am encouraging any escorts planning on coming to Palm Springs for the yearly weekend, to post here or in the travel section.  It will be a big help to those of us thinking about a close in counter of the 69 kind.  

I'll be there! Though due to a work commitment with my day job, I won't be arriving until Saturday evening after the dinner. But I'll be sticking around until Tuesday.

I know we will not get a complete list but I am encouraging any escorts planning on coming to Palm Springs for the yearly weekend, to post here or in the travel section.  It will be a big help to those of us thinking about a close in counter of the 69 kind.  

Why the inquest?  Did someone die?

Awwwww! If there’s an annual or bi-annual ‘Tristan Thread’ then perhaps there had to be the bi-annual or annual RESPONSE to it!
Absolutely swooning in the compliments; appreciate all of you so very much who have supported me over the years. I have never attempted to be the same as some of my colleagues- whose business model is to pack an absurd amount of clients into one day, fill themselves up with money like the cheeks of a chipmunk, then disappear for weeks. 
 
My model is slow but steady, only a couple a day at max- and that allows me my other obligations to the Army and to family / dogs / regular job. Communication with me can suck; and I will state that in advance…but as all of you who stayed the course have seen; I never do people wrong. 
 
As far as not being everyone’s type; oh well. Some people on this forum also strive for guys that perpetual con artists and hustlers, or because a guy is 22 and ‘less touched’, his value increases? ROFLMAO. Alright, let me know how that works out when he leaves after 35 minutes or doesn’t show up period, demands deposits, or blackmails you down the line when he’s desperate for 👌.
I feel better at 41 then I did in my early 30s;  and what you bring to a session as an escort is more important between your ears, as between your legs or the biceps on your arms. 
 
Time and experience shape perspective; and I am thankful to all my ‘mentors’ out there for helping craft mine. Love you all! ❤️
‘TB’ / Jordan

I know we will not get a complete list but I am encouraging any escorts planning on coming to Palm Springs for the yearly weekend, to post here or in the travel section.  It will be a big help to those of us thinking about a close in counter of the 69 kind.  

I have known Tristan for 15 years.  I make arrangements with him regularly.  You need to have some patience with him as he has a very complicated existence with his various interests and assorted travels and jobs.  He is well worth the trouble and you will never be dissatisfied with a visit from him.  However, just beware, that last minute changes in plans are frequent.  On the other hand, he gives undivided attention.  He is not a clock watcher.  He has a strong masculine aura and he has alpha qualities that are great but you may also find him willing to take a less dominant role, if you are inclined to want to alpha out.  He is generous with his attention.  He will leave you breathless and well satisfied in a way few others are able to do.  He is without doubt as sexy and sensual man as you will ever meet.  He will be passing by my area on his way back from his latest trek and I am hoping he will stop for spell here.  

I know we will not get a complete list but I am encouraging any escorts planning on coming to Palm Springs for the yearly weekend, to post here or in the travel section.  It will be a big help to those of us thinking about a close in counter of the 69 kind.  

I know we will not get a complete list but I am encouraging any escorts planning on coming to Palm Springs for the yearly weekend, to post here or in the travel section.  It will be a big help to those of us thinking about a close in counter of the 69 kind.  

I have known Tristan for 15 years.  I make arrangements with him regularly.  You need to have some patience with him as he has a very complicated existence with his various interests and assorted travels and jobs.  He is well worth the trouble and you will never be dissatisfied with a visit from him.  However, just beware, that last minute changes in plans are frequent.  On the other hand, he gives undivided attention.  He is not a clock watcher.  He has a strong masculine aura and he has alpha qualities that are great but you may also find him willing to take a less dominant role, if you are inclined to want to alpha out.  He is generous with his attention.  He will leave you breathless and well satisfied in a way few others are able to do.  He is without doubt as sexy and sensual man as you will ever meet.  He will be passing by my area on his way back from his latest trek and I am hoping he will stop for spell here.  

I know we will not get a complete list but I am encouraging any escorts planning on coming to Palm Springs for the yearly weekend, to post here or in the travel section.  It will be a big help to those of us thinking about a close in counter of the 69 kind.  

I have known Tristan for 15 years.  I make arrangements with him regularly.  You need to have some patience with him as he has a very complicated existence with his various interests and assorted travels and jobs.  He is well worth the trouble and you will never be dissatisfied with a visit from him.  However, just beware, that last minute changes in plans are frequent.  On the other hand, he gives undivided attention.  He is not a clock watcher.  He has a strong masculine aura and he has alpha qualities that are great but you may also find him willing to take a less dominant role, if you are inclined to want to alpha out.  He is generous with his attention.  He will leave you breathless and well satisfied in a way few others are able to do.  He is without doubt as sexy and sensual man as you will ever meet.  He will be passing by my area on his way back from his latest trek and I am hoping he will stop for spell here.  

I have known Tristan for 15 years.  I make arrangements with him regularly.  You need to have some patience with him as he has a very complicated existence with his various interests and assorted travels and jobs.  He is well worth the trouble and you will never be dissatisfied with a visit from him.  However, just beware, that last minute changes in plans are frequent.  On the other hand, he gives undivided attention.  He is not a clock watcher.  He has a strong masculine aura and he has alpha qualities that are great but you may also find him willing to take a less dominant role, if you are inclined to want to alpha out.  He is generous with his attention.  He will leave you breathless and well satisfied in a way few others are able to do.  He is without doubt as sexy and sensual man as you will ever meet.  He will be passing by my area on his way back from his latest trek and I am hoping he will stop for spell here.  

I know we will not get a complete list but I am encouraging any escorts planning on coming to Palm Springs for the yearly weekend, to post here or in the travel section.  It will be a big help to those of us thinking about a close in counter of the 69 kind.  

I know we will not get a complete list but I am encouraging any escorts planning on coming to Palm Springs for the yearly weekend, to post here or in the travel section.  It will be a big help to those of us thinking about a close in counter of the 69 kind.  

I know we will not get a complete list but I am encouraging any escorts planning on coming to Palm Springs for the yearly weekend, to post here or in the travel section.  It will be a big help to those of us thinking about a close in counter of the 69 kind.  

I have known Tristan for 15 years.  I make arrangements with him regularly.  You need to have some patience with him as he has a very complicated existence with his various interests and assorted travels and jobs.  He is well worth the trouble and you will never be dissatisfied with a visit from him.  However, just beware, that last minute changes in plans are frequent.  On the other hand, he gives undivided attention.  He is not a clock watcher.  He has a strong masculine aura and he has alpha qualities that are great but you may also find him willing to take a less dominant role, if you are inclined to want to alpha out.  He is generous with his attention.  He will leave you breathless and well satisfied in a way few others are able to do.  He is without doubt as sexy and sensual man as you will ever meet.  He will be passing by my area on his way back from his latest trek and I am hoping he will stop for spell here.  

I have known Tristan for 15 years.  I make arrangements with him regularly.  You need to have some patience with him as he has a very complicated existence with his various interests and assorted travels and jobs.  He is well worth the trouble and you will never be dissatisfied with a visit from him.  However, just beware, that last minute changes in plans are frequent.  On the other hand, he gives undivided attention.  He is not a clock watcher.  He has a strong masculine aura and he has alpha qualities that are great but you may also find him willing to take a less dominant role, if you are inclined to want to alpha out.  He is generous with his attention.  He will leave you breathless and well satisfied in a way few others are able to do.  He is without doubt as sexy and sensual man as you will ever meet.  He will be passing by my area on his way back from his latest trek and I am hoping he will stop for spell here.