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On 12/10/2023 at 9:01 AM, poolboy48220 said:

as a dog-crazy person I wouldn't mind 😜 I remember one hire years ago, the provider's dog was licking my foot during the session.

I usually do outcall since my dog doesn't like being shut out of the bedroom. I've done a few incalls where I'll let her in the room once we're done & just relaxing on the bed, the provider has never minded.

The provider has never told you he minded.  I have three dogs at this time and I have never had a provider tell me he minds. but it is clear that they have and I try to keep the dogs separate and quiet.  I do not always succeed.  On one occasion, I left the dogs in the bedroom after the provider if it was okay.  It was an overnight and I awoke to find the provider in a different room sleeping.  I would have preferred he told me so I would not have inconvenienced him.  

Casino?    Hiking?     Palm Spring Museum?   Lying out in the sun.   Doing nothing by the pool?   

The extremely hot ones burn up and fizzle, the extreme cool ones know how to keep things real.  I prefer heat in the bedroom to heat in the escort's mirror.  However, if you can get both and keep it cool otherwise, you have an escort that can ring the Kow bell.  I can always use more Kow Bell.  I have a fever and the only prescription is more Kow Bell.  

6 hours ago, 7829V said:

Honestly, I didn't recall this post; it seems to be a recurring theme in my life. Currently, I'm in a long-term relationship where my partner's income is considerably less than mine. While he offers to contribute to household expenses, I consistently decline, reassuring him there's no need to worry. However, I've been contemplating the idea that he could cover specific expenses or perhaps create a "going out" fund. For instance, for every $100 he contributes, I could contribute $300, or a similar arrangement. I'm interested in learning from those in long-term relationships with income discrepancies how they have navigated situations like this.

Here's an idea, stop worrying about the money.  Let him pay the bills he offers to pay.  If you like, you can pay the whole bill and put his money aside and save up for a great vacation.  Value the person and respect his financial limitations.  Also, hope he is not writing in and saying, my live in is wealthy and while he satisfies my financial needs, he does not fulfill my sexual needs. Each partner brings something different to the table, the bank and the bedroom.  They should do so in a spirit of love and caring without counting who is giving what.  

10 hours ago, sync said:

There is a lot of presumption regarding his financial discretion.

It is possible he is not as reckless with his future financial security as it appears and has investment and savings processes in place.

Time will tell.

He never added and I am stocking away a large chunk of change too.  so going by what you see, conspicuous consumption. Check. 

Unnnecessary braggadocio Check   Immature and unrefined taste. Check.   401 K.  No check. Want to impress Show me the money used wisely.  

This is the modern day version of the old show Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous.  It is more of the Lifestyle of the I think I am Rich but really not so much and the I wanna be Famous. The live for today lifestyle and boast about it to strangers speaks of immaturity but he has a nice tight body, I hope he has developed some other assets. for his sake.  It also seems that besides the IRS knocking on his door, one day a bored policeman may find his way there as well.   

There are provider wo live in Jersey or who will travel to Jersey, it is a matter of being diligent in finding them.  I must admit, I have providers travel to see me in Central Jersey but all of them are regulars who do not take on new clients.  

36 minutes ago, nycman said:

God dammit, I knew I shouldn’t have trusted @WilliamM’s spelling. 
Even as I typed it I thought, "that's funny, I never knew she spelled that way", but it still didn’t save me!
Thanks for the correction.

Back to the topic at hand, I always thought Ryan O’Neal was a dirt bag. 
His behavior at Farah’s funeral just reinforced my belief….

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/ryan-oneal-i-hit-on-my-da_n_249668

 

Just to continue the correction game, it is Farrah Fawcett(-Majors) though she was demoted from majors to privates eventually and not Farah, the men's clothing sales company.  Peyton Place in which Ryan started was not just a soap opera, it was a phenomenal piece of trash television and I believe it was the first prime time soap opera.  It was popular enough at the time for it to be broadcast two times a week for a portion if its run. It was considered quite daring and sexual without being actually dirty.   Mr. O'Neal was quite the striking young man and he was the main draw, with Mia Farrow, at least at the beginning of the show.  It was popular enough to inspire a line in this 1960's hit:

Which was eventually was the inspiration for a made for TV movie starring Barbara Eden.  Ms. Eden played Jeannie (not the Jeannie C Riley who sang the hit version of this song)on I Dream of Jeannie.  Her co-star in that series was Larry Hagman who went on to play JR Ewing on the big hit prime time soap Dallas.  

8 hours ago, Vin_Marco said:

• if you go see a client who happens to be staying at a 5 star hotel I'd not wear a stringer. The vast majority of people I see greatly appreciate not drawing extra attention to myself or the situation 😃

.... I know it's  goofy that I'm even writing this but I have no shortage of stories about "he showed up wearing....." if there's dining plans the stringer will dictate where you dine 😜 

 

*even when it's requested ( to wear revealing clothes ) I never feel super comfortable checking in with a doorman. Someone's home ( no doorman ) no problem... I've knocked on doors nude and with a boner 😜

Hmmm   Knocking  on doors with a boner  Watch out for splinters.  " I am going to knock on your, tap on your window pane"

Intersting to read the unwritten rules.  Mostly, be considerate and then fuck like an animal. 

To quote Robert Browning. "the best is yet to be".  Ignore what precedes and follows and concentrate on that.  Happiest of Birthdays.  I hope you get everyone you want.

As he is an Academy Award winning actor, it seems George Santos could be played by............George Santos.  Paying this con man money to reproduce his ashamedly dishonest life is a travesty.  HBO should be ashamed as well.  Of course, I will be watching only to be able to make cogent disparaging remarks.  

The expenses are mainly in getting there and getting lodging.  Car rental is an expense that may be avoided if you are good at meeting people and asking for rides.  Depending on where you stay. many activities will be walking distance and most of the fun activities are just a roll over in bed away.  

Good Evening with Dudley Moore and Peter Cook

2 hours ago, BSR said:

Yeah, too bad the security guard wasn't armed.  He'd still be alive today, regardless of what weapon his attacker wielded.

More gun owners die accidentally from their own gun then people who defend themselves by shooting someone else, so chances are he may have already been dead.  Deaths in the US years. Guns 50000.  knives 1500.   so about 150 people a day in US killed with guns, about 5 a day with knives.  Fatalities from drunk driving, about 37 per day.  

18 hours ago, BSR said:

Where is the outcry for knife control?

Probably when some one can stand on a rooftop and stab 50 people to death or when 2000 children are stabbed to death, most of them accidentally in any calendar year.  Or perhaps when cleaning one's knife one accidentally kills oneself when they thought the blade wasn't sharp.  Need I go one?  Probably not because all those bullets flying have left gun advocates seaf to the desire of the majority of the people in the US and their gun lobbies continue to buy government officials.  The Nation Knife Association does not have that much pull or money.  

I guess one could be strapped for cash and wind up being killed by a strapping  thief.  

This is not a new idea at all.  I can remembers hearing of several such places in the 70s and of course, you can get that kind of treatment in any restaurant in NYC.  

On 12/2/2023 at 1:33 PM, Rudynate said:

Doubtful that she paid that much for it - they may even have given it to her for the publicity. 

I agree that it is likely she did not pay anything for it and just as likely that she was paid to walk around with it.   American consumers are sheep and so companies feed the lead sheep and slaughter the ones that follow.  

Fulfillment of any dream takes a combination of hard work, imagination and a certain degree of luck and also time.  . Not all American Dreams are achieved via a free pass to the Ivy League.  Some dreams are smaller first steps and need to be realistic for the circumstances into which one is born.  So sure, there are those who are lucky enough to be born into favorable circumstances and the chances for success are higher. There are those who are born into financial. emotional or educational poverty to whom achieving the ultimate dream is less attainable.  When my grandfather left Europe and came to the US with a dream for success, it took 100 years of work by him, his children and his grandchildren to have demonstrably achieved the American Dream.  Still, this Dream has only been achieved to the standard we have set for success.  

 There is no doubt that there are privileged individuals who start with a big lead.  There are also exceptionally talented people who rush ahead.  There are particularly lucky people who find the key to success on an early try.  That does not mean the Dream is only for them.  Success is not going to be achieved by all, rather the opportunity for success is there for all with a small number with a big lead and most others trying to inch close step by step and in my case generation by generation.  

I received a phone call just after dinner from a well known escort who was dancing at a all female Christmas party and they asked him to dress as Santa.  This escort lives several hours from me but the party was only 30  minutes away and he asked if I would like to get together.  Having no plans, I said sure.  When he arrived, he was wearing the Santa suit from the party.  He is 6 foot 3 or so and very muscular and I was surprisingly turned on by the outfit and muscle Santa   Needless to say, soon after we started having Christmas cheers, I found out that he enjoyed those on his naughty list and eventually  both Santa and I emptied our sacks.  By the way, Santa does come more than once a year.  

Has anyone here enjoyed hosting Santa?

If the American dream is having the ability to establish one's own dream and achieving it, then I have.  Lower middle class upbringing though my father did own his own barber shop so perhaps that made us middle middle class. Still, there was no extra money once the mortgage was paid and the family was fed.  Scholarships, jobs and loans got me through college and one year working got me debt free.  Graduate degree put me back in debt but one year out I was once again debt free.  I bought my first new car when I was 25 and saw my father teary eyed when he bought his first new car at age 65. I can still hear him saying:  "I never thought I would be able to do this."    Though certainly at different economic levels, my father achieved the American dream of doing better than his parents and having his children do better than he did.  I feel as though I have continued that dream.  

So is this guy hot, Luke warm or cold.  His speedo embarrasses his daughter in the commercial.  ttps://giphy.com/gifs/MtoLaapiXZNwevbSGl

There is a former male escort working as a roofing estimator in Florida.  Making quite a nice amount of money, according to him, sitting at a desk most of the time and he has plenty of time for gym.  When he does have to go out to do the estimate, he always wears tight fitting clothes to please the ladies and the gay men and perhaps to stir up some hidden feelings in the "straight men". 

10 hours ago, samhexum said:

Just what everybody wants a drunk guy on their roof with an AK 47.  I am not sure who he is trying to attract with this ad.  Gy guys would like the eye candy but probably not the politics.  I think most women could be quite content with his guns but not the AK$& type.  So probably is just a gimmick.  If you Want a roof like heaven get an AK 47 cause you gotta have a gimmick.

At 77 years old, Dolly Parton had former Dallas Cowboy quarterback, and quite a nice stud, Tony Romo, drooling over her half time performance.  Dolly dressed in a Dallas Cowboy Cheerleader uniform  sang several of her biggest hits and some other songs during the half time of the Washing Dallas Thanksgiving day football game.  Tony Romo, who was the color analyst for the game, had a definite  leer in his voice as he wide-eyedly commented about the show after the performance.  Dolly and the favorable camera angles which had her looking decades younger, made the show memorable.  If one watched carefully, you might note her holding onto half walls for support and there was an occasional angle that suggested that her real age, but all in all, Dolly and the girls filled out the cheerleader uniform with her signature breasts, a flat abdomen camouflaged a bit by a sparkling midriff sheer and quite shapely legs shown to perfection in the cheerleader short shorts.  

All in all, after this performance, Dolly at a future Super Bowl would not come as a surprise.