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I like kissing as much as I like fucking.  It’s a deal-breaker for me, and it’s annoying that so many list it in their Inyo’s when they clearly are not.

I respect that some don't want to kiss. I won't hire them though. Kissing is an essential part of the experience for me.
 
 

I think you have a great point here, @ThroatCummer . To me, no kissing is the absolute deal breaker in hiring. Furthermore, when I sense that my partner (paid or not paid) is not really enjoying kissing me, when he is not being truly responsive to my kissing, I totally lose interest and my dick goes limp. 

Met him as well. He chased me on rm thru the same types of messages fayhek received. He looked like his pics but shorter than I expected. He topped. Was smaller than I expected down below. Kissed well, passionate. But ultimately not memorable and I’d pass. 

I met him once several years ago and once was enough.   His apartment was the filthiest I have ever seen.   The bathroom probably hadn't been cleaned in 10 years.   The massage was mediocre at best.   

Not as much of a risk. 
barebacking during anal has a significantly higher transmission risk of infections than condomless oral, for various reasons. 
 
 

This is an important topic and one which deserves serious consideration.Thanks for raising it! 
I guess I’m having a lot more sex with different guys than someone who doesn’t do sex work so one might assume that I’d catch things. Especially because the majority of the sex I have is condom less. Most people I see don’t want to use a condom for sex and certainly in the porn I do it’s never with a condom. I think what people see on porn is what they like or want to do in sessions so that ‘no condom’ thing transfers over. Those clients that might want to use a condom because of concerns about STD’s tend to go for action that doesn’t include penetration (oral obviously doesn’t count as penetration!).
However, in the years I’ve been doing sex work I can’t think of any occasions when I’ve caught something from a client, and two occasions when I’ve caught something from another porn performer. It’s actually quite rare and in my check ups (every 3m) I’m clear. 
I think the chances of catching something are far higher when attending sex parties or sex clubs / saunas. The reason? People who do sex work are fastidious about sexual health check ups because if they catch something then they’re unable to work for 2 weeks. Guys that go to these parties and clubs are less careful and get tested less frequently.
So whatI think is that if you see a professional then it’s probably a lot safer than if you see someone off a hookup app or at a sauna or club. 
 

One of the most disappointing sessions I've encountered. I was reminded why I don't try guys from out of town. I texted and booked a sensual-mutual touch massage yesterday.  Upon arrival, I was immediately quoted a higher price than what is online for what I booked. That's a red flag and a turn off.  The massage was ONLY therapeutic and seemed like he was rushing through it. Nothing sensual about it at all. Nothing delivered that we talked about. It ended up being one of the most expensive 45 minute therapeutic massages I have had. I could have gone to a nice spa and got the same thing for less. After I left I immediately called one of my local providers to get the full body massage experience I was hoping for. Lesson learned! Wow what an expensive day!!!

Thanks BigNoiseDallas. Very very disappointing. It seemed others had good experience with Xavier so I veered off from my own policy to avoid traveling masseurs and got burned. At least with the locals I feel they for the most part care about their craft and client retention. But now after the fact I see in a different post he has unfavorable reviews.

I had the same experience.  Despite discussing expectations in advance, he incorporated zero sensual/erotic elements into the massage.  When I arrived at his hotel, he had bags of food all over the place, the room reeked of his dinner (which he was finishing when I arrived).   As I was getting dressed, he must have sensed I was disappointed because he blocked me the minute I left his room.   I guess he wanted to be sure he didn't get a negative review.  

Some guys advertise as both a masseur and escort.  If you want more than a massage with a happy ending, book them as an escort.  Even then, some communication in advance will help set expectations for both parties. 
 

His ad statrs he’s been doing this for 11 years. Yet he still doesn’t now what clients want?
Must be a very slow learner. 

I had an appointment with him in Columbus Ohio.  He also goes by Kirill.  He is Russian and there’s a bit of a language barrier.  He looks older than his pics but is still handsome.  He has a unique massage technique, using a lot of pressure and his hands get very warm in the process.  It felt really good actually.  So, a great soothing and relaxing massage.
He did strip down to a jock strap after I was face down on his table. But there was nothing sensual or erotic about the massage.  At the end, he said I could jack off for an extra $60.  I wasn’t turned on and didn’t think that was worth it.  I paid his $160 rate plus only $10 tip.  
I asked if he was straight or gay.  He said gay, but a lot of guys ask if he is straight and he didn’t understand why.   I told him it might be because he wasn’t very sensual with his massage.  He told me he didn’t want to offend anyone. I let him know the guys who find him with sites like Rentmasseur and Masseurfinder are definitely looking for something more sensual.  He understood, so I think he will start incorporating that.  Let me know if anyone meets him and now gets a better experience.  I won’t be repeating. 

No. It was kinda weird. Wouldn't repeat.

Reached out through text and told him what type of session I like and asked for any additional info or rates.  He responded with a "Thank you" and nothing else. Then blocked my Rmasseur profile .....NEXT!  ha ha

Sorry to hear about your experience.  It sounds like something has definitely changed with him.  I've known him for many years and used to see him quite often.  He was always a power bottom in the past but seems like he is mainly/only a top now.  As you experienced as well, the last couple of times I saw him his hygiene was was not good.  The last time was horrible and so I quite seeing him.   I understand certain things can happen but that wasn't the case here.  This was literally not cleaning at all between clients.  

My experience was very rushed.  After about 40 minutes, he started playing with his cell phone.  I realize he isn't trained/licensed, but at a rate of $200 not including any extras, the least he could do is buy some decent massage oil.  Once was enough for me.  
 

I'd probably do drugs too if someone took me to a food court

Rats! I was hoping for Sbarro. Can't beat that spaghetti that's been sitting for 9 hours. 😁

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 all over the place. The pix give me a vibe it's not him, and the profile written by AI (artificial incoherence) nails it.

I got the same reply... he is totally my type, but not for 250... especially in Miami where rates are waaaaaay lower and you can find good ones for 120

It works for 
It works for me as well and I'm not a paying member. 

My nips are so sensitive but I hate having them played with cause it makes me cum instantly 😂😂 

35 minutes

Ugh, sounds like another pretty face with zero competency.