bearlover

I think he used to go by JulianDIM . If you search under that name, you’ll find other threads and comments. I had considered hiring him but decided against it given the not so favorable comments on this forum and that when I’ve ran into him on the streets he exudes a very unfriendly/off-putting vibe.

I’ve seen him too and similar experience as others. Great tool, okay to decent massage on table in his living room. Very clean place and good location. Also seemed disconnected or maybe there wasn’t just any chemistry which is okay. His dog was running around all the time which was kind of distracting, too so no urge to repeat.

When I contacted him a while ago for an outcall, we agreed on a fee, time and location ahead of time. About 20-10 min before the agreed start time, he reaches out and asks about parking situation, I explained I had no parking and would be a street situation and his (paraphrased) response was “that’s one of the things you should’ve disclosed from the beginning”. I then even had to confirm if he was coming and he said no. Never reached out again. Felt a bit unfair and his response rude as if parking was a concern especially in a densely populated area, he should’ve asked that beforehand.

Did you happen to meet up?

FYI, seems like a scam. When you open his private pictures it’s a completly different guy from the public pics. https://rentmasseur.com/Softhhands

Please share your experience if you end up meeting up! ?

He was very nice and looks like his pics. Massage was in the nude although he put a lot of effort into the massage, definitely not trained. The HE at the end was kind of mechanic. A bit of a steep price for what you really get IMHO.

Had a massage with once. Massage was okay and he wasn’t as welcoming/interactive. At one point even kind of rude. Wouldn’t repeat. Feel free to DM if you have specific questions.

Interested as well!

Agreed! It would be great if he visited Chicago more often!

Omg, I read some of the “horror” stories and can’t help but to laugh. People really need to have critical/good judgement and not just “absorb” everything the media blurbs out. Tijuana is like any city. Use common sense and you’ll have a great time! It’s so much fun, great food, drinks and a great time. If you have any specific questions, feel free to PM me for suggestions.

Sure! I’d think so! Depends on the specifics too. Do you know if this is happening?