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When the escort starts making you things like a framed photo of you two, or sends you flowers with his name at work, wants to come over and watch TV on the couch on a random night, or buys you airplane tickets to Colombia to meet his family on vacation.... that's how you know. 
Everything else is for the money.  

Are you single? 
I ask because this is a job for some, but you can also make it into whatever you want it to be. There is a possibility even to find the love of your life. But I digress. lol
My advice would be not entirely to dismiss any possibilities. You're going to meet all kinds of people -- old, young, fat, thin, married, single, straight, gay, etc. Treat others with respect and be open with communication. Tell them what you want and what you need. Be upfront and straightforward. Approach each person as if they were the only client in the world. Make them feel like they are the center of your universe for the time you are with them. Be fully present in all situations and have a Plan B or an "exit" at all times. 
Sit down and paper out why you want to do this. What do you have to offer that others don't? Are you working towards a goal? Do you have debt to pay down or do you just want some extra cash? Are you going to do this in your home city or travel? What hours? How will you manage this with your professional life? Social media? Facebook profile? Instagram? Twitter? 
What happens if you're recognized? Who knows you? 
These are all the questions you should be asking yourself and you'll need answers to everything -- or at least answers you're comfortable with. 
This industry is absolutely amazing. Leveraged the right way, it is a win-win for both the client and the escort. It can be better than therapy, but more brutal than a root canal. High highs. Low lows. 
Ground yourself first and figure out what you want out of this. Maybe write back a bunch and we can be here to help guide you.  

Disclaimer: I'm a client. My partner is an escort. We met on Rent.men. We're getting married. Another guy, one of my closest friends, is an escort who helped me change my life. So I have an infinite amount of wisdom and experience here from all sides. 
Good luck!

For me it's reviews. They have to have 4.8 or higher and 10+ reviews. That tells me everything. We like to say that it doesn't matter but it's proven across every industry (Yelp, Amazon, Uber) that they DO count and they DO matter. 

The motto of my wedding is "Vivir en el Momento!" (Live in the moment!) 
Just keep doing that. Our time on this rock is finite. Use your money to bring you joy -- sexually and emotionally. Then leave it to whomever is deserving, even if that is an escort. Always be genuine and respectful in everything you do and you will live out your remaining years with incredible sex and friends and comfort. 
You're lucky.  

I work in financial technology and crimes.  There are "elder abuse" and "elder scam" policies that the government has. US Treasury. FinCEN. IRS. DHS. FBI. etc.
They are the ones who get to define what is "elderly" 
... at the moment, that is 65 and older. It may change, but that's the reality. 

I had originally created the @Statham anonymous account to unlink the topic here from my posting history. But seeing as I fucked that up accessing Companyofmen from my phone that had a stored login for this account, that went tits up. So here we are. 
We have a date in 2024. He just took me home to Cartagena, Colombia to meet his family two weeks ago, which was a lot with my new conversational only Spanish. I'll be fluent in a few months, no sweat. You can read "Our Story" here along with "Moments" for a ton of pictures here:
www.vivirenelmomento.com  (Live In The Moment)
As part of the "Our Story" we mentioned meeting through a common friend on Instagram. That is only half the story, we aren't ready to share the entire thing just yet. Truth is the 'common friend' was an escort here in Boston that I met with a bunch of times who is his ex-boyfriend of four years. They were broken up but I did follow him on Instagram and I did see a picture of him at dinner here in Boston, and I did text the escort friend who posted it and asked who he was. Jose (my other half) came over that night and never left. lol. 
I'm also not worried about giving that site out here and disclosing the location/date. Given what I do in the real world for work, I have security on lock for the events of that day. Nobody is getting near the wedding. 😎
He still does escorting on the side. It's amazing extra money and he also has a full time job.  He uses it mostly to send money back to his family in Cartagena for random things like a new refrigerator which they recently needed.  I don't mind it, in fact he's really good. Also many clients hire for non-sexual reasons like companionship, dinner, movies, talk, whatever. Not having to do it full time because he has other work, he can afford to be selective with the clients and "jobs" he takes -- e.g., not doing anything he truly doesn't want or isn't of interest.  That will probably change when we have kids in a year or two but it works for now. 
He is 9 months older than me. He's 46 and I am 45, although it doesn't look that way. We fight over who's the actual daddy in the relationship. He thinks he is because he's older. I know I am able because of the gray hair. 
I've also worked through all the questions on the site. Many parts of the story can be read on the wedding site above. I've figured out the answers to all my questions with his help. It works. 

Are you single? 
I ask because this is a job for some, but you can also make it into whatever you want it to be. There is a possibility even to find the love of your life. But I digress. lol
My advice would be not entirely to dismiss any possibilities. You're going to meet all kinds of people -- old, young, fat, thin, married, single, straight, gay, etc. Treat others with respect and be open with communication. Tell them what you want and what you need. Be upfront and straightforward. Approach each person as if they were the only client in the world. Make them feel like they are the center of your universe for the time you are with them. Be fully present in all situations and have a Plan B or an "exit" at all times. 
Sit down and paper out why you want to do this. What do you have to offer that others don't? Are you working towards a goal? Do you have debt to pay down or do you just want some extra cash? Are you going to do this in your home city or travel? What hours? How will you manage this with your professional life? Social media? Facebook profile? Instagram? Twitter? 
What happens if you're recognized? Who knows you? 
These are all the questions you should be asking yourself and you'll need answers to everything -- or at least answers you're comfortable with. 
This industry is absolutely amazing. Leveraged the right way, it is a win-win for both the client and the escort. It can be better than therapy, but more brutal than a root canal. High highs. Low lows. 
Ground yourself first and figure out what you want out of this. Maybe write back a bunch and we can be here to help guide you.  

Disclaimer: I'm a client. My partner is an escort. We met on Rent.men. We're getting married. Another guy, one of my closest friends, is an escort who helped me change my life. So I have an infinite amount of wisdom and experience here from all sides. 
Good luck!

The motto of my wedding is "Vivir en el Momento!" (Live in the moment!) 
Just keep doing that. Our time on this rock is finite. Use your money to bring you joy -- sexually and emotionally. Then leave it to whomever is deserving, even if that is an escort. Always be genuine and respectful in everything you do and you will live out your remaining years with incredible sex and friends and comfort. 
You're lucky.  

Are you single? 
I ask because this is a job for some, but you can also make it into whatever you want it to be. There is a possibility even to find the love of your life. But I digress. lol
My advice would be not entirely to dismiss any possibilities. You're going to meet all kinds of people -- old, young, fat, thin, married, single, straight, gay, etc. Treat others with respect and be open with communication. Tell them what you want and what you need. Be upfront and straightforward. Approach each person as if they were the only client in the world. Make them feel like they are the center of your universe for the time you are with them. Be fully present in all situations and have a Plan B or an "exit" at all times. 
Sit down and paper out why you want to do this. What do you have to offer that others don't? Are you working towards a goal? Do you have debt to pay down or do you just want some extra cash? Are you going to do this in your home city or travel? What hours? How will you manage this with your professional life? Social media? Facebook profile? Instagram? Twitter? 
What happens if you're recognized? Who knows you? 
These are all the questions you should be asking yourself and you'll need answers to everything -- or at least answers you're comfortable with. 
This industry is absolutely amazing. Leveraged the right way, it is a win-win for both the client and the escort. It can be better than therapy, but more brutal than a root canal. High highs. Low lows. 
Ground yourself first and figure out what you want out of this. Maybe write back a bunch and we can be here to help guide you.  

Disclaimer: I'm a client. My partner is an escort. We met on Rent.men. We're getting married. Another guy, one of my closest friends, is an escort who helped me change my life. So I have an infinite amount of wisdom and experience here from all sides. 
Good luck!

Are you single? 
I ask because this is a job for some, but you can also make it into whatever you want it to be. There is a possibility even to find the love of your life. But I digress. lol
My advice would be not entirely to dismiss any possibilities. You're going to meet all kinds of people -- old, young, fat, thin, married, single, straight, gay, etc. Treat others with respect and be open with communication. Tell them what you want and what you need. Be upfront and straightforward. Approach each person as if they were the only client in the world. Make them feel like they are the center of your universe for the time you are with them. Be fully present in all situations and have a Plan B or an "exit" at all times. 
Sit down and paper out why you want to do this. What do you have to offer that others don't? Are you working towards a goal? Do you have debt to pay down or do you just want some extra cash? Are you going to do this in your home city or travel? What hours? How will you manage this with your professional life? Social media? Facebook profile? Instagram? Twitter? 
What happens if you're recognized? Who knows you? 
These are all the questions you should be asking yourself and you'll need answers to everything -- or at least answers you're comfortable with. 
This industry is absolutely amazing. Leveraged the right way, it is a win-win for both the client and the escort. It can be better than therapy, but more brutal than a root canal. High highs. Low lows. 
Ground yourself first and figure out what you want out of this. Maybe write back a bunch and we can be here to help guide you.  

Disclaimer: I'm a client. My partner is an escort. We met on Rent.men. We're getting married. Another guy, one of my closest friends, is an escort who helped me change my life. So I have an infinite amount of wisdom and experience here from all sides. 
Good luck!

I had originally created the @Statham anonymous account to unlink the topic here from my posting history. But seeing as I fucked that up accessing Companyofmen from my phone that had a stored login for this account, that went tits up. So here we are. 
We have a date in 2024. He just took me home to Cartagena, Colombia to meet his family two weeks ago, which was a lot with my new conversational only Spanish. I'll be fluent in a few months, no sweat. You can read "Our Story" here along with "Moments" for a ton of pictures here:
www.vivirenelmomento.com  (Live In The Moment)
As part of the "Our Story" we mentioned meeting through a common friend on Instagram. That is only half the story, we aren't ready to share the entire thing just yet. Truth is the 'common friend' was an escort here in Boston that I met with a bunch of times who is his ex-boyfriend of four years. They were broken up but I did follow him on Instagram and I did see a picture of him at dinner here in Boston, and I did text the escort friend who posted it and asked who he was. Jose (my other half) came over that night and never left. lol. 
I'm also not worried about giving that site out here and disclosing the location/date. Given what I do in the real world for work, I have security on lock for the events of that day. Nobody is getting near the wedding. 😎
He still does escorting on the side. It's amazing extra money and he also has a full time job.  He uses it mostly to send money back to his family in Cartagena for random things like a new refrigerator which they recently needed.  I don't mind it, in fact he's really good. Also many clients hire for non-sexual reasons like companionship, dinner, movies, talk, whatever. Not having to do it full time because he has other work, he can afford to be selective with the clients and "jobs" he takes -- e.g., not doing anything he truly doesn't want or isn't of interest.  That will probably change when we have kids in a year or two but it works for now. 
He is 9 months older than me. He's 46 and I am 45, although it doesn't look that way. We fight over who's the actual daddy in the relationship. He thinks he is because he's older. I know I am able because of the gray hair. 
I've also worked through all the questions on the site. Many parts of the story can be read on the wedding site above. I've figured out the answers to all my questions with his help. It works. 

Are you single? 
I ask because this is a job for some, but you can also make it into whatever you want it to be. There is a possibility even to find the love of your life. But I digress. lol
My advice would be not entirely to dismiss any possibilities. You're going to meet all kinds of people -- old, young, fat, thin, married, single, straight, gay, etc. Treat others with respect and be open with communication. Tell them what you want and what you need. Be upfront and straightforward. Approach each person as if they were the only client in the world. Make them feel like they are the center of your universe for the time you are with them. Be fully present in all situations and have a Plan B or an "exit" at all times. 
Sit down and paper out why you want to do this. What do you have to offer that others don't? Are you working towards a goal? Do you have debt to pay down or do you just want some extra cash? Are you going to do this in your home city or travel? What hours? How will you manage this with your professional life? Social media? Facebook profile? Instagram? Twitter? 
What happens if you're recognized? Who knows you? 
These are all the questions you should be asking yourself and you'll need answers to everything -- or at least answers you're comfortable with. 
This industry is absolutely amazing. Leveraged the right way, it is a win-win for both the client and the escort. It can be better than therapy, but more brutal than a root canal. High highs. Low lows. 
Ground yourself first and figure out what you want out of this. Maybe write back a bunch and we can be here to help guide you.  

Disclaimer: I'm a client. My partner is an escort. We met on Rent.men. We're getting married. Another guy, one of my closest friends, is an escort who helped me change my life. So I have an infinite amount of wisdom and experience here from all sides. 
Good luck!

Are you single? 
I ask because this is a job for some, but you can also make it into whatever you want it to be. There is a possibility even to find the love of your life. But I digress. lol
My advice would be not entirely to dismiss any possibilities. You're going to meet all kinds of people -- old, young, fat, thin, married, single, straight, gay, etc. Treat others with respect and be open with communication. Tell them what you want and what you need. Be upfront and straightforward. Approach each person as if they were the only client in the world. Make them feel like they are the center of your universe for the time you are with them. Be fully present in all situations and have a Plan B or an "exit" at all times. 
Sit down and paper out why you want to do this. What do you have to offer that others don't? Are you working towards a goal? Do you have debt to pay down or do you just want some extra cash? Are you going to do this in your home city or travel? What hours? How will you manage this with your professional life? Social media? Facebook profile? Instagram? Twitter? 
What happens if you're recognized? Who knows you? 
These are all the questions you should be asking yourself and you'll need answers to everything -- or at least answers you're comfortable with. 
This industry is absolutely amazing. Leveraged the right way, it is a win-win for both the client and the escort. It can be better than therapy, but more brutal than a root canal. High highs. Low lows. 
Ground yourself first and figure out what you want out of this. Maybe write back a bunch and we can be here to help guide you.  

Disclaimer: I'm a client. My partner is an escort. We met on Rent.men. We're getting married. Another guy, one of my closest friends, is an escort who helped me change my life. So I have an infinite amount of wisdom and experience here from all sides. 
Good luck!

Check out Broken Hearts Club. Pretty cool average gay themed movie. Not too much partying. Not too much sex. Just the right amount of funny. 

Are you single? 
I ask because this is a job for some, but you can also make it into whatever you want it to be. There is a possibility even to find the love of your life. But I digress. lol
My advice would be not entirely to dismiss any possibilities. You're going to meet all kinds of people -- old, young, fat, thin, married, single, straight, gay, etc. Treat others with respect and be open with communication. Tell them what you want and what you need. Be upfront and straightforward. Approach each person as if they were the only client in the world. Make them feel like they are the center of your universe for the time you are with them. Be fully present in all situations and have a Plan B or an "exit" at all times. 
Sit down and paper out why you want to do this. What do you have to offer that others don't? Are you working towards a goal? Do you have debt to pay down or do you just want some extra cash? Are you going to do this in your home city or travel? What hours? How will you manage this with your professional life? Social media? Facebook profile? Instagram? Twitter? 
What happens if you're recognized? Who knows you? 
These are all the questions you should be asking yourself and you'll need answers to everything -- or at least answers you're comfortable with. 
This industry is absolutely amazing. Leveraged the right way, it is a win-win for both the client and the escort. It can be better than therapy, but more brutal than a root canal. High highs. Low lows. 
Ground yourself first and figure out what you want out of this. Maybe write back a bunch and we can be here to help guide you.  

Disclaimer: I'm a client. My partner is an escort. We met on Rent.men. We're getting married. Another guy, one of my closest friends, is an escort who helped me change my life. So I have an infinite amount of wisdom and experience here from all sides. 
Good luck!

Are you single? 
I ask because this is a job for some, but you can also make it into whatever you want it to be. There is a possibility even to find the love of your life. But I digress. lol
My advice would be not entirely to dismiss any possibilities. You're going to meet all kinds of people -- old, young, fat, thin, married, single, straight, gay, etc. Treat others with respect and be open with communication. Tell them what you want and what you need. Be upfront and straightforward. Approach each person as if they were the only client in the world. Make them feel like they are the center of your universe for the time you are with them. Be fully present in all situations and have a Plan B or an "exit" at all times. 
Sit down and paper out why you want to do this. What do you have to offer that others don't? Are you working towards a goal? Do you have debt to pay down or do you just want some extra cash? Are you going to do this in your home city or travel? What hours? How will you manage this with your professional life? Social media? Facebook profile? Instagram? Twitter? 
What happens if you're recognized? Who knows you? 
These are all the questions you should be asking yourself and you'll need answers to everything -- or at least answers you're comfortable with. 
This industry is absolutely amazing. Leveraged the right way, it is a win-win for both the client and the escort. It can be better than therapy, but more brutal than a root canal. High highs. Low lows. 
Ground yourself first and figure out what you want out of this. Maybe write back a bunch and we can be here to help guide you.  

Disclaimer: I'm a client. My partner is an escort. We met on Rent.men. We're getting married. Another guy, one of my closest friends, is an escort who helped me change my life. So I have an infinite amount of wisdom and experience here from all sides. 
Good luck!

I just found this thread on here. Wow! 
I am 45 years old and have been to 56 countries. The plan is to visit all 193 U.N. member nations before I check out.
Man oh man do I have stories. But first, need to read through all 13 pages of this thread. lol 

That's why I love these forums and this is so true. That's amazing. 

I had originally created the @Statham anonymous account to unlink the topic here from my posting history. But seeing as I fucked that up accessing Companyofmen from my phone that had a stored login for this account, that went tits up. So here we are. 
We have a date in 2024. He just took me home to Cartagena, Colombia to meet his family two weeks ago, which was a lot with my new conversational only Spanish. I'll be fluent in a few months, no sweat. You can read "Our Story" here along with "Moments" for a ton of pictures here:
www.vivirenelmomento.com  (Live In The Moment)
As part of the "Our Story" we mentioned meeting through a common friend on Instagram. That is only half the story, we aren't ready to share the entire thing just yet. Truth is the 'common friend' was an escort here in Boston that I met with a bunch of times who is his ex-boyfriend of four years. They were broken up but I did follow him on Instagram and I did see a picture of him at dinner here in Boston, and I did text the escort friend who posted it and asked who he was. Jose (my other half) came over that night and never left. lol. 
I'm also not worried about giving that site out here and disclosing the location/date. Given what I do in the real world for work, I have security on lock for the events of that day. Nobody is getting near the wedding. 😎
He still does escorting on the side. It's amazing extra money and he also has a full time job.  He uses it mostly to send money back to his family in Cartagena for random things like a new refrigerator which they recently needed.  I don't mind it, in fact he's really good. Also many clients hire for non-sexual reasons like companionship, dinner, movies, talk, whatever. Not having to do it full time because he has other work, he can afford to be selective with the clients and "jobs" he takes -- e.g., not doing anything he truly doesn't want or isn't of interest.  That will probably change when we have kids in a year or two but it works for now. 
He is 9 months older than me. He's 46 and I am 45, although it doesn't look that way. We fight over who's the actual daddy in the relationship. He thinks he is because he's older. I know I am able because of the gray hair. 
I've also worked through all the questions on the site. Many parts of the story can be read on the wedding site above. I've figured out the answers to all my questions with his help. It works. 

Sorry voice texting. 

As a follow-up, they do allow negative reviews in those reviews are posted. However, each group provider is a lot of response to every review which you should be able to see in writing. If you can’t see all of this in writing, you need to use a VPN in order to put yourself in another country because the United States blocks about from People accessing the sites within the United States 

Reviews are time tested, and true method to prove out anything in life these days. Whether you’re ordering food from a restaurant on DoorDash, or you’re getting an Uber, or you’re buying something on Amazon, it’s all about the star rating and the number of reviews. You would never order something online from a seller who was a 3.9 or 4.1. That is just a simple fact, we look for people who have 4.99 or 4.84 or even 4.7. And then we look for people who have thousands of reviews at least hundreds. 
 
On the flipside, everybody has to start somewhere. Reviews are notoriously hard to fake and of course there will always be someone who is displeased. You can’t please everybody in life.
Put as much weight into reviews of others online as far as escorting goes as you would use them just like you were buying a toaster on Amazon.
Do you, you are the seller or the provider, treat every review as if it were your own child. Treat every customer as if they were going to write a bad review. You will get bad reviews and you cannot please everybody but your reviews will absolutely be a reflection of who you are as a provider and a person. You can opt out of the system, and not have a profile and not have to deal with reviews, but that may also impact your business.  
 
They are true, and they do reflect reality. There are always exceptions, but this is the best advice you will get.

In the mid 80s I found myself in Hawaii on business with my boss for a couple of days. I was still very much in the closest, but had begun to look for adventure whenever I was not at home. On this occasion, having done my research, I sat myself on one of the benches adjacent to the beach on Kalakaua Avenue in Waikiki around midnight. A cute guy much younger than I but to all appearances of age was sitting on the next bench. I had never picked someone up in this fashion and wasn't expecting the young'un to take an interest in a guy in his forties. Well, he did, and we started talking. He was visiting with his older brother from western Canada and, like me, had left his hotel looking for some fun. We clicked and were soon walking toward the very upscale beachfront hotel in which my employer and I were staying. My new friend was suitably impressed with the hotel and with my room, which featured an enormous poster bed complete with canopy. Clothes were quickly shed, and a night of amazingly hot sex ensued. We fell asleep in each other's arms, but in the morning I was so worn out that I had to feign a case of food poisoning to avoid having to meet my boss. As my friend was leaving, he asked me how I had enjoyed my night with an 18-year-old teenager. I told him it had been the best tryst I had ever had. We promised to stay in touch, but my subsequent travels never took me to western Canada and I never saw my Aloha friend again except in my half-waking dreams. Such is life.

In 1990 five male friends and I vacationed in Waikiki for eight days. There were two couples, another single guy and me. Each couple had their own rooms while the other single guy and I shared a room. We did most activities together, but on the last night each couple wanted a private romantic evening. My single roomie and I grabbed some food and hit the bars (Hamburger Mary’s and Hula’s) one last time. We lost track of each other, but agreed that if we did, we’d just make our way back to the hotel separately.
 
On my way back to the hotel I encountered what could best be described as the poster boy for hot surfers while walking along Kalakaua Avenue. Shaggy blond hair, blue eyes, wearing thin nylon shorts (obviously without underwear) and a tank top. We started talking, told me he was from the North Shore and missed his bus. It was obvious we were eyeing each other up, so I asked if he wanted to return to my hotel with me.
 
As soon as we got on the elevator, we were all over each other, making out, groping (commando status confirmed), and grinding up against each other. Once in the room the clothes came off within seconds, we fell on the bed and started going at it. Without getting too graphic, we both were satisfied and spent after an hour of fun.
 
The dilemma was now that my surfer missed the last bus and was stuck on this side of the island until morning, so I had a cuddle buddy for the night. My single roomie arrived back to the room and found both of us spooning in my bed. Quick introductions were made and my roomie gave me a thumbs up as he was climbing into his bed.
 
Morning rolled around and we had an extra join us for breakfast. After breakfast, I walked him to the bus stop where he boarded the bus back to the North Shore. I never saw or spoke with him again, but it remains one of my fondest memories of an incredible vacation.
 
Needless to say, my friends interrogated me endlessly during the day and on the flights home. Even 30 years later, they still tease me about that night.

When I was 22, 3 generations of my family took a cruise. It was my first. I was naive and had a girlfriend at home and knew I was attracted to men but didn't identify as gay. The last night of the cruise, I talked to a handsome Swiss bartender who offered to advise me on places to visit in Europe. He had dark hair, green eyes, some body hair, and was in his early 30s. I was very thin with a large butt, dark hair, hazel eyes, and a shy demeanor. He asked me to meet him after work, which was around 4 am. When I got there, he gave me some suggestions for travel and then he used his key to open the locked kitchen door. He put a blanket on the floor and we had sex. It was my first time fucking and I was the bottom. We stayed in touch through mail for awhile. He was a very nice guy who made my first time a positive experience. When I came home, I began my journey of coming out. I think being away and being naive gave me the perceived freedom to have sex without having to take responsibility.