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Without going into too much detail, I have eliminated an entire department over this.
You live 30 minutes from our office but refuse to come in ever again? .. and you still want that $180k salary? Nah, it don't work that way.
Historically, Asia and India outsourcing was a fucking train wreck because quality was never there. But now there's an epic crap ton of countries and people with the same skills that will do your job for a fraction of the price. I can get someone in South Africa, Brazil, or Romania to replace you in ten seconds. Oh, and there's a hundred million of them lined up applying.
Welcome to globalization.
My highest performer (our Chief Compliance Officer) can do her job from the Lido deck of a cruise ship and never come into the office ever again, and I won't give a fuck. Because she's a master at her work and she gets shit done. 
But now, when we need a new person, our universe of hiring is the entire planet. It's going to be a really hard lesson for the tech skilled workforce in the USA to learn over the next few years. No company is going to pay $180k for a software engineer that wants to sit at home down the street from the actual office in Manhattan. I need you in the office to be creative because there's value in that. If you don't want to do that, then you're going to be replaced by someone in Lebanon or Croatia.   
WOAH. Need to put down the keyboard.
Wait, what were we talking about? Open markets and how they influence escort prices? 'Night  

Without going into too much detail, I have eliminated an entire department over this.
You live 30 minutes from our office but refuse to come in ever again? .. and you still want that $180k salary? Nah, it don't work that way.
Historically, Asia and India outsourcing was a fucking train wreck because quality was never there. But now there's an epic crap ton of countries and people with the same skills that will do your job for a fraction of the price. I can get someone in South Africa, Brazil, or Romania to replace you in ten seconds. Oh, and there's a hundred million of them lined up applying.
Welcome to globalization.
My highest performer (our Chief Compliance Officer) can do her job from the Lido deck of a cruise ship and never come into the office ever again, and I won't give a fuck. Because she's a master at her work and she gets shit done. 
But now, when we need a new person, our universe of hiring is the entire planet. It's going to be a really hard lesson for the tech skilled workforce in the USA to learn over the next few years. No company is going to pay $180k for a software engineer that wants to sit at home down the street from the actual office in Manhattan. I need you in the office to be creative because there's value in that. If you don't want to do that, then you're going to be replaced by someone in Lebanon or Croatia.   
WOAH. Need to put down the keyboard.
Wait, what were we talking about? Open markets and how they influence escort prices? 'Night  

Hey, if you're totally jacked and your gym session is running really late -- and you're heading over to me right after -- I am NOT going to complain. Keep lifting bro. 😈 🤤 
That said some people are just chronically late in all aspects of their life. I tend to book late in the day and early evenings, and typically don't have anything to do after, so no sweat off my back as long as it is within reason and we're communicating (e.g., don't just show up late without warning). As a client who is booking, if I had a definite end time, I might offer that up in the conversation before we even meet to set expectations. Just something I have learned from years in business.  
I once booked with MuscleVIP in NYC who confirmed that morning (around say 8-9 am), but went radio silent and texted a solid hour after we were supposed to meet (7 pm) that he was running late and he was still at his house starting to get ready. No actual reason was offered up to explain.
As hot as he is, I politely said sorry you missed our time -- even though I had zero other plans that evening and had all the time in the world. It was a simple sign of respect that wasn't shown. Sad, because every time I see his picture, I kind of regret that decision. But my time is also worth money and it's a two way street.  

Hey, if you're totally jacked and your gym session is running really late -- and you're heading over to me right after -- I am NOT going to complain. Keep lifting bro. 😈 🤤 
That said some people are just chronically late in all aspects of their life. I tend to book late in the day and early evenings, and typically don't have anything to do after, so no sweat off my back as long as it is within reason and we're communicating (e.g., don't just show up late without warning). As a client who is booking, if I had a definite end time, I might offer that up in the conversation before we even meet to set expectations. Just something I have learned from years in business.  
I once booked with MuscleVIP in NYC who confirmed that morning (around say 8-9 am), but went radio silent and texted a solid hour after we were supposed to meet (7 pm) that he was running late and he was still at his house starting to get ready. No actual reason was offered up to explain.
As hot as he is, I politely said sorry you missed our time -- even though I had zero other plans that evening and had all the time in the world. It was a simple sign of respect that wasn't shown. Sad, because every time I see his picture, I kind of regret that decision. But my time is also worth money and it's a two way street.  

Hey, if you're totally jacked and your gym session is running really late -- and you're heading over to me right after -- I am NOT going to complain. Keep lifting bro. 😈 🤤 
That said some people are just chronically late in all aspects of their life. I tend to book late in the day and early evenings, and typically don't have anything to do after, so no sweat off my back as long as it is within reason and we're communicating (e.g., don't just show up late without warning). As a client who is booking, if I had a definite end time, I might offer that up in the conversation before we even meet to set expectations. Just something I have learned from years in business.  
I once booked with MuscleVIP in NYC who confirmed that morning (around say 8-9 am), but went radio silent and texted a solid hour after we were supposed to meet (7 pm) that he was running late and he was still at his house starting to get ready. No actual reason was offered up to explain.
As hot as he is, I politely said sorry you missed our time -- even though I had zero other plans that evening and had all the time in the world. It was a simple sign of respect that wasn't shown. Sad, because every time I see his picture, I kind of regret that decision. But my time is also worth money and it's a two way street.  

Hey, if you're totally jacked and your gym session is running really late -- and you're heading over to me right after -- I am NOT going to complain. Keep lifting bro. 😈 🤤 
That said some people are just chronically late in all aspects of their life. I tend to book late in the day and early evenings, and typically don't have anything to do after, so no sweat off my back as long as it is within reason and we're communicating (e.g., don't just show up late without warning). As a client who is booking, if I had a definite end time, I might offer that up in the conversation before we even meet to set expectations. Just something I have learned from years in business.  
I once booked with MuscleVIP in NYC who confirmed that morning (around say 8-9 am), but went radio silent and texted a solid hour after we were supposed to meet (7 pm) that he was running late and he was still at his house starting to get ready. No actual reason was offered up to explain.
As hot as he is, I politely said sorry you missed our time -- even though I had zero other plans that evening and had all the time in the world. It was a simple sign of respect that wasn't shown. Sad, because every time I see his picture, I kind of regret that decision. But my time is also worth money and it's a two way street.  

Hey, if you're totally jacked and your gym session is running really late -- and you're heading over to me right after -- I am NOT going to complain. Keep lifting bro. 😈 🤤 
That said some people are just chronically late in all aspects of their life. I tend to book late in the day and early evenings, and typically don't have anything to do after, so no sweat off my back as long as it is within reason and we're communicating (e.g., don't just show up late without warning). As a client who is booking, if I had a definite end time, I might offer that up in the conversation before we even meet to set expectations. Just something I have learned from years in business.  
I once booked with MuscleVIP in NYC who confirmed that morning (around say 8-9 am), but went radio silent and texted a solid hour after we were supposed to meet (7 pm) that he was running late and he was still at his house starting to get ready. No actual reason was offered up to explain.
As hot as he is, I politely said sorry you missed our time -- even though I had zero other plans that evening and had all the time in the world. It was a simple sign of respect that wasn't shown. Sad, because every time I see his picture, I kind of regret that decision. But my time is also worth money and it's a two way street.  

That has always been MuscleVIP’s MO. He’s hot AF but runs on a timetable unrecognizable to most humans. I saw him 3 times - but I had booked him SIX times. Three strikes and he was out, for me. Don’t regret it, TC. There are other “VIPs” in Manhattan. Lots of ‘em. 😉

If you want a true BFE, hire someone for an hour and have amazing sex -- but more importantly talk a bit and get to know them. If you genuinely make a connection, the rest will fall into place and that's when you hire them for an overnight, hike, theme park, or whatever you're looking for and more.
I couldn't imagine trying to go for a BFE with someone I have never met before, but that's just me. If there's no click or connection, move on. Plenty of fish in the sea.  

I hired him within the past week. His profile is accurate, very handsome, and he's pretty extroverted and fun to talk with. I had no problem holding awesome conversations about everything under the sun for the whole evening -- it was an overnight. It felt like I was hanging out with one of my bros/best friends, except with sex thrown into the mix.  
Only thing I would say is his body doesn't have the very, very hardcore cut definition of some of his pics on RM -- they are a little older by say six months probably -- but he's still very muscled and the whole package was exactly what I expected. I'd hire him again when he passes back through my town, yes. Communication was amazing as well. 

If you're looking for fun, I've got just the place. 
New York's hottest strip club is..... SNIFFIES.  
It's got EVERYTHING. 😆
 

If you're looking for fun, I've got just the place. 
New York's hottest strip club is..... SNIFFIES.  
It's got EVERYTHING. 😆
 

If you're looking for fun, I've got just the place. 
New York's hottest strip club is..... SNIFFIES.  
It's got EVERYTHING. 😆
 

^^^^ everything this guy says. He completely nailed it. 
I grew up with hardly any money at all and was able to form a solid group of close friends in my 20s and early-30s. These were times when money was an equal challenge for everyone. None of us were "rich" by any definition of that term. Those times when you put $10 of gas in your car (that's about to shit the bed), because that's all you have. 
About ten years ago, I founded a company and built a small empire of my own. I'm still shocked it worked even as I type this right now. Fast forward to 2022: We have offices in many locations across the USA and do business in two dozen states. 
My core group of friends has always been there for me through the thick and thin. Long before the success, they stood by me through epic business failures that caused me to drink myself into a stupor and not leave my house or shower for a week at a time. They're the best group of solid people I have ever met, and they really love me for me, every fault included. And vice versa. 
Now I am in the position to repay the favors. Just like @Coolwave35 said, I have talked it out clearly with them on multiple occasions. They know that being able to share an amazing vacation is what brings me joy. In fact, I took all seven of them to Antarctica a couple years back on a 14-day expedition. Occasionally an insecurity will pop up with one of them about being on the receiving end. But that's when I remind them they're the ones who opened their home and hearts to me when I was in the darkest of places. That was priceless to me at the time. 
To this day, I still have my Finance and HR departments let me login and press the "Submit Payroll" button every Wednesday afternoon. It's the single most rewarding minute of my life every two weeks. I am just the type who thoroughly enjoys doing for others and help building people up. 
As for @Coolwave35's last point, post-money friends and relationships are fucking hard to make and manage. A handful of times when I thought someone else had the truest of intentions, I got myself and my company sued because they just saw a payday. It's why I hire escorts today -- I will never have sex with anyone who knows me in my current capacity because as good as it could be, I don't want to be on the fucking news or get extorted. Yea, sure, it's a 1% problem. But at the same time, it isn't any less or more difficult than many other normal problems.
So here we are.  Good thread. 

Well in my imaginary trip to Antarctica with my imaginary benefactor/friend, I would naturally have invented the Iceberg Martini if it did not already exist.  I have no conscious knowledge that I have ever heard of an Iceberg Martini but my mind has a way of grabbing useless information, so perhaps I had.  I like my Iceberg Martini with a Titanic steak and then I crash.  

You are hiring the wrong people man. DAMN. LOL. 😎
To the posts above, I almost the opposite as a client. Mostly and hesitate on reaching out and always try to minimize the interaction because I truly strive to respect everyone's time. To a fault sometimes -- I need to be more forward in what I want and need.
If there's an escort I really like or want to see, I generally keep track of their travel via RM and reach out when the time is right. If they reach out to me, then I know they're interested or respected me in our time together. 
In some weird way, I almost equate these interactions to a flight attendant in my mind since I travel so much. They deal with so much shit from the general public that they believe (rightfully so) the general public is horrible. Because that's true. No matter how much you're charging, if I can reduce the friction in our interaction, that's cool in my book. 
As a client I want to make you feel comfortable too, because the sex will just be better. Right? Just don't get crazy. Seems so simple.

What I really want to know is how you knew there were iceberg martinis. 🧐
Because there were. You bring a chunk of clear solid ice back and the bartender will cut it up and make drinks from it. For real. 😎

What I really want to know is how you knew there were iceberg martinis. 🧐
Because there were. You bring a chunk of clear solid ice back and the bartender will cut it up and make drinks from it. For real. 😎

Financial discrepancies in a friendship is not any different than any other inequality.  Friends figure out how to make it work.  
My younger friends  will bear with my lack of physical prowess.  My thin friends will accommodate my latest weight loss plan when inviting me for dinner.  I similarly will figure out a reasonable vegan meal though I am a carnivore for the most part.  
Monetary inequity does raise many issues, but as others have said here, honest conversation and a willingness to avoid having pride interfere as an issue, will allow most to work around this.   If I had a friend willing to take me on a 14 day trip to Antarctica, I would gladly go, but the first round or Iceberg Martinis would be on me and I would be sure to have a meaningful gift, not necessarily expensive gift, for them after our return.  Thanks do not need to be given in kind, but they do need to be given in kindness.  
As to those with so much money that they worry that their friends are using them, I say:  Get the fuck over yourself.  My life is plenty rich without your money and if you do not know your friends well enough to know that about them, perhaps you are not really their friend.  
I would also suggest to those who have exceptional financial means, do not pay for everything.  If a friend offers to get a meal, let them.  Do so without a word except thank you.                       R E S P E C T find out what is means to me

^^^^ everything this guy says. He completely nailed it. 
I grew up with hardly any money at all and was able to form a solid group of close friends in my 20s and early-30s. These were times when money was an equal challenge for everyone. None of us were "rich" by any definition of that term. Those times when you put $10 of gas in your car (that's about to shit the bed), because that's all you have. 
About ten years ago, I founded a company and built a small empire of my own. I'm still shocked it worked even as I type this right now. Fast forward to 2022: We have offices in many locations across the USA and do business in two dozen states. 
My core group of friends has always been there for me through the thick and thin. Long before the success, they stood by me through epic business failures that caused me to drink myself into a stupor and not leave my house or shower for a week at a time. They're the best group of solid people I have ever met, and they really love me for me, every fault included. And vice versa. 
Now I am in the position to repay the favors. Just like @Coolwave35 said, I have talked it out clearly with them on multiple occasions. They know that being able to share an amazing vacation is what brings me joy. In fact, I took all seven of them to Antarctica a couple years back on a 14-day expedition. Occasionally an insecurity will pop up with one of them about being on the receiving end. But that's when I remind them they're the ones who opened their home and hearts to me when I was in the darkest of places. That was priceless to me at the time. 
To this day, I still have my Finance and HR departments let me login and press the "Submit Payroll" button every Wednesday afternoon. It's the single most rewarding minute of my life every two weeks. I am just the type who thoroughly enjoys doing for others and help building people up. 
As for @Coolwave35's last point, post-money friends and relationships are fucking hard to make and manage. A handful of times when I thought someone else had the truest of intentions, I got myself and my company sued because they just saw a payday. It's why I hire escorts today -- I will never have sex with anyone who knows me in my current capacity because as good as it could be, I don't want to be on the fucking news or get extorted. Yea, sure, it's a 1% problem. But at the same time, it isn't any less or more difficult than many other normal problems.
So here we are.  Good thread. 

^^^^ everything this guy says. He completely nailed it. 
I grew up with hardly any money at all and was able to form a solid group of close friends in my 20s and early-30s. These were times when money was an equal challenge for everyone. None of us were "rich" by any definition of that term. Those times when you put $10 of gas in your car (that's about to shit the bed), because that's all you have. 
About ten years ago, I founded a company and built a small empire of my own. I'm still shocked it worked even as I type this right now. Fast forward to 2022: We have offices in many locations across the USA and do business in two dozen states. 
My core group of friends has always been there for me through the thick and thin. Long before the success, they stood by me through epic business failures that caused me to drink myself into a stupor and not leave my house or shower for a week at a time. They're the best group of solid people I have ever met, and they really love me for me, every fault included. And vice versa. 
Now I am in the position to repay the favors. Just like @Coolwave35 said, I have talked it out clearly with them on multiple occasions. They know that being able to share an amazing vacation is what brings me joy. In fact, I took all seven of them to Antarctica a couple years back on a 14-day expedition. Occasionally an insecurity will pop up with one of them about being on the receiving end. But that's when I remind them they're the ones who opened their home and hearts to me when I was in the darkest of places. That was priceless to me at the time. 
To this day, I still have my Finance and HR departments let me login and press the "Submit Payroll" button every Wednesday afternoon. It's the single most rewarding minute of my life every two weeks. I am just the type who thoroughly enjoys doing for others and help building people up. 
As for @Coolwave35's last point, post-money friends and relationships are fucking hard to make and manage. A handful of times when I thought someone else had the truest of intentions, I got myself and my company sued because they just saw a payday. It's why I hire escorts today -- I will never have sex with anyone who knows me in my current capacity because as good as it could be, I don't want to be on the fucking news or get extorted. Yea, sure, it's a 1% problem. But at the same time, it isn't any less or more difficult than many other normal problems.
So here we are.  Good thread. 

So after 2 years of being afraid and pondering, thinking about @bolton ...I finally saw him today. Simply amazing. I'm still laying here speechless. Best birthday gift ever.