The text/email after...

[SuperJunior]

I'm curious: do y'all send thank you notes to your doctors/dentists/lawyers/therapists after an appointment? Do y'all expect to receive them? I realize we don't all have the same understanding of the nature of client/escort relationships, but I tend to think of them as professional visits, so I never automatically send thank you notes or expect to receive them, unless I would like the relationship to develop into a different kind of friendship.

 

LOL. I understand this statement, but I've never deeply kissed my doctor/dentist/lawyer/therapist during anal intercourse. Or at any time, for that matter. I think there's a different type of gratitude being expressed by OP. I have sent some of those folks thank you cards and fruit baskets, on occasion. They really appreciate the gesture. Must be a gentleman thing. :D:rolleyes:

[+ Tarte Gogo]

Slightly off topic but I really hate it when I thank someone and rather than saying your welcome they say no problem. That is like finger nails down the chalkboard for me. It makes me not wanna thank someone.

 

Hugs,

Greg

Well, don’t go to England then.

[+ GregM]

Well, don’t go to England then.

 

No real desire to go to England so problem solved.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[Michael Paul]

I sent a thank you text or email after I meet someone. Although I'm the hooker. It's a personal message letting them know I truly enjoyed the time together. I'm probably such a dork that I often do this after a rare hookup as well. Time is valuable and there's many hookers out there. If someone chooses to spend a couple hours or over night with me I'm thankful.

 

Hugs,

Greg

I also send a Thank You text... I am after all a Southern Gentleman.

[+ JEC]

My favorite experience (so far) is a provider who texted me after (to thank me for a hot time), and continues to text me. I get a text every week or so, "remembering our hot time", "I miss your penis", "looking forward to seeing you again" etc. By no means does he have to do that, nor did I invite it. It's a nice touch. Keeps me engaged, feeling like I'm more than a John and looking forward to our next meeting. But, that is the exception. I always send a thank you text/email (when I am thankful), can't say I've never rec'd a reply but I would consider it a "message" if that happened.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

To say thanks is human and it never hurts.

 

If you're unable to experience any amount of human connection in the time you spend with your escort, I'd say there are more things wrong than not wanting a follow-up message.

[+ lookingforfunny]

To say thanks is human and it never hurts.

 

If you're unable to experience any amount of human connection in the time you spend with your escort, I'd say there are more things wrong than not wanting a follow-up message.

 

I agree with @Benjamin_Nicholas ... Chivalry is not only a timeless ritual. It is a qualitative nod to the arete of a man. Communication is key to any successful encounter, whether it be text, gesture, hospitality. It makes people feel appreciated. Offering a beverage to your guest upon arrival or a warm towel or shower at the end of your meeting goes a long way. After all, being a gentleman improves the libido.

[+ Travis69]

Whether I hire someone again will depend 100% on what happened during our time together. 0% on whether I receive a thank you text/email/call.

[+ freecahill1965]

I almost always get a thanking text after a session. I think it is a nice touch.

[+ Avalon]

I'm curious: do y'all send thank you notes to your doctors/dentists/lawyers/therapists after an appointment? Do y'all expect to receive them? I realize we don't all have the same understanding of the nature of client/escort relationships, but I tend to think of them as professional visits, so I never automatically send thank you notes or expect to receive them, unless I would like the relationship to develop into a different kind of friendship.

 

When I was in high school I had braces on my teeth for several years. It was painful when the dentist would tighten them. One time my behavior was not what it should have been. I wrote and mailed an apology note.

 

When service people come by like utility, satellite dish, telephone etc. I often offer a soft drink. One hot Summer day the landlord had hired some guys to do yard work. I took them out a six pack of soft drinks.

 

In my 20s I had gall bladder surgery. I was in the hospital for two weeks. On the way home I stopped at the florist shop and had a plant sent to the nurse's station.

Edited November 30, 2017 by Avalon

[+ Charlie]

When I was in high school I had braces on my teeth for several years. It was painful when the dentist would tighten them. One time my behavior was not what it should have been. I wrote and mailed an apology note.

 

When service people come by like utility, satellite dish, telephone etc. I often offer a soft drink. One hot Summer day the landlord had hired some guys to do yard work. I took them out a six pack of soft drinks.

 

In my 20s I had gall bladder surgery. I was in the hospital for two weeks. On the way home I stopped at the florist shop and had a plant sent to the nurse's station.

 

These are all examples of good civilized behavior, but they are not exactly the same as hiring a professional to perform a specific service. I have received thank you notes from my dentist after a long, expensive elective procedure, and from my lawyer for a similar situation, but I never thought it was necessary for me to send them a thank you note for doing what I had paid them to do, unless they did something extra or unexpectedly well. I generally see escorts as professionals who are doing the same sort of service I receive from my physical therapist, to whom I don't send a thank you note after a session, unless he does something that brings a remarkable improvement in my condition. Only on the handful of occasions that an escort has performed a similar miracle, have I contacted him afterwards to thank him. If he sends me a thank you note, I consider it simply a courteous business practice, like the car salesman who hopes that I will use the dealership for future servicing.

[beachboy]

I always send a 'Thank You' text to a provider after a good time. He's human & providing a very personal experience & I want him to know he's appreciated. I'm sure most guys would like to know esp if it's going to lead to further bookings!

[gallahadesquire]

When I was in high school I had braces on my teeth for several years. It was painful when the dentist would tighten them. One time my behavior was not what it should have been. I wrote and mailed an apology note.

 

When service people come by like utility, satellite dish, telephone etc. I often offer a soft drink. One hot Summer day the landlord had hired some guys to do yard work. I took them out a six pack of soft drinks.

 

In my 20s I had gall bladder surgery. I was in the hospital for two weeks. On the way home I stopped at the florist shop and had a plant sent to the nurse's station.

 

These are all examples of good civilized behavior, but they are not exactly the same as hiring a professional to perform a specific service. I have received thank you notes from my dentist after a long, expensive elective procedure, and from my lawyer for a similar situation, but I never thought it was necessary for me to send them a thank you note for doing what I had paid them to do, unless they did something extra or unexpectedly well. I generally see escorts as professionals who are doing the same sort of service I receive from my physical therapist, to whom I don't send a thank you note after a session, unless he does something that brings a remarkable improvement in my condition. Only on the handful of occasions that an escort has performed a similar miracle, have I contacted him afterwards to thank him. If he sends me a thank you note, I consider it simply a courteous business practice, like the car salesman who hopes that I will use the dealership for future servicing.

 

As a health care professional, I never expected any "tips"--gifts, or frankly acknowledgement of any kind. When it happened, it really put the spring in my step.

 

When my Stepfather was in the hospital ... Lord only knows why, he was in his '90's ... I encouraged my mother to do the same. She did, and was warmly welcomed by the staff.

 

No, it's not a necessary social convention, but it is deeply appreciated. It generally makes up for all the insulting a$$holes out there.

[+ freecahill1965]

As a health care professional, I never expected any "tips"--gifts, or frankly acknowledgement of any kind. When it happened, it really put the spring in my step.

 

When my Stepfather was in the hospital ... Lord only knows why, he was in his '90's ... I encouraged my mother to do the same. She did, and was warmly welcomed by the staff.

 

No, it's not a necessary social convention, but it is deeply appreciated. It generally makes up for all the insulting a$$holes out there.

Very well stated, thank you!

[rvwnsd]

Most (probably 90% - 95%) of the escorts I hire send a thank you email or text. I also send thank you texts/emails. However, I can see where some escorts could feel uncomfortable initiating the thank you, given that some clients react rather unfavorably when contacted.

[Mescaline]

Have to remember too that many young people never learned etiquette.

 

Not only the young are ignorant bastards. I could list a hundred arrogant arseholes, but I'll stick to the one I've met and seen in action. Joan Rivers was a class A bitch!

[+ lookingforfunny]

Not only the young are ignorant bastards. I could list a hundred arrogant arseholes, but I'll stick to the one I've met and seen in action. Joan Rivers was a class A bitch!

 

 

Well she was a big cunt to some.

 

http://www.joanrivers.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/11/JR-as-Anne-Hathaway.jpg

[Deadlift1]

I was referring to the "other" tip dear sir

 

Hugs,

Greg

oh yeah, aaaaright

[+ freecahill1965]

The last very young twenties I have experienced have sent me adorable thank you's and showed high class in their commuications. I think it is just pot luck some times.

[+ nycman]

I always get a good laugh whenever I have a disastrous meeting with an escort....and they send a cheery follow up text "I had a great time and can't wait to see you again!"

 

I desperately want to text back..."Seriously?...are you sure you don't have me confused with some other client?...I had a horrible time."

 

Of course, I spare them the anguish....and simply ignore them....but damn the temptation to be snarky is strong!

[big-n-tall]

I always get a good laugh whenever I have a disastrous meeting with an escort....and they send a cheery follow up text "I had a great time and can't wait to see you again!"

 

I desperately want to text back..."Seriously?...are you sure you don't have me confused with some other client?...I had a horrible time."

 

Of course, I spare them the anguish....and simply ignore them....but damn the temptation to be snarky is strong!

 

The worst experience I had with an escort... he had a cracked out paranoia infused crying spell ...asked me (once he was clear headed) to write him a good review. LOL!

[Islesguy]

I'm curious: do y'all send thank you notes to your doctors/dentists/lawyers/therapists after an appointment? Do y'all expect to receive them? I realize we don't all have the same understanding of the nature of client/escort relationships, but I tend to think of them as professional visits, so I never automatically send thank you notes or expect to receive them, unless I would like the relationship to develop into a different kind of friendship.

When I was tax accountant, I would send thank you emails if a client gave me their email address. All my clients would get a card in January again thanking them for coming in the prior year and telling them I was looking forward to seeing them again. I usually had a >90% retention rate. Must have been doing something right.

[+ Travis69]

When I was tax accountant, I would send thank you emails if a client gave me their email address. All my clients would get a card in January again thanking them for coming in the prior year and telling them I was looking forward to seeing them again. I usually had a >90% retention rate. Must have been doing something right.

Maybe they come back because you are a good accountant. My point would be we shouldn't penalize an accountant or an escort/masseur just because they didn't send a thank you note/text/email/call. It's the quality of their work that should get us to use their services again.

[+ purplekow]

I'm curious: do y'all send thank you notes to your doctors/ .

It really depends on how good the prostate check was.

[Islesguy]

Maybe they come back because you are a good accountant. My point would be we shouldn't penalize an accountant or an escort/masseur just because they didn't send a thank you note/text/email/call. It's the quality of their work that should get us to use their services again.

I know the bigger reason was just as you said, I am a good accountant. When I had to stop working due to circumstances that had zero to do with company and beyond my control, I know the company lost at least 30% of my clients of who were only staying with them because of me.

 

I agree with you that we shouldn't penalize people for not sending a thank you whatever just like we shouldn't penalize clients for not tipping.