Escorts who don't like older guys but pretend to

[handiacefailure]

Hmmmmm. Guilty! I rarely hire guys my age. Shit, I could probably pick that up for free.

 

Exactly . If I wanted guys my age I wouldn't hire. Reason I hire is I like guys in their 20s to early 30's. When I was in my 20's I only wanted guys my age and total understand a young guy only wanting someone his age. I won't turn down a young guy who is into older guys (I've found a couple on recon) and would rather go that route over hiring:) It's not only easier on my wallet but a lot more fun being with a guy I know who is really having a good time.

 

But I agree that it is in bad taste for an escort to say that even if it's in an ad hooking up for fun. If they want someone their own age just say "guys age xxx and under please" and not old guys disgust me. Same if they want in an inshape guy, say HTWP guys don't say something like "obese guys disgust me"

 

What I find funny are escort ads where someone will say they only want in shape guys or guys under a certain age.

[adventurous old guy]

I believe that's a good strategy. No different than what I do prior to hiring in stating what I'm looking for out of a session. I think honesty and transparency avoids a lot of issues. I do this on the very down low so my profile pic is obviously not me. I clearly disclose that as well. I did find one that closely resembles me however. @TopTierTop can confirm that . And I frequently will send an actual pic right before meeting for absolute transparency.

I also send a pic of myself, at a time in the communication when things sound promising

 

+1

As a top, I want to hire someone who cannot get enough dicks up the ass. I don't want to hire someone who, "doesn't mind bottoming." I want someone who wants to bottom.

+++++1!!!!

[marylander1940]

There are a lot of guys I would fuck for free and a few I would hire.

[+ HornyRetiree]

+1!

 

I put my age issue right up front -- in my handle here, in my overture to any escort in whom I'm interested. I almost aways say something along the lines of "I'm 62 and look my age," and offer the low drama option of saying "I understand if I'm older than you prefer, no need to get back to me if that's the case, have a great day." Then I look for a response that earns my business. Its a useful strategy that's produced good results for me, and hope it works for the service provider.

 

thanks took the concept to my client page!

[jojo]

This is a very long thread that does not say much about the topic.

[+ José Soplanucas]

This is a very long thread that does not say much about the topic.

 

There is no much to say.

[Chance]

This is a very long thread that does not say much about the topic.

 

Many shared on topic earlier

 

Many went off topic quickly

 

Sorta the way things are

 

If you read thru you'll find some good back forth

[sexymonk]

Except transaction not many young boys will be into old men. Let us face the truth! There is nothing in common between young and old men. The only interest in old men will be for the involved transaction. I will say hire, enjoy life, take it easy! Don't try for relationship or have huge expectations here. We came alone on this planet and will go alone ! Rest enjoy the moment ! Don't feel bad if the escort is not in you. Also it is good to see two or three boys so that you don't fall for anyone, get hurted if anyone stops seeing you! Don't put all eggs in one basket ! At the end it is business here!

[caliguy]

Except transaction not many young boys will be into old men. Let us face the truth! There is nothing in common between young and old men. The only interest in old men will be for the involved transaction. I will say hire, enjoy life, take it easy! Don't try for relationship or have huge expectations here. We came alone on this planet and will go alone ! Rest enjoy the moment ! Don't feel bad if the escort is not in you. Also it is good to see two or three boys so that you don't fall for anyone, get hurted if anyone stops seeing you! Don't put all eggs in one basket ! At the end it is business here!

Seems like your going for the extreme though. Like twinks and Grandpa's.

[MikeBiDude]

Except transaction not many young boys will be into old men. Let us face the truth!

Maybe that's your truth, but it's certainly not 100%....not for me

[sexymonk]

Maybe that's your truth, but it's certainly not 100%....not for me

It is not for one or two exceptions. I am telling for most people. In every statistics study, outliers are present! Don't take it personally !

[Good Grief]

Maybe that's your truth, but it's certainly not 100%....not for me

 

For sure, not for me either.

 

Yah, yah, yah, blah, blah, blah. You'll say he's in it for the money. Perhaps.

 

THOUGH:

 

I will say, and he would agree, we have a damn good time together in and out of the sack.

[caliguy]

For sure, not for me either.

 

Yah, yah, yah, blah, blah, blah. You'll say he's in it for the money. Perhaps.

 

You could always find out and just say you're broke this month. Lol

[Good Grief]

You could always find out and just say you're broke this month. Lol

 

Thanks for the idea, so very helpful. Appreciate your insight!

 

Smart man!

[LADoug1]

@Kevin Slater what's the average age of your clients?

[Kevin Slater]

@Kevin Slater what's the average age of your clients?

 

I don't track client-based data. I would guess that 100% of my clients have hired at least one 47 year old hooker.

 

Kevin Slater

[Man Crush Morris]

This isn't on my radar. I don't expect any escort I hire to find me particularly attractive.

 

The best guy I ever connected with was very straight. He did a fantastic job for me and did so consistently. I'm satisfied. That's that.

[jeezifonly]

Don't recall who originated this, but ""I'm not paying for sex when I hire a prostitute, I'm paying for him (her) to leave..."

I was a handsome man in my 20's-30's, but am now more than 60. I am kind, funny, hygenic, and generous, but I am very clear that I am paying for someone TO PRETEND that they find me attractive enough to do things to me and allow me to do things to them that they would otherwise not, were it not a business transaction. The art of such companionship is for both buyer and seller to make the other feel as though it's sincerely enjoyable and that it COULD have occurred without the cash. If every escort was only available to men he found attractive, they would be out of business. Vive la tromperie!

[caliguy]

I am very clear that I am paying for someone TO PRETEND that they find me attractive enough to do things to me and allow me to do things to them that they would otherwise not, were it not a business transaction. The art of such companionship is for both buyer and seller to make the other feel as though it's sincerely enjoyable and that it COULD have occurred without the cash.

I think the best ones are the guys that find something about you that they like. Then again maybe like you say there's just nothing about you that anyone could find attractive or fuck-able in the least and good acting is the best you'll ever get. Like stick it in and fuck me and then leave. Good that you have such low expectations though.

[MscleLovr]

I think the best ones are the guys that find something about you that they like. Then again maybe like you say there's just nothing about you that anyone could find attractive or fuck-able in the least and good acting is the best you'll ever get. Like stick it in and fuck me and then leave. Good that you have such low expectations though.

 

IMO that's harsh, Caliguy. If, like me, Jeezifonly is into handsome young men in their 20s, then he is simply being realistic. There are some young men (and possibly some escorts) in their 20s who prefer older men but there are not that many. It's just the way of the world that the financial capacity of older men can be of considerable attraction to younger men.

[big-n-tall]

I've definitely met at least two younger guys who like older men. One in particular has told me I am the youngest guy he sees regularly. He said he just seems to gravitate more to older gentlemen. (I think he had a boyfriend at one point in his 60's) I'm just under 10 years older than he. He told me he very rarely continues to see younger men for various reasons. I asked him why does he continue to see if I'm not his particular clientele. The short answer was he liked me a lot.

 

So yes, I'm sure there are a lot of escorts who may not be absolutely atttracted to their clientele. However, as been said ad naseum the good ones will find something to like. The good clients also do something for the working guy that usually wins him over... if there is no pure attraction that is.

[caliguy]

If, like me, Jeezifonly is into handsome young men in their 20s, then he is simply being realistic. .

I thought Jeezifoonly was into older like thirty somethings. Yeah, it would be rare for a twenty something to be attracted to a sixty somethings outside of a fetish.

[MikeBiDude]

A twenty something will never be into sixty somethings outside of a fetish.

As I've posted elsewhere, I respectfully disagree. Based on personal experience(s).

[caliguy]

As I've posted elsewhere, I respectfully disagree. Based on personal experience(s).

Ha. For some reason I've always have thought of you as younger. I edited it to rare though which is more accurate.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I do not master many English nuances, but I do not think it is accurate to say it is rare to find a young guy in his 20s or even earlier who is attracted to older guys in their 60s. Of course we do not have statistics so this is a debate about subjective impressions and experiences. My feeling is that it does not happen often, it is not the majority, but it does occurred more often than rarely. You do have to move away form the mainstream culture where anyone who is not White, out, in his 30s or younger, gym fit, "straight acting", and a "successful professional" is less desirable.

Now, if we add money to the equation, forget about it. Yes, it would be very rare.