Escorts who don't like older guys but pretend to

[+ PapaTony]

I'm friends with a guy, I'll call him Paul, who is a chef in a high end steak house. Knows everything about the best cuts of meat, preparation, presentation, you name it. Caters to a well-off, discerning clientele.

 

Paul is a vegan!

 

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[big-n-tall]

Excellent point. I have a regular that I've been seeing for almost 2 years. I don't know if he's fantasizing about someone else when he closes his eyes, but I am pretty certain he enjoys what's happening. The proof is in the "pudding" that shoots into my mouth. ( Sorry. I know that was extremely crass, but I just couldn't resist. )

 

+1

 

Again I can't say all the working guys I've met find me their physical ideal... but from there physical and auditory responses, I'm absolutely certain they enjoy me on some level. The muscle top who bottoms for me has told me I am the only one that makes him precum. I've made him cum without touching himself (not the only guy I've done that too ). He tells me frequently that when he pleasures himself he thinks of me. The last time we were together and he drove me around, he kept playing with himself through his basketball shorts. He then proceeded to beg me to play with him while he was driving. He and a few others, even though our body types are dissimilar and our ages aren't the same... I know without a doubt I excite them. I make their legs shake. I make them sometimes lose control just as much as they do to me.

 

There are plenty working guys (in this hobby) who find men unlike themselves actually attractive. There are plenty that get off with whomever they are with because they enjoy sex and the connection. Stressing over who is acting or who is into to it because of age or whatever kills the fun. Just do it... enjoy it... repeat until you can't repeat no more.

[down_to_business]

TMI (too much information) can ruin many a fantasy. While sometimes the truth will set you free, other times ignorance is bliss.

 

Don't worry.... be happy

[SizeQueen16]

I'm friends with a guy, I'll call him Paul, who is a chef in a high end steak house. Knows everything about the best cuts of meat, preparation, presentation, you name it. Caters to a well-off, discerning clientele.

 

Paul is a vegan!

 

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I get your point. However, with a chef I don't care what he eats in his personal life as long as he's a good chef. The food will always be top notch because he's an expert at his profession even though its not his preference. With an escort who you discover has a personal disdain for your type whether it be age, race or physical attribute, it kinda kills the fantasy or at least makes it harder to pretend because that interaction is way more intimate and you know the truth about them. Some guys can get around this and still go along with it. To each his own I guess.

 

I think deep down everyone that hires wants to feel like the feeling of sexual satisfaction is a mutual thing and not just oneside for the client.

[+ Gar1eth]

+1

 

Again I can't say all the working guys I've met find me their physical ideal... but from there physical and auditory responses, I'm absolutely certain they enjoy me on some level. The muscle top who bottoms for me has told me I am the only one that makes him precum. I've made him cum without touching himself (not the only guy I've done that too ). He tells me frequently that when pleasures him self he thinks of me. The last time we were together and he drove me around, he kept playing with himself through his basketball shorts. He then proceeded to beg me to play with him while he was driving. He and a few others, even though our body types are dissimilar and our ages aren't the same... I know without a doubt I excite them. I make there legs shake. I make them sometimes lose control just as much as they do to me.

 

There are plenty working guys (in this hobby) who find men unlike themselves actually attractive. There are plenty that get off with whomever they are with because they enjoy sex and the connection. Stressing over who is acting or who is into to it because of age or whatever kills the fun. Just do it... enjoy it... repeat until you can't repeat no more.

 

I'm glad these guys like you. But that wasn't really the point of the OP. You have proof these guys like you. The OP related escorts who in their private lives wouldn't touch me with a 10 foot pole. It probably doesn't matter a lot to me. I mean it would have been nice if an occasional escort had really been turned on by me. But I never expected it.

 

Gman

[CatnameFelix]

Look, it's not like I don't get it. I sometimes fantasize that when I enter a room, the guy I've hired would take one look at me and say, "Damn, put that wallet away. This one's on the house for a sexy guy like you!" I very much doubt it will ever happen. And I've had guys offer me cash on Grindr, lol.

 

Business is business.

[LookingAround]

I'm friends with a guy, I'll call him Paul, who is a chef in a high end steak house. Knows everything about the best cuts of meat, preparation, presentation, you name it. Caters to a well-off, discerning clientele.

 

Paul is a vegan!

 

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Bad analogy. Better one would be you sit down to enjoy a big juicy steak with Paul and he says "no thanks I'm not hungry because I don't eat meat." Kills the chemistry.

[CatnameFelix]

Bad analogy. Better one would be you sit down to enjoy a big juicy steak with Paul and he says "no thanks I'm not hungry because I don't eat meat." Kills the chemistry.

Worse analogy, that just means more steak for me.

[big-n-tall]

I'm glad these guys like you. But that wasn't really the point of the OP. You have proof these guys like you. The OP related escorts who in their private lives wouldn't touch me with a 10 foot pole. It probably doesn't matter a lot to me. I mean it would have been nice if an occasional escort had really been turned on by me. But I never expected it.

 

Gman

 

You don't have to remind me what the OP wrote. I read it. I understand it, and I addressed it in a previous post to this topic. However, this topic has brought out many variations on whether an escort may be into a client, even if the client isn't ideal. I responded to a specific comment posted by MikeyGMin. Am I not allowed to go off on a tangent like others have? Didn't you just do the very same thing I did by addressing me?

 

My point (which you didn't seem to get) is to stop fretting about if the guy is into it/you or not. It ruins the enjoyment. In my previous post I said there is nothing a person can do if a guy sees people he is actually attracted to on private time... so stop worrying. Find someone else if it's a problem for you.

 

You seem to have a negative, woe-is-me outlook on things judging by your posts. That's fine. You do you. I'm certain some working guy liked some aspect of being with you, but with the attitude you put forth on this forum, (if you are like this in person) you may have glazed over what was in plain site.

[AdamSmith]

One's work and the other is personal.

 

I also pretend to like my customers when I'm at work, while they personally disgust me.

 

That's the way it goes in the service industry.

If you really feel that way, pity for you.

 

My biz is tech market research/consulting. If I don't like somebody, and there certainly are some not to like, I just don't engage or accept their offer of engagement.

 

If you really find yourself in a position of having to serve people who disgust you, for God's sake construct a new better situation and move into it.

 

Life is too short.

[TennDan99]

I don't tend to worry about this issue when I'm seeing an escort. If I don't feel like they are enjoying the session I don't hire them again. I had a session with a guy I hired regularly that went poorly a few months ago. I liked him so I asked him about it. He explained the issues - family problems, work issues and fatigue. Next time we were back on track.

 

I'm sure he doesn't see me as his ideal guy but we are compatible and enjoy our time together. I wouldn't have wanted to have sex with 55 year old me when I was in my 20s either.

 

I understand why some posters worry about this but it's easier for me to ignore it and succumb to the fantasy. That's what I'm looking for in my sessions.

 

That being said - there is no reason to allow an escort to disrespect a client. I think the same level of respect should apply to clients dealing with escorts. A little empathy goes a long way from both sides. This activity is supposed to be fun. Overthinking it just ruins the fun for me.

[MscleLovr]

"I wouldn't have wanted to have sex with 55 year old me when I was in my 20s either" and "Overthinking it just ruins the fun for me".

 

Very well put, TennDan99. It's a business but it's also a very pleasurable activity for me.

[MikeBiDude]

I've mixed and matched several Rentmen.com escorts with them on grindr and sadly a handful overtly on grindr tell older guys to stay away

 

"No older guys" etc.

 

Understanding that there's a large diff between business and pleasure, such overt ageism is disturbing

 

Buyer beware

Back to the OP (this thread has taken some interesting twists) No, knowing what sexual/partner preferences an escort likes in his personal life does not affect my hiring. If I get the experience and visit I'm seeking, I'm ok with with that.

 

I think other various factors can more often lead to unsatisfactory hires than just sexual preferences. I've expressed in other threads these guys are humans first.

[Tonyko]

Ca'mon, if we could get them to get with us without paying this forum wouldn't exist

The MAJORITY of the scorts who are into men in their personal lives most likely AREN'T into us. As far as what they REALLY feel about us it may run the gamut from wow not bad to ugh gross, and most, thankfully, are kind and prof enough to never voice that (thou I HAVE been in circles where some amongst themselves HAVE) But there should be no shock that even among scorts there are varying degrees of fortitude when it comes to the BUSINESS of sex, and some are simply more honest about it.

AND no one has mentioned that MANY are STRAIGHT/G4P. No mater how great they make us feel and convincing they are, WHEN WE KNOW THEY GO HOME TO A GF OR WIFE we must ALSO know that it's all an ACT! No???

*I have a bud who hires exclusively Str8 G4P scorts and is constantly fretting pre appointment to look his sexiest asking my opinion etc and gets annoyed when I laugh. HE DOESN'T CARE IF YOU LOOK SEXY! If I put a Playboy centerfold and Queen Elizabeth before you and said WHO would you rather fuk the answer is NEITHER cause you ain't into women. And HE aint into men. JUST BE CLEAN SMELL NICE AND HAVE GOOD BREATH lol! That's all he cares about:confused:

Am I wrong lol????????????????

[CatnameFelix]

Ca'mon, if we could get them to get with us without paying this forum wouldn't exist

The MAJORITY of the scorts who are into men in their personal lives most likely AREN'T into us. As far as what they REALLY feel about us it may run the gamut from wow not bad to ugh gross, and most, thankfully, are kind and prof enough to never voice that (thou I HAVE been in circles where some amongst themselves HAVE) But there should be no shock that even among scorts there are varying degrees of fortitude when it comes to the BUSINESS of sex, and some are simply more honest about it.

AND no one has mentioned that MANY are STRAIGHT/G4P. No mater how great they make us feel and convincing they are, WHEN WE KNOW THEY GO HOME TO A GF OR WIFE we must ALSO know that it's all an ACT! No???

*I have a bud who hires exclusively Str8 G4P scorts and is constantly fretting pre appointment to look his sexiest asking my opinion etc and gets annoyed when I laugh. HE DOESN'T CARE IF YOU LOOK SEXY! If I put a Playboy centerfold and Queen Elizabeth before you and said WHO would you rather fuk the answer is NEITHER cause you ain't into women. And HE aint into men. JUST BE CLEAN SMELL NICE AND HAVE GOOD BREATH lol! That's all he cares about:confused:

Am I wrong lol????????????????

 

ahem...

Wait @Chance, your a master on here? And you just figured out that escorts may not be sexually attracted to their clients? Really?

 

I'm interested in this thread for a bunch of reasons though. I'm interested in how many people who would be upset by someone's personal profile, but still hire someone who advertises as straight. And how many on here will find this ageism as being offensive, but find a racial preference as just a personal choice. And that's someone putting that racial preference in an ad, not a personal profile.

 

Let me get my popcorn.

[Epigonos]

I once had an extremely successful GAY escort tell me that he could ALWAYS find something attractive about any clients who hired him regardless of the clients age, ethnicity, size etc. He explained that he simply concentrated of that attractive aspect and ignored all else. He went on to explain that a client might have, for example, nice eyes, nice hair, nice ears, a nice smile, etc. etc. and that is all he needed in order to relate positively to the client. I will readily admit that were I in his shoes I could not operate that way, however, that ability is what has made him the outstandingly successful escort that he is. I cannot overstate how much I admire and respect his ability to function in that manner.

[Spencer L]

Just thought that the differences and hassle-free experiences were the reason you hire, right?

[caliguy]

*I have a bud who hires exclusively Str8 G4P scorts and is constantly fretting pre appointment to look his sexiest asking my opinion etc and gets annoyed when I laugh. HE DOESN'T CARE IF YOU LOOK SEXY! If I put a Playboy centerfold and Queen Elizabeth before you and said WHO would you rather fuk the answer is NEITHER cause you ain't into women. And HE aint into men. JUST BE CLEAN SMELL NICE AND HAVE GOOD BREATH lol! That's all he cares about:confused:

Am I wrong lol????????????????

I really don't understand that though. The guy is totally 100% not into it. I don't understand how anyone can find that sexy or appealing in any way. Some of you don't care and I don't get it.

 

 

[+ OliverSaks]

I like to think of hiring gay men as "buying local" or "supporting your community."

 

Broke straight men have bills to pay too, but there is no shortage of sexy men who are also gay, who face the music of being gay in our country, who move to big cities to escape the intolerance of littleTown America, and who escort to make ends meet or to push towards a career or life that furthers the attititude of LGBT acceptance (which benefits all of us).

 

I try to practice responsible buying (non-sweatshop, non-animal, non-cruelty, union - and I realize the hypocrisy of this statement as a type on this iPhone 7 (a client gave it to me as a gift) - I'm not claiming to be perfect, but I am proud that I think about these things all the time.

 

I've echoed this sentiment when I questioned hiring anti-gay politician supporting escorts in an older thread.

[jawjateck]

I started hiring when I was young and desirable. Everywhere I turned older escorts were being foisted upon me. Their ads were numerous, inundating me, pressing upon me, giving me no options; I felt constrained. Somehow, I slogged my way through it and could always find something desirable in them.....well, at least most of them.

[Chuckball]

I hired younger escorts and worried that the difference in age thing would lessen the mutual enjoyment of the experience. Finally, I just decided that the escort advertised on RM and did not include any age restrictions so he must not care. Once I got over my age hangup I found all engagements went extremely well. One escort texted me later and complimented us on our "chemistry". Another emails me from time to time seeking advice on a family situation he is going through. I think everyone is happiest when we are ourselves and not what you think others would have us be.

[+ Gar1eth]

I started hiring when I was young and desirable.

 

While no escort has broken confidentiality, @jawjateck there's a feeling I get when I look to the West and my spirit is crying for leav... whoops I started channeling Led Zeppelin. Let me try again.

 

While no ... confidentiality, there's a feeling I get, just a feeling mind you, that no matter your age, you are still very desirable.

 

Gman

[Tonyko]

I really don't understand that though. The guy is totally 100% not into it. I don't understand how anyone can find that sexy or appealing in any way. Some of you don't care and I don't get it.

 

 

HALF of the MOST famous stars in Gay Porn are G4P, NONE of them are "really" into it and never have been, from the Jeff Stryker - Ryal Idol etc stars of my day to the to the Ryan Roses Vadim Blacks James Huntsmans Landon Mycles etc of today. They "act" EXTREMELY into it on film, and many also do when they scort. "I" don't get what the diff IS between a hot young GAY scort pretending but actually 100% not into it because someone's the wrong type, and a hot STR8 scort pretending but actually 100% not into it because someone's the wrong GENDER

[marylander1940]

I once had an extremely successful GAY escort tell me that he could ALWAYS find something attractive about any clients who hired him regardless of the clients age, ethnicity, size etc. He explained that he simply concentrated of that attractive aspect and ignored all else. He went on to explain that a client might have, for example, nice eyes, nice hair, nice ears, a nice smile, etc. etc. and that is all he needed in order to relate positively to the client. I will readily admit that were I in his shoes I could not operate that way, however, that ability is what has made him the outstandingly successful escort that he is. I cannot overstate how much I admire and respect his ability to function in that manner.

 

that's why I only hire gay men, because at least they'll find something about me instead of imagining something else.

[tennisjock]

So, there's a very hot guy currently in NY. His ad says he's versatile. But his Grindr account says he's looking for hung tops. Is his ad now false? If you're not hung, will you now not hire him? Even though he's very handsome and muscular, does his sizism disgust you?

Seems like on his own playtime he wants hung top cock...not that there is anything wrong with that of course. Could be that he is truly vers on his escort sessions but for play wants to be topped and topped by hung guys