Escorts who don't like older guys but pretend to

[caliguy]

HALF of the MOST famous stars in Gay Porn are G4P, NONE of them are "really" into it and never have been, from the Jeff Stryker - Ryal Idol etc stars of my day to the to the Ryan Roses Vadim Blacks James Huntsmans Landon Mycles etc of today. They "act" EXTREMELY into it on film, and many also do when they scort. "I" don't get what the diff IS between a hot young GAY scort pretending but actually 100% not into it because someone's the wrong type, and a hot STR8 scort pretending but actually 100% not into it because someone's the wrong GENDER

If you're restricting your choices to the too young or the immature Prima Donna types where looks are all that matters then yes I would agree. That goes with the territory. If on the other hand were talking about a normal gay guy (the horror) he'll find something about you that he likes and you might just make a connection.

 

Most of you're examples were duchebags though. Top that's really a bottom, wife abuser, fag hater, etc.

[MikeyGMin]

HALF of the MOST famous stars in Gay Porn are G4P, NONE of them are "really" into it and never have been, from the Jeff Stryker - Ryal Idol etc stars of my day to the to the Ryan Roses Vadim Blacks James Huntsmans Landon Mycles etc of today. They "act" EXTREMELY into it on film, and many also do when they scort. "I" don't get what the diff IS between a hot young GAY scort pretending but actually 100% not into it because someone's the wrong type, and a hot STR8 scort pretending but actually 100% not into it because someone's the wrong GENDER

Ryan Rose is straight? I thought his scandal was beating up on his gay partner.

[Mount N Do]

Back to the OP (this thread has taken some interesting twists) No, knowing what sexual/partner preferences an escort likes in his personal life does not affect my hiring. If I get the experience and visit I'm seeking, I'm ok with with that.

 

I think other various factors can more often lead to unsatisfactory hires than just sexual preferences. I've expressed in other threads these guys are humans first.

100 percent! I don't think I've ever asked an escort, before I hired them, what their orientation was. I think it's fair to say that most here, hire based on the visuals that turn them on. To suggest that a guy that identifies as hetero, could not be a satisfactory hire is disingenuous. I know that from personal experience. I've said before that some of my best times, have been with straight, or allegedly straight guys. And if, as suggested in some of these comments, many porn stars are straight in their personal life, im good with that too. Doesn't bother me at all. In fact, I thank them for the entertainment. It's sex man, I'm not looking to be a moral authority here. And I presume none of us are foolish enough to think a relationship is emerging from these encounters. My only point in this matter was the poor judgement of those that may be putting shit out there that could effect their business. Not that I thought they were devious or misrepresenting their professional life. And if more straight guys, that may be to my liking, wanna take up sex work? Welcome I say. If you're hot and wanna let me suck your dick, I'll buy you a drink too. I'm seeing a notorious straight guy tomorrow for the first time. Dude supposedly dances up north and the little feedback I've gotten has been positive. I'm gonna be just as generous with him, if the experience is good, as I was with the gay escort I saw a couple weeks ago that was fantastic. To coin a currently popular phrase; if there's a there, there... im down! Fuck, I totally digressed cause I think the OP never mentioned anything about straight guys. In fact, I think they were cock whores looking for youth and models. Oh well, I hijacked. Sorry...

[big-n-tall]

Ryan Rose is straight? I thought his scandal was beating up on his gay partner.

 

Exactly...Ryan Rose is pardon the expression... super gay. check out the posts with his most recent boyfriend on his twitter feed.

[Epigonos]

I like to think of hiring gay men as "buying local" or "supporting your community.

I am TOTALLY with OliverSaks on this one. The instant I see the word straight in an escort ad I'm gone. I insist on playing with guys who enjoy playing with guys even if I'm not their physical ideal at least I'm a man.

[CatnameFelix]

Seems like on his own playtime he wants hung top cock...not that there is anything wrong with that of course. Could be that he is truly vers on his escort sessions but for play wants to be topped and topped by hung guys

 

So then could a guy be truly into having sex with an older guy, but he feels more comfortable with someone his own age?

 

See what I did there.

 

Escorts have lives too. Don't assume that they're advertising all the time. Some have Grindr accounts for fun. I'm only going to be mad at someone for what they put in their ads when I'm hiring. And mad at what they put in their profiles when I'm trying to hookup for free;)

[Mount N Do]

So then could a guy be truly into having sex with an older guy, but he feels more comfortable with someone his own age?

 

See what I did there.

 

Escorts have lives too. Don't assume that they're advertising all the time. Some have Grindr accounts for fun. I'm only going to be mad at someone for what they put in their ads when I'm hiring. And mad at what they put in their profiles when I'm trying to hookup for free;)

Good point, but I think we're in the minority here. I'm reading a lot of indignation here which is why I wouldn't publish anything that could be detrimental to my business. For example, I NEVER write anything controversial on FB. Not a good look to potentially alienate people who give me business. That's my only point here.

[Mount N Do]

I am TOTALLY with OliverSaks on this one. The instant I see the word straight in an escort ad I'm gone. I insist on playing with guys who enjoy playing with guys even if I'm not their physical ideal at least I'm a man.

How would you know with certainty? If, as alleged here, many porn stars are indeed straight but great actors, what makes you think the same is not true of sex workers? And aren't you potentially depriving yourself of a good time?

[Epigonos]

Mount N Do if the escorts doesn't state "straight" I might not know. I really don't care how good an actor a straight escort is. If he defines himself as straight I'm not interested. I want to play ONLY with people who want to play with people who have cocks and balls between their legs NOT pussies.

[CatnameFelix]

How would you know with certainty? If, as alleged here, many porn stars are indeed straight but great actors, what makes you think the same is not true of sex workers? And aren't you potentially depriving yourself of a good time?

 

Great acting is made in the editing room.

[CatnameFelix]

Mount N Do if the escorts doesn't state "straight" I might not know. I really don't care how good an actor a straight escort is. If he defines himself as straight I'm not interested. I want to play ONLY with people who want to play with people who have cocks and balls between their legs NOT pussies.

+1

As a top, I want to hire someone who cannot get enough dicks up the ass. I don't want to hire someone who, "doesn't mind bottoming." I want someone who wants to bottom.

[TennDan99]

Never sure about the issue of straight escorts. I have hired them and enjoyed myself. Not sure that some of them aren't exactly straight but think the straight label makes them seem hot and unattainable. Probably overthinking this lol.

[MikeBiDude]

+1

As a top, I want to hire someone who cannot get enough dicks up the ass. I don't want to hire someone who, "doesn't mind bottoming." I want someone who wants to bottom.

Lol, but the advertising is all smoke and mirrors. Gay/str8/bi how do you KNOW they WANT to bottom or not? Some hot hot "str8" bottoms in my past, moaning for more the whole time.

[Mount N Do]

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Mount N Do if the escorts doesn't state "straight" I might not know. I really don't care how good an actor a straight escort is. If he defines himself as straight I'm not interested. I want to play ONLY with people who want to play with people who have cocks and balls between their legs NOT pussies.

I respect that and I definitely get it. So I suppose one that advertises as bi is also out of the question?

[TennDan99]

I can understand why guys won't hire "straight"

escorts but the whole thing seems very fluid for most of these guys. I see a guy that dances at a male strip club that I see when I'm in his town. Probably seen him 10 times over 2 years. Met him at club dancing, said he was straight. Lives with girlfriend.

 

He's hot and great fun when we are together. Loves to play with toys and kisses, cuddles, oral etc. Pretty much the normal escort experience without anal. Still claims to be straight and is careful to caution me to never mention our meetings to other dancers at club. His girlfriend story plays out on Facebook and other social media.

 

I would have never guessed he would be this much fun when I first approached him. Sometimes I enjoy taking a chance and letting things play out. Doesn't always work out that well but the risk is pretty low.

 

Not sure that this post is on point for this thread. I just want to advocate for a more adventurous, playful approach to this hobby.

[Mount N Do]

I can understand why guys won't hire "straight"

escorts but the whole thing seems very fluid for most of these guys. I see a guy that dances at a male strip club that I see when I'm in his town. Probably seen him 10 times over 2 years. Met him at club dancing, said he was straight. Lives with girlfriend.

 

He's hot and great fun when we are together. Loves to play with toys and kisses, cuddles, oral etc. Pretty much the normal escort experience without anal. Still claims to be straight and is careful to caution me to never mention our meetings to other dancers at club. His girlfriend story plays out on Facebook and other social media.

 

I would have never guessed he would be this much fun when I first approached him. Sometimes I enjoy taking a chance and letting things play out. Doesn't always work out that well but the risk is pretty low.

 

Not sure that this post is on point for this thread. I just want to advocate for a more adventurous, playful approach to this hobby.

There really needs to be a multiple like option here. And conversely,there's a well known massively hung escort here in Miami, positively reviewed, who advertises as bi, won't kiss, strictly tops and generally floats the straight narrative. I've recently found out he's gayer than the rainbow flag. There's where im trying to go @Epigonos. He very well may enjoy that guy but is deprived because he's being selective. Turns out I suck more pussy than that guy.

[Epigonos]

Mount N Do I'm very much enjoying this thread and I hope I'm not offending you. You hit me right between the eyes when you made a reference to bi. I am NOT consistent on that one. If a bi defined escort catches my eye I might contact him, tell him what I'm looking for and then go from there depending on his answers. That is NEVER, however, the case with self defined straight escorts.

I'm not really into the chase or coy games. If I'm at a strip club I quickly become bored trying to determine whether or not one of the strippers is gay and willing to play. As someone else here said some of these guys will play but don't want the other strippers to know. Playing that game is for me too much "needless" work and I won't waste my time playing it.

[Fyton]

To avoid the contempt, find a guy in your desired age range on Grinder who states in his profile that he likes older guys. Believe me, when you are 62 and he is 20-something, you'll be paying for it in every sense of the word.

[Mount N Do]

Mount N Do I'm very much enjoying this thread and I hope I'm not offending you. You hit me right between the eyes when you made a reference to bi. I am NOT consistent on that one. If a bi defined escort catches my eye I might contact him, tell him what I'm looking for and then go from there depending on his answers. That is NEVER, however, the case with self defined straight escorts.

I'm not really into the chase or coy games. If I'm at a strip club I quickly become bored trying to determine whether or not one of the strippers is gay and willing to play. As someone else here said some of these guys will play but don't want the other strippers to know. Playing that game is for me too much "needless" work and I won't waste my time playing it.

No offense at all. I think we're all adults here and everyone's entitled th their opinion and we each know what we like. Not looking to change anyone's mind, just offering a different perspective. All good bud...

[Mount N Do]

To avoid the contempt, find a guy in your desired age range on Grinder who states in his profile that he likes older guys. Believe me, when you are 62 and he is 20-something, you'll be paying for it in every sense of the word.

Lol, which is why I don't do Grinder. Trust me, I ain't scary, but I pride myself on being aware. At my age, if I wanna do the younger hot guys? I'm buying. So I just assume trying the pros that market what I'm looking for.

[Tonyko]

Exactly...Ryan Rose is pardon the expression... super gay. check out the posts with his most recent boyfriend on his twitter feed.

I actually follow his Twitter and I guess when I see work related pics as the ONLY ones related to gay sex (from shoots films live shows events etc) I just assume. UNLESS you mean the person he always seems to be biking with. There are no pics of them at all being intimate etc more like "brah" pics lol so I just assumed he was one o' those big tall str8 G4P guys lol.

[TennDan99]

As with everything in life this all comes down to personal preference. I don't consider watching hot guys get naked and interacting with them to be work. Sounds like pleasure to me.

 

I wouldn't recommend approaching strippers as an exclusive means of finding companionship but it does have some benefits to balance the downsides. I like the ability to meet and assess potential hires in person. You can learn more and see more in that setting than you can through electronic communication with an escort that advertises online. Any time spent that doesn't lead to a future meeting is still time spent with a hot naked guy.

 

I also hire from online sites. I've had good and bad experiences in both settings but mostly good. The search is like foreplay to me. A good search usually results in a good session.

[CatnameFelix]

Lol, but the advertising is all smoke and mirrors. Gay/str8/bi how do you KNOW they WANT to bottom or not? Some hot hot "str8" bottoms in my past, moaning for more the whole time.

Well it's not my fault if they make it so cloudy I can't see my reflection.

[Mount N Do]

As with everything in life this all comes down to personal preference. I don't consider watching hot guys get naked and interacting with them to be work. Sounds like pleasure to me.

 

I wouldn't recommend approaching strippers as an exclusive means of finding companionship but it does have some benefits to balance the downsides. I like the ability to meet and assess potential hires in person. You can learn more and see more in that setting than you can through electronic communication with an escort that advertises online. Any time spent that doesn't lead to a future meeting is still time spent with a hot naked guy.

 

I also hire from online sites. I've had good and bad experiences in both settings but mostly good. The search is like foreplay to me. A good search usually results in a good session.

My current situation doesn't afford me the luxury of personally scouting the market. So in the meantime, RM and I go like bread and butter.

[big-n-tall]

There are no pics of them at all being intimate etc more like "brah" pics lol so I just assumed he was one o' those big tall str8 G4P guys lol.

 

There kinda are...

http://www.queermenow.net/blog/ryan-rose-gay-porn-star-sex-tape/

 

Unless Ryan and the guy in these clips are no longer together... that's maybe the reason he hasn't posted more stuff recently. And as someone posted these was a major dust up between Ryan and an exboyfriend that was all over the gay porn blogosphere at one point. He may not be 100% gay, but he definitely leans more gay than straight. LOL!