+ glutes Posted March 5, 2017 Share Posted March 5, 2017 Also the hottest guys get soooo many messages. This I know from one of my bad experiences with a particular aberzombie. He was emailed hourly. By other BABIES not just daddies Of course they're going to ignore most people like you. Then I am NOT renewing my membership, what a waste! There are better ways to spend $79.95/month. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Keith30309 Posted March 5, 2017 Share Posted March 5, 2017 Anyone else get the feeling that some of the SA profiles are plants by the owner/s of SA? Cute pictured guys that do correspond, but when it comes down to FaceTime or Skype, they say they are real busy with school or work, and then fade away. There are also some stock lines in their texts that are the repetitive: - What are you doing today? - How was your day? I definitely get lots of these - they're clearly designed to keep a conversation going. There are guys I'm not interested in, and I've made it clear, who still send me these. I looked in the SA blog of advice ("Let's Talk Sugar") and there's some discussion about sending messages ("To get more messages in your inbox and to increase your chances of finding the perfect Sugar Daddy for you, you’re going to have to be more aggressive"... really). I've met face-to-face a handful guys who've done this and doubt the messages are faked, though the persistence can be annoying. And I've never been catfished - I vet guys pretty thoroughly before I given them a unique burner number to text me. Pretty much everyone I've met has been just as they describe and their photos depict. All that said, it is an interesting thought... a staff of interns who are paid to do nothing more than front fake profiles and send these stock messages. What a job; I hope these stay Amerikan. MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Keith30309 Posted March 5, 2017 Share Posted March 5, 2017 Also the hottest guys get soooo many messages. This I know from one of my bad experiences with a particular aberzombie. He was emailed hourly. By other BABIES not just daddies Of course they're going to ignore most people like you. Dunno - maybe so. Everyone I've met has been as their photos show. I still chat with 3 guys I actually met face-to-face but there was no romantic chemistry. Your mileage may vary. MikeBiDude and pubic_assistance 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glutes Posted March 5, 2017 Share Posted March 5, 2017 I definitely get lots of these - they're clearly designed to keep a conversation going. And to string you along to re-up your subscription... pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Keith30309 Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 And for you to re-up your subscription... It's entirely possible. I guess it depends on what you're looking for. I began looking on SA because I wanted something regular with someone I had some chemistry with and I was getting weary of the treadmill of mass-production escort experiences. If you want to look at it on a purely financial basis, if I'd paid escorts for the overnights and evenings I'd spent with SA guys it would have been massively more than any subscription fees could ever be. But, that's really not the point for me. pubic_assistance, + V-Vhitner, MikeBiDude and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 Then I am NOT renewing my membership, what a waste! There are better ways to spend $79.95/month. Sounds like that's the right decision for you, based on your experiences so far on SA that you've posted about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Keith30309 Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 I'll say that SA is highly variable. But, then, I'm feeling the same thing looking at RM for Miami... I'm not sure there is even one right answer for me... and certainly not one right answer for everyone. + José Soplanucas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glutes Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 Now I just received a 'interest' from someone my age to be my sugar baby. Really? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ goosh69 Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 Yeah...I've had that too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Keith30309 Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 Now I just received a 'interest' from someone my age to be my sugar baby. Really? oops... sorry... my bad. tennisjock, + WmClarke, + José Soplanucas and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 I've met with a few dozen guys already, so I hardly think there is a majority of fake profiles. I have encountered a small percentage who seem to give an unusually short bit of "interest" and never answer back. MikeBiDude, + goosh69 and tennisjock 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CADreamer Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 Wow, this thread has been busy. I've spent the last hour getting caught up on it. First and foremost, thank you MrMiniver for starting this thread. I had never heard of this site and after reading the the earlier posts I decided to sign up for it in December and try it out. I have been very honest with everyone I have chatted with on the site, making it very clear that I have no intention of paying anyone an allowance just to go out with me. If that's what they're looking for, I have nothing but best wishes in their finding it, but it isn't going to be from me. On the other hand, I'm happy to pay for everything on our dates, which could end up being a cruise or even a trip overseas (I love to travel), but I'm not supporting them, unless our dates lead to a LTR. I very quickly found someone who seemed interesting and we chatted for about three weeks before we finally met (I told him I couldn't meet until after the New year because of the holidays and family visiting from overseas). It's been two months now and the only thing that would make me happier would be if we could see more of each other. We are both busy and he lives near downtown LA and I live in what's called the South Bay (it took me two hours to get to his house on Valentine's Day). He's young, tall, handsome, and just as nice as can be. And he's never asked me for a dime. He struggles a bit, and I have offered to help a bit, but he's never made that a condition of our relationship. I've waded through many guys on the site as the rest of you have, but, in L.A. at least, there are some out there looking for the same thing I am. Even if the current relationship ends, I count the site a success. escortrod, + José Soplanucas, MikeBiDude and 5 others 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 I have had the same experience. A few nice young men who enjoy the company and security of an older man. It's incredibly difficult for young people these days to get a foot hold in life. When mummy and daddy aren't always available to some people to help, it's particularly appealing to have someone around who DOES. + V-Vhitner 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caliguy Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 (edited) I'm not supporting them, he's never asked me for a dime. He struggles a bit, and I have offered to help a bit, but he's never made that a condition of our relationship. I don't get it. What exactly is the arrangement if not monetary? The very definition of the site is a place for sugar daddies to meet sugar babies. "SeekingArrangement is an American sugar baby and sugar daddy dating website" Edited March 6, 2017 by caliguy + glutes, + buddy12 and + goosh69 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 I don't get it. What exactly is the arrangement if not monetary? The very definition of the site is a place for sugar daddies to meet sugar babies. "SeekingArrangement is an American sugar baby and sugar daddy dating website" Some of the younger men use the site to connect with older gentleman, gratis. Like silverdaddies.com does. Has happened to me 2-3 times since I joined...no allowance or support requested or offered. pubic_assistance and CADreamer 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caliguy Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 Some of the younger men use the site to connect with older gentleman, gratis. Like silverdaddies.com does. Has happened to me 2-3 times since I joined...no allowance or support requested or offered. I like this site better though. More clear cut. https://www.whatsyourprice.com/index/ + g56whiz 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Keith30309 Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 (edited) I like this site better though. More clear cut. https://www.whatsyourprice.com/index/ Wow - I've never heard of this. It's like eBay for boys. There's a word for this sort of thing... I can't quite put my finger on it. From the site's blog: What if the attractive member who shows up looks nothing like his/her picture, do you still have to pay? If the attractive member who shows up on the date looks nothing like the person on the profile, it is equivalent to false marketing. In such a case, politely explain that he/she looks nothing like his/her profile pictures, then politely leave without paying. At your earliest opportunity, report his/her profile to the website so we can take the appropriate action. Do not stay for the date for even 1 second or you may be obligated to pay as agreed. However, if you like the person even though he/she looks different than his/her picture, and you choose to stay for the date, then you are obligated to pay. So if you have a dispute and choose to take your dispute to a civil court, you can always ask for a copy of the agreement made via our website. This can in fact serve as proof of a binding agreement. Sound familiar? It seems kinda like Rentmen except that there is a blank where the hourly rate is and the client fills it in and the escort accepts or rejects it. Is America great or what ! EDIT: Update - Amazing... it's like a class reunion from Seekingarrangement including 3 guys on RM/BP right now. Never let it be said that millennials aren't marketing-savvy. Edited March 6, 2017 by Keith30309 Mydavid, + glutes and pubic_assistance 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted March 6, 2017 Share Posted March 6, 2017 I like this site better though. More clear cut. https://www.whatsyourprice.com/index/ You'll find a lot of the same young men "multi-tasking" on both sites. tennisjock 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glutes Posted March 7, 2017 Share Posted March 7, 2017 My 'Ruse Rate' on Seekarrangement is running about 50%+. Pictures of cute / handsome guys that return messages and text, but proceed no further once a Skype or FaceTime session is asked for. Millenial Market Savy, yes... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted March 7, 2017 Share Posted March 7, 2017 Pictures of cute / handsome guys that return messages and text, but proceed no further Where are you located ? I don't have that experience at all. Maybe 20% have no follow through. MikeBiDude and + goosh69 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glutes Posted March 7, 2017 Share Posted March 7, 2017 Currently I'm in Bay Area. The Rusers come from out of area in (principally) college towns. Corvallis OR, Chico CA, Vancouver CAN, Boulder CO to name a few. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted March 7, 2017 Share Posted March 7, 2017 Where are you located ? I don't have that experience at all. Maybe 20% have no follow through. Same here, not having issues with "Rusers". I insist upon a Starbucks/Peet's "meet & greet" no obligation, no allowance. If they refuse, that's my filter. Sometimes the meet results in immediate play, sometimes longer term "arrangement". Virtually all of the successful coffee greets (I've been stood up twice FYI) have turned into more. pubic_assistance, tennisjock, + goosh69 and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ goosh69 Posted March 7, 2017 Share Posted March 7, 2017 My listing emphatically states that they must be local and must want to meet in person ASAP so I've had basically no fakers from the US. From Russia, yes. + glutes, + V-Vhitner and MikeBiDude 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ glutes Posted March 7, 2017 Share Posted March 7, 2017 (edited) My listing emphatically states that they must be local and must want to meet in person ASAP so I've had basically no fakers from the US. From Russia, yes. I told them they must not be full of paint and piercings, and of course some are. Edited March 7, 2017 by Oaktown tennisjock and + goosh69 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ goosh69 Posted March 7, 2017 Share Posted March 7, 2017 Haha well yes I say masculine and get Drag Race rejects. One learns to cope. pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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