Seeking arrangements success!

[CBA]

I may get lambasted for saying what I think about this site but the word "ARRANGEMENT" is in the title and the boys LIST the level of financial support they "expect" High Moderate Minimal etc. No matter HOW you slice it you are in essence hiring a scort. Granted, in "some" cases a non-professional, but you're paying someone to be with you on a regular or full-time basis and have sex with you. My bud paid to join looking for someone to live with travel with he's a tad naive he was answering all these boys and I had to say "STOP LOOK" he says New York but he LOGGED IN from Brazil! Or his profile says MEN/WOMEN and all his pics are with a blocked out girl he's STRAIGHT and IF he includes sex it's NOT his pref he'll eventually hate himself and YOU and maybe kill you somewhere in Mexico etc (with the help of the girl in all the pix) If you're looking for ANYTHING more than a boy to have on retainer to satisfy your needs whenever you choose, then you're looking for tsuris (grief). And if all those honest humble ones saying they really aren't there for the $$$$ they're there because they're genuinely INTO older men were telling the truth, they'd be on a silver daddy site and not there. All that said, there is NOTHING wrong with finding a permanent young man who doesn't run scort ads to whom you will have regular rights to and share perhaps a higher level of intimacy re his and your private lives, but as I said to my bud, keep it real. If he's gay he's having sex with you for $$$ then having sex with guys his own age on the side and if he's straight he's having sex with you for $$$ then buying drinks for girls to have sex with on the side and you MUST be down with that. If you're looking for the gay Pretty Women that was just a movie WITH Richard Gere as YOU lol. WHY not just find a great safe professional scort you click with and hire HIM regularly to be with you accompany you evening out take on vacations etc ??

(K now someone post a great SA love story that proves all of what I said is wrong lol)

 

I think you are generalizing a bit here but you do have some valid points. I think it is also important to note where the SB is located. Living on a ranch in the southwest I find that a lot of young men use it to find a local "daddy" because there is nothing available on the other online or app sites. SA mostly has decent Sugar Daddies. I think the big cities are a far different case. Everything online takes weeding out the bad boys...dating sites, escort sites, massage sites, sex apps......it takes time and some experience. Sometimes it is worth it. I do miss the days where you could only meet guys at a gay bar or event.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I finally met my first guy from SA. He is from Texas, about to graduate, and moving to DC. 22 years old, from a Kenyan mother and father, absolutely beautiful and masculine. He is in DC now, getting ready for a job interviews marathon on Monday and Tuesday. We went out last night for our first date, I payed all the checks, and then we came to my place. Horny boy, pretty good. So far we have not talked about money exchange.

I have another guy I am about to meet, a DC local one.

Anyways, I do not think I am renewing my Premium membership, it is too expensive.

[MikeBiDude]

Anyways, I do not think I am renewing my Premium membership, it is too expensive.

I just renewed, and picked (I think?) a 90 day renewal. I equated the co$t of that to basically a single meeting with a mainline/Rentmen escort. Yet I'm getting 1000 times the daily entertainment value, and maybe a five-fold return in meeting young men.

 

Again, I'm unique in that I enjoy the process, the "hunt".

[+ José Soplanucas]

I just renewed, and picked (I think?) a 90 day renewal. I equated the co$t of that to basically a single meeting with a mainline/Rentmen escort. Yet I'm getting 1000 times the daily entertainment value, and maybe a five-fold return in meeting young men.

 

Again, I'm unique in that I enjoy the process, the "hunt".

 

I am sad to tell you that you are not so special. I am also a hunter, that is why my LTRs () lasted just a few months. We are collectors.

 

My problem is not the hunt, but the lack of a clear definition of a contract, like the one you have with an escort, or the one you have with a hook up.

 

Please notice I am debating against it with no conviction. I do find it too expensive.

[+ glutes]

 

My problem is not the hunt, but the lack of a clear definition of a contract, like the one you have with an escort, or the one you have with a hook up.

 

Please notice I am debating against it with no conviction. I do find it too expensive.

 

SA is way too ambiguous for me.

 

Those that do have success, and want to pay $80/month, good for them.

[+ goosh69]

Again I find it hilarious (like laugh out loud funny) that any self-described sugar daddy finds $80 a month expensive. I shit that out after lunch.

[Good Grief]

Again I find it hilarious (like laugh out loud funny) that any self-described sugar daddy finds $80 a month expensive. I shit that out after lunch.

 

Alrighty and somewhat disgusting.

 

Not a good visual, though you're probably saying your lunches are only worth a mere eighty bucks??

 

Step it up. You could probably shit more than that?? Right?

 

Have a yummy shrimp COCK-tail.

Edited May 7, 2017 by Good Grief

[+ oldNbusted]

I can understand how the site is useful for people who enjoy the hunt, and perhaps I'm missing something, but how does it help cut through the freaks and flakes, if you know what you want and are ready to pay for it? As @latbear4blk has said, this is a lot more clear cut in escort-client interactions.

[+ goosh69]

I can understand how the site is useful for people who enjoy the hunt, and perhaps I'm missing something, but how does it help cut through the freaks and flakes, if you know what you want and are ready to pay for it? As @latbear4blk has said, this is a lot more clear cut in escort-client interactions.

You want to date, not just have sex. Match has income too.

[hunterlee]

Life is short and your time is precious. With 24 hours in a day, average person sleeps 8 hours a day. That leaves us with 16 hours.

A normal job is typically 8 hours of work with an hour commute, and an hour lunch. This leaves us with 6 hours of available time for the average normal model individual to spend on activities beyond what I have already mentioned.

 

- Career

- Body

- Health

- Friendships

- Emotional development

- Emotional growth

- Family

- Relaxation / personal time

- Sleep

- Education

- Finding happiness

 

There is absolutely no way for anybody to work on every thing all at once. You have to pick what to focus on and other things will get negligent. No one is perfect. However sometimes I hear expectations that absolutely blow my mind. Highly educated, ripped body, highly developed emotionally, has a career, hot, and under 25.

 

What.

 

If someone focuses on their career, family and sleep then that normally leaves very little time for other areas, and that is perfectly ok. You can switch out what someone focuses on however the end result is the same... there may be someone who is able to do everything I've mentioned at once but I don't think it is the norm.

 

Point being, why bash someone else's decision on what they decide to focus on?

 

If someone decides they need to focus on body, health, and decide they need to find help with money and use their body and health. That's cool.

 

If someone decides they want to focus on their education and career and decide they need help with emotional development and use their money from the return of their education and career. Go for it.

 

If someone doesn't meet what you are looking for in their focus's. Move on.

 

Telling someone they should change what they focus on in their lives because you think it's the right way or suggesting about other people what they should focus on in their lives because you think you are right.

 

What.

 

Some people totally get it and some don't.

[+ goosh69]

OR...if you can pick a mate for physical traits that are largely or entirely immutable, or "intelligence" or sense of humor - also difficult or impossible for some to change- why not pick one for money?

[Vato Loco]

I just had a not so good experience with Seeking Arrangements.

A fellow Latino who is attending UC Irvine contacted me via SA that he would like to meet me. After a luncheon meeting that was very nice, he started texting me for money. Like money in the 4 figures!

Nothing but a hustler, and anyone who subscribes to SA should be aware that this could happen to you.

[MikeBiDude]

I just had a not so good experience with Seeking Arrangements.

A fellow Latino who is attending UC Irvine contacted me via SA that he would like to meet me. After a luncheon meeting that was very nice, he started texting me for money. Like money in the 4 figures!

Nothing but a hustler, and anyone who subscribes to SA should be aware that this could happen to you.

Yes that can happen. Seems all the odd SA karma falls onto just a few similar posters?

[BabyBoomer]

Yes that can happen. Seems all the odd SA karma falls onto just a few similar posters?

 

LOL.

 

~Boomer ~

[CBA]

I just had a not so good experience with Seeking Arrangements.

A fellow Latino who is attending UC Irvine contacted me via SA that he would like to meet me. After a luncheon meeting that was very nice, he started texting me for money. Like money in the 4 figures!

Nothing but a hustler, and anyone who subscribes to SA should be aware that this could happen to you.

I would just look at this as a humorous adventure. Every so often this happens and one just needs to keep his guard up. My philosophy is no money ever unless it is in person for a fair exchange...or a small amount in advance for transportation.

[pubic_assistance]

I've met a very nice young man on S.A. who couldn't be more delightful. He moved in with me recently. It's all a matter of filtering out all the con artists and focusing on the good people who are simply struggling to get by.

[+ glutes]

Pubic, you give us a update on your new 'live in' in 6 months.

[gallahadesquire]

i'm currently speaking with four (4) sa contacts:

 

One just got his MSSW;

One is in Montreal;

One is a restaurateur in Dublin; and

One is a 19 year old in the UK.

 

ONE might work out. I kinda hope it's the restaurateur, but it is probably the guy in montreal.

[+ José Soplanucas]

My membership dies tomorrow. I will not renew it. After a month I found two interesting guys, but I cannot afford the sugar daddy role. It is way more expensive than hiring escorts, which I prefer.

Said that, I may be back in SA in the future, I really like the two guys I met.

[LoveNDino]

I would NEVER do it......anymore:mad:

[+ glutes]

The last guy I was in touch with wanted me to send him new clothes to Arkansas, to have his pictures taken in.

[+ azdr0710]

The last guy I was in touch with wanted me to send him new clothes to Arkansas, to have his pictures taken in.

 

now wondering if the ~$75/month fee would be worth it just as entertainment cost for all the crazy propositions and proposals I'd get.....

[LoveNDino]

now wondering if the ~$75/month fee would be worth it just as entertainment cost for all the crazy propositions and proposals I'd get.....

Only if it involves requests like "Quiero tres leches en mi culo"

[LaffingBear]

Wow. I never knew the site existed. Didnt read every single page on this thread, but many.

 

Its an intriguing idea. But i know myself.... and have inconsistent "cheap" behaviors. I might provide the right guy with financial support. Ive never haggled over price with an escort, nor have i blinked at the cost of overnights and longer.

 

But I'd probably start trembling and talking to myself before spending $75/month on some website.

Edited May 29, 2017 by LaffingBear

[+ José Soplanucas]

I signed up for a month, and got and interesting data base to research. I am negotiating a temporary room mate deal with a just graduate kid from Texas. I guess some day I am going to pay again for one month, to collect more numbers and contacts. The price is abusive.