MrMiniver Posted January 26, 2016 Share Posted January 26, 2016 Well, I thought the whole thing sounded kinda lame but I had a little time on my hands so I created a profile. I can't say I found much in the first few days: twinks, fakes, flakes, the usual assortment of game players. Then I met a guy who is an aspiring fitness model based in Toronto. I took a leap of faith and flew him to New York. Well, we just spent the better part of the past 10 days at my place in CT. It was amazing. He's 23, ripped, beautiful, and for this initially visit all he wanted was his airfare and other expenses covered. So, perhaps, it's not a bad site after all. It was worth the $70 initial fee. BaronArtz, LeoLeone, + Yellowrod and 24 others 27 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marlfox Posted January 26, 2016 Share Posted January 26, 2016 Well done! Sounds like the start of something very good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ dutchmuch Posted January 26, 2016 Share Posted January 26, 2016 MrMiniver, can you give us a thumbnail sketch how this site works? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrMiniver Posted January 26, 2016 Author Share Posted January 26, 2016 MrMiniver, can you give us a thumbnail sketch how this site works? From which side? I joined, filled out my profile, paid my $70 and then started searching for "sugar babies" -- an awful term -- and started getting messages myself. There are a few problems with the site in particular body type. The choices are basically average, a few extra pounds, slim, overweight and athletic. So almost all the guys choose "athletic" which can range the gamut. I asked for more pics, went to email and see how it went. I had a couple of false starts -- guys who seemed interested but then backed out at the last minute. But I do feel it was worth it for where I ended up. There are some sugar babies who have been on there 5 or 6 years. There are some escorts as well although that seems to be discouraged. Happy to answer any other questions. AndreFuture, Mydavid, Bearman and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ dutchmuch Posted January 26, 2016 Share Posted January 26, 2016 You've answered my curiosities, thanks! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrMiniver Posted January 26, 2016 Author Share Posted January 26, 2016 Oh, and for those who have asked. I changed the city he's from and his age because I'm smart enough to know that others will try and find him and snatch him up. Not gonna happen guys + HornyRetiree, abc645351, Bertster and 8 others 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nebula Posted January 26, 2016 Share Posted January 26, 2016 Wait, what??? Am I reading this correctly? He was your companion for 10 days, all you have to pay is some airfare and basic living expense? Who's gonna pay for overnight and weekend anymore when you have this! Do you have bodybuilders alike over on that site? + kov78 and AndreFuture 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caliguy Posted January 26, 2016 Share Posted January 26, 2016 Wait, what??? Am I reading this correctly? He was your companion for 10 days, all you have to pay is some airfare and basic living expense? Who's gonna pay for overnight and weekend anymore when you have this! Do you have bodybuilders alike over on that site? Ha. I think you'd have more then a few angry emails when they figure out what you're up to. I think of this as an interview where they're expecting a much bigger pay off down the road. Like your idea though:) marylander1940, + Just966, ICTJOCK and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BaronArtz Posted January 26, 2016 Share Posted January 26, 2016 they're expecting a much bigger pay off down the road. Exactly! I am delighted to hear it working out so well for MrMiniver so far. Before getting into an 'arrangement', a background check is something I would require. To avoid that the expected payoff is something ... you didn't expect. But if you can survive each other being cooped up together for 10 days, chances are that there is something there. Congratulations, and good luck! + FreshFluff, ICTJOCK, BostonTom and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robberbaron4u Posted January 26, 2016 Share Posted January 26, 2016 Have you ordered linens with your initials entwined with his? Unless he has taken up his residence with you, and, of course, you have deeded joint tenancy to him in your real and personal property in consideration of love and affection, the thing is not yet a success. + azdr0710 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimboivyo Posted January 26, 2016 Share Posted January 26, 2016 (edited) seeking arrangement means you've got to have the outlay to cut a lengthy deal don't assume it's some inexpensive thing. hiring an escort is very different than supporting someone full time robber is correct. you had 10 days together. move slow and use smarts Edited January 26, 2016 by jimboivyo RyanDean, marylander1940, ICTJOCK and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ bigjoey Posted January 26, 2016 Share Posted January 26, 2016 I think if Mr Miniver had given his address as being in the local trailer park and just a single wide (not the mansion-sized double-wide), the results might have been different. Shopping at Good Will and the Salvation Army stores might be a relationship killer. Using Groupon for each meal would not add to the attraction. Pd1_jap and caliguy 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caliguy Posted January 26, 2016 Share Posted January 26, 2016 (edited) I think if Mr Miniver had given his address as being in the local trailer park and just a single wide (not the mansion-sized double-wide), the results might have been different. Shopping at Good Will and the Salvation Army stores might be a relationship killer. Using Groupon for each meal would not add to the attraction. Well, of coarse. The street goes both ways. You're sizing up their sexual prowess while they're busy sizing up your financial generosity. I've heard of cheaper deals where Trophy Boy just needs support through school. Roof over head, books, tuition, etc. I've also seen the more expensive ones where he may or may be going to school but requires a nice hefty allowance and a sparkily new luxury car to go with it. Then there's another situation that I have currently with a friend who is paying for all of that and giving the Trophy Boy a controlling interest in his very successful real estate business in Newport Beach. Now that of coarse is the best offer of all since he's in his 70's and the Brazilian kid will eventually inherit it all and easily be a multi-millionaire before he hits 30. Of coarse either way a 5 star living is the norm. Edited January 26, 2016 by caliguy ICTJOCK and Bearman 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrMiniver Posted January 26, 2016 Author Share Posted January 26, 2016 Ha. I think you'd have more then a few angry emails when they figure out what you're up to. I think of this as an interview where they're expecting a much bigger pay off down the road. Like your idea though:) What exactly would you think I'm up to? The idea of compensation never came up. He never raised. Was I supposed to? escortrod and + PapaTony 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrMiniver Posted January 26, 2016 Author Share Posted January 26, 2016 Exactly! I am delighted to hear it working out so well for MrMiniver so far. Before getting into an 'arrangement', a background check is something I would require. To avoid that the expected payoff is something ... you didn't expect. But if you can survive each other being cooped up together for 10 days, chances are that there is something there. Congratulations, and good luck! It was 9 days on and off and I gave him time on his own whenever he wanted it. Some of the guys on the site are background checked. As for him, he gave me his real name and I checked his social media profile and stuff like that. We skyped several times before meeting and I was very comfortable. I realize I probably lucked into a very good -- and perhaps unique -- experience. I wouldn't want anyone to get the impression that it is like that on that site all the time. I had to wade through a bunch of cancelations, the guy who insisted on me having every conceivable thing to suit his insane vegan diet, and the plethora of twinks. But I did strike gold eventually. But it is just one man's experience. I'm sure others have bad ones to go with the good one. Hudson Hawke, ICTJOCK and AndreFuture 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrMiniver Posted January 26, 2016 Author Share Posted January 26, 2016 Have you ordered linens with your initials entwined with his? Unless he has taken up his residence with you, and, of course, you have deeded joint tenancy to him in your real and personal property in consideration of love and affection, the thing is not yet a success. If that's success, count me OUT. Bertster and + Eric Hassan 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrMiniver Posted January 26, 2016 Author Share Posted January 26, 2016 seeking arrangement means you've got to have the outlay to cut a lengthy deal don't assume it's some inexpensive thing. hiring an escort is very different than supporting someone full time robber is correct. you had 10 days together. move slow and use smarts Seeking arrangments is not a catch all for one type of situation contrary to what this poster thinks. Many of the guys on that site are escorts looking for sex, some are looking for monthly things, some are looking for little support, some are looking for a lot of support. It is what you and the other party make it and not some preconceived thing that is ordained by the urban dictionary. Hudson Hawke, AndreFuture, Reluctant Daddy and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cany10011 Posted January 26, 2016 Share Posted January 26, 2016 Congrats on the successful encounter ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted January 26, 2016 Share Posted January 26, 2016 Well, I thought the whole thing sounded kinda lame but I had a little time on my hands so I created a profile. I can't say I found much in the first few days: twinks, fakes, flakes, the usual assortment of game players. Then I met a guy who is an aspiring fitness model based in Toronto. I took a leap of faith and flew him to New York. Well, we just spent the better part of the past 10 days at my place in CT. It was amazing. He's 23, ripped, beautiful, and for this initially visit all he wanted was his airfare and other expenses covered. So, perhaps, it's not a bad site after all. It was worth the $70 initial fee. Congrats, many many moons ago I found a young local guy at a major SoCal university looking for a similar arrangement, it worked really well for about 18-24 months then he moved on. Haven't found the identical favorable replacement yet. Good luck, when they work out arrangements like this can be great, and not always super expensive. ICTJOCK, + WilliamM, AndreFuture and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted January 26, 2016 Share Posted January 26, 2016 I just checked the website, this is the first time I heard of it. IMHO it looks just as a VIP Rentmen. I'm sure you have hot guys there, but they will bill you. Congrats for the happy 9 days! ICTJOCK, + glutes, Ryanquinn and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
unsure Posted January 26, 2016 Share Posted January 26, 2016 Thanks for the firsthand info on your encounter. I'm happy for you having a positive experience! Glad it worked out! ICTJOCK and + kov78 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kenny Posted January 26, 2016 Share Posted January 26, 2016 Have you ordered linens with your initials entwined with his? Unless he has taken up his residence with you, and, of course, you have deeded joint tenancy to him in your real and personal property in consideration of love and affection, the thing is not yet a success. RocketLawyer https://www.rocketlawyer.com/form/prenuptial-agreement.rl + WilliamM 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rossthebosssf Posted January 27, 2016 Share Posted January 27, 2016 I too have had great success on SA. Unfortunately, the arrangements rarely last that long. Guys start to flake or want more money or they don't live up to their end. And of course, I've grown bored once or twice. Still a great place to meet some guys for 1-3 month casual relationships. I consider it a portion of my escort stock portfolio. I still prefer to put 80-90% in hourly guys. Better paying dividends ICTJOCK, + HornyRetiree, AndreFuture and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RyanDean Posted January 27, 2016 Share Posted January 27, 2016 How did you gents approach the "lifestyle expectation" level? "Substantial" and "Negotiable" I suspect I understand but... Minimum? Practical? AndreFuture and Pd1_jap 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honestlittlefucker Posted January 27, 2016 Share Posted January 27, 2016 This may be great at first, just don't be a sugar daddy statistic. Ive heard a lot of sugar babies coming back feeling like they were used and going to escorting because of how cheap the men on that site were.. Scoop this man up and treat him like gold. AndreFuture, Pd1_jap, + kov78 and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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