+ dutchmuch Posted January 31, 2016 Share Posted January 31, 2016 He's Just Not That Into You (2009) - IMDb Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ goosh69 Posted February 1, 2016 Share Posted February 1, 2016 You misunderstand- IIIIIIIIIII was supposed to be the rich daddy in all cases. The young guys were either just too young, too not together, or too blunt in their immediate need for me to buy them things. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted July 21, 2016 Share Posted July 21, 2016 Well, I thought the whole thing sounded kinda lame but I had a little time on my hands so I created a profile. I can't say I found much in the first few days: twinks, fakes, flakes, the usual assortment of game players. Then I met a guy who is an aspiring fitness model based in Toronto. I took a leap of faith and flew him to New York. Well, we just spent the better part of the past 10 days at my place in CT. It was amazing. He's 23, ripped, beautiful, and for this initially visit all he wanted was his airfare and other expenses covered. So, perhaps, it's not a bad site after all. It was worth the $70 initial fee. Do you still see him? Have you found others? If you answer yes... what are you doing on here? escortrod 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Keith30309 Posted October 17, 2016 Share Posted October 17, 2016 I looked at the SA profile I had set up a few months ago and had over 200 messages. That site is like the Wild Wild West compared to RM. + goosh69 and escortrod 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coriolis888 Posted October 17, 2016 Share Posted October 17, 2016 I looked at the SA profile I had set up a few months ago and had over 200 messages. That site is like the Wild Wild West compared to RM. I read through all the three pages of this thread. I must be blind or else I need my eyes checked because I never saw a link to the site that is being discussed nor did I see a full name of the site so that I could do a search for the site address. Question, what is the name of the site and is there a link? Thanks in advance. - NYXboy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
escortrod Posted October 17, 2016 Share Posted October 17, 2016 I read through all the three pages of this thread. I must be blind or else I need my eyes checked because I never saw a link to the site that is being discussed nor did I see a full name of the site so that I could do a search for the site address. Question, what is the name of the site and is there a link? Thanks in advance. - Www.seekingarrangement.com coriolis888 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coriolis888 Posted October 17, 2016 Share Posted October 17, 2016 Www.seekingarrangement.com Thanks much - - escortrod 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Gar1eth Posted October 17, 2016 Share Posted October 17, 2016 I read through all the three pages of this thread. I must be blind or else I need my eyes checked because I never saw a link to the site that is being discussed nor did I see a full name of the site so that I could do a search for the site address. Question, what is the name of the site and is there a link? Thanks in advance. - It's called Seeking Arrangements. https://www.seekingarrangement.com/ Gman Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frequentflier Posted October 17, 2016 Share Posted October 17, 2016 Exactly! I am delighted to hear it working out so well for MrMiniver so far. Before getting into an 'arrangement', a background check is something I would require. To avoid that the expected payoff is something ... you didn't expect. But if you can survive each other being cooped up together for 10 days, chances are that there is something there. Congratulations, and good luck! You mean a background check for both the client and his potential new friend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ V-Vhitner Posted October 19, 2016 Share Posted October 19, 2016 How is an arrangement better than escorts? I sometimes struggle to spend the time I've paid for once we've done the nasty a couple times... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Keith30309 Posted October 19, 2016 Share Posted October 19, 2016 For me the benefit is finding someone I really click with and having lots of meets with the intimacy that comes with having gotten to know someone. I suppose it's like having a "regular" but there's more of an element of something like a periodic allowance - better stability for someone with sporadic income. As others have said, the guys here are all over the map with expectations. I was quoted a $5000 monthly allowance earlier this week by a 19 year old I'd only chatted with briefly. And I suspect that the opposite is also true - younger guys being taken advantage of. CBA and + V-Vhitner 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LouieD Posted October 19, 2016 Share Posted October 19, 2016 For me the benefit is finding someone I really click with and having lots of meets with the intimacy that comes with having gotten to know someone. I suppose it's like having a "regular" but there's more of an element of something like a periodic allowance - better stability for someone with sporadic income. As others have said, the guys here are all over the map with expectations. I was quoted a $5000 monthly allowance earlier this week by a 19 year old I'd only chatted with briefly. And I suspect that the opposite is also true - younger guys being taken advantage of. I am now taking a look... the amount you quoted by a 19 year old is absurd... what you have been thinking? Get something going with them, then YOU decide on $.... You have the $... you are in the driver's seat... how could younger guys been taken advantage of, if they were over 21? rape? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Gar1eth Posted October 19, 2016 Share Posted October 19, 2016 I am now taking a look... the amount you quoted by a 19 year old is absurd... what you have been thinking? Get something going with them, then YOU decide on $.... You have the $... you are in the driver's seat... how could younger guys been taken advantage of, if they were over 21? rape? They could be taken advantage of the same way an escort could. Offering too much for too little. Gman Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Keith30309 Posted October 19, 2016 Share Posted October 19, 2016 Yep- unlike RM where there are some fairly basic, easily understood conventions and ranges of rates, there is no frame of reference upon which either party can base a proposed agreement. Anything either party proposes is completely arbitrary. The out of state guy who gave me the number I cited said "I figured I'd aim high to start out with lol" . I'm not sure how to continue a conversation like that. Inexperienced guys may see champagne and caviar and have very high, unrealistic expectations. Conversely, young guys may be in a difficult financial situation and, if their match refuses to honor his agreement to pay a monthly allowance, be in an intractable situation. I think it has potential for some good matches but it's much harder to tap-dance around the "mutual benefits" topic and get into a comfortable arrangement. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jjkrkwood Posted October 19, 2016 Share Posted October 19, 2016 Hmmmm, interesting concept, but if I want to drain my bank account, i'll just do it this way....... (not as much fun though) http://media.safebee.com/assets/images/2015/11/money-drain.jpg.838x0_q67_crop-smart.jpg AdamSmith, bigvalboy and cany10011 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jjkrkwood Posted October 19, 2016 Share Posted October 19, 2016 I am looking for my OWN special arrangement, a guy 80's - 90's who will pay ME to change his Depends, clean his dentures, make sure his oxygen tubes are in place, and feed him liquids.... Of course, I also want to be BENEFICIARY ! bigvalboy, caliguy, AdamSmith and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jjkrkwood Posted October 19, 2016 Share Posted October 19, 2016 (edited) SELL IT, BOY ! http://www.newnownext.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/cream-pies-1.gif http://66.media.tumblr.com/b70eeb6210c4c2672894c80a36d281b4/tumblr_ndxp4m5GSp1tojnvno1_500.gif http://67.media.tumblr.com/58c12dbc239190f213d4b9ea3d6cd081/tumblr_nf533bDptI1u07zdgo1_500.gif http://33.media.tumblr.com/85adffd23d0ca7e3840edfe714182861/tumblr_nhxw8wf51K1u66m3eo1_500.gif http://i.myniceprofile.com/1474/147475.gif http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lw3yzuSKNY1r69kv4o1_500.gif http://graphics.desivalley.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/flirty-boys.jpg http://data.whicdn.com/images/84487057/large.gif Edited October 19, 2016 by jjkrkwood + Keith30309, caliguy, CBA and 4 others 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ bigjoey Posted October 19, 2016 Share Posted October 19, 2016 I am looking for my OWN special arrangement, a guy 80's - 90's who will pay ME to change his Depends, clean his dentures, make sure his oxygen tubes are in place, and feed him liquids.... Of course, I also want to be BENEFICIARY ! I was helping to raise funds for a non-profit and we were going to visit a man to solicit a donation. The professional fund raiser declared our man was his favorite type to solicit: old, poor health and no heirs or family members. Sounds like your man, too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ V-Vhitner Posted October 19, 2016 Share Posted October 19, 2016 Yep- unlike RM where there are some fairly basic, easily understood conventions and ranges of rates, there is no frame of reference upon which either party can base a proposed agreement. Anything either party proposes is completely arbitrary. The out of state guy who gave me the number I cited said "I figured I'd aim high to start out with lol" . I'm not sure how to continue a conversation like that. Inexperienced guys may see champagne and caviar and have very high, unrealistic expectations. Conversely, young guys may be in a difficult financial situation and, if their match refuses to honor his agreement to pay a monthly allowance, be in an intractable situation. I think it has potential for some good matches but it's much harder to tap-dance around the "mutual benefits" topic and get into a comfortable arrangement. Extremely helpful. And eloquently explained, as always. Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jjkrkwood Posted October 19, 2016 Share Posted October 19, 2016 Let's call these guys what they actually are: GOLDDIGGERS, that are looking for the Lifestyles of the Rich & Famous....... (what happened to the days of getting a REAL job ?) http://scontent.cdninstagram.com/t51.2885-15/s480x480/e35/13285329_1622255454761287_1088284094_n.jpg?ig_cache_key=MTI2NjA3Mzg2NzExOTQwNjYwNQ%3D%3D.2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jjkrkwood Posted October 19, 2016 Share Posted October 19, 2016 "So Daddy, when can we see the Lawyer and get those papers signed ?" http://www.indiewire.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/bad-boy-street.jpg liubit, caliguy, CBA and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigvalboy Posted October 19, 2016 Share Posted October 19, 2016 http://cdn0.sbnation.com/imported_assets/1001375/1780549-shakehead.gif "It never works out" MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Keith30309 Posted October 19, 2016 Share Posted October 19, 2016 Let's call these guys what they actually are: GOLDDIGGERS, that are looking for the Lifestyles of the Rich & Famous....... (what happened to the days of getting a REAL job ?) Well, as a civic-minded citizen I want to do my share and offer a young gentleman that opportunity to GET a job and do an honest day's work (oh, who am I kidding... an honest half hour's work <sigh> ). Once that wall goes up and VERY thorough immigration vetting begins the domestic labor force will be squeaky-tight. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jjkrkwood Posted October 19, 2016 Share Posted October 19, 2016 Well, as a civic-minded citizen I want to do my share and offer a young gentleman that opportunity to GET a job and do an honest day's work (oh, who am I kidding... an honest half hour's work <sigh> ). Once that wall goes up and VERY thorough immigration vetting begins the domestic labor force will be squeaky-tight. I am counting on still being able to pickup a well muscled Mexican, who speaks very little English on the side of the road, and checking out his "burrito", while waving a few pesos in his face. + Keith30309 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Gar1eth Posted October 19, 2016 Share Posted October 19, 2016 http://graphics.desivalley.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/flirty-boys.jpg Wasn't that a Twilight Zone episode? Gman Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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