Do people see 35 y/o or older escorts?

[anotherjohnindupont]

Some of you may know me from my days as an escort. I have a small business right now and it's booming. I work all the time and have no social life. This weekend I had no one to hang out with so I drove down to Phoenix from Vegas to watch spring training, but I was all by myself, as usual. Escorting has always been a social crutch for me. But being my age I think Id be viewed as a damaged product. Anyone got insight?

 

you are very humble I am sure you look better than 99 percent of us.

 

I am glad to know about one escort successful in his life after escorting. I know so many guys who retired with absolutely nothing but a bunch of stories.

[adriano46]

As I age, I have begun to see more clearly the absolute joy and thrill of hiring escorts who are well over 40, 50 and some even pushing (or passing) 60, and I have never regretted a single one of them. I wish I could say the same for the 20-somethings I still sometimes hire.

 

The idea of spending quality time with a man who is mature and still in reasonable good shape is a great turn on for me. I have found that sexually these men are more adventurous, inventive and stimulating, knowing techniques that have one's eyes rolling back and sphincter tightening in anticipation. These are men who are very comfortable in themselves and who make those around them just as comfortable. I just wish more escorts (who are obviously on the other side of 40 or 50) would not feel so embarrassed to state their true age.

[Damascene]

I rarely hire escorts younger than 30 and I have hired men in their 50's. I prefer men with experience and I have often found younger escorts and I do not relate as well. There is a market for mature men. You just may need to change your marketing.

[Rod Hagen]

I really do think these sentiments and practices represent a large change in the last 10 years, and I wish I knew if that was because attitudes changed generally (and if so why?) or if it's simply because now there are more of us in our 40s, 50s, and 60s.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

I really do think these sentiments and practices represent a large change in the last 10 years, and I wish I knew if that was because attitudes changed generally (and if so why?) or if it's simply because now there are more of us in our 40s, 50s, and 60s.

 

Rod - Using my professional life as a comparison, I hear from my co-workers that the 20-something workers at my office do not interact as well with the 40-60 colleagues as they did 10 years ago. Blame it on the internet, cell phones, or text messages, but the current generation entering the workforce doesn't seem to be able to make the same level of personal connections these days. For example, I have a 28-year-old employee who never will pick up the phone and call someone to ask a question - - will send an email and wait three days for a response.

[gallahadesquire]

Rod - Using my professional life as a comparison, I hear from my co-workers that the 20-something workers at my office do not interact as well with the 40-60 colleagues as they did 10 years ago. Blame it on the internet, cell phones, or text messages, but the current generation entering the workforce doesn't seem to be able to make the same level of personal connections these days. For example, I have a 28-year-old employee who never will pick up the phone and call someone to ask a question - - will send an email and wait three days for a response.

 

Pick up the phone? How about walking down the hall and asking for a little person-to-person [face to face?] time.

 

I hated trying to track down surgeons with preoperative problems their patients had. WE still had text beepers. I would write an email with the issues and possible solutions, and a timeline, and request a reply. I would then text them, telling them, "you've got mail!". Worked very well, actually. And they generally wrote back rather than calling.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

Pick up the phone? How about walking down the hall and asking for a little person-to-person [face to face?] time.

 

Most of the time he's dealing with someone in another location; however, he will still send me an email rather than walking down my office, to ask a question. If I don't respond in five minutes, he then will walk down and ask me if I saw his email. If my answer is no, he will say "OK whenever you get to it." If my answer is yes, he will say, "Great, I'll look forward to your reply" rather than taking a verbal response.

 

As Paul Lynde sang, "what's the matter with kids today?"

[k9lover]

Call me crazy, but I'd rather see a 25 year old with the body of a 25 year old...

 

Specially when escorts who are 35, truly are 42ish...

[k9lover]

Agree with your analysis now that I checked MiamiLooker's link!

 

Benjamin is listed as thirty years old and an advertiser on that site for eleven years. Easy math problem!

 

Maybe he uses the Metric system or just "dog years"...

[k9lover]

Two years ago a guy in Northern Virginia, advertising as 36 turned out to be 52. He asked me to shoot some photos for his massage/escorting ads. I did. He offered to fuck me as a "bonus" to the money he paid me for photos (hoping for a review) and I have to say he was in great shape, had a great dick and could fuck like a 20 y.o. Go for it.

 

Exceptions to rules do happen, but they're called exceptions for a reason.

[whipped guy]

Rod - Using my professional life as a comparison, I hear from my co-workers that the 20-something workers at my office do not interact as well with the 40-60 colleagues as they did 10 years ago. Blame it on the internet, cell phones, or text messages, but the current generation entering the workforce doesn't seem to be able to make the same level of personal connections these days. For example, I have a 28-year-old employee who never will pick up the phone and call someone to ask a question - - will send an email and wait three days for a response.

Pick up the phone? How about walking down the hall and asking for a little person-to-person [face to face?] time.

 

I hated trying to track down surgeons with preoperative problems their patients had. WE still had text beepers. I would write an email with the issues and possible solutions, and a timeline, and request a reply. I would then text them, telling them, "you've got mail!". Worked very well, actually. And they generally wrote back rather than calling.

Most of the time he's dealing with someone in another location; however, he will still send me an email rather than walking down my office, to ask a question. If I don't respond in five minutes, he then will walk down and ask me if I saw his email. If my answer is no, he will say "OK whenever you get to it." If my answer is yes, he will say, "Great, I'll look forward to your reply" rather than taking a verbal response.

 

As Paul Lynde sang, "what's the matter with kids today?"

Younger people today simply do not want to talk with someone face to face or often even over the phone. They feel "protected" by the email or text message format... I really think that they have never developed communication skills... Plus, I think that there is greater fear of rejection when confronting a person directly.

 

I have actually seen individuals deliberately walk into another room to begin a conversation via a text rather than have a personal and direct encounter. It seems so silly and counterproductive to me... But! That's the future!!!

 

All I can say is may the gods bless unlimited texting...

[+ purplekow]

Younger people today simply do not want to talk with someone face to face or often even over the phone. They feel "protected" by the email or text message format... I really think that they have never developed communication skills... Plus, I think that there is greater fear of rejection when confronting a person directly.

 

I have actually seen individuals deliberately walk into another room to begin a conversation via a text rather than have a personal and direct encounter. It seems so silly and counterproductive to me... But! That's the future!!!

 

All I can say is may the gods bless unlimited texting...

I have moved from a small one man office to a large multiple person office and they communicate by e mail. I have been there 9 months, have never looked at my e mail once and I have not missed anything important. If it is important, I head about it somehow, but frankly, most of what goes on is just not that important.

[+ WilliamM]

Younger people today simply do not want to talk with someone face to face or often even over the phone. They feel "protected" by the email or text message format... I really think that they have never developed communication skills... Plus, I think that there is greater fear of rejection when confronting a person directly.

 

I have actually seen individuals deliberately walk into another room to begin a conversation via a text rather than have a personal and direct encounter. It seems so silly and counterproductive to me... But! That's the future!!!

 

All I can say is may the gods bless unlimited texting...

 

Yes, cell phone texts and e-mails present a major challenge in getting to know a younger person at work. But, I have found that once you establish even a minor personal relationship, their communication skills are fine. I have had about eight years of experience on this subject. I bothered me at first, but like most things, one learns how to get around the cell phone obsession.

[recency]

I have a certain "type" I look for when I hire and age has very little to do with what I seek. I may be unusual in this, but guys in their 40's or older are very hot to me if they fit the "type" I am looking for. Age is far down the list of priorities. There are a lot of potential clients out there. Please don't count yourselves out, guys, if you reach a certain age.

[+ stevenkesslar]

No brainer. I started escorting when I was 40. I said I was 35 at the time I think. That was in 2000. Case closed.

 

I am reading this on the balcony of a condo "on the clock" in Puerto Vallarta with a client I have known, as a client, for over a decade. Meanwhile, another client who I have known for over a decade is watching my house "off the clock" and watering my plants and loving it. However you want to draw the line between "client" and "friend," they are both both things.

 

The funny thing that happened on the way to the forum is that escorting turns out to be no different than any other job, whether it is community organizing, or being a landlord, which are my two other life careers. Men tend to become friends with the people you meet and work with along the way, whether they are other community organizers, politicians, other investors, tenants, or whatever. For some strange reason, this is even more true when the nature of the work involves taking off your clothes, sucking each others' cocks, and taking their dick up your ass or vice versa. Such things lend themselves to emotional intimacy and friendship.

 

I think I posted something about this over a decade ago in this forum, about whether escorts and clients can become friends, and the only difference from then and now is I can state through experience that everything I pontificated about back then turned out to be true.

 

When I was 24 and in my first of 16 years as a community organizer, a woman who had a crush on me left a little piece of paper from a Chinese fortune cookie on my office mailbox. It read, "In youth and beauty wisdom is rare." I have to assume a lot of clients feel that way, because here I am looking out at the Pacific Ocean in Puerto Vallarta, and life is great, even though I am definitely less young and probably less beautiful.

[jimboivyo]

No brainer. I started escorting when I was 40. I said I was 35 at the time I think. That was in 2000. Case closed.

 

I am reading this on the balcony of a condo "on the clock" in Puerto Vallarta with a client I have known, as a client, for over a decade. Meanwhile, another client who I have known for over a decade is watching my house "off the clock" and watering my plants and loving it. However you want to draw the line between "client" and "friend," they are both both things.

 

The funny thing that happened on the way to the forum is that escorting turns out to be no different than any other job, whether it is community organizing, or being a landlord, which are my two other life careers. Men tend to become friends with the people you meet and work with along the way, whether they are other community organizers, politicians, other investors, tenants, or whatever. For some strange reason, this is even more true when the nature of the work involves taking off your clothes, sucking each others' cocks, and taking their dick up your ass or vice versa. Such things lend themselves to emotional intimacy and friendship.

 

I think I posted something about this over a decade ago in this forum, about whether escorts and clients can become friends, and the only difference from then and now is I can state through experience that everything I pontificated about back then turned out to be true.

 

When I was 24 and in my first of 16 years as a community organizer, a woman who had a crush on me left a little piece of paper from a Chinese fortune cookie on my office mailbox. It read, "In youth and beauty wisdom is rare." I have to assume a lot of clients feel that way, because here I am looking out at the Pacific Ocean in Puerto Vallarta, and life is great, even though I am definitely less young and probably less beautiful.

 

 

this post wins the thread

 

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[+ quoththeraven]

Younger people today simply do not want to talk with someone face to face or often even over the phone. They feel "protected" by the email or text message format... I really think that they have never developed communication skills... Plus, I think that there is greater fear of rejection when confronting a person directly.

 

I have actually seen individuals deliberately walk into another room to begin a conversation via a text rather than have a personal and direct encounter. It seems so silly and counterproductive to me... But! That's the future!!!

 

All I can say is may the gods bless unlimited texting...

 

There's another possibility I haven't seen mentioned, and that's time-shifting. Face-to-face and phone interaction requires one's attention now. E-mail and text, whenever it's convenient for the recipient. So it's possible the 20somethings think they're being considerate of your time and other priorities when they avoid direct contact. If that bothers you, you need to say so.

[+ Just Sayin]

No brainer. I started escorting when I was 40. I said I was 35 at the time I think. That was in 2000. Case closed.

 

I am reading this on the balcony of a condo "on the clock" in Puerto Vallarta with a client I have known, as a client, for over a decade. Meanwhile, another client who I have known for over a decade is watching my house "off the clock" and watering my plants and loving it. However you want to draw the line between "client" and "friend," they are both both things.

 

The funny thing that happened on the way to the forum is that escorting turns out to be no different than any other job, whether it is community organizing, or being a landlord, which are my two other life careers. Men tend to become friends with the people you meet and work with along the way, whether they are other community organizers, politicians, other investors, tenants, or whatever. For some strange reason, this is even more true when the nature of the work involves taking off your clothes, sucking each others' cocks, and taking their dick up your ass or vice versa. Such things lend themselves to emotional intimacy and friendship.

 

I think I posted something about this over a decade ago in this forum, about whether escorts and clients can become friends, and the only difference from then and now is I can state through experience that everything I pontificated about back then turned out to be true.

 

When I was 24 and in my first of 16 years as a community organizer, a woman who had a crush on me left a little piece of paper from a Chinese fortune cookie on my office mailbox. It read, "In youth and beauty wisdom is rare." I have to assume a lot of clients feel that way, because here I am looking out at the Pacific Ocean in Puerto Vallarta, and life is great, even though I am definitely less young and probably less beautiful.

 

Thank you for your thoughtful response; gave me much to ponder; and, yes, when you share that kind of intimacy with another guy, it is very easy for that to lead to a friendship; my partner is always amazed at how I have maintained friendships with guys I have slept with!

[+ Tygerscent]

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[Muscle Lover 2]

I'm with the masses -- I much prefer to hire someone 30 or older. Sexier, more likely to "get" their role in our encounter and what I am looking for (not just sex). I would still hire Derek Steele if he was anywhere near me and he's probably in his 60s now!

[Edward]

My only concern with hiring an older escort is he still functional. I have hired 40 year olds and had a great time. I have hired 35 year olds and you might say they could not cut the wood. Unless I have some excellent reviews/references I will stick with the guys in their early thirties and younger.

[+ Funguy]

Late 30's and older, preferably in their 40's+. I'm in my 60's and in good shape to keep up so 40's are still youngsters!

They are more experienced (not just sex but interacting with people-clients), more mature, sexier (different than "hot"), can be just as smokin' hot as a 25 year old, and more likely to shave their head so I'll be in love! There is also a "je ne sais quoi" quality with many of the "older" escorts that really turns me on, especially because it is intangible.

[+ VeryHappyCustomer]

Is that 35 in solar years, or 35 in ad years?

Several of this forum's most frequently praised pros are more than 35 solar years old and still getting rave reviews from discriminating connoisseurs.

My own favorite is 48 (solar years) old.

[Despardo]

Guys over 30 are the BEST. The three hottest men I ever hired were all in their mid 40s. Age is only in the mind.

[dannyboynyc]

My general requirement for hiring an escort is his "internet age" is above 30. My experience with 20 somethings has been so so. I much prefer escorts from mid to late 30s and older.