Do people see 35 y/o or older escorts?

[+ Gar1eth]

My 'go-to' guy is over 50 years old. However, I am getting hints that he is retiring... Time to find another 40-something...

 

I'm sure all of Nate Sf's regulars are sad he retired.

 

Gman

[jimboivyo]

(BTW, this is the surfer I was referring to, who is not in his 20's: http://goldcoast.backpage.com/MaleEscorts/genuwine-male-for-quality-company/6682274)

 

sure ya were. nowhere in that ad is the text 'surfer' any where. plus, he's a straight escort for women.

 

you fail dude. keep on trying

[Tonyko]

That actually happened to me at a formal dinner dance. But the escort was 42-and I was in my early 50's. I was talking to a couple who had been seated at our table. The male of the couple and I were having a somewhat in depth talk about being gay (he was straight). I mentioned how much easier it was to be gay if you looked like my friend as opposed to me. He asked me if my friend was an escort. I replied 'We are friends'. So it can happen even if the escort is age appropriate. Everyone would always realize that there would be no way I could have had a normal date with such a hot guy.

 

Gman

Well I suppose it will always depend on (what others may perceive as) a disparity in looks, since most scorts even age appropiate are in the BIZ of looking good since that's their job lol and will mostlikely always look better than even a close in age client.

[+ Funguy]

I think your question has been answered! Yeah!

[Decatur Guy]

I don't often hire anyone younger than 30. I don't have a real age preference beyond I tend to avoid the below mid-20s crowd almost entirely. It just turns out the attributes I most seek are usually possessed by men in their 30s and 40s. I've hired two escorts older than that and had a good time with them, too.

 

I don't have any issue with the body of a man in his 20s, but the majority of those escorts don't seem to have it all together yet. Many of them don't know how to put together a good ad or present themselves.

[MiamiLooker]

Ah yes, Benjamin Nicholas. Why doesn't he share, and be 'clear' with, his current age on his website???

 

 

He just updated his pics this month, but he’s been way too busy the last several years to update his age:

http://www.men4rentnow.com/escorts/gay.escort.bnicholas.html

 

But I’ll bet you can appreciate his decorating taste displayed in the industrial décor shown in many of his pics…

[whipped guy]

I don't often hire anyone younger than 30. I don't have a real age preference beyond I tend to avoid the below mid-20s crowd almost entirely. It just turns out the attributes I most seek are usually possessed by men in their 30s and 40s. I've hired two escorts older than that and had a good time with them, too.

 

I don't have any issue with the body of a man in his 20s, but the majority of those escorts don't seem to have it all together yet. Many of them don't know how to put together a good ad or present themselves.

 

That is so true!! The youngest escort that I ever hired was actually 29... and he was wise beyond his years... He was one of the few who was truthful with the age listed in his ad.

 

Otherwise most twenty-something's... to quote the sage Judge Judy... "Come out of the oven half-baked!"

 

Nothing against younger guys... as I did play with one briefly a couple of months ago... and not for pay... He actually looked to me as a Daddy figure and that made it work...

[+ Axiom2001]

Greg, you are far from being "damaged goods." Many men like escorts who are slightly mature and experienced, and if you are still pleasing to one's eyes, you have no problems.

I know I for one am one of these men who like guys in their late 20s and beyond. "Balance" your life with work and pleasure" of your choosing, and things should be right for you.

You're far too young to be thinking in the way which you shared with us.

[ToddMan]

Yes people do hire older escorts. I was recently with an amazing 22 year old. Muscular and handsome and hairy and I loved the experience. But at some point, when he next to me I had this thought that his body was just too 'hard'. Being in my early 50s, I've come to expect some softness to a partner, and as odd as this sounds, I missed it. I still enjoy the company of younger men, but also like to experience someone with some maturity in all ways. I would encourage you to go forward and put yourself out there. From the response here, I think you'll do just fine.

[RadioRob]

Greg,

 

I saw you a few years back in Vegas... we saw Le Rev, went out to a club for a bit, and then spent some time together afterwards. In fact, you told me about your plans to start your business! I'm glad it's going well for you. You were the first positive experience I had with an escort to be honest! (My others were "meh it's ok" experiences.)

 

While some guys may have a particular thing for young things, a good number of folks look for other things.

 

For me, I personally am looking for someone with personality. I want to spend time with someone who has a great sense of humor, who is fun to be around, and has a head on top of their shoulders. If you were to get back to seeing folks again, I have no doubt you would be successful. I already know first hand your personality and people skills. I also know some of your other talents as well and I would not hesitate to rehire you again on my next trip to Sin City.

[Greg Smart]

Yes. And if you're ever in NY let me know. I'd hire you!

I'll be in NYC for a wedding in Sept. Lesbian broads and their 'life partner' whatever.. We should hang out

[Greg Smart]

Or in New England. Or can we just import you?

I wouldn't be opposed to a quick hop to the East Coast.

[Greg Smart]

we saw Le Rev, went out to a club for a bit, and then spent some time together afterwards. In fact, you told me about your plans to start your business! I'm glad it's going well for you. You were the first positive experience I had with an escort to be honest! (My others were "meh it's ok" experiences.)

Thanks for the kind words. I remember Le Rev very well. Haven't been back to see it, but it was clearly one of the best nights Ive had in Vegas. My business started in one direction, but due to external forces thrown upon me, it moved in another direction and the flood gates have been opened. I love being a Boss.

[Greg Smart]

My concern is this part of your statement. I think it is important to find some balance your life. Working and building a business is fine, but not at the cost of socially isolating yourself. I don't know enough about you to offer suggestions, other than to say that you don't sound happy, and only you know if that is truly the case. If I'm off base, feel free to ignore, if however there is some truth, then I would encourage you to think about putting yourself out there and allowing sometime in your life to include others. Good luck....

Including others is easier said than done. At my age I'm running into the same problem where the people I want to hang out with have families now. That wasn't an issue just a few years ago.

[Greg Smart]

I find that the times have changed;

Lets hope so. I remember turning 31 years old and my earnings plummeted and the Vegas 20 year old twins were pulling in min 10k a month.

[Greg Smart]

Palm Springs is a quick 4 hour drive

If I go to Palm Springs Im going to want to spend the time looking at the cool houses

[Greg Smart]

abusive clients

Abusive Clients is an understatement

[BaronArtz]

Abusive Clients is an understatement

 

Greg, I am sorry to hear that, and I am hearing it from more and more escorts. I am also disturbed reading the attitude displayed by some of the 'newbies' here on this message board (no need to name names, just yet) of clients who think that having $250 in their pocket gives them the right to use escorts as they see fit. They refer to escorts as 'sex workers' who can be bullied into anything. 'They can handle a lot more than you think' seems to be their mantra. Younger, less experienced escorts comply with their wishes out of fear. Fear to not get paid. Fear of a bad review. Fear of physical abuse. 'You wrote on your ad that you kiss, so you MUST kiss me', seems to be the least of it. I find that absolutely horrifying. It is abusive, plain and simple.

[MiamiLooker]

Greg, I am sorry to hear that, and I am hearing it from more and more escorts. I am also disturbed reading the attitude displayed by some of the 'newbies' here on this message board (no need to name names, just yet) of clients who think that having $250 in their pocket gives them the right to use escorts as they see fit. They refer to escorts as 'sex workers' who can be bullied into anything. 'They can handle a lot more than you think' seems to be their mantra. Younger, less experienced escorts comply with their wishes out of fear. Fear to not get paid. Fear of a bad review. Fear of physical abuse. 'You wrote on your ad that you kiss, so you MUST kiss me', seems to be the least of it. I find that absolutely horrifying. It is abusive, plain and simple.

 

Can you provide a link to one of these posts?

[+ purplekow]

Well I suppose it will always depend on (what others may perceive as) a disparity in looks, since most scorts even age appropiate are in the BIZ of looking good since that's their job lol and will mostlikely always look better than even a close in age client.

My wife was very attractive, definitely out of my league. She was tall and think and well rounded physically and intellectually. She was also 7 years younger than I . When I was questioned, and it happened more than a few times, how I managed to convince her to marry me, a two word answer silenced the questioner. Big dick. Raised eyebrows and a bit of a cackle added to their discomfort.

[+ quoththeraven]

Greg, I am sorry to hear that, and I am hearing it from more and more escorts. I am also disturbed reading the attitude displayed by some of the 'newbies' here on this message board (no need to name names, just yet) of clients who think that having $250 in their pocket gives them the right to use escorts as they see fit. They refer to escorts as 'sex workers' who can be bullied into anything. 'They can handle a lot more than you think' seems to be their mantra. Younger, less experienced escorts comply with their wishes out of fear. Fear to not get paid. Fear of a bad review. Fear of physical abuse. 'You wrote on your ad that you kiss, so you MUST kiss me', seems to be the least of it. I find that absolutely horrifying. It is abusive, plain and simple.

 

I see that more as 'you wrote in your ad that you kiss, so why aren't you kissing me"? Disappointment when it was discussed upfront and was a reason for hiring X over Y is perfectly natural, and clients and escorts need to learn how to talk about it in non-confrontational ways.

 

I also think some posters write stuff they didn't think through in the heat of the moment and may not be expecting quite the automaton escort you're suggesting they're looking for.

[Racketjock]

I do and only have. My favorite guy, AndrewD, was over 35. He is sadly retired, but the gold standard of what sex and a real man is to me. Damn wish he wasn't retired.

[Traveler North]

If I go to Palm Springs Im going to want to spend the time looking at the cool houses

Hey Greg, I do hope you can come to Palm Springs for the May2-3 get together. Be great to meet you!

[Strafe13]

Including others is easier said than done. At my age I'm running into the same problem where the people I want to hang out with have families now. That wasn't an issue just a few years ago.

 

You and I are in the same boat re: people we want to hang out with now having families (you're in your mid-30s, right?). It's tough to find the right work-life balance at any age, so I'm not sure if delving into more work by returning to escorting would be the best thing for you, especially if your present job is so demanding. That being said, you sound like a really nice, down-to-earth guy that I'd like to know better, so if you do return to the biz, and make a trip to NYC, I'd definitely be interested in seeing you. Please keep your head up.

[BaronArtz]

Can you provide a link to one of these posts?

 

You need to ask?