Do people see 35 y/o or older escorts?

[RSully94]

As a 21 year old, pretty much every escort is older than me. But the guys I've eyed a lot more, Alec, Mitch, and a couple of masseurs, tend to be in their 30s or more.

 

The gay community can be mean girls with dicks tbh. A ton of Regina George types with some Gretchen and Karen sprinkled in. Most of the guys my age have been mean to me over my weight, where as I've been hit on by a ton of older guys. To be honest, it psychologically fucks with your mind.

 

But at the same time, I feel like the older guys would at least know where I'm coming from, even if they're in much better shape than me. I just don't know. But the guys I really want are over 30.

[Guy Fawkes]

Greg when you get back from Phoenix lets go out to lunch. You are in no way "Damaged Product" and just need to spend a bit of time getting to know your own city. It's all up to you when you want to start to slow down however I can say that you have a good decade or so left on the old odometer.

 

Some of you may know me from my days as an escort. I have a small business right now and it's booming. I work all the time and have no social life. This weekend I had no one to hang out with so I drove down to Phoenix from Vegas to watch spring training, but I was all by myself, as usual. Escorting has always been a social crutch for me. But being my age I think Id be viewed as a damaged product. Anyone got insight?

[wisconsinguy]

Two words: Dane Scott.

Three words. RGM!

[whipped guy]

Three words. RGM!

Yep! The perfect combo! The smarts of an over thirty-something and the energy of an under thirty-something!

 

I doesn't get much better than that!

[BaronArtz]

Can you provide a link to one of these posts?

 

Here is a brilliant example of what I am talking about: http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/when-an-escort-posts-that-he-kisses-in-his-ad.102132/

[Jon Royce]

Two years ago a guy in Northern Virginia, advertising as 36 turned out to be 52. He asked me to shoot some photos for his massage/escorting ads. I did. He offered to fuck me as a "bonus" to the money he paid me for photos (hoping for a review) and I have to say he was in great shape, had a great dick and could fuck like a 20 y.o. Go for it.

[MiamiLooker]

Here is a brilliant example of what I am talking about: http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/when-an-escort-posts-that-he-kisses-in-his-ad.102132/

 

Not really a good example. I recall that thread and thought your posts were way out of line.

[Greg Smart]

Greg when you get back from Phoenix lets go out to lunch. You are in no way "Damaged Product" and just need to spend a bit of time getting to know your own city. It's all up to you when you want to start to slow down however I can say that you have a good decade or so left on the old odometer.

Crap, I forgot we said we'd grab dinner. I'm starting to have this problem where if I don't write something down I forget about it entirely. I'll get an email out to you sometime tomorrow to make plans. I'm writing that down

[Greg Smart]

Hey Greg, I do hope you can come to Palm Springs for the May2-3 get together. Be great to meet you!

Unfortunately Im going to have to miss it. The Maywether Pacquaio is that weekend and, for once, I'll have plenty of friends in town to enjoy the fight with. Funny story, we booked 2 rooms at the Mirage before the fight was announced and we got to keep our low rate when prices for rooms jumped up $500, plus they'll be showing the fight in the hotel for free- so I get to save $100 on that front as well.

[TruHart1]

Two words: Dane Scott.

 

Three words. RGM!

 

How can you go wrong with maturity like these two? Answer: You can't, and both are openly over 40!!!

They'd make for a very exciting 3-way too!

 

TruHart1

[BaronArtz]

Not really a good example. I recall that thread and thought your posts were way out of line.

 

If the way you present yourself is in any way typical of the way you treat escorts, which it probably is, you have absolutely proven my point. Thank you.

[+ quoththeraven]

If the way you present yourself is in any way typical of the way you treat escorts, which it probably is, you have absolutely proven my point. Thank you.

 

Oh good grief, chill out, Baron. I'm not going back through MiamiLooker's posts -- for all I know, there may be a few that are problematic -- but given the inexact way so many people on this forum write, especially about frustrating experiences, not everything can be taken at face value. One thing I can say: I agree with the view that your posts are more hostile toward clients on this point than is warranted. (As in you take offense to comments that strike me and others as innocuous.)

 

Does that mean I think clients aren't sometimes abusive, including in their comments on this forum? Not at all. I particularly hate it when clients run down an escort's appearance and body type, especially when it's an escort who frequents the site. But escorting is also (actually, primarily) a business, and it's okay for clients to view it transactionally (as in "I told X I wanted to do Y, and he didn't, if I'd known it wouldn't happen, I wouldn't have picked him"). So do many escorts. And in the context of continued hiring, not doing something a client's indicated is a bucket list item that's a basis for a threeway hire without any explanation of the omission can come across as a tactic to ensure a second threeway appointment, which isn't any cooler in my book than clients treating escorts like trash or human dildos.

[MiamiLooker]

If the way you present yourself is in any way typical of the way you treat escorts, which it probably is, you have absolutely proven my point. Thank you.

 

It is. And that’s why many continue to contact me asking to see me again. If you’d like any pointers, let me know. You’ve certainly proven a point, but probably not the one you intended.

[BaronArtz]

quoththeraven-dearest, have you not yet had your coffee this morning? Have your medications not kicked in yet? Perhaps it is you who needs a chill pill. I am not going to respond to every aspect of your post - not worth it. You are wrong though. I am not hostile to clients. I am a client myself. I am just hostile to certain clients. Clients with a demonstrated record of abusive attitudes. And if you can't live with that, too bad.

[+ quoththeraven]

quoththeraven-dearest, have you not yet had your coffee this morning? Have your medications not kicked in yet? Perhaps it is you who needs a chill pill. I am not going to respond to every aspect of your post - not worth it. You are wrong though. I am not hostile to clients. I am a client myself. I am just hostile to certain clients. Clients with a demonstrated record of abusive attitudes. And if you can't live with that, too bad.

 

It's your definition of "demonstrated record of abusive attitudes" that I have a problem with, as you would realize if you'd read my post with your mind instead of your preconceptions. Everyone else can judge for themselves on that score.

[jimboivyo]

It is. And that’s why many continue to contact me asking to see me again.

 

or maybe it's becuase they want your money. sparkling personality aside, this is a business to escorts

[MiamiLooker]

or maybe it's becuase they want your money. sparkling personality aside, this is a business to escorts

 

That could be but I’m pretty sure there are clients that pay a lot more than I do. I’m guessing escorts contact me for repeats not only due to my exceptional personality but because I never hire in advance, only do hourly hires and they know what to expect (basically, I'm an easy hire for them). So, I usually get something like “Are you available today”. Many live close by, so it can be a win-win for both of us.

[bigvalboy]

or maybe it's becuase they want your money. sparkling personality aside, this is a business to escorts

 

That simply isn't true for everyone, and your sarcasm is duly noted.

[Michael Wayne]

great thread guys and so true! When I go out on a tour I am actually far busier in my 40s than I was in my 30s. This is hard to explain but it is true. I am proud of my age and I wish that all of us escorts would COME OUT with our REAL AGES. I have on here several times. I am 48 and I have NEVER felt better in my life. In all of our ads it is difficult to list the actual age when your CHIEF COMPETITORS in your local area are off by 5-10 years. Some clients simply see an age number and WILL NOT HIRE PAST A CERTAIN AGE . One thing I do is post CURRENT PICS in all my ads. That way the product that shows up is the advertised product. OLD PICS bother me a lot more than claiming an age u actually are not. Again though if my competitors would list their actual age in their ads I would gladly update mine. I have actually been tempted lately to just say what the fuck and do it anyway....... I have never once been turned away by a client because of my age!

[Becket]

Yes! I do indeed. And they ALWAYS provide a more memorable experience. cheers

[cooldemo03]

The best escort experience I think I had was Robert Van Damme. And he was definetely over 35 at the time. (over 40 in fact) Of course it helps that he's totally my type.

[+ WilliamM]

He just updated his pics this month, but he’s been way too busy the last several years to update his age:

http://www.men4rentnow.com/escorts/gay.escort.bnicholas.html

 

But I’ll bet you can appreciate his decorating taste displayed in the industrial décor shown in many of his pics…

 

I am confused. How can someone be too busy for several years to update their age?

[Guest Starbuck]

I am confused. How can someone be too busy for several years to update their age?

 

I'm pretty sure MiamiLooker was being ironic ... and sarcastic ... and amusing ... all at once.

[Guest Starbuck]

Given the enthusiasm expressed in this thread for the over-35 crowd, is anyone else thinking that some of us ought to stop paying and start charging?

[+ quoththeraven]

Given the enthusiasm expressed in this thread for the over-35 crowd, is anyone else thinking that some of us ought to stop paying and start charging?

 

There's a difference between the over 35 amateur and the over 35 professional.