Do people see 35 y/o or older escorts?

[+ WilliamM]

I'm pretty sure MiamiLooker was being ironic ... and sarcastic ... and amusing ... all at once.

 

Agree with your analysis now that I checked MiamiLooker's link!

 

Benjamin is listed as thirty years old and an advertiser on that site for eleven years. Easy math problem!

[Guest Starbuck]

There's a difference between the over 35 amateur and the over 35 professional.

 

Sure ... OK ... but there's got to be some overlap of the two ... the charismatic sexually-adept amateur who's actually better and more fun in the sack (or hanging upside down from the chandelier) than the disappointing, low-energy "professional" who gets to call himself one only because he sprang for the price of an ad. I'd like to think so anyway ... it inspires me to keep practicing!

[+ dutchmuch]

With all these favorable comments of escorts doing so well that are 35 and over, maybe it is time for escorts to show their real ages. (ie. 27 really is 37!)

[caliguy]

Sure ... OK ... but there's got to be some overlap of the two ... the charismatic sexually-adept amateur who's actually better and more fun in the sack (or hanging upside down from the chandelier) than the disappointing, low-energy "professional" who gets to call himself one only because he sprang for the price of an ad. I'd like to think so anyway ... it inspires me to keep practicing!

I think there's a little more to it then that and I believe everyone has to pay for the cost of an ad unless their doing something like Craigslist. I think I get it though. You're looking for that wet behind the ears fresh young twink off the bus fantasy. The only problem is that you usually take a much bigger risk going there. Then again if you get off on that then go for it.

[caliguy]

With all these favorable comments of escorts doing so well that are 35 and over, maybe it is time for escorts to show their real ages. (ie. 27 really is 37!)

That's a great idea. Why don't you start a campaign. We can get a movement going. Everywhere from Grindr, Growler, to Rentboy. Don't forget the lady's too. I'm sure they'll be glad to join:)

[+ sniper]

This brings me back Greg...several (10ish?) years ago I did a double-take in the Mandalay Bay Spa when I recognized you(just from pictures, we never met). Didn't know if you were there with a client or just on your own. I briefly debated opening your shower door and seeing if you wanted company but decided against it for fear of causing a disturbance.

[Traveler North]

Some of you may know me from my days as an escort. I have a small business right now and it's booming. I work all the time and have no social life. This weekend I had no one to hang out with so I drove down to Phoenix from Vegas to watch spring training, but I was all by myself, as usual. Escorting has always been a social crutch for me. But being my age I think Id be viewed as a damaged product. Anyone got insight?

 

I have been seeing several guys in their 40s for a long time. They are not only hot in bed but mature and well informed in many ways. It is a great pleasure just being with them and conversing on many topics.

[+ purplekow]

This brings me back Greg...several (10ish?) years ago I did a double-take in the Mandalay Bay Spa when I recognized you(just from pictures, we never met). Didn't know if you were there with a client or just on your own. I briefly debated opening your shower door and seeing if you wanted company but decided against it for fear of causing a disturbance.

Love that spa and the steam room there always seemed like an easily cruised area but sadly I never saw Greg there

[+ dutchmuch]

Here is another view of this thread, "Do people knowingly see 35 y/o or old escorts?"

[k9lover]

Some of you may know me from my days as an escort. I have a small business right now and it's booming. I work all the time and have no social life. This weekend I had no one to hang out with so I drove down to Phoenix from Vegas to watch spring training, but I was all by myself, as usual. Escorting has always been a social crutch for me. But being my age I think Id be viewed as a damaged product. Anyone got insight?

 

I prefer young men in their 20's but I must say I've met a few guys in their early 30's in great shape and with boyish faces.

 

And one more thought...

 

Many who advertise that they are in their thirties are actually in their forties... or even beyond!!! At times way beyond!!! As long as you take care of yourself the sky is the limit!

 

Yes! 35 is the new 40 for escorts, I guess after 29 it's all counted by dog years.

[+ purplekow]

My question about age is who cares? Would you rather see a 25 year old with the body of a 40 year old or a 40 year old with the body of a 25 year old. Granted your mileage may vary, but ultimately who cares how old the escort is as long as he stimulates you physically, mentally, spiritually or in any other way you want to be stimulated.

I used to play amateur baseball and I played in regular leagues and later I played in the over 40 leagues. The competition was different but my enjoyment was equal.

[bigvalboy]

Call me crazy, but I'd rather see a 25 year old with the body of a 25 year old...

[Guy Fawkes]

Your Crazy! (Couldn't Resist)

Call me crazy, but I'd rather see a 25 year old with the body of a 25 year old...

[jimboivyo]

My question about age is who cares? Would you rather see a 25 year old with the body of a 40 year old or a 40 year old with the body of a 25 year old. Granted your mileage may vary, but ultimately who cares how old the escort is as long as he stimulates you physically, mentally, spiritually or in any other way you want to be stimulated.

I used to play amateur baseball and I played in regular leagues and later I played in the over 40 leagues. The competition was different but my enjoyment was equal.

 

exactly

 

all this hand wringing over something most of ya'll don't even really care about

[Rod Hagen]

Here is another view of this thread, "Do people knowingly see 35 y/o or old escorts?"

 

Oh yes, definitely. I've always kept my age up to date. There are plenty of busy escorts, like me, 40 or older.

 

The shift seemed to happen in the middle 2000s from when escorts older than early 30s generally were made fun of, and consequently usually lied about their ages, to not only an acceptance, but many men preferring us older ones.

 

What caused the shift, I have no idea.

[+ dutchmuch]

exactly

 

all this hand wringing over something most of ya'll don't even really care about

 

 

Yeah well, your 'favorite escort' seems to care about it.

[mike carey]

Escorting has always been a social crutch for me. But being my age I think Id be viewed as a damaged product. Anyone got insight?

 

This thread has been around the world and back again several times, and the comments are starting to miss the point. Who likes whom and at what age is all very well. Not everyone over [whatever age] can escort, but [whatever age] doesn't disqualify anyone from trying. I'm too old to pass judgment on anyone over 35 escorting, but sure as hell 35 ain't too old to be doing it. If you want to do it, Greg, DO IT!

[whipped guy]

Call me crazy, but I'd rather see a 25 year old with the body of a 25 year old...

No BVB you're not crazy... When paying I go for older as I'm assured to get what I really am looking for. However, down deep I think that we all would kill to be able to hookup with that "25 year old with the body of a 25 year old". As I mentioned elsewhere I briefly had the pleasure a couple of months ago... Ok so he looked up to me as a daddy... and I really only got to spend a brief moment with him relatively speaking... but what I would have given to have spent an extended bit of time with his hot bod... Fortunately he seemed to have a head on his shoulders as well... but when push comes to shove to paraphrase the immortal words of Al Bundy...

 

Pecs pecs yum yum yum...

Pecs pecs on a guy that's dumb!

And if he's a youngin too boot that ain't a bad thing!

[zeyfur]

When with an escort, I prefer a man to a boy. Hence, go for the over 35's .

[jimboivyo]

Yeah well, your 'favorite escort' seems to care about it.

 

keep grindin that axe dude. looking at your past posts, it's clear who you are

[Guest Starbuck]

... looking at your past posts, it's clear who you are

 

It is? Gosh, I hate that feeling of not knowing something that everybody else does just because I haven't been watching the soap opera for as long.

[jimboivyo]

It is? Gosh, I hate that feeling of not knowing something that everybody else does just because I haven't been watching the soap opera for as long.

 

heh heh

 

the real drama left that soap years ago

[Vato Loco]

When with an escort, I prefer a man to a boy. Hence, go for the over 35's .

 

Then you would love Benjamin Nicholas.

[wayout]

Some of you may know me from my days as an escort. I have a small business right now and it's booming. I work all the time and have no social life. This weekend I had no one to hang out with so I drove down to Phoenix from Vegas to watch spring training, but I was all by myself, as usual. Escorting has always been a social crutch for me. But being my age I think Id be viewed as a damaged product. Anyone got insight?

 

I apologize if I repeat any or many of what others have said but I just don't have the time to go through the 7 pages of responses. Here is my view:

 

1.. No way would I consider someone escorting as damaged goods because of age. Only a poor reputation and many bad reviews might make me feel that way about an escort. Your reviews have almost all been exceptionally positive.

2. Your last review was less than two years ago so its not like you've been away for a decade. Taking that time off might actually make one feel like the escort is recharged and based on the experience he has that it can be an amazing experience. If you weren't "damaged goods" then, I doubt two added years would make much of a matter to me one bit.

3. I was very much focused on the age of the escort for many years but over time I started to realize that age means very little in the eventual outcome. I've been with young guys in their early 20s and have had both amazing and terrible times. Same goes with escorts in their mid to upper 30s. It all comes down to that intangible that we as clients try to capture in the process to decide to hire or not.

4. I firmly believe that there are many flavors to be enjoyed and not every one will like every one of those. But be assured, there are plenty that will be very enthusiastic to hire you at your age if they feel there is a good match.

 

Best of luck to you and I hope whatever decision you make it works out for you.

[J-Man]

I started a thread a few months ago about an escort who's still working (or started working again) at 57. http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/andre-bolla-escorting-at-57.102576/#post-944158