Do people see 35 y/o or older escorts?

[+ Gar1eth]

I like older escorts too. One of the reasons was that I hired a lot for overnights or weekends. I always figured I wouldn't have a lot in common to talk about with a really young guy-or if the younger guy was really into the club scene-that wasn't my thing. I would hire younger guys just for the non-overnight or non-weekend type of meeting. But it's interesting, as I've gotten older, I've found myself attracted to younger guys more ( but not the really, really young guys usually). But I still like the older guys too.

 

Gman

[+ Axiom2001]

Yes, they do. A lot.

 

I find that the times have changed; when I started escorting what people often praised and commented on when discussing escorts in general was their youth. Now I find that more and more people value experience, confidence, skills, masculinity and a special kind of fitness that can only happen after a certain age. The market for the mature, not self-centred escort is booming, but as with everything, what really matters is that you are passionate about the quality you consistently deliver and that you love your work.

 

If you are fit, if you have taken care of yourself well, if you are not jaded or broken, if you are not exhausted by he job (which can happen to many) then I can assure you people won't see you as damaged goods, but as a special delicacy.

 

Sure, there's still some folks who crave college kids, but that should not be anything you worry about. People like a lot of things. Focus on what you can offer, do it passionately, be healthy and present and you are going to have a riot.

 

Juan's advice is quite salient to your concern. I would have just left the second response, but I found what he wrote was convincing enough for you to begin pursuing escorting if that is your interest! Personally, two of my favorite men are in their late 40s; both are highly and successfully experienced, skilled, quite masculine and fit, and each possess the type of personality that is conducive to escorting or any other position in which one is dealing with others.

[thickornotatall]

My very favorite (Steve Roberts) was late 40's when we met...I saw him on and for 10 years....a most remarkable man...always a great time...a man I could relate to...and with.....great body..not ripped/buff/and waxed....I always felt comfortable with him....and a massive cock (10x7) he is now retired...we spoke in May and he is well...and enjoying retirement

[Griffin Donavon]

I am probably not the first to say this, but if you stay in shape and your 35-40... omg the muscle is like no other, its so much better then young muscle.. I can't wait until I'm older if I've kept up with my fitness regimen. so in a nutshell, your diff not broken and thats the peak my man!

[whipped guy]

I am not going to mention any names, but about a year ago an escort revealed his true age to me. He advertises as 39 and looks it, or at the very least looks 39 in escort years. I emphatically did not believe him, but the age was only 10 years younger than I. Needless to say I was flabbergasted. Plus, as most people here now know I am of retirement age. I still did not believe him. He finally showed me his drivers license and sure enough it was true! It is living proof that taking good care of one's self certainly has its rewards.

[Rudynate]

I am probably not the first to say this, but if you stay in shape and your 35-40... omg the muscle is like no other, its so much better then young muscle.. I can't wait until I'm older if I've kept up with my fitness regimen. so in a nutshell, your diff not broken and thats the peak my man!

 

You're right - it's a different look.

[dfwmassagelover]

For sure! I prefer escorts over 30, just need to be in shape. The younger guys seem to be immature and sometimes just in it for the money and don't do a very good job. Guys over 30 tend to take the job very serious and are experienced. Also for an escort to still be in demand in his thirties he is usually very good at his job. I find a lot of escorts in their forties to be very attractive.

[gaigye]

This discussion is interesting, but a bit frustrating for me. Two of my best experiences have been with escorts who are comfortably over 40 – Jon Ramsey in Boston and David Anthony in Philadelphia.

 

Jon: http://daddysreviews.com/venue/usa/massachusetts

David: http://daddysreviews.com/venue/usa/pennsylvania

 

Both were exceptionally good choices for me – professional in every good sense of the term, handsome and likable, and skilled. Unless the man has allowed himself to "go to seed," I don't see age as a negative. In fact if he's continued to be successful as an escort, that more or less speaks for itself: you can be assured of good value for your investment of both time and money.

[jj69action]

Some of you may know me from my days as an escort. I have a small business right now and it's booming. I work all the time and have no social life. This weekend I had no one to hang out with so I drove down to Phoenix from Vegas to watch spring training, but I was all by myself, as usual. Escorting has always been a social crutch for me. But being my age I think Id be viewed as a damaged product. Anyone got insight?

There is a market out there for everyone! I prefer to hire over 40yo MEN who know what MEN like....and we seem to have more in common in the non-sexual area. My last three hires were ACE, MARK and ROUGHSCORT all over 40! Fantastic times and a lot of fun and GREAT Men!

[jj69action]

Yes, they do. A lot.

 

I find that the times have changed; when I started escorting what people often praised and commented on when discussing escorts in general was their youth. Now I find that more and more people value experience, confidence, skills, masculinity and a special kind of fitness that can only happen after a certain age. The market for the mature, not self-centred escort is booming, but as with everything, what really matters is that you are passionate about the quality you consistently deliver and that you love your work.

 

If you are fit, if you have taken care of yourself well, if you are not jaded or broken, if you are not exhausted by he job (which can happen to many) then I can assure you people won't see you as damaged goods, but as a special delicacy.

 

Sure, there's still some folks who crave college kids, but that should not be anything you worry about. People like a lot of things. Focus on what you can offer, do it passionately, be healthy and present and you are going to have a riot.

Well said!!

[jj69action]

Yes. And if you're ever in NY let me know. I'd hire you!

Same here! And I am in Vegas!

[+ Gar1eth]

There is a market out there for everyone! I prefer to hire over 40yo MEN who know what MEN like....and we seem to have more in common in the non-sexual area. My last three hires were ACE, MARK and ROUGHSCORT all over 40! Fantastic times and a lot of fun and GREAT Men!

 

Mark who?

 

Gman

[BabyBoomer]

Mark who?

 

Gman

 

Gman, I'm assuming it's Mark in Orange County, since jj did his last review posted in 2011.

 

~ Boomer ~

[+ Gar1eth]

Gman, I'm assuming it's Mark in Orange County, since jj did his last review posted in 2011.

 

~ Boomer ~

 

I met him once back in 2010 or so. He was ok. It wasn't quite the experience I was hoping for. It was supposed to be an overnight. Then he got there. Said he couldn't stay all night as he had to care for some dogs. Also he was just proof to me again that I shouldn't hire guys without face pictures. He had a nice physique though. It may not have quite lived up to his pictures. And I may vaguely remember that he really wasn't into kissing as much as I was.

 

Gman

[Bargara Leatherboy]

Yes. Best and memorable with the more experienced escort

[+ Keith30309]

My limited experience is that the young guys are generally more squirrelly - the two no-shows and one perpetual-reschedule I've had were from guys 25 or less. The more mature guys have, generally, been more relaxed (and therefore relaxing), confident and matter-of-fact about the whole encounter. On the other hand the only two 2 guys with whom I developed any emotional connection (in the 2nd or 3rd visit) were under 30; maybe when you become more mature the instinct to maintain the rigid emotional boundary during intimacy becomes stronger out of necessity - perhaps not so true with younger guys.

 

As I thought about this question my immediate reaction was to focus on the physical aspect of a what is conventionally believed to be a more ideal, young physique but, thinking about my best and worst experiences, it's a little surprising to me that hasn't had allot to do with my enjoyment.

 

I guess everyone's needs and desires are different. For me it matters less if someone is 21 or 41 than if I'm able to make an emotional connection. The ads that jump out at me are not the ones highlighting rippling abs but rather those that suggest a fulfilling experience. Example of one from a distant city: " I'm enthusiastic about listening because I find people to be so interesting. Sensuality and intimacy are important to me as well but I'm also well skilled in a high-energy romp. I prefer to provide intimate experiences (think of a hot boyfriend experience). If you're looking for a party boy you'll want to contact another gentleman on this site."

That sort of approach doesn't have anything to do with age - it's on a different level - and I'd reach out to him quickly.

[jj69action]

Mark who?

 

Gman

Mark is a non-advertising escort that I have the Privilege of being his client....but if your ever in Vegas I'll share his information!

[Daverwr]

I make it a point in hiring older escorts because I like to play with men not boys. I'm seeing a 43 YO escort this weekend.

[Man Crush Morris]

I have a very particular taste and that tends to skew to muscular fitness model type guys under 30. So I wouldn't pay for a much older guy, even if he fit my type.

[adriano46]

Reiterating what I have said often -- I find guys over 30 to be highly sexy and the top dates for short- and long-term hiring. Not only are their bodies (IMHO) more exciting (whether hairy or shaven), but the more mature face and strong legs etc.. -- it is a great package deal of a man's man.

 

But more importantly, I seek out this over 30 (or over 40 or even over 50 and into 60) men for their communication skills, intellect, and breadth of experience that make dates of over an hour or two so memorable and exciting. So to all the men I have hired in recent years who are over 30 (and you know who you are, whether you admit to the age or not), THANK YOU!

[+ Funguy]

My, how all tastes differ - but there is somebody for everybody!

I have never hired anybody under 30 for the reasons that Adriano has pointed out. They may turn me on, but not as much as the "older" men do.

 

I have a very particular taste and that tends to skew to muscular fitness model type guys under 30. So I wouldn't pay for a much older guy, even if he fit my type.

 

Reiterating what I have said often -- I find guys over 30 to be highly sexy and the top dates for short- and long-term hiring. Not only are their bodies (IMHO) more exciting (whether hairy or shaven), but the more mature face and strong legs etc.. -- it is a great package deal of a man's man.

 

But more importantly, I seek out this over 30 (or over 40 or even over 50 and into 60) men for their communication skills, intellect, and breadth of experience that make dates of over an hour or two so memorable and exciting. So to all the men I have hired in recent years who are over 30 (and you know who you are, whether you admit to the age or not), THANK YOU!