Do people see 35 y/o or older escorts?

[whipped guy]

Theres guys in their 40s advertising as 20s!

 

30ish to 45 is my favorite age. That's when men are hottest. I think overall the data will show that men in that age range are the most popular.

I agree and I would even extend the age beyond that for some guys who have really taken good care of themselves...

 

Consequently, I always shake my head when I see that escort ages always get frozen at 29 or 39... It makes no sense to me... but I guess that's the accepted and prevalent business model out there... and as such it must work...

[gallahadesquire]

My concern is this part of your statement. I think it is important to find some balance your life. Working and building a business is fine, but not at the cost of socially isolating yourself. I don't know enough about you to offer suggestions, other than to say that you don't sound happy, and only you know if that is truly the case. If I'm off base, feel free to ignore, if however there is some truth, then I would encourage you to think about putting yourself out there and allowing sometime in your life to include others. Good luck....

 

I was thinking about this myself. When I was 35, I'd moved back to Chicago, I was in Windy City Gay Chorus and had dinner with friends every Friday night. Considering that I was a practicing anesthesiologist, at work at 6:45 every morning (15 miles away, but along the Lakefront - absolutely gorgeous, all year round!) and working overnight twice a week ... it was great. Followed by 12-14 hour days and no friends in Central Massachusetts.

 

BVB has it right. Get some balance. Whatever compensation you're getting, isn't worth it. You'll get ill and have nothing to show for it (like I did).

[+ WmClarke]

... and a bit smarter than the average bear. (I want him to get that last reference)

 

Hey, hey, Boo-Boo!

[maninsoma]

And one more thought...

 

Many who advertise that they are in their thirties are actually in their forties... or even beyond!!! At times way beyond!!! As long as you take care of yourself the sky is the limit!

 

Ain't that the truth! I started hiring regularly about 15 years ago and there are some guys in my area who have been in their late thirties the entire time. About a decade ago I hired a guy who claimed he was 39 but who looked more like 49 at that time; he's still claiming to be 39 and he's more than likely nearly 60.

 

But to answer the original question: Obviously many of us find men in their thirties quite desirable, so 35 certainly isn't too old to escort. I also like (some) men who are older; I just wish so many men weren't so dishonest with respect to their age.

[+ Gar1eth]

Being 35 or older is fine with me. I pretty much go for all ages except the very young. Usually-although there might have been a few exceptions-twenty-one or twenty-two might have been my limit on the younger side. But I really prefer older. And the majority of the guys I've done overnights with or weekends over the years have probably been at least 30 years old if not older. My last two weekends with escorts I had one guy was 30 the other was 42. Averaging their age is 36.

 

Oh and Greg-I always thought you were really cute with a nice physique. If you had been versatile, there's a good chance we would have met.

 

Gman

[+ Robster]

I've always been attracted to older men. It's still hard for me to accept that the guys I lusted after when I was in my 20's were younger than I am now.

 

But in answer to your question, I would absolutely hire an escort who's 35 or older. In fact, I'd probably prefer to.

 

Rob

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

Although I've hired guys in their 20s, there hasn't been a follow up appointment with any of them. The guys I have hired a second, third, or tenth time are all mid-30s and older!

[Bryanforservice]

All you guys that enjoy the experience of hiring another "man" are warming the hearts (and pumping up the egos a bit too) of those of us that are proudly truthful about our level of experience and age in this business. It affirms many of the reasons I enjoy this business so much....

[Rudynate]

Some of you may know me from my days as an escort. I have a small business right now and it's booming. I work all the time and have no social life. This weekend I had no one to hang out with so I drove down to Phoenix from Vegas to watch spring training, but I was all by myself, as usual. Escorting has always been a social crutch for me. But being my age I think Id be viewed as a damaged product. Anyone got insight?

 

Most of my hires are in their early 40s. T

Some of you may know me from my days as an escort. I have a small business right now and it's booming. I work all the time and have no social life. This weekend I had no one to hang out with so I drove down to Phoenix from Vegas to watch spring training, but I was all by myself, as usual. Escorting has always been a social crutch for me. But being my age I think Id be viewed as a damaged product. Anyone got insight?

 

My view: A man doesn't reach his prime until 40. Do I hire 40+'s - f_ck yeah!

[Guest Starbuck]

I have only hired one guy who is in his 20s. It was a two-hour waste of time. I saw lots of pictures in advance, but when I saw him face to face, I felt no attraction whatsoever. So much for the allure of tender flesh. The men with whom I've had the best times have mostly been in their middle 30s to late 40s.

 

This thread prompts two other thoughts:

 

1. If they read it, maybe 25-years-olds who think their time is worth $300/hour will run a Spring Sale.

 

2. If you decide to get back in the business, OWN YOUR AGE. Be proud not only of the years, but of the experiences, that have made you a MAN.

[Traveler North]

Some of you may know me from my days as an escort. I have a small business right now and it's booming. I work all the time and have no social life. This weekend I had no one to hang out with so I drove down to Phoenix from Vegas to watch spring training, but I was all by myself, as usual. Escorting has always been a social crutch for me. But being my age I think Id be viewed as a damaged product. Anyone got insight?

 

Be glad to spend time with you any time I am in Vegas.

[nate_sf]

My concern is this part of your statement. I think it is important to find some balance your life. Working and building a business is fine, but not at the cost of socially isolating yourself. I don't know enough about you to offer suggestions, other than to say that you don't sound happy, and only you know if that is truly the case. If I'm off base, feel free to ignore, if however there is some truth, then I would encourage you to think about putting yourself out there and allowing sometime in your life to include others. Good luck....

 

This struck me too. Escorting has the odd dichotomy of being a social business, yet when you're not in an appointment it can be very isolating. Same with running your own business, it can become overwhelming and isolating.

 

This isn't what you were asking, but since you're close by in Vegas I'd strongly suggest you attend the Palm Springs weekend in May. You will meet friends and be surprised how friendly people are and how easy it all is. In other settings it can be hard to meet people and make new friends, so events like this are really great opportunities.

 

And as for being over 35... think of Daddyhunt, all set up for those who like older guys (whatever age they might be). This applies to escorting, hooking up or dating, there are lots of guys that prefer over 35 or 40 or 50. A sexy DILF, yes!

[YooperMike]

Hey Greg, I hope the feedback here is helpful but if you’re in Vegas, Palm Springs is a quick 4 hour drive (take the back way through Kelso and Amboy) and I bet a bunch of us would gladly show you that you’re not a damaged product. The 11 Annual Palm Springs Weekend is just 1 month, two days and 21 hours away. Congratulations on your successful business.

[Nvr2Thick]

When I first started hiring I was in my 20's, and I loved finding a hot daddy in his 30's or 40's. Now in my 50's I love finding a hot younger mature stud in his 30's or 40's.

[jimboivyo]

Yup, and those in their 30's advertise as 20'something surfers.

And they wonder why some of us are cynical.

 

(BTW, I see a escort who is 45 years old. Silver tips in his hair now apparent, he is good and honest!)

 

 

dude, you're cynical cause you keep grinding the same tired axe. you a stalker?

 

benjamin has on several occasions shared his current age. it's also clear from his reviews

[bigvalboy]

Consequently, I always shake my head when I see that escort ages always get frozen at 29 or 39... It makes no sense to me... but I guess that's the accepted and prevalent business model out there... and as such it must work...

 

lol....I've never understood it either. We are definitely an age driven society. I don't care how old someone is, just tell the truth. When you're in business and selling a service, an escorts age is part of that equation. You should embrace your age, and you should celebrate the years.

[sincitymix]

Some of you may know me from my days as an escort. I have a small business right now and it's booming. I work all the time and have no social life. This weekend I had no one to hang out with so I drove down to Phoenix from Vegas to watch spring training, but I was all by myself, as usual. Escorting has always been a social crutch for me. But being my age I think Id be viewed as a damaged product. Anyone got insight?

I would hire an escort over 30, and I would hire you in a heart beat

[+ dutchmuch]

dude, you're cynical cause you keep grinding the same tired axe. you a stalker?

 

benjamin has on several occasions shared his current age. it's also clear from his reviews

 

I am a Sir, not a 'dude'.

 

Ah yes, Benjamin Nicholas. Why doesn't he share, and be 'clear' with, his current age on his website???

 

http://www.benjaminnicholas.com/home.htm

 

 

http://www.benjaminnicholas.com/companion.jpg

 

 

(BTW, this is the surfer I was referring to, who is not in his 20's: http://goldcoast.backpage.com/MaleEscorts/genuwine-male-for-quality-company/6682274)

 

 

Some friend of BN is soooooo sensitive.

[Kevin Slater]

I started escorting at 33, some twelve years ago, and have done quite well. Yes, guys hire guys well into their thirties and beyond.

 

Kevin Slater

[BaronArtz]

You are certainly not 'damaged goods' at age 35. Well, you could be. At any age. The burnout rate in this business is high. I have seen 23-year old escorts that are 'damaged goods'. Drug and alcohol abuse, abusive clients, social isolation ... there is a high price to pay for some.

 

Having said that, I have had great fun hiring guys in their 20s. The one exception is a masseur whom I see regularly, he is in his late 30s now. For some reason, in my 30+ years of hiring escorts, I have never ever hired guys older than 28-30 years. But when I see the many encouraging posts here, I am thinking I should give it a try.

[+ Just Sayin]

I think I'd ask you to ponder further your thoughts around escorting as being a social crutch for you; if you'd like to go back to escorting, that's one thing; but if you'd go back in order to have a social life, you might seek out other options for developing this part of your life. At times in our lives, we need a little bit of help; you might want to go see a therapist or counselor who can work with you on thinking through your options.

[Tonyko]

In a "social" situation, the advantage of an age-appropiate scort is obvious, ppl would say WOW his date is goodlooking not WOW I wonder how much he's paying him lol. I Personally see TWO scorts in their 40's. But it's a diff situation because I MET them in their 20's and they've more or less retired and moved on except for occasionally me and maybe one other long time client. (2B honest they would no longer be considered HOT lol but I'm so comfortable with them and sort of see them in my head as they "were". *and I do admit I find it kinda exciting seeing someone who leads a str8 partnered/married etc life, I feel like I getting something no other guy does

[thickornotatall]

I always look for a man in his late 30's and up....a man with a history..knowledge..experience..manners...my best experience waswith a 45 year old man....worst was a 20 something....

[gregkidman]

My 'go-to' guy is over 50 years old. However, I am getting hints that he is retiring... Time to find another 40-something...

[+ Gar1eth]

In a "social" situation, the advantage of an age-appropiate scort is obvious, ppl would say WOW his date is goodlooking not WOW I wonder how much he's paying him lol.

 

That actually happened to me at a formal dinner dance. But the escort was 42-and I was in my early 50's. I was talking to a couple who had been seated at our table. The male of the couple and I were having a somewhat in depth talk about being gay (he was straight). I mentioned how much easier it was to be gay if you looked like my friend as opposed to me. He asked me if my friend was an escort. I replied 'We are friends'. So it can happen even if the escort is age appropriate. Everyone would always realize that there would be no way I could have had a normal date with such a hot guy.

 

Gman