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PK:Thought you did an excellent job in both the review and recommendations. Ever think about producing? I was an addictive fan through the first series. I still watch reruns in the middle the night along with "Everybody Loves Raymond" when I can't sleep. The actors simply seem to be straining to be funny. I smiled, but did not laugh nearly as much. The first return episode was in my memory banks...the next one I would have to think about.

I have been one of the "recovering" group for decades. My many drug/alcohol addiction have ravaged my life in many ways, ie: multiple overdoses, diverting controlled substances, lying to health providers, (I was good at this), lying to family and friends, going to prison for 2 1/2 years, and a marriage ending of over 40 years. And yet, I came away with a former wife and 5 children who still love me, a job that I love, and I believe my patients love me. I found great friends and someone to love the forum. Sooo, where I'm I going with this little personal epilogue? I believe that it's our power, and our power alone, to make the decision to become and abstain from our addictions. In the throes of using, that power starts to reduce. We may have to be aided for a few days, but once the fog starts to lift, tbat power returns to me. Regarding support mtgs. I am an atheist. Always new it from when I could question it. I also at intervals, one for about 2 1/2 yrs, I attended a support group. It was really easy on my non-belief side. I didn't use the word God and didn't say the Lord's prayer. So why did I go? There were a group of 6 or so that are great people that I simply liked. Good, kind, bright, and not bible thumpers! I will use a quote from one of the members. He was a staunch AA supporter and had been clean for over 40 years. His comment one day... "I don't care how anyone gets clean. If they want to get off the booze, and we can help them, we should." That's what I think support groups should be about!!! How anyone decides to take on their addictions, will be a matter of choices. AND, constantly weighing your own definition of wants and needs. My personal saga could fill volumes. I won't, but to say this. A therapist that I believe to be one of the best said, " I truly believe if you hadn't found drugs, you would have killed yourself." I hadn't seen the toddler I care for about a week. When I was getting him dressed after his bath, we were laughing a lot over goofy things. He stopped for a few seconds, leaned over and just rested his head on my chest for several seconds, and then gave me a mess of kisses on my cheek. I'm still a bit overwhelmed. As Julie Andrews said, (only using guy), "How lucky can a guy get?" All may good thoughts to those that want to leave there addictions in the past, bravo to those who found their answers!

Perfection!

These guys could be at a NYC hangout!

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I'm celebrating three years being with the same escort. He was my first escort as well as being my first male/male experience of any kind. Add to that, I started hiring late in life. It's funny when you mention being "clean." I was so anxious I didn't have to worry about that. I spent a lot of time sitting on the porcelain throne day's before. I started out hiring for extended weekends. I have never regretted it. You mentioned you like and respect the gentleman. Have you spent time with him? Someone gave me advice which I took. 1) Take a chance and put yourself in his hands and follow his lead. 2) I wouldn't think it would be 12 hrs of unending raucous sex?. I would think you would have time for the other things you would like. 3) Do think about talking with him and going over your concerns. I did and it helped. 4) As far as sleeping arrangements. I book a room with two beds. I tend to snore at intervals. So he ends up being more tolerant than me. He also likes to sleep much later than me. So, I usually go and get coffee and people watch. 5) In any encounter, it breaks down to being tolerant and somewhat intuitive for the other person. 6) And, don't forget to keep you sense of humor!!! You certainly can PM if you'd like. Can share a few things and some laughs! WG2

#40...a coy smile, great legs, and a pair of shorts I can unleash who knows what? Yummy!!!

Great pics...I navigate to #14. Thanks! . .

You haven't lost it all! There was this other fellow wondering around the periphery of the activity of these individuals...did not get his name? Anyhooo...I think you have soo many encounters and activities planned, now that you are going through a second puberty, or perhaps never left the first, they tend to blend together!!! SUMMER 2017! WG2

Well! I do believe you may have some knowledge of the circumstances, or does your memory fail you? Don't even look at weather forecasts anymore! .

Some like their nippers being sucked while being flogged. Word of caution: The sucker of nips needs to be careful not to get hit in the face by the ends of the whip coming around the stud being flogged. Only one experience being the sucker. And, it was outstanding. The two individuals I was with were knowledgeable and soo hot. Can'the wait for the summer.

I could so be the Giver!

Thanks so much. On my bucket list for 2017 is to get to the west coast and see a former client and his family. Along with this is to meet with you and our friend. I tend to be more organized than our friend, so the brunt of the responsibilities falls upon me! I just want to pass onto our members. There are so many situations that befall as is in our lifetime. If we can simply grab on to the few people that can help us thru a moment of crisis. we are fortunate. However, in our moment of need or desperation what a wonderful media that we can reach out for people that concern their concern and love for each other.

You could take me into anywhere, and talk me into anything, as long as there is a bowl of Cheetos at the end of the fishing line...as well as a friend.WG2