Hiring for practice

[lifeofbrian88]

Getting vulnerable here for a min guys. 

I feel I need alot more practice giving head (nose breathing) and passionate kissing particularly. 

I am thinking I need to hire a escort and expiclity state these are my wants but has anyone else had a similar ask or is experience? Are most escorts open to it or think they would be? 

Thanks. 

[rickster]

Absolutely.  Some escorts advertise themselves as happy to work with beginners.  I would just be very specific in describing what you want.  If you get any sense that the provider isn't interested or excited, just move on.  There are plenty who would be happy to give you the practice you need.

[Wings246]

35 minutes ago, lifeofbrian88 said:

I feel I need alot more practice giving head (nose breathing) and passionate kissing particularly. 

I am thinking I need to hire a escort and expiclity state these are my wants but has anyone else had a similar ask or is experience? Are most escorts open to it or think they would be?

You are certainly not alone.  I was (and still am) in the exact same boat.  I am always 100% honest with everyone I met and told them about this.  I go as far as, “I really don't know how to do this and I really don't know what I'm doing.  Please stop me and tell me if I’m doing something wrong.”  All of them shrugged/laughed it off.  Nobody seemed to care.  There’s no need to worry about it.  In fact, I sometimes tell them to show me how to do it "properly."  I treat them as my mentors with benefits.

[Rayphactor]

1 hour ago, Wings246 said:

You are certainly not alone.  I was (and still am) in the exact same boat.  I am always 100% honest with everyone I met and told them about this.  I go as far as, “I really don't know how to do this and I really don't know what I'm doing.  Please stop me and tell me if I’m doing something wrong.”  All of them shrugged/laughed it off.  Nobody seemed to care.  There’s no need to worry about it.  In fact, I sometimes tell them to show me how to do it "properly."  I treat them as my mentors with benefits.

Same here. Although I am discovering some of my preferred provider personas don't have the depth, capacity, or desire to act as a mentor during the paid sessions.

[+ Jamie21]

7 hours ago, lifeofbrian88 said:

Getting vulnerable here for a min guys. 

I feel I need alot more practice giving head (nose breathing) and passionate kissing particularly. 

I am thinking I need to hire a escort and expiclity state these are my wants but has anyone else had a similar ask or is experience? Are most escorts open to it or think they would be? 

Thanks. 

Yes they would, if you tell them when booking. Lots of my clients say that they’re exploring and want to use their session to build confidence. It’s a safe environment to do that. What I see is that guys over think: ‘I’m not a good kisser’ and what passionate kissing is about becomes the noise in their head when kissing and of course that inhibits their kiss. Quieten your mind, stop thinking about it and just do it. Lose yourself in it. You’ll find you can kiss passionately, and suck cock (although there are some techniques you can learn for that). 

[+ PhileasFogg]

10 hours ago, lifeofbrian88 said:

Getting vulnerable here for a min guys. 

I feel I need alot more practice giving head (nose breathing) and passionate kissing particularly. 

I am thinking I need to hire a escort and expiclity state these are my wants but has anyone else had a similar ask or is experience? Are most escorts open to it or think they would be? 

Thanks. 

Hiring has the potential to be practice for anything you want to try with limited downside. Just have clear communication of needs and expectations. Go for it!

Edited yesterday at 11:44 AM by PhileasFogg

[Mark_fl]

Not only am I in the same boat, I'd find it hot to be the guinea pig for a newbie. Practice can be fun!

[MassageCommunityMember]

I think this is a great idea and I'm grateful for providers who are willing to coach.  I've had conversations with providers about trying different things (and then I changed my mind), but it's really nice to know I have someone who would be there for me.

[TR1989]

To the OP:

You are on the right track, IMO, so press on! 

I started seeing masseurs about 8 months ago because I had very little experience with guys and wanted to be prepared to go out in the “wild.” 😀(I had some experience with guys right after college but then got married.)

Look for the people that are patient and passionate (you’ll easily recognize this in your first session) and let them know that you’d like to explore. Be upfront with them. I also look for masseurs that accept everyone - read their ad. These gents take people of all body types, experience levels, race/ethnicities, age. These are the guys that really love what they do.

I was lucky to find two masseurs who have helped me to explore. (They’ve become regulars.) One of whom I have topped for the first time ever and the other whom I have bottomed for for the first time ever. Both of these masseurs are super patient and genuinely kind and open people. We’ve done all of the fun stuff together. 

Keep looking because there are some really kind people out there who are willing to help you!!!